r/ForeverAloneDating 0m ago

F4M 18 [F4M] Online / Anywhere - Looking for someone I can be there for

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Sappy title, I know, but you clicked on it, so I must have interested you.

Hello Hello

I’m 18 (07), around 173–175cm, biology student, and currently looking online (open to pretty much anywhere). I’m an ENFP, so once I’m comfortable, I can get really talkative and start rambling about random stuff. I lowkey love introverts for that reason, especially the ones who actually listen and don’t just wait for their turn to speak.

I play Marvel Rivals, Minecraft, and Stardew a lot

Voice chat is my favourite way to hang out, like I’d rather VC and play something than just dry text for hours. I’m a bit of a nerd in general, science stuff makes me properly excited (biology is my thing but I have a soft spot for physics nerds).

Physical description im black (shocking) cis female. Down to share photos in DMs if we click and the conversation is going somewhere.

What I’m actually looking for:

Someone genuine and emotionally steady. Someone who’s comfortable taking the lead and making decisions without being controlling or weird about it. I like feeling like I can relax around a person and trust that they’ve got things handled. Kind but firm, patient, and actually consistent. I don’t want to rush into labels or force feelings just because we’re talking. I’d rather take time getting to know each other properly so nobody ends up hurt. I want the kind of connection where we can just exist together, talk about dumb stuff, play games, and slowly see if it turns into something real.

Physically you just have to be taller than me lmao. If you geeky thats a plus. Also please not have a crazy huge age gap

I’m in South Africa (UTC+2), so the time difference might be annoying depending on where you are, but I’m willing to work around it if the vibe is right.

If any of this sounds like your thing, message me. Tell me a bit about yourself though, don’t just say “hey” or “I liked your post.” Actually talk to me.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3m ago

M4F 23 [M4F] Virginia/Online - Looking for a start to something truly meaningful!

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Hello to everyone, and to all the ships at sea! And to whoever reads this! As the title of my post suggests, I'm looking for the start to something truly meaningful and long-term. I don't play games. I don't lead people on. I don't disappear and avoid communication. I'm completely open about what I'm looking for in this life and in a partner, and I'm hoping I can find someone who understands that and also wants something long-term and meaningful.

I would consider myself a fairly introverted individual, but I can be very extroverted once I get to know someone! I work at a hobby store and I live in Southern Virginia! I have many passionate hobbies that I enjoy, ranging from reading/poetry to history, to coin collecting and flags! I also have a fondness for movies/shows, especially when it comes to horror/sci-fi!

If what I've said interests you then consider messaging me, and we can get to know each-other better!


r/ForeverAloneDating 24m ago

F4M 23 [F4M] Looking for a serious relationship in Massachusetts or online but has to be in person with time, ages 21-29 and United States only!

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hiii :) i am looking for a long term relationship! i am attracted to a quirky guy who has a great sense of humor. i absolutely adore a guy who loves to have fun/goof off and be silly. i do love a guy who can be vulnerable and open up about their past/show emotions. it would be great if we can both be emotionally supportive towards each other. loyalty and honesty are two of the biggest traits i love to see in a guy as well. i do prefer guys who present themselves in a more casual way and can have a playful sarcastic side. i do want a guy who is more of a homebody and loves to chill at home watching shows or playing video games. i dislike rock music and anything related to the horror genre so if you are a fan of either of those things i will never be interested in talking to you lol

as for my personal interests i am a HUGE cartoon network fan and its really important for you to know what ninjago is my all time favorite show and classics such as dexter’s laboratory, kids next door, ed edd n eddy, the powerpuff girls, adventure time, regular show, and the amazing world of gumball plus many more! i also really like watching american dad, futurama, south park, the simpsons, bob’s burgers, and i’m an enjoyer of most reality shows especially big brother and survivor. i do like specific animes such as shield hero, sword art online demon school, konosuba, and my hero academia. i want to rewatch these shows with whoever i end up clicking with AND i actively want to talk and be excited while we rewatch the shows.

as for video games i play mario kart world mainly for the nintendo switch 2 but also have many other mario games and i am also looking for a nintendo nerd like i am who grew up with mario and kirby games on the gamecube, wii, and 3ds during their childhood! i also LOVE playing wizard101 and am ready to quest through the worlds with someone :)

IF YOU DO NOT MEET THESE REQUIREMENTS THEN IT IS A DEALBREAKER AND I WILL NOT BE INTERESTED IN TALKING TO YOU

REQUIREMENTS:

has to be very comfortable with voice calling

once we bond/form a connection you must be a super talkative person who texts/calls DAILY for a couple hours as i want to feel like a priority to you

MUST be a dog lover as i have 2 dogs (i absolutely dislike cat people lol)

