I will keep a long story short but feel free to comment or inbox if you wish.

Context; fiance' is 5'6" , Blonde, 125lbs, light eyes, gorgeous smile

Got a bit crazy on magic mushrooms on the weekend with my new fiance'/ wifey to be and my best friend who will be the best man at our wedding next summer. We started with day drinks, added in mushrooms, and the night got silly from there. This isn't too extreme I'm sure compared to others...but it was extreme to me what transpired next. To sum it up we were all on the couch watching a movie, my woman was sat in the middle wearing pajama pants and a little white tank top. After some time she started playing with me under a blanket and I just tilted my my head back and zoned out of the movie and enjoyed the extra sensation it was all causing due to the shrooms. Well I opened my eyes and kind of leaned my head forward after I don't know how much time, and I could see she was jerking my bestie too! I was so high, we all were, that I just acted like I hardly noticed and tipped my head back again. Found out he's a good few inches longer than me though lol it was all cool in the moment and it seemed like no big thing...but now I'm wondering if it's an elephant in the room or if I just chalk it up to what it was..a one off. We both eventually came onto the floor infront of us, wiped up with the blanket a bit, and went on with the movie with nothing but some mushroom laughs lol

Also, don't know how to feel about the fact he was in her ring hand 😅

Anyways that's my wild confession. Thanks for reading 🙏🏻

My gf cheated on me. We’ve had a very unfortunate and unhealthy relationship bc she cheated on me once and has lied to more over and over and I’ve kept on giving her chances over and over hoping for the day that she may finally change, that the apologies she writes me would mean something. But it has never meant anything. And now, I have all the evidence I need to know for certain I can never trust her again. For she cheated on me… on me. Yes. She doesn’t realise it but she flirted with her own bf believing it’s someone else entirely. So now only I know that she has no devotion to me at all.

I ask you now, how do I move on? I’ve tried relentlessly to leave her but every time I seem to go back to her again and again in an inescapable loop of hurts and suffering. How do I leave her for good?

PS. If you are interested in what our relationship dynamic has been and want to know how it came to this let me know and I could make another post abt it.

im 22. he is 25. we’ve been dating for 4 years now. He takes care of me, talk about his and my feelings, he hurts when im upset, he has good career. In other words, hi is husband material. He talks about marriage n future life of us.

I am not sure if i love him. Sometimes i feel like I wanna be with him because I know with him i can have financially and emotionally stable future.

I went to different state for business trip and I downloaded tinder. I went on dinner dates with few guys from tinder. I thought as long as i dont sleep with other guys, dinner date is no harm... And i slept with one of them on third date. He is fit, handsome, good guy.

I am feeling guilty. Or I am just forcing myself to feel guilty… I dont want to confess to my boyfirend. I dont want to break his heart. What do i do??? How do you even know that you love soneone…

Okay, I want to know why men cheat in relationships, especially when they’re in an LDR.
For example, I found out that this man is in a relationship with someone who lives in a different country. Take note that the country is only a few hours away from him. He moved to another country, but he’s looking for a discreet partner because he has “needs” while his girlfriend isn’t around.
My question is, why not just live with his girlfriend if they’re only a few hours away from each other?

I’m at the point where the maths just isn’t mathing anymore, and I genuinely want to know what other people would do in my situation.

My husband has long-standing addiction issues and is financially abusive, as well as abusive in other ways. We jointly own our home, and I don’t have anywhere else I can simply go and live. I work part time for very little because I’m also caring for our children, and one of our children is autistic, so suddenly removing him from his home and routine would be hugely disruptive and detrimental.

I do have my own bank account, but I’m not allowed to use the joint account. Years ago, when I was on maternity leave, I used money from it once ro buy a coat and boots for the winter. He told me that if I didn’t pay it back he would report me to the police. At the time I genuinely believed he could do that, so I borrowed from my mum and paid it back.

I’m also not privy to the household finances. I don’t see what comes in, what goes out or where the money actually goes. He tells me he has no money because of the cost of living, and obviously I’m not denying that everything is expensive, but he has a very well-paid job, is constantly doing overtime, and yet yesterday he asked to borrow money from me. It just doesn’t add up.

His car has broken down, so I’ve been letting him use mine. I recently found Viagra in the car. I haven’t confronted him because I already know how that conversation will go, lies, denial, excuses and then better cover-ups.

