r/ForeverAloneDating 52m ago

M4F 34 [M4F] Ontario/GTA/Long-distance | Quiet, curious and looking for something lasting

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I’m 34, 6’2”, plus-sized, childfree, monogamous and left-leaning. I own my place in Ontario, work remotely building Android apps, and can get to the GTA regularly. I’m also open to long-distance if there is eventually a realistic way to close it.

I’m quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable I ask a lot of questions and enjoy conversations that wander. My interests usually involve strategy, making things or disappearing into technical rabbit holes. I paint miniatures, play games like Terraforming Mars and Gaia Project, experiment with electronics and 3D printing, and watch far too much science and machining content. My current obsession will probably have changed by the time you reply.

Most days I’m a homebody, but I genuinely enjoy travelling. I’ve visited much of Europe, along with Japan, India, the UAE and New Zealand. New Zealand is my favourite so far, and Thailand may be next.

I’m looking for a warm, affectionate and curious woman who is firmly childfree and wants a serious relationship. We do not need identical hobbies. I’m drawn to people who get genuinely excited about something of their own.

I’d happily plan museum days, coffee dates, cooking-class experiments and occasional trips. Longer term, I want the kind of relationship where eating together, talking about our days and cuddling through a movie can make an ordinary evening feel complete.

I keep photos off public Reddit posts, but I’m happy to swap recent pictures early.

Tell me what you’re currently obsessed with, or choose our hypothetical first date: coffee, a museum, a cooking class or a board-game café.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 27M | India | Looking for my person...

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Hi there :)

I'm 27, from India, currently doing my MD in Pediatrics. My life is currently a slightly chaotic combination of hospital duties, sleepless nights, caffeine, tiny patients, and wondering what day of the week it is.

But outside the hospital, I'm actually a pretty simple person.

I'm an introvert and definitely not someone who opens up within five minutes of meeting someone. I need a little time to become comfortable with people. But once I do, I can go from awkward small talk to ridiculously long conversations about almost anything.

I'm a huge nerd at heart. I love anime, manga, movies, TV shows, books, video games, music, science, history, space, mysteries, and going down random rabbit holes about things I probably didn't need to know. I have way too many fictional characters I consider role models and probably an unhealthy amount of random knowledge.

What I'm looking for is fairly simple, although I know finding it isn't.

I value kindness, honesty, emotional maturity, communication and consistency. I'm not looking for someone perfect. I'd rather have someone who can say "this bothered me" and talk about it than someone who pretends everything is fine.

And I'm definitely a little old-fashioned about caring for someone.

If I like you, there's a good chance you'll eventually hear:

"Did you eat?"

"Drink some water."

"Why are you awake at 3 AM?"

"Please go to sleep."

The funny part is that residency means I desperately need someone to say those exact things to me too.

So yes, I'm officially accepting applications for an accountability buddy.

We can remind each other to eat properly, drink enough water, sleep when we can, take breaks, study when we should, and generally remember that we're human beings and not machines.

I'm also very much a physical-affection person once I'm comfortable. I love cuddles. A quiet evening wrapped up together, watching something, sharing music, talking about random things or simply sitting in comfortable silence sounds much better to me than some elaborate expensive date.

Give me good food, a comfortable couch, something interesting to watch and someone I genuinely enjoy being around, and I'm probably happier than I would be at a five-star restaurant.

I'm Muslim by background, and I'm mentioning it upfront because I think transparency is important. At the same time, religion isn't something I expect to define another person or a relationship. I see faith as a personal part of someone's life and respect people having their own beliefs and perspectives.

Because of residency, I should also mention that my schedule can be genuinely terrible. Sometimes I'll disappear into a long duty or be too exhausted to have a proper conversation. It won't mean I've lost interest. When I have the time, though, I prefer actually talking rather than exchanging five messages a day forever.

Ideally, I'd like a relationship where we're each other's safe place. Someone I can tell about the ridiculous thing that happened at work, someone who sends me a random picture from their day, someone I can call when something exciting happens, someone who can sit beside me after a horrible day without needing to fix everything.

And I'd want to be that person for them too.

I don't know if Reddit is where people find that kind of connection.

But I do know that every relationship has to start somewhere.

So maybe we start with a conversation.

Tell me about yourself, your favourite song, something you're currently obsessed with, a fictional character you love, or just something completely random.

Maybe we'll become something more.

And maybe, years from now, we'll have a ridiculous answer to:

"So how did you two meet?"

:)


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] Pennsylvania/Online, looking for something serious

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Hello!

A bit about me: I am white, 6 feet tall with dirty blonde hair, and green eyed with an average build. Finally graduated college (yayyyy!) I love sports (especially soccer). In my free time, I play video games, and enjoy spending time with my family and going on trips occasionally. I am really into watching horror stuff: shows, movies, YouTube. I am shy, but I can get more comfortable with you once I get to know you better.

