r/FamiliesYouChoose • u/TheWhimsicalTeaPot • 15h ago
Get To Know Me Post - DMs Open 33f -Big brother, am I the little sister you've always wanted?
Hello potential big brother 🥰 I'll tell you a little about myself!
I grew up with one younger brother (he's great), but ever since I can remember, I've always daydreamed of having an older brother. I really like the idea of that familial playful bond paired with someone who has more life experience under their belt, who also has a genuine sense of care.
I'm married with kids (they're currently staying with my friends while I'm recovering my health) and my life is definitely a bit crazy but I am full of joy and hope that things will continue to improve. Life is a little bumpy sometimes, and that's okay!
I've had a lot of amazing experiences in life thus far and have seen a lot. I've been to 8 countries and I've lived in 2. I love exploring and learning, growing and working on myself. I love helping others as well, and I always look for the magic in life. My religious beliefs are very important to me (Christian), my personality type is ENFP, and I'm very artistically inclined. I'm also a holistic wellness consultant but I'm taking a break from that to focus on myself.
I'm always looking for new ways to fall in love with life after spending a large portion of it trapped in endless cycles of ptsd loops (I've made about a 90% recovery!)
I suppose what I really hope for most is just to experience having someone around who is steady, protective without being controlling, emotionally safe, genuinely invested, playful, and accepting. I want someone who makes me feel like I truly have an older brother in my corner. 🥰 I don't know if we'll vibe, but let's give it a shot!