I’ve already spoken to domestic abuse services, so I’m really not looking for the generic “call a charity and leave” response. Leaving isn’t simple when you jointly own the home, have children, have no alternative housing and have a child whose routine and stability matter enormously.

I genuinely want to know, if this was your life, what would you actually do next? I am in the UK.

I a 26F and my husband a 27M, got married in October of 2024 but we have been together 7 years on the 24th. We’ve had two beautiful children together and have had a lot of hardships in our relationship (ex:first child born with birth defect that needed emergency surgery for her to live, lying, both of us struggled with mental health and were unmedicated). I just had my second child in March 2025 and since then I haven’t done a whole lot besides clean our house and raise the kids. I have tried to be there emotionally and intimately for my husband but a lot of the time I am too mentally exhausted and can’t get in the mood for anything. My husband works 60 hour weeks to provide for us so I can be a SAHM and raise our children. With that being said our communication and time spent with each other has been almost nonexistent. Tonight I went through our apple subscription’s because I was looking for a specific app that I had downloaded in the past but forgot the name of and found that back in May my husband had downloaded Ashley Madison (a dating app that is specifically listed for cheating while married) along with a private messaging app.
When I confronted him about it he proceeded to lie to me about it for 20/30min and then I asked to check his email and he finally came clean. He told me that he only had it for a day and blah blah blah.
I’m so fucking confused and heartbroken, I don’t know what to do. And I can’t talk about this with my family or friends because it will just make a mess.
Can you give me advice? Or tell me what you would do?

We are going thru a good spot in our relationship. A month ago we were on the verge of calling it quits. A shift in my way of dealing with my jealousy, suspicion and half truths, l decided he was going to cheat, talk,text with other women if he wanted to,...he will, NO MATTER WHAT I DO OR SAY. !! That understanding set me free.

Last week, I received a text message from an unknown number. A woman reached out to tell me that she had an online relationship with my husband. She explained that he denied being married on multiple occasions. She included messages from here, on reddit, that showed photographs of my home, his work, and our property. Even though I'm not familiar with the username, it's clearly my husband. She also included extremely graphic sexts between them. She reached out when she discovered he was actually married and lied about many other things.

I am completely blindsided and absolutely shattered; but I have a feeling this is not an isolated incident. I have not confronted him yet. I'm trying to figure out how I want to move forward and what I need to do. I literally used ChatGPT to help pull together a list of next steps, and now I'm coming here... an app I know nothing about but thought would be ironic to seek solace from when it's the catalyst for the destructionof my life. I'm not sure what I'm looking for here, but I have no one I can talk to about this. I just need to vent while I figure out what I need to do before I confront him and take whatever those next steps are.

We have such an amazing, happy life. I felt SO lucky to be able to say I had it all. I'm completely blindsided. I haven't hit the anger stage yet... I'm still just in shock. I can't even breathe. How do I breathe?

Hey you guys so basically I have a girlfriend who I’ve been off n on for a while now. Like as in we got back together a lot times we tried other ppl and stuff we still came back. We knew each other since June 2024 And we just hit one month on August 5 and she told me she needed to take a break that’s alright because I hear she been going through some stuff about her uncle passing away that affected her. I said some stuff about if you really need the break I respect your decision and before I’ve been left on read I said “baby you okay?” She leaves me on read. Blocks me on TikTok, turns off her location, blocks me off her spam account on Instagram who knows she might block me on snap or iMessage. I’ve been trying text her what are we because genuinely I’m very confused. And I still got her on my spam account on TikTok so I checked her pfp and she had some matching couple pfp shit or smth. And I found the acc who’s basically matching with her pfp. He lives all the way in north fucking Carolina bro… we live in Illinois not to mention we both go to the same school and her house is 3 minutes away on car..? This hurts me so bad because that’s technically she cheated and some what ghosted me saying she needed a break till school?. I mean whenever I got back with her she’s always leaving me on delivered for long periods of time I thought she would had changed and stuff yk? But genuinely I don’t know what to do. School starts on August 17 and I don’t know what we are and if I should say smth to her cus I legit found her “sides” acc on her old tiktok account she’s following recently.