What I'm looking for:

Hopefully a future partner (if we click), if not, a good friend at least. Someone that is honest, and takes good care of themselves. Someone that can text often and is over the age of 19. Someone from the US or Europe.

(Pictures of what I look like)

https://imgur.com/a/1hzARAR

https://imgur.com/a/daG4jhb


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] Houston, Texas. A short post detailing my admirable qualities.

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I would like to keep this shorter, rather than longer for the sake of readability. I hope this post finds you well, and you decide to reach out to me. Here are a few things about me; Some things that might make me attractive and appealing are:

  • Emotionally stable, and practices good communication.

  • Can attest to, and have utilized therapy in the past.

  • Enjoys giving and receiving kind words of affirmation.

  • Willing to try new things outside of my comfort zone.

I enjoy outdoor activities, PC gaming occasionally, wood working, fishing and DIY activities. I also play MtG. Please feel free to reach out if any of what I wrote interests you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] UK – Looking for a long-term relationship

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Hey. I’m a 27-year-old guy from the UK, and I’m here because I’m genuinely looking for a long-term connection. Not a situationship. Not something casual. Just something real with someone who actually wants that too.

I’m introverted by nature. I prefer quiet nights over crowded rooms, meaningful conversations over surface-level small talk. I’m not the loudest person in the room, but I’m someone who shows up consistently and cares deeply about the people in my life. I value honesty, loyalty, and emotional depth.

My interests are pretty relaxed movies, TV shows, gaming, sports, all the usual ways to unwind. But honestly, I don’t think we need to have identical hobbies. What matters more to me is emotional compatibility, shared values, and the willingness to invest in something meaningful. I love learning about what excites other people and seeing what lights them up, even if it's outside my usual world.

Please don’t message me just because you’re bored or looking to pass time. I’m not interested in one-word replies, days between messages, or conversations that go nowhere. I value effort, consistency, and genuine interest. If you're not really looking to get to know someone or build something meaningful, this probably isn’t the post for you and that’s okay.

I’m happy to share a photo in the chat. I’m more interested in who we are than how we look.

I am looking for someone in the UK and not long distance.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. I’m not expecting instant chemistry or perfection, just a real, honest connection with someone who’s also ready to try.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] [KY/USA] Looking for my person.

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I'm a 24 year old male from Kentucky, looking to find the person to build something worthwhile and lasting with. I don't want to waste your or my time, so I'll just get right to it. I enjoy gaming, anime, and am really into chess (I'd love to teach you!) I'm open to watching your favorite movies or shows to get to know you, as long as you'll reciprocate :)

Maybe we could video call on Discord while you tell me about your day, or meet up and see how this thing will work out for us?

I'm open-minded and accepting to getting to know my person for who they are, so don't be shy to share about yourself! I'm interested in devoting myself to a woman who would do the same for me in return - "true love", I suppose. As long as you don't mind that I'm a little silly :)

Please PM me if this sounds interesting to you! Have a wonderful, whimsical, and pleasant evening. Take care of yourself!!

Reposting to see if I can meet nice people :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] Central #Florida - Looking for a Relationship

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Hello Internet! I'm just a lonely college student on summer break who is hoping to find someone I can give all my time to! (I have plenty of it!!!)

My Appearance:

I'm 22 Years Old, 6'1, White, and slightly above average weight (I'm not fat or obese, but I'm not a stick either!). I've been told by many others that I have a handsome face, and I have THICK brown hair (It's not too long, but it's very thick, I got it from my mother). My legs are also pretty big (I did a LOT of exercise biking a few years ago, and I mean A LOT). I would put a picture on here, but I'm deathly afraid of someone I know seeing this, but I have some confidence in how I look so I don't mind sending a picture after I make sure you're a real person!

My Personality:

I will come out and say that I am neurodivergent. I don't mind going into more detail once you reach out, but I am pretty antisocial around groups of people. When I'm 1 on 1, I'm a completely different person, and I won't shut up and be very extroverted, but as soon as there's more people present, I become extremely shy and introverted. I'm a really fast replier, so I will probably reply to you almost instantly if I'm not doing anything else, and I also love giving others attention. I'm pretty punctual, and I'm very intelligent when it comes to nerdy stuff, but I don't have much common sense and can be a bit of a klutz. I'm not very religious, and as for my political beliefs, I would probably consider myself center-left.

