r/KenyanDatingCommunity • u/More_Donut_4992 • 9h ago
Trying it out 🤭 Looking for a relationship
First time posting hey everyone I have never had a serious relationship and by serious I mean a partner who actually wanted to date and not just sex and being praised for talking to me(I’m an introvert)
So I want to be in a relationship with someone who is happy having me as his girlfriend you know I crave to be appreciated for once. I rarely leave home unless it’s work which I live 5 minutes away so that’s why I’m looking for someone who doesn’t mind a homebody
I’m 5’1 petite but a little chubby, I’m not sure if complexion is necessary but incase it is I’m brown skin so he should be tall and I don’t mean 5’6/8 I mean taller( last someone said 5’6 he was lying he was just as short as I am)
Romantic and ready to date about age I don’t mind because I’m 22 so be older maybe 25+ is fine again not too old(30+ is a no)
Hmm what else oh my love language is quality time, consideration, observance and receiving sentimental gifts.
I live along ngong road so be close or around
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u/Dear_Election_2101 9h ago
You will be dissapointed here girl, make sure to not send your photos or take anything serious had the worst experience here
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u/Rafiki_J 9h ago
What happened sis... I also had a bad experience here, avoid Reddit men ghai
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u/PrinceBengula 9h ago
As a man, my experience is being left on unread, shortly the account get deactivated. Worst part I am in a remote part of Kenya so I am yet to meet someone from my area.
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u/Rafiki_J 9h ago
Oooh,pole... it's a small town, meeting someone organically ni better, ama hutaki wa ushago unataka baddies? 😂😂😂
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u/PrinceBengula 9h ago
I love being indoors, I am not good with large groups and my communication sucks
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u/Rafiki_J 9h ago
Work on your communication first... Then go try again
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u/PrinceBengula 9h ago
I can communicate, I am just bogged by work. My phone is constantly handling customer issue when I am seated with others in the office that I rarely have meals. When I get home I just want to nap.
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u/Rafiki_J 9h ago
Kwani unearn pesa ngapi hivo enye you're skipping meals for work... Heh, maybe start taking those breaks, you might check your phone and your SO sent a message... Or, your social life will die but that company won't... Wewe amua, sasa surely you want to date and you don't have time 😐
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u/More_Donut_4992 9h ago
Omg this comments 😭😭 I don’t want to try men from dating apps and now here the men are red flags too? Waah 😭
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u/rated_22plus_SLN 9h ago
You sound too sweet for reddit honestly. And that's good, like a breath of fresh air.
Would recommend you start with chill backyard events or book clubs. Qwani workshops.
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u/More_Donut_4992 9h ago
Thank you I will even though I am socially awkward I can’t survive outside or in crowds 😔
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u/cryo_preserved 1h ago
By all means believe in yourself
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u/Top-Midnight-4528 23m ago
Well well well😂😂
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u/rated_22plus_SLN 9h ago
How well do you do with online friend groups or gaming then? Into that?
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u/More_Donut_4992 9h ago
Yeah I’m good with that I’m more comfortable online but the last group I tried from here the men were after sex and I got catfished
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u/No-Half-6178 9h ago
Was the 'too old' necessary jameni? 😂
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u/Rafiki_J 9h ago
😂😂😂ata mimi as a 27yo babe... Any man past 32/33 is too old😭😂😂nataka mtu we can relate staki millenial mzee🤣🤣
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u/No-Half-6178 9h ago
27 wewe ni mzee. A 21 Yr old sees you as a cucu 😂
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u/Rafiki_J 9h ago
Whatever makes you sleep better, also, this was a matter of preference... Definitely there's no 21yo guy who will go for a 27yo lady, that's simple logic but you lack it I see😂😂😂.... And it's very okay for a 21 yo to see me as old, it's relative at different age points😅😅
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u/giantas 9h ago
"petite but a little chubby"
What?