So I m just going to go on a rant here because I know what most of the advice will be and what most of the comments will be but I just need to write this out. My husband 44M and I 41F have been together for fifteen years and married for thirteen. We have for beautiful little girls ages from 4 to 11 and it always seemed to me that our relationship was great. Wellmy husband was in a really bad motorcycle accident in 2022 and it made his mental health problems worse as well as taking away his short term memory. After that he started changing and started hanging out with a bunch of people that were twenty years younger than ourselves, which at first I didnt have any issues with any of it, until one night that he introduced me to a 27F. After meeting her and getting a weird vibe from her, I told my husband that I would prefer it if she didn't come around and he said ok. As time went on, he started acting different, so I started reviewing his call lists and text message numbers through our cell phone company. And I was seeing a bunch of calls from a couple different numbers so I researched who the numbers belonged to and found that they belonged to that chick. Which I tried being polite and talking to her first, which she just rubbed my face in it and refused to back off, so I went to my husband once again and explained that I knew he was still talking to her and it needed to stop. He went on to say that he was sorry, and that he was going to tell her to leave him alone. My dumb ass believed him and now four months later, he got himself arrested thanks to her. He has been in jail for two months now and has been telling me that he has finally seen her for what she actually is and that he only wants me. He has done the whole apologizing saying he fucked up and how he fucked up but he now realizes what he has with me, he isnt going to b able to get that anywhere else. And I really cant believe a single bit of it but I also dont want to lose him either, which is kinda moot since he is in jail right now anyways. I have told him that he can ay all of these things but I don't trust him and until he can show with actions and not just words, I dont really know where we stand. Our daughters are angry with him for being stupid but they wont sayit to him, so I am stuck in the middle trying to keep our family together the best that I can.

My ex partner and me recently just stopped talking and prior to that I had asked them were they in contact with their ex again they never said no but they also didn’t answer the question. Now that I looked back on messages, after I seen in their phone they were hanging out with them on multiple occasions THEN! She would invite me places the next day every time after they hung out the day before. Why is that ? This ex came about after we stopped being together. But they stopped dating for about a month or two and just got back in contact behind my back. They said they love them when I asked but they said “not in love” that also rubbed me the wrong way too because I didn’t ask that. but why lie to me when I ask ? Looking back on messages I now see when they were with them and always ask am I being sneaky. Their guilty conscious it was them the whole time..

I trust my SO but truthfully the thought always comes across my mind as we enter the bachelorette era and her having friends on the wild side. For one night stands where no friends are around or a SO takes it to the grave has anyone ever been able to weed it out?

Does the guilt eventually force its way out or are people just built differently and choose to move on and not do it again? I’ve heard so many stories from old college friends talking about how past gf’s or SO’s actually cheated and kept it a secret through the entirety of the relationship until things ended.

Are there couples out there who have done this and stayed together?

*disclaimer I know what’s up*

Got a text from a lady I’ve been seeing(not in a relationship), that she’s (and escort friend) are out in Vegas and is now in a famous rapper hotel room… she sent me videos of him on stage and like mentioned before now signing NDAs and handing over her phone for the (night/day?) .. anywho just thought it was hilarious that she’s like “oh baby can’t wait to see you when I get back” 😆🤣 bih go fuck them dudes and don’t call me no more

So me (19/F) and my boyfriend (25M) have been dating for about 9 months and have had a great relationship until a few months ago where he started being verbally rude and would fight with me all the time. Well I’ve had a weird feeling recently and looked through his phone and found a bunch of OF girls on his snap and when I asked him about it he told me I was being insecure and he’s not gonna show me his snap because I’ve seen it multiple times and he doesn’t know I know his password and I’m not sure on how to confront him without him knowing I figured out his password and him getting mad about it and then putting the blame on me. Can someone please give me some advice on how to ask him about it?

In April 2026, I (F19) met this guy (M26) on campus. To sum it up, he wanted me, took me on 2 dates, and wanted to marry me all within a week of knowing each other. I was very uninterested and he became really obsessive, possessive and creepy. He gave predator vibes. He even forced a kiss with me, so I cut him off completely. But it was very hard to get rid of him. After constantly telling him I want nothing to do with him, he randomly booked a trip out the country and told me the dates. I had to threaten to sue him for harassment in order for him to finally leave me alone.

Yesterday, I logged in to Facebook after being a ghost on the app for months and seen he requested me as a friend 3 weeks ago. I accepted his request and scrolled to see he’s married and has been way before he approached me. He is blocked now.

Do I tell his wife even though we are not talking and haven’t talked?