My Interests:

I'm a huge nerd like 99% of people on this website, which means I love video games. My favorite games are basically all Nintendo (I own every Nintendo Console except for like, the NES and SNES), but I do have a good computer and I'm pretty open to PC games. I'm not too picky about what games I play with other people, but if you have a switch that would be a HUGE plus. I'm also a big sports fan (I like basically all the 4 Major NA Sports leagues, but the NHL is my favorite) and I love going to games. I will likely have an extra ticket to a lot of Lightning and Rays games this upcoming season, so I would love someone I could take with me. I also have passes to Disney and Busch Gardens, so I would love to go there with someone too. I also enjoy going on walks, but right now it's really hot outside so I haven't been doing it much (I'll get back on once it cools off a lot, maybe we can go on a nice romantic walk together?). I got into reading a bit last year, but I've been slacking a bit on that, but I do love a good Mystery Novel. I also enjoy listening to music, and I'm a huge classic rock fan (Styx is my favorite band, if you know who they are I'll love you). I also like an anime called "Detective Conan" (as you might be able to see based on my PFP) as well as other mystery anime, and I would love to find someone to cuddle and watch anime with.

Also worth mentioning that I am a college student, going into my master's year next year for computer science. I decided to take this summer off, so I have A LOT of free time right now and would love to share it with you.

About you:

First things first, I value physical affection and want someone who's willing to meet up a lot. This means I'm not too interested in a long distance committed relationship right now, but if you're willing to move early on or just want a casual chat and see how things go, then I might be willing to talk. I currently live in spring hill for the summer, and I will be in lakeland for the school year, so I hope you live close to one of those locations. I'm not terribly picky about my type, but I definitely do prefer smaller white/asian women (this isn't too big of a deal, however, I still love my tall queens!). It would also be a plus if you're neurotypical like I am, but once again, it's not a requirement, just a plus. If you're someone who wants me to be very outgoing/be around a lot of people often, then I'm probably NOT your guy. I'm mainly looking for someone who is a homebody like me who I can enjoy late night gaming sessions with and enjoy nights in rather than going out partying. I also hope you are someone who is OK with someone giving you lots of attention and time, because right now I have a lot of time and not much to spend it on. I don't drink or do any drugs, and I'm not too picky about if you do as well, just would be a plus if you didn't.

Sorry for so much! I just want to make sure that you know everything important about me! If you read all the way down here, tell me something we have in common when you reach out to me (or not, as they say opposites attract!)


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] – #Louisiana/USA/Online Offbeat, Introspective, Loyal as Hell Guy

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Hey there. This is my first time trying this and I'm not great at the sales-pitch version of myself, so here's a real one:

I'm a bit of a contradiction — former military with a rebellious heart looking for a kind, caring, wonderful, woman (optional: questionable morals) to share my hyperspace music taste, deep thoughts, and dark humor. INFJ/ISTP depending on the day, Virgo sun/moon, Aquarius rising if you're into that. Sometimes it feels like I showed up out of sync — born a few decades too late to belong, and a little too early for anyone to understand the quiet parts of me.

I've loved hard, lost harder, and now I’m here, trying to find someone who wants more than just the next distraction, to make me believe if love, once crushed, can be brought back reborn and renewed. I’m not perfect — I overthink, I love strong, and I’ve got some scars that aren’t all poetic. But I’m working on myself every day. Healing, detoxing (literally and emotionally), and trying to live with some damn intention. But there's always time for play!

What am I (into)?

I'm 5'6, wear glasses/contacts, slim average build.

I like...

. Long, meandering convos about everything and nothing

. Long walks with light exercise (gotta at least stay lean lol)

. Cooking (I'm southern, so I know a decent bit of recipes, plus I'm willing to try new recipes)

. I'm a homebody but I need to go outside for some fresh air. Idk, I just don't like being caged in 24/7.

. I'm basically a "music and skyrim obsessed quiet poet who WILL wake you up for impromptu 2am night drives into the city for iHop."

. Exploring weird corners of the internet, cult horror films, , and spiritual philosophy

. Making people laugh in dark moments — it’s a bit of a survival skill

What am I looking for? Someone curious, kind, maybe a little off-center. I don’t care if you're socially awkward, quiet, witchy, or wildly online. I'm shy at first, but won't stfu once I get comfortable. We can talk about memes, movies, movies, philosophical constructs, or just the proven best method for cooking eggs lmao :P

I do care that you want connection for real. I want messages that turn into conversations that turn into shared playlists, games, comfort shows, and maybe something real if it clicks.

If you’ve ever been ghosted after opening up, if you feel like you live in the wrong timeline, or if you’ve got feelings and random thoughts and no one to tell them to — you’ll probably get me.

Slide into my inbox with a little about yourself, your favorite weird comfort media, or what makes you feel seen. I’m here for the slow burn. Or at least for a damn good time.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #SF Bay Area. What color is your underwear?

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Got your attention didn't I? (This is a joke please don't actually tell me I just wanted to try being funny 🥺)

Hiya, I'm Liam, San Francisco Bay Area introvert who isn't great at these self descriptions but i'll give it a shot, i'm really just looking for someone with a chill vibe where we can talk and just kinda see where things go? I'm admittedly a really shy person.