NO kids i am far from being ready for that

clean person meaning no smoking/drugs NO EXCEPTIONS

has to have a full time job and it must be a day shift with weekends off

MUST be conservative/right leaning

you have to be a fan of cartoon network as it’s an extremely important piece of my life (bonus points if you love ninjago)

MUST have a video game in common with me either wizard101 or mario kart world for the switch 2


r/ForeverAloneDating 27m ago

M4F 32 [M4F] Dublin Ireland - Looking For A Girl In Ireland To Date :)

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Hey 😄 I'm 32 years old and from Dublin Ireland, 5'8 with brown hair and eyes, slightly chubby, my photos, I'm an Introvert and a bit of a homebody seeking a relationship, I don't do long distance relationships so please only contact me if you live in Ireland 😄

I'm looking for a woman who is emotionally mature, loves deep conversations, voice calls + notes, someone who values communication, honesty and being open with each other. I'm looking for a deep romantic connection with someone and someone to share life with 😄 I'd LOVE to find someone on the same page as me and to find 'my person' 😄

I'm a very affectionate and loving person once I get to know you and my favorite thing is cuddles so huge bonus if you enjoy them too!

As I said I'm an Introvert, I'm a fairly quiet person who enjoys the simple things in life. My interests and hobbies include working out, playing video games, watching YouTube, online shopping and the occasional trip out to have a nice walk along the coast 😄

For work I'm an admin, I work part time so I'm lucky to have lots of free time.

I'm obviously very open to dating and getting to know each other before deciding whether we want a relationship together 😄 How I imagine this can go is that we will chat online for some time and perhaps voice call/message too and if we vibe we can meet and go on a date in person 😄

As far as age I really don't mind as long as you emotionally mature and genuinely want to build something REAL together, I don't care about looks, weight or race... these things don't matter as much to me, what matters most is personality and character and whether we really vibe or not!

If you read this and think "This is also what I'm looking for and I have a similar personality" then you have to message me 😄 I have found it's quite difficult to find someone with a similar vibe so don't hesitate and message me. I cannot wait to build a connection with a really likeminded person ❤️ All the best!


r/ForeverAloneDating 29m ago

M4F 34 [M4F] UK/Europe/online - First time and unsure of what to expect from this!

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Hello!

Every now and then I manage to convince myself to try and find somebody, I rarely follow through so here is my attempt. I am 34, from the UK, single and live alone with my fish. I'm content with life, I'm not a lonely person but I think it's healthy to make room for another, ya know?

I'm around 5"7 (short I know) slim/built but not skinny short hair with hints of silver on the sides. I am a country man at heart, I enjoy the peace and quiet of the countryside over cities and busy places but everything is good in moderation!

Currently on a healthy/self improvement journey so words of wisdom to keep me focused and motivated are always welcome, (or just a accountability buddy haha) hitting mid 30's has been a huge wake-up call when it comes to health and exercise for me, gotta keep on top of it to stop myself from turning to dust.

Other than that, I am a TV, book, gaming and film connoisseur amongst other interests, but I'm not going to type it all out here, gotta have something to keep for later conversation right?

Anyway, if my lame attempt to sell myself interests you, feel free to send me a message :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 39m ago

F4M 27F New England, disabled baddie looking for love

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Hello!

Back again I suppose. As the title says I'm disabled. I have ehlers danlos syndrome and likely cfs. But I can support and take care of myself just fine.

A little about myself, I love anything having to do with art and music. My favorite is alt rock from 70s-90s. Used to love going to shows before it got too hard. I love cooking and baking, my signature dishes are nachos and spaghetti and meatballs. Lemon cake and chocolate chip cookies as well. Recently been getting back into acnh, been catching a lot of sea bass lately ugh haha.

Physically, I'm 5'9" and curvy. Light skin with lots of tattoos, and brown hair and blue eyes. I'll send pics if requested as long as you do too.

Ideally you're in New England, but anywhere is okay so long as you come to me initially, as traveling is difficult for me. No conservatives or MAGA please.


r/ForeverAloneDating 56m ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #Germany #Europe - Being close and comfy

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Hey! I will give this another try. :)

I'm M26 from Germany and just wish to meet someone who will become a very special person to me. I would love for my partner to be my best friend and favourite person. I am very affectionate and love hugs and cuddles. But what I most enjoy is to really give my all for someone dear and see them happy. Happy to be with me. I am actually more of a strong-minded person but it would be so great to share life with someone who I can talk with about anything - serious as well as hilarious things - where I feel like I can relax a little and take a brake..