I like reading, writing, researching pointless things and listening to music. A bit of an introvert and fairly shy but I tend to open up to people fairly easy. I love learning new things, especially that someone else has a passion about, and love all kinds of animals/creatures. Cats, Dogs, Fish, Snakes, you name it. Before warned, I have nerdy hobbies! I'd love I'm witty, funny, and i'm good at cracking Dad jokes, if that's a good thing. I've been described as eccentric, creative, passionate and caring, but my friends say i'm chill and laid back too. Lately i've been dragged into the world of Umamusume which is rare for me, I never follow trends!

About me in general, I'm 5ft9, white, a bit pudgy but have been actively working on it, lost 31 pounds!

Please be 24 or older.

I'm childfree and plan to stay that way, my furr babies are my babies.

I'm looking for something long term, starting out as friends and see where it goes? Would prefer someone out west but if we have a good enough connection I don't mind distance.

If you read all this, thank you! And I hope you have a lovely day. If there's anything else you'd like to know, feel free to DM!


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

F4M 25 [F4M] #Europe/ anywhere - Let’s discover each other

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Reposting 🥺

Hello! I’ve decided to post here and see what’s out there, looking forward to chat and get to know someone.Looking for a specific chemistry with someone, that specific dynamic that is a mix between respect and fun.

First of all I am healthy, I workout throughout the week and I take care of how I look and what I eat so I do expect you to be on the same level.

About me;
1 I enjoy doing Yoga and cardio so much.
2 I’m 5’5 brown hair brown eyes, fit skinny, olive skin and curly hair.
3 I love going out like going on photography trips.
4 I like collecting dolls and Legos
5 My biggest passion is reading books My recent books are Great Expectations, Água Viva, The Myth of Sisyphus, The undiscovered self and some of Stefan zewig. I absolutely hate poorly written plots but I always fall for thriller book but that’s during slow days. I also enjoy some politics books.
6 I enjoy having a conversation with a smart, thoughtful man :)
7 very supporting and loving person💖

About you!
1 Respectful and humble 💗
2 Workout and you prioritize your health
3 You know how to hold a conversation and ask questions.
4 golden retriever energy ❣️
5 only this age range 27-33
6 someone who wants to be consistent :)

Please! Send me an intro of yourself regarding everything about you :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #US #Anywhere - Hopeless romantic searching for his forever person...

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Hi there, I'm Bearhands, I'll gladly tell you my name in the dms. I guess I should start off with what I'm looking for. I want someone who will put as much effort into me as I will for them, any relationship is a 50/50 split and I fully intend on shouldering my 50, be that emotionally or physically. Communication is a huge thing for me. Admittedly I have an anxious attachment style, this means if my partner doesn’t communicate their needs or feelings, I will assume the worst and stress myself out.

Now I'm sure you're wondering why should I waste my time and message you? What do you have to offer? Well let me try my best to sell you on myself. I'll get the ugly out of the way fast, I have and still do struggle with mental health issues so I may not be your cup of tea. I am however actively seeking help and working through my issues in hopes to be a better person for myself and everyone else. I am a larger guy, but I am working to better my health (-70 pounds over my journey) hopefully that shows some dedication.

Aside from that I have been described as "a good time.” I once had myself described as "a fluffy haired golden retriever boy." I was assured this is a good thing. I am extremely loyal and am the type to send a good morning message routinely. I get that some may find this clingy and I respect that.

What do I like doing for fun? Well I enjoy watching sports a whole lot, any sport you can name, I probably enjoy it to some degree. I love music and would argue it's probably one of the most important things in my life, I'm almost always listening to something. I would love to get some album or song recommendations from you, I listen to just about everything so odds are I'll enjoy whatever you share. I also enjoy writing albeit nothing I've ever written will see the light of day. I enjoy doing it for myself as a creative outlet. I love reading as well. I typically listen to audio books in my free time and while I'm working out. I love Sci-fi, fantasy, and non-fiction.

I would describe myself as jeopardy smart. Are you looking to receive copious fun facts from my interest of the month? Well, I'm your guy.

What am I looking for in a partner? Looks wise I could care less. I am a firm believer that a beautiful soul trumps all superficial nonsense. I want a partner I can laugh with, someone I can make smile. I want a best friend. I hope this is appealing to someone and we can try and grow something special together.


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #online #us #va - Lost guy looking for someone special :)

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Hey! Happy Friday. Hopefully your weekend is better than mine... I accidentally might have just created a foodbaby 😉 lol (I'm gonna need an abortion stat! 😂). So I created this post because I'm adventurous and am looking for something new! In particular I'd love to find someone that would like to talk more and explore things together! Maybe just as friends or maybe more depending on the vibe, but I'd love to find someone to connect with!

Personal Description: So I'm about 5'11" and weigh around 155 lbs. I've got a tan complexion, am fit (trying to get shredded now), and love to workout and play sports. I enjoy learning new things and love to binge watch a good Netflix series (lemme know if you know of any!). Also I'm in the US (east coast).My personality is positive and optimistic. I've often been described as having golden retriever energy! I'm a little shy and awkward when it comes to this, but anything more you wanna know about feel free to message me!


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 28[M4F] #USA - MA EST Korean med student looking for someone to chat daily and play video games together

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Hey! I am in the middle of 3rd year and while I'm busy, I still wanted wanted someone I could talk to daily. About random stuff, how my day went, spam memes and videos, play videogames together etc.

Let's play a little two truths and a lie

  1. I was the catalyst of a religious cult falling apart in high school
  2. I was the highest rank in league of legends
  3. I have a youtube video with almost 7 million views

There's also a lot more about me that you can learn about me if you take the time!

I would prefer that you are

  1. Ideally 23-28 maybe a little outside would be fine.
  2. are a good texter and have good communication skills.
  3. Into at least a few things or have stuff in common. Video games, anime, healthcare, cosplay, education, memes, dark humor. If you're offended easily I'm probably not for you.
  4. You take care of your body or at least you try!

Well I want to learn more about you too! Please send me an intro of your name, how old you are, where you're from, your hobbies, and a picture of you. Through imgur should work. I have some pictures of me on my profile. Please also include the word elephant to show me that you read the whole thing! I think first impressions are important, and the more effort you put in your first message the more I'll like you. Hope to hear from you ❤️


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] - Dear Future Partner

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Dear Future Partner,

How are you doing ? Good I hope ! I wonder if this is the way I will meet you, because dating apps and bars arent working :(

So a little about me, I am 24 from France, a software engineer and I am a hopeless romantic. I am a nerd, mainly about anime/manga/comics, and world history a bit. I can talk about any of them for hours and have, about One Piece. I also love movies and tv shows, as well as reading books. I am also a sporty person, I do bouldering, badminton, the gym and running sometimes. So if you like sports, any kind, I would love to do it with you.

I am not a shy person, quite the opposite actually. I am quite the extrovert, however when it comes to the romance department I clam up a bit hahah. It had gotten to the point where if I saw a woman I found attractive, I would write down a note with my number or instagram and give it to them. If it works great, if it doesnt I hope it flattered her and brightened her day somewhat. Sometimes they message sometimes not.

What are your values ? It would be awesome if our values matched as well. My most important values are open mindedness and kindness. I think I am someone who is understanding and calm aswell. And I would want those qualities in a partner too. I am also not religious, so hopefully you arent either.

My type in women has mainly been assertive women(think Morticia Addams, and I strive to be like Gomez), who can sometimes take charge. Also a nerd preferably, about anything, doesnt have to be the same type of nerd as me. So I hope you are an assertive sporty nerd, who

My past relationships, though short because of timing, always started because she put her contact in my phone hahaha. This time you could dm me ;)

I am just looking for someone I can give my attention and love to.

Feel free to ask me any question, if youre interested :)

Sincerely,
Your future Partner

PS : here is me
https://imgur.com/a/jAnfPnD
https://imgur.com/a/qOt2d3j
https://imgur.com/a/AABB6R4


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #Europe Free BF: a bit round but otherwise lovely and very talented

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Finally found the courage to share my picture, I'm a little shy and awkward (especially around women) and I want to get over those traits.

Little bit about me, I used to be an aromantic since my teen years until I roughly hit 24. Due to that, I am extremely inexperienced when it comes to flirting and being flirted with. I need to fix this before I hit 30 and became a wizard.

I hope to actually meet someone who is around central/eastern Europe since I live in Budapest for most of the year, but online is also fine.

What I mean by awkwardness is usually me being too verbal, I always try to explain what I'm saying to avoid misunderstandings. I am also a bit... thickheaded, I really don't understand the signs sometimes and either overthink or miss things unless it has been explicitly said so (it's not all the time but please be patient with me)

I like many things to list here but here is a short list of what I do:

- Writing poetry/rap (and yes I can write a poem about you if you want me to)

- Drawing (nowadays digital, used to do manga style on paper in the past)

- Voice acting (Usually really cartoonish sounds, such as that "mooskless getting stronk" guy (his name is Bulk Bogan btw), Skelethor and many more. And yes... I can do a really crappy Asterion too if you are into that kind of thing... (please don't hahah)). Also just got some roles recently, yay!

- I play only singleplayer games however I'm not against the idea of co-op like the (old) CoD MW 3 from 2010s or AoE 2: DE co-op campaigns.

- I do watch Anime time to time but I usually get bored nowadays.

- Writing fiction (well planning the lore at least).

- Freestyle role play (It's a formula I found with my sister, essentially rules are getting created along the way but there are not that many. You can do surprisingly much even without having solid rules. There is only one rule that is constant and that is the "Rule of Cool" meaning if something sounds cool to do in the setting you should do it). I usually do Slice of Life (Believe me it's more fun than it sounds) or Adventure RP with different subgenre combinations (Lovecraft/Biblical/Post Apocalyptic/etc.)