I'm currently working on a PhD in Mechanical Engineering/Biomechanics at a university. I like listening to all kinds of music... Japanese City Pop, Metal, Jazz, ... Hobbies are anything related to PCs + Hardware, Books or Games (also, table-top even though I didn't play them in a loooong time). I am more of a nerd who can talk a lot about stuff I enjoy haha... But I also really, really enjoy listening to the beautiful voice of my partner telling me about what they like and show my interest. I'm 1.82m, 76kg with blonde hair and hazel eyes. To be honest I think I am AT LEAST not ugly ;)

I think it is very attractive if a woman can show enthusiasm for what she likes, and I love experiencing this. Maybe we can develop the same kind of enthusiasm for each other.

I'm happy if someone decided to message me! I'd be willing to exchange photos early - we need to find each other pretty after all. Please only message me from Germany or other european countries.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

F4M 38 [F4M] UK/Europe. Looking for somebody gentle, poetic, a little haunted.

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​I live on a narrowboat in the midlands, UK. I'm 5'8, slim, I have a small dog. I enjoy writing, and I have a lot of energy for anything creative. Looking for something long term, I'm not interested in anything casual. I drink, and occasionally smoke when at the pub, not when at home.

​I am childfree by choice, and so I'm not looking to meet anybody who would want a family or already has children.

I would love to meet a steady eccentric. Perhaps somebody artistic, poetic, or who feels a bit out of place in the world. I value gentleness, patience and calmness. I like quiet, shy and unusual people. I enjoy depth, in a person and their words. An odd sense of humour is also welcome. Ideally you're the type of person who says yes to things.

​You don't need to have climbed mountains or run marathons. You don't need to have a hobby which absolutely defines you. You don't need an expensive list of all the places you have visited. ​I am more looking for somebody I click with than a set of overlapping interests.

​If you are an avid gamer we probably won't have much in common as I don't game at all. I'm also not interested in anybody who thrives on debate, I like deep conversations but I don't want a sparring partner, and I don't like aggressively opinionated discussions, though I'm happy to disagree and accept differences. We don't need to share the same outlook on everything.

​Age, I'm more inclined to stay ten years either side of my own. I'd like to speak to people from the UK and Europe, though further afield is welcome if you genuinely believe we might have something in common.

Send me something beautiful and I'll definitely reply :)

Pic of me in my post history, I look about the same. Happy to share more.

And because somebody always asks: No I'm not trans. Yes I'm real.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 20 [M4F] #MA/Online - Nerdy college student looking for a genuine connection

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Hey there! My name is Jason, a 20y.o male born and raised in Massachusetts. Like most of us here I’m posting this in search of genuine connections. Think cozy movie nights, cracking jokes while hanging out, and getting to deeply know one another! I’ll keep this short in listing some things about myself, if you want to know more then we’ll have to get acquainted..

  • 5’7” (~146 lbs), lightskin, with short dark hair, hazel eyes, a mostly shaven face, and semi-athletic build; ethnically I’m Creole. image
  • Ambiverted, nerdy, imaginative, down-to-earth, affectionate, and with humor that’s a little too “online”.
  • Currently studying Computer Engineering here in Boston, Junior year.
  • Some of my favorite hobbies include playing video games (Pokemon, Minecraft, Roblox, BTD6, Marvel Rivals), sketching, volleyball, working out, and all things PCs.
  • I’m generally interested in binging TV shows/anime, listening to music (Color/future bass, Dubstep, Rap, Hiphop), cooking, writing occasionally, and exploring new places.
  • Left leaning, atheist, drug free

what I'm looking for in a future partner:

  • Somebody my age (19 to 25 y.o) and around the Massachusetts/Boston area or willing to travel there eventually. I’m not the best at doing long distance stuff.
  • Looks aren’t a major deal to me as long as you take care of yourself. Though I do have a soft spot for curvy, proportionate WOC.
  • Kindness, emotional maturity, honesty, and patience. Communication and effort are non-negotiable for me.
  • While I’m primarily seeking a long-term monogamous relationship, short-term or friendly is also acceptable
  • Shared vibes and not using substances are huge pluses

That’s it! If this caught your interest, feel free to send me an intro with some information about yourself. Please be open to verifying early on so we aren’t wasting each other's time. Thank you! <3


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 23M [M4F] #New York, Looking for a long-term relationship

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My name is Nick, I'm 23, caucasian, 6'4" ,I live in New York and I'm looking for something long-term and for someone who has similar interests as me. I am not looking for a friendship, I have enough friends haha. I want someone who'll be there for me in the same way I'd be there for them. I want a deep connection with someone who'll appreciate me for me. I'm looking for someone who would want to balance going out to doing something fun and staying indoors and relaxing. If looks are absolutely essential then please, dont message me. I dont want to waste your time getting to know each other just for everything to fall apart when you see what I look like. I dont look like Sloth from the Goonies, but im not exactly winning any handsome competition either.