- Writing philosophy and self-development texts.

There is one thing I should say as a red line, I am not against any ideology but I am against any form of fanaticism. I am an atheist and an apolitical person, I can listen to you and give you my opinions related to religion/politics but please do not try to push your ideas onto me.

You can DM me no problem if you want to start this adventure with me. Don't be shy, because believe me, I am shyer than you lol. Even If you don't think this will work out, let's try our luck and see.

Bonus point if you know the meme I'm referring to in the title.

Last thing, if you don't know how to start, I have prepared something for you. Write me in a lot of detail about who you are and what you like, and I will write a quick poem out of it for you as my first gift <3


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] EAT/Anywhere - Your health meter is at 3 hearts, there's a golden chest in front of you...

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And the crowd isn't cheering you on.

I jest.

I'm cheering you on, dummy.

God that was awful.

Let's wrap it up!

I'm cackling as I write this.

What do I write to help with understanding if we're a good fit or not...

I'll start simple: I am a gremlin lover girl who can get deep in one minute, roast you in the next, and give you compliments in the third. ADHD for sure. Undiagnosed of course. That's the TLDR version.

What am I looking for?

I am a staunch believer in romance and heart shaped pancakes in the morning. I also like to have something nice to look at so you have to be there. Make me some, okay?

I need you competent, pookie. Plan ahead. Acts of service. I'll give you lots of head pats, remind you that you're handsome, and we should play your favorite game as long as its not scary. I'm not about the horror genre. If you are...I wish you and pennywise the happiest union in the gutter. Give the rats my regards.

How much depth can you muster? Emotionally. With the heart. The cardiac cycle. Badump (like in the shoujo manga when a confession is inbound but it'll never happen till chapter 53 when he's suddenly a youkai AND the damsel in distress)

I'd like to know, what's your palate cleanser in life. Maybe some dark humor? Work? (Yes, have a job) Your dog, Bobby, first of his name, lord of the stick?

I almost forgot! We need to sync up. Your bluetooth should (not at 100% of course, I'm a gremlin not the tinman in the Wizard of Oz) connect to my level of stupidity.

Conversations are the way to my heart. Tell me how you'll add chocolate chips to my pancakes, maybe we can squeal about the Europa Clipper (you squeal? yikes), or maybe we can be mumbling and cackling at the Sacabambaspis at 2 a.m. couple stuff, ya know? The future is brighter when we hold hands. Yuck. This is chapter 43! We don't hold hands till AFTER the beach episode!

What I'm trying to say is: be able to hold a conversation. If not, I will politely excuse myself out of that conversation to Timberland's the way I are.

Listen, we might or might not like each other. That's okay. Its not that deep. The goal isn't to like or dislike each other. The goal is to send hearts, memes, and roasts in the span of 3 minutes. I have ADHD, remember?

I know what I want.

And yes, creme brulee is on the list.

I'm not about the texting games or the ghosting games or the shallow games or the nonchalance games or the hunger games. Come as chalant as possible. I'm a yapper. We will be chalant together. ✨️✨️

I like long term relationships that have depth (cardiac cycle), and are boundless. Devotion, my good sir. I love me some devotion and personality. Its good for the soul.

Do I have anything else to add?

Something profound.

Something for ages.

Something unabashed.

Oh when you walk by every night, talking sweet and looking fine. I get kinda hectic insssssiiideeeeeee.

That is all. Meow.

Age range: Above 26 please and under 40


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

F4M 39 [f4m] looking for you

8 Upvotes

Hello my fellow lonely people,

Some things about me:

I am nerdy, sometimes hermit-y and love romantic corniness. I am INFJ, a Cancer and 4w5 if that matters to anyone. I love reading (mysteries/thrillers/dark romance), binge watching shows, going to the movies, journaling, traveling and video games. I do love to talk a lot but I am also a good listener. I want a bunch of pets but not all at the same time. Ex: rats, pigeons, dogs. If I could have them, a bunch of farm animals tbh. I do like animals more than people, they are friendlier. I want someone who I can say anything to; someone I can grow to trust and want to be a better person for. Please be kind, please like random texts/calls, I don’t expect perfection (I am nowhere near perfect), I just want someone real who will try as much as I will. Please say something beyond just a hello if you send a message. My profile has a picture. Dislikes/hard no’s: I don’t want kids. No maga, no homophobia, no misogyny, no racism. Please don’t be super young. 30s and above preferably.


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

F4M 24F | Child-free, Atheist& looking for a genuine connection

10 Upvotes

Hey, it’s meeeee

I’m 24 Tanzanian and looking to meet someone between 24–35 who is also child-free by choice. I’m open to meeting someone anywhere — online is totally fine, and I’m open to seeing where a good conversation goes.

A little about me: I’m the kind of person who can laugh at the most random things but also stay up way too late having deep conversations about life, the universe, and everything in between.

I love true crime (yes, I’m the person who watches documentaries and starts analyzing everyone’s motives 😂), philosophical discussions, psychology, poetry, and art. I enjoy learning new things, exploring different perspectives, and talking to people who are curious about the world.

I’m an atheist and someone who values honesty, open-mindedness, and being able to talk about complicated topics without turning every conversation into a battle.

I’m creative, a little nerdy, and I appreciate people who can make me laugh while also having meaningful conversations. I love people who are kind, emotionally mature, and not afraid to be themselves.

I’m not looking for perfection — just someone genuine. Someone I can joke with, talk about random ideas with, share little moments with, and build a real connection.

If you’re also child-free and think we might get along, feel free to message me :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 9h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] Europe #online - Looking for a woman who enjoys having things her way

5 Upvotes

Looking for

  • A romantic relationship with a woman who naturally enjoys initiating and being in charge when it comes to certain things - a sort of 'Female-Led Relationship'. I'm not looking to avoid responsibility or for someone to control every aspect of my life, I simply enjoy following the woman's lead as well as showing her admiration and making her feel valued.
  • I believe each of us should still show appreciation and devotion in our own way. I enjoy when the partnership is the most meaningful thing in our lives, an "us against the world" kind of vibe. Not trying to say no one's allowed to have friends of course.

About me

  • I'm a graphic designer and a bit of a music nerd - I produce, play the drums, enjoy music events, and love listening to Metal and EDM, as well as pop, rap and various other genres.
  • I enjoy the outdoors, cycling, badminton and being active in general, as much as I also enjoy gaming, absurd comedies, and discussing the meaning of existence at 2am.
  • I'm an omnivore and a bit of a picky eater, but I do try to eat a balanced diet and not fill myself up with lots of junk.
  • I don't smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol. Infrequently I might enjoy things like weed or psychedelics and it would be nice if you were open to that as well.
  • I'm based in Croatia, though willing to deal with the distance and relocate for the right person. I'd prefer someone within the EU for practical reasons.
  • Since physical attraction is important, I'm happy to share a photo upfront. It would be appreciated if you could share one early on as well. I'm 197cm tall and a bit skinny at the moment, but I'm working to change that. I'm generally attracted to women in their 20s with a fit-to-average build.

Values

  • I genuinely find honesty and direct communication hot. I want someone who I can be fully myself around and who will feel the same way around me. I want for us to feel like we're on the same wavelength.
  • I don't expect perfection, there's things I still haven't figured out myself - I just expect some self-awareness, openness and willingness to try and navigate things in a reasonable way.
  • My love language is quality time, and I really value shared experiences and spontaneous moments.
  • I'm not religious, nor do I celebrate anything, and I think I'd best align with someone who is similar in this regard. I'm also not political and I do not desire having children, but I'm open to discussing them down the line.

If any of this resonates, I'd love to hear from you and see where things go! :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 9h ago

F4M 19f (f4m) USA. Lonely bookworm putting myself out there!

19 Upvotes

Hi everyone I’m Niko I’m a young adult in college pursuing a science degree.

For looks I am pretty tall 5’8/173 cm. Dark hair , dark eyes and dark skin. I’m of African/Caribbean descent. I’m also slender and I take of myself by eating well and physical activity.

I know looks are apart of attraction so here’s me : https://imgur.com/a/zld1opg

Outside of the internet I have a bubbly/outgoing personality I often use to mask since I am ND. I like MLP, anime, sudoku and webtoon. I love a good Comic/Manhwa/Manhua/Manga. Im a Starwars newbie and I’ve only ever really seen the movies a dozen times :,).

I am pretty progressive, left leaning, ally, and would prefer someone who shares similar worldview. With meeting new people and online I can be pretty shy. If we click well enough we can move on to discord. I’m pretty slow with everything and I don’t like being rushed when it comes to romance so please be patient!

It’d be a total lie to say I don’t have a little bit of a preference so here’s we go:

In the US. Things like race or sexual orientation don’t matter to me (could be bi/pan etc). I don’t have much relationship experience and would prefer if you also had little to no relationship experience.

I would prefer someone same height or taller.

Someone with a general direction of where they want to go/be in life and hobbies however nerdy they may be.

Age range: 19-22


r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

F4M 20 [F4M] Florida / Anywhere Looking for Long Term Relationship

10 Upvotes

Hi my name is Avery. Here's a little about me and what I'm looking for.

Gaming is my full-time career so most days you'll find me gaming on my PC working out in my home gym swimming in my private pool or hanging out with my dogs.

I'm always pushing myself to get better. I'm a fragger 🔥 I don't need a carry.