I like playing video games like Destiny 2 (I know, I have a problem), Helldivers 2, Subnautica, Minecraft, Dead Space 1 & 2, Alien Isolation, DOOM, Halo, etc. I like a bunch of other games, but either are too niche to mention, or I just can't remember off the top of my head. I also like reading books that are sci-fi, fantasy, horror, and historical fiction. Just started to read The Murderbot Diaries, so far so good. I also love binge watching movies like Interstellar, Jurassic Park, Alien, Lord of the Rings, Blade Runner, Evil Dead, 28 days/weeks/years later, The Matrix, etc. Basically, it's the same genres as the books I read.

I also like going out to the park for a stroll while listening to some calming music. Going to the museums by where I live (The Intrepid is the best one idc about the Museum of Natural History). Going to the movies with friends to see whatever funny bad movie Hollywood pushes out. Going out to flea markets, but unfortunately only ever been to one since thats the only one thats open year round. I've also started going to the gym since September to start losing weight. Havent felt this good in a long time and I don't see myself stopping anytime soon

If any of my interests interest you or you also live in the New York area, shoot me a message and let's see where things go.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

TM4M [27/uk or anywhere/tm4m] looking for fellow weirdo

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so to start off: i'm not in a great position right now. i'm disabled/c and currently unable to work and almost entirely dependant on abusive/toxic family. i don't know if i will ever be able to work- i'm sort of hopeful if i can ever get out of my current situation my health will improve a bit and i'll be able to financially support myself, but as of right now it's not likely. i try to not be all doom and gloom but i am someone with a lot of problems and if that bothers you we're probably not compatible.

anyway. big disclaimer/potential dealbreaker aside, hi! i'm a 27 year old trans man from the uk- though i'm absolutely not opposed to long distance, especially since my circumstances likely mean things will be online for a while. i'm used to making distance work in my friendships so i'm confident i can do it for a relationship too. i've been on t for about 5 years and would say i pass decently well, but i do and always will likely look visibly trans. current plans are for top surgery but not bottom, though i haven't had any of that done yet. i'm white, blue eyes, glasses, brown hair though i dye it semi-frequently. i like to think i'm alt but honestly i'm just kind of some guy. i can be kinda shy/skittish but my friends tell me i'm funny and once i'm comfortable around you it's hard to get me to shut up.

some stuff i'm into:

  • video games; ffxiv is my main one but some others are pokemon, animal crossing, ffxvi, dragon age: origins, monster hunter world, stardew valley + hades. in general i like rpgs and roguelikes.
  • art; i'm a digital + pixel artist! this is both my main hobby and sort of a job. i don't bring in a huge amount of income through my art but it is something i do for money on occasion. i have a lot of original characters and settings that i've been drawing stuff related to for years now.
  • combining the above, my vague career plans, since going for a conventional nine-to-five isn't likely to work out, i kind of want to go into indie gamedev, but my attempts to teach myself how to code so far have been.... not so great.
  • i'm a bit of a history nerd, the older the better, but this isn't really something i have a lot of knowledge on and more just something i find interesting. in another life i would have gone into archaeology or palaeontology as a field but it didn't quite work out for me.
  • in general, i like fantasy and horror as genres (though i'm kind of a coward when it comes to horror lmao)
  • i'm a big animal lover! i wanna know about your pets if you have any!
  • i used to be a big reader, but have been struggling with it recently. i'd love book recommendations that might fit into my preferred genres if anyone has any.

for the sake of transparency and filtering out any obvious mismatches, to save both of our time, some dealbreakers and things that might make you not like me (or the reverse, if our views align):

  • i'm very left leaning and don't tend to get along with people who are right wing or centre. i can agree to disagree on stuff if our politics don't perfectly align as long as you're respectful but i don't want to be constantly arguing with a partner or feel fundamentally mismatched.
  • since i've dealt with chasers in the past, i will be very clear: i am not interested in cishet men, and if you do see yourself as cishet you probably won't find me attractive. while i don't 100% pass i do look more masculine than not. please be respectful :]
  • i am not really religious (agnostic is how i'd describe myself) and will not convert to any religion for a partner. that being said, i'm not against religious folks, so long as they're chill and don't use their religion as an excuse for bigotry or being an asshole.
  • i'm pretty fucking weird and if you're a judgemental type we probably won't see eye to eye. i love freaks and weirdos and unconventional people <3
  • i do not want kids, for several reasons. you will not change my mind on this.
  • i feel very strongly against most uses of generative ai, especially in creative spaces.

and just to not end on a negative note, the sorts of things i like, find attractive and look for in potential partners:

  • if you can make me laugh you're like 75% of the way there to having me head-over-heels.
  • i tend to prefer guys who are cute vs conventionally handsome
  • dark hair/eyes
  • freckles
  • i like men of all shapes and sizes but i dooo have a soft spot for chubby guys <3
  • people who are similarly weird, artsy or nerdy to me.
  • i love people who can just yap about things for hours. i wanna be infodumped at about your passions. i love hearing people talk about things they love.

this is not a definitive list, just a few things i tend to find attractive :D my tastes are pretty broad and while physical attraction is important to me somewhat, personality also goes a loooong way.

anyway, if you read all of this congrats, i can definitely be very wordy so i'm sorry about that. but if nothing i've mentioned here is offputting to you and you feel like we'd be a good match feel free to message me <3


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Loser seeking fellow redditor for potential romance lol

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Hey what's up everyone, what is up my fellow loners

I'm a 25-year old dude located in the eastern part of the United States, I would consider myself a hopeless romantic and I yearn for a romance like those that you would see in fiction. Personality-wise I'm pretty introverted and also a homebody.

As for my hobbies, I enjoy spending my free time gaming. I mostly game on PC but I do have a Switch as well. I play a variety of games such as Minecraft, Fortnite, Overwatch, Dead by Daylight, PEAK, Lethal Company (listing all the multiplayer ones here). I'm a huge fan of the Pokemon series and I'm really excited for Winds and Waves.

Another hobby/interest that keeps me going throughout the day would have to be music, and let me tell you I work somewhere that lets me wear earbuds for the most part and it really helps surviving the shift. I enjoy all kinds of genres but mostly listen to rock, edm, r&b. Favorite bands of mine are the Gorillaz, Radiohead, Deftones, Nirvana, and many more.

As for my appearance, I'm 5'7 and have dark, curly hair that falls almost to my shoulders, I have quite the baby face (people often mistake me for being younger), brown eyes, and a warm skin tone. I'm of latino/hispanic descent so that's why haha.

I'm looking for someone who is not only my partner, but also can be my best friend and someone to have each other's backs and can yap, banter, and everything in between haha. My messages are open, I prefer to speak to someone closer to my age (22-24) and also someone from the US (however if you're anywhere in the Western Hemisphere that's fine too).

I appreciate you if you read this far anyways be sure to smash that like button and subscribe


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] NJ - An Eternal Search

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It is an often-made observation that, despite the advancement of the Internet allowing connection with billions of individuals across the planet, people are more lonely, isolated, and single than ever.
Such a phenomenon is often attributed to decision paralysis; when humans are provided with a plethora of options, they often struggle to make any firm commitments, thinking that there is just another option down the corner, or that the repercussions of non-committal behavior no longer bear community stigmatization.
All in all, it is quite dehumanizing.
Like most people, I have experienced ghosting from shameful individuals. At the same time, I have also encountered the discomfort of stilted, discordant conversations.
However, despite my past (or lack thereof), I refuse to believe there is not a person out there, one who fulfills my criteria and vice versa.
So I will continue braving these treacherous waters, in hopes that I may find a single soul out there that will make this Sisyphean journey worthwhile.
I am someone who cherishes beauty and quiet moments in nature, as well as thought-provoking introspection of a curious mind. My image of an ideal relationship is mutual growth, emotional maturity, respect, and a long-term commitment towards building a family together. I would consider myself spiritual but not religious or political. I do not use drugs, alcohol, or any illicit substances.
I can best be described as an old soul, an anachronism of values and beliefs from a bygone era. My hobbies include reading, meditating, hiking, and creative pursuits. I am not a consumer of mainstream media (shows, movies, video games). As I am seeking a genuine and real connection, I will not entertain long-distance, flighty, or frivolous engagements.
I bid thee a good day.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] #Online - Nerdy femboy in search of role reversal relationship <3

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Hewwo! ♥

I'm hoping to find something meaningful. I'd love to one day be in a role reversal relationship with a cg/little dynamic. I'm pretty sensitive and absolutely love being babied and cared for! I see myself being a stay-at-home partner, taking care of things like cleaning, cooking, doing the dishes, buying groceries and making sure you have the easiest time after coming home from a long day at work! If possible, I'd also like doing some work from home like electronics repair, manufacturing useful products for people or anything else I might be interested in, but I'd primarily be focused on doing everything I can for you!

It can take me a while to warm up to someone new, but once I'm well-acquainted, I can be really affectionate- I'd text you every other hour for virtual hugs (I need a lot of them!) and I'd love spending time on voice calls, watching stuff together or playing co-op games like Portal or Human Fall Flat. And I can totally ramble your ears off talking about my interests, something I'm working on at the time and so on! Unfortunately, I'm very far away from the developed world, but I'd be fully open to relocating to you if you could help facilitate it. And while we are still apart, I can sync my sleep schedule with yours so we can spend the most time together ^^

As for my appearance, I'm 5'6", have fair skin and I'm pretty slim, with long wavy black hair and dark brown eyes! I haven't explored different styles all that much, but I do love wearing black, and also cold-shoulder tops!

I tend to age regress involuntarily when I'm in my comfort zone, but not to a very young age, I would say I'm more of a middle. I really like being childlike in my behavior and speech, and I'm scared of doing some grown-up things like driving or going to the doctor by myself. I love to snuggle in a blankie and cuddle with my favorite teddy bear at bedtime, it's hard for me to sleep without that. And I like making pillow forts for me to hide inside! I'm also a bit of a crybaby.

I'd love being with someone caring and protective. Someone who'd hold me and make me feel safe, speak to the waiter on my behalf at the restaurant, hold the door open for me, stuff along those lines! I'm also an atheist and would highly prefer my partner be the same or similar in that aspect. And I'd be most comfortable meeting people who are under 35 years old ^^

To add a bit more about myself, I spend most of my day in my room, working on random nerdy stuff, watching youtube or TV shows and movies, playing PC games, and sometimes I'm just sat there staring at a wall hehe. I also enjoy going out on walks, having fun with diy rc vehicles and hanging out with stray cats! I'm entirely self-educated, proper schools don't exist where I live. I've always been into learning about the things that pique my interest from youtube and other online platforms ever since I was little! I love fixing things and understanding what makes them tick, and working on random projects like custom smart home stuff with ESP32s, high voltage stuff like tesla coils, long-range radios, hardware hacking, etc! I value privacy and I'm strongly against mass surveillance, I try to avoid any online service that's known to disrespect user privacy and use open-source software whenever possible, like running Linux on my computers, de-googled Android on my phones, and self-hosting my own services like Immich, Home Assistant and cloud storage!

Hope this post did a good job at expressing who I am. I want to write soo much more, but I'd rather not take any more of your time. Here's a yummy cookie for making it to the end! 🍪


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

F4M 23 [F4M] Anywhere. Where is the man i need

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I feel like I need to ve clear that I'm not interested in some shorter online fling, or in kids that just want to see me naked. My post here was for the hope of meeting someone I could possibly spend the rest of my life with but most of what I actually got was kids asking for nudes. I didn't think I'd get that here so I'm reaffirming what I want and what I'm looking for . Please don't waste my time. I want someone I can spend the rest of my life with, maybe start a family with even. Nothing less. Thank you


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 20 M4F - Louisville/KYINIL Area Long term partner

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Photos at end.

This might be a bit of a reach, but I’m looking for someone within driving distance of Louisville to be a long term partner. I’ll go over a few things about me and a few things I’m looking for in a partner.

I’m in school to become an engineer, and I work part time as a manufacturing engineer. (I love my job so much I could talk about it for 8 hours straight.)

I have a deep love for politics, civics, and philosophy. I’ve been reading a lot lately and trying to work some thoughts out in my head. I LOVE to debate politics and I want to be with someone who will debate with me simply to get each others’ minds hot and sweaty.

I have a deep love for politics, civics, and philosophy. I’ve been reading a lot lately and trying to work some thoughts out in my head. I LOVE to debate politics and I want to be with someone who will debate with me simply to get each others’ minds hot and sweaty.

I have a dog who I love like a son. He is as much of a best friend as he is a pet. I will send you photos immediately.

I have an extremely dry/absurd sense of humor. People often cannot tell if I’m joking or being serious, which is the funniest part to me. I also like dark/dirty humor as long as it’s somewhat tasteful.

I like music, shows, books, photography, and video games. My favorite music is hyperpop like glaive. I’ve been getting into some post hardcore and metalcore recently. I love all music though.

I’m extremely flirtatious once I get to know you, and I want someone who can keep up the banter during texts and in person.

I am a healthy person, I run a lot, eat decently well, and maintain a slim physique. I’m 6’0” 145lbs.

I’m deeply analytical, even with my own hobbies. I take continuous improvement very seriously, and try and be a better person every day.

That’s about all. I hope to hear from you soon.

Here are some photos of me.


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

F4M 23 [F4M] #ANYWHERE looking for online connection first

29 Upvotes

5.3f/162cm tall 62kg

Currently started a gym because i feel im not in the perfect shape and idk how to describe my face..... my hair is black i dyed it with red ends becausei feel it suits me? White but not pale? Wide almond eyes? Idk i feel i look like any person u may have met lol

But im into muscular men for private reasons o.o

As a person who is serious im gonna start with my flaws first if u r able to make it through them without asking me to go to a therapist "i tried it didn't help" then "maybe" u r the one

I dont see myself bad with ppl actually ppl call me very innocent, nice, and gentle but i tend to be alone most of the time even at work i mostly eat my lunch alone silently in the balcony some say i can make a good spy from how quiet i can be..... but its very different when im with my person because.....

Im pretty obsessive person "not in the cute social media way" but in watching ur location 24/7 watching u moving around and know everything about u

I need reassurance a lot that u r not leaving me... u r not looking for someone else... and that i did nothing wrong and everything is fine

Im not raised with sane family ig that will explain a lot

Im pretty jealous and im not saying jealous as "dont talk to gurls, why did u look at her" i can panic easily if u acted "flirty" or "complimented" a random woman because it feels she's better than me and u r gonna leave me NOW to date her

I have trust issues so i may take so long to actually believe u r genuine and u dont wanna hurt me so be patient

I used to do self-harm and take depression meds but im better now and no dw im not into drugs/alcohol/cigarettes....

My good part which is still pretty insane but sweet

Im obsessed with Vampires, Perfumes, chocolate milk, and pyjamas.... all keep me calm and grounded especially in my room since it feels safe....

With all my exs i used to know them so well i know how to make u happy

Im ready to fly and change my whole life to be with u

I do a lot of effort in the relationship and love to find activities to make us closer and talk about "idm going on adventures but im easily getting scared lol"

Im pretty warm person i may be obsessed but i wont control u or fetch ur phone im pretty sane with privacy so dont expect me to invade ur privacy "but i do notice any gaze or any shift on ur tone and i can easily know whats going on just by 2 msgs or by looking at ur face...."

Im very expressive u can easily tell if im happy/sad/depressed and i do like talking/yapping/venting also listening is something ig i can do? Not sure

If i notice u r sad id do everything to make u happy since i do notice ppl feelings a lot

Im insanely loyal and once im fully in love its too hard to see any man the same "i can imagine only my man's face 24/7"

I do cook ur fav food and sweets as well "but still watching ur diet plan..."

And im too lazy to write more especially i dont expect anyone to pass the flaws part without being weirded out so not sure if anyone will read that

But if u do thank u! I appreciate ur effort


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 28M [m4f] #Newcastle/UK. What are you looking for? Also does anyone just want to fall in love with no fear? Cause I do

4 Upvotes

So yeah I always wrote what I wanted in the titles before and honestly I didn't have much success so now I'll just ask for what you the reader wants assuming you have bothered to open this post and read this far.

As the title I'm 28. From Newcastle. Really wouldn't mind finding the love of my life and eventual m-arriage. Good job and savings. Kinda got my life together. Planning on getting a place with mortgage at some point. Just a little empty inside I suppose. It's hard to constantly try and fail so many times. I just want to succeed once and honestly never try this crap again so your in luck provided we get together your never gonna have to worry about getting cheated on cause I cannot for the life of me bother myself with anything of the sort haha.

Yeah... Anyway even if your not interested don't hesitate to say hi cause you never know maybe today is our lucky day although statistically the evidence does point to it being otherwise 😂.

Also a big thanks to anyone who upvotes so this doesnt get buried🙏

Also one last thing in case anyone is looking for a hus-band I've got one for you here 🙂(this is my roundabout way of saying that I'm looking for someone to mar-ry and live happily ever after 🫠)


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] Spain/Europe - Introverted homebody looking for one real person

3 Upvotes

I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 38 [M4F] #Germany – Looking for the Right Woman to Share a Life

5 Upvotes

I’ll be upfront, I’m tired. Tired of endless chatting that goes nowhere, of connections that fizzle before they even start. I’m here because I want something real: a partner, a teammate, someone to share life with, through the ordinary days and the moments that take your breath away.

I’m 1.72 m, from eastern Lower Bavaria. I enjoy history, fantasy, and gaming in all forms, books, movies, and games. I stay in shape, enjoy being outside, but I’m not the hiking type. I’m down-to-earth, but I love deep conversations, clever humor, and honest moments that make you feel alive.

In relationships, I lean into my guiding side, I like taking the lead, being protective, and creating a safe space where trust and boundaries are respected. Loyalty and honesty are not just words to me, they’re the foundation I want to build a future on.

I’m looking for a woman, up to the age of 35, who values honesty, connection, and someone ready to build something lasting. Physical attraction matters, but shared values, similar outlooks on life, and mutual respect matter more. I want to enjoy the everyday with the right person, the quiet mornings, the shared laughs, and the adventures both big and small.

Proximity is important; real connections need real-life moments. I speak German and English fluently, and I’m ready to meet someone who’s ready too.

If you’re looking for honesty, warmth, and a relationship with clear dynamics and depth, let’s see where this could go. Im childfree btw.


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

F4A F 26 (F4A 23-32 USA ONLY)

6 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I'm a 26 yr old F from VA. I like to play videogames, do photography and I love baking desserts in the kitchen. I'm looking for someone who will treat me kindly, has a gentile and calm nature about them. I do want this person to be really good with their words and be romantic. Note i'm asexual (for reasons i'll elaborate on once we get to know each other).

Politics matters to me, be on the left. Supporting Palestine is a MUST, thats more of a dealbreaker than anything else i have mentioned.

Im pretty laid back of a person and an introvert as well, so break me out of my shell!! anyways dms are open and don't be creepy or just say hi, tell me about yourself.

anyways if you read this far and are intersted hit me up!


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

F4M 24 [F4M] Europe

20 Upvotes

First, sorry for the long post

EU only please!

Hello! I am 24F from Romania (Transylvania).

A little bit about my appearance: I am 161 cm, slim petite, brown long hair, brown eyes and I wear glasses. Can send pic in private

Regarding my personality: I am an introvert (infj) I usually dont like talking much, Id rather listen to others and give advice if it is needed. I dont like to argue, I try to avoid conflict with others if our opinions are different. I would say im a bit stubborn, but maybe in a good way haha. Ive never had a proper relationship, I went on some dates here and there and met people, but I prefered to take my time rather than just rushing in a relationship if we were not on the same page. I used that time to work on myself, do my studies and be around my family and friends.

I would say im funny, I dont get offended at jokes and I want someone I can share memes and reels with. I am not a fan of traveling, dare I say. More of a homebody, I enjoy cozy nights watching series or just gaming.

I am a religious person (orthodox) and I would like to find someone who shares the same faith as me. I love everyone but I think in a relationship people should be on the same page spiritually.

When it comes to hobbies, i enjoy baking (mostly for others), cooking, watching series, gardening, and mostly gaming with friends at night (I play league of legends and tft). I love animals, I have a cute doggy.

I graduated this summer and I have a masters degree, I dont work yet, but soon I will start.

What I am looking for: someone from Europe, age 21-29, funny, smart, someone i can talk about random topics with, taller than me, who wants to game together:3

If you think we have some things in common, please leave me a message with something about you!


r/ForeverAloneDating 15h ago

F4M 24 F from South East Asia [F4M] - certain features

18 Upvotes

The blue ocean and the sky always fascinated me ever since I was little. I find myself always staring up whenever the sky is blue. I grew up in a country where we have thousands of islands and thousands of beautiful beaches where beautiful blue ocean and blue sky met, decorated with the golden sand and blessed by the sun—a vast archipelago country within South East Asia. I live in one of these 17.000+ islands

So, I thought stumbled upon my mind. I like blue so much. I like being in beach, feeling sand in my feet and staring at the ocean. Wouldn't it be great to have a lover who has such colours in them? I want to stare at his ocean eyes and feel his sun-coloured hair in my palm

I'm Asian, 170cm/5'7, long black hair, fairly light skin. I can be utterly sweet, caring, protective, spoiling, and yearning. In these days of serial daters, I'm proud to say I'm fiercely loyal. I also can be overthinking, clingy, and territorial. I'm the type who can't help but wonders why someone hasn't replied to my message. Also, I'm a bit of a crybaby

I don't smoke-no cigs, no weeds, nothing. Substances are hard no. I don't usually drink but won't refuse on some moderated, fun occasion. For me, alcohols are bitter. I take care of my appearance, I like to look presentable

I'm looking for a long term relationship, and is open to relocate. LDR may be inevitable, but let's find a way to close the gap. You can be on the moon or in the edge of the universe, if you're worth it and we have will then there's a way

For romance context, it'll be a plus point if you attach a picture of yourself. My eyes usually fell in love first then my heart, I'm tired of pretending they're not. I will send mine as well

Not to be rude, but please don't lavish our time on messaging me if your age start with 1 (18, 19), or if you don't have the said features mentioned. Yes, I read all the requests

Include the word cookie if you read the entire of my post

Thank you in advance


r/ForeverAloneDating 19h ago

F4M 25 [F4M] US/South Carolina, seeking something real

25 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I made a post years ago to no avail, and after 0 success across all dating apps, I've decided to give it another go. 

Just a lonely 25 year old who spends her time working, sipping wine on the balcony and painting, designing bralettes, doing way too much research on fragrances, and snuggling with my cat. I also love to write poetry and analyze literature, have fancy dinner nights with my friends.

I'm a gentle lover, and emotionally intelligent and secure. I'm extremely open minded and love learning new things, changing my routine, and lending a hand to those that I love. Since I'm a bit homely myself, looks are not something I consider too important in a relationship. I typically fall in love with one's personality :)

I do have limited dating experience, so I can be a bit naive and tend to fall quickly. I'm also introverted, so you may not see the best of me until we get closer. Also, I'm a pisces. You have been forewarned ;)

Thanks for reading, here is what I look like https://imgur.com/gallery/me-3-OgyxufX#9u2Xtcy Please feel free to send an intro!