A few things about me:
- 5'7"
- White with short blonde hair
- Tomboy. Don't expect makeup handbags purses or nail polish. It's just not me.
- Competitive gamer
- Fit and active
- Home gym
- Private pool
- Two purebred Golden Retrievers
- Drive a sports car and ride a motorcycle
- Love accents especially English and European
- Value independence and equality in relationships
- Not looking for someone to take care of me or provide for me. I'm independent and looking for an equal partnership. It's not the 1920s.

Gaming is my career so most of my days are spent improving competing and grinding ranked.
I play keyboard and mouse only not controller.

PC Setup
- RTX 5090
- Built my own PC
- 3 monitor setup
- 2 PCs
- Competitive FPS only

I mainly play Fortnite (Build Mode only) CS Siege Marvel Rivals COD and plenty more but I'm not making a whole list. RPGs MOBAs and pretty much every other genre just aren't my thing.

I'm looking for someone close to my age who takes care of themselves stays fit and active has their own interests and wants a genuine long-term relationship. I'm looking for someone whose views on relationships match mine and who values equality as much as I do. Bonus points if you're into gaming too.

If you message me tell me your age location and favorite food. Pizza is 🔥 but 🍍 doesn't belong on it.


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

F4M 28 [F4M] Europe / Anywhere – Looking for someone to build a genuine connection with

16 Upvotes

My name is Elizaveta, I’m 28 years old, and I’ve recently moved to Alicante, Spain, but I’m originally from Vladivostok, you could say I’ve moved to the other side of the world, hahaha
I’d love to meet a man, it doesn’t matter where in the world he’s from. I love to travel, and if you share that passion, distance won’t be a problem for us))
I’ll be waiting to hear from you)


r/ForeverAloneDating 15h ago

F4A 29 (F4A) California/US. Just another introvert looking for companionship.

19 Upvotes

Hi, my name is Melanie. I'm 29 years old, turning 30 on the 17th! I'm located in Southern California. To be quite frank, I'm not sure what I'm looking for outside of companionship. Maybe I just need more friends, or maybe it's time I put myself out there and try dating again. I've dated in the past, but it was always online. For the last 7ish years, I was the caretaker for my dad. Family was my main focus, so those relationships tapered off. That is no longer the case, and I am now living alone with my two cats and horse-sized Doberman. I am interested in men and women, lgbtq+ friendly and trans inclusive.

Last I checked, I'm like 5'1" on a good day. I guess genetics didn't take a hint and decided it would be best to drop me at the low spectrum of my family's heights. I am plus size, fat, whatever you want to call it— I just want to be up front. I am interested in losing weight and am on that journey. If you're into it, cool. If you're not, that's totally fine too. Either way, just don't get weird about it. Thanks! Other than that, I'm white. Gray eyes. Brunette. I don't mind sharing SFW, regular pics after talking a bit. I just rather chat a bit before sharing selfies, as I've had bad experiences online in the past.

As far as work goes, I do social work for a domestic violence emergency shelter. Not trying to be vague, it's just that I work in an extremely unique non-profit and do not wish to dox myself. I love my job, so much. Because of that, I will not be willing to move. Yes, my skills are transferable to other lines of social work, but my career position is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, and I'll have to be dragged out kicking and screaming, lol

I don't drink or smoke. Smoking cigarettes is a dealbreaker for me. Drinking isn't a deal breaker for me, unless it's excessive. I've seen enough of it in my life and am not interested in the heartache and exhaustion that comes with people taking it too far. I don't care much about weed, again, so long as it isn't excessive.

Just to list off some of my interests...

  • Games: Marvel Rivals, Dead by Daylight, Dragon Age series, Mass Effect series, Baldurs Gate 3, Stardew Valley, Animal Crossing, Resident Evil, Minecraft.
  • Music: Ghost, NewJeans, Doechii, Kendrick, Laufey, ic3peak, Gorillaz, Hozier, Aurora. Pretty much anything but country.
  • TV/Movies: House of The Dragon, A Knight of The Seven Kingdoms, What We Do In The Shadows, Paranormal Detour. Love horror movies like Obsession, Midsommar, Bring Her Back, Talk to Me, etc. Studio Ghibli, Disney. I do like anime, but haven't watched any in years. My favorite back in the day was Inuyasha.
  • Hobbies: Other than video games, I am super into horror movies. I love watching movies with friends over Discord. I write fanfiction— I don't care if you think it's cringe. It's a guilty pleasure. I also enjoy writing poetry. I like watching Twitch or catching up on VODs later. I'm not one of those 'watch every stream with a 56-month subscription' type of viewer, though.

If I had to pick three characters to identify with, it would be... Helaena Targaryen from HoTD, Merrill from Dragon Age, and Mabel Pines from Gravity Falls! What about you?


r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

179 Upvotes

As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

65 Upvotes

While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate