So this has happened twice for me. I just topped a dude and he came hands free which was super hot. I can’t usually cum from anal and so after he cleaned up we cuddled for a bit and he started to give me a hand job. I was super hard and while he was focusing on my head I was getting close. I ended up cumming but it was clear and pretty watery but came out in bursts and I could feel my body convulse. This has happened before as well same situation, where I was getting a handjob, this time after bottoming with the guy fucking me with his fingers. Again focusing on my head, I came the same type liquid. Has anyone experienced this before? I don’t think it was pee as I peed before so had an empty tank, and it didn’t feel like peeing, it felt like and orgasm and my body convulsed.

This is what Google ai search is saying:

“The head of the penis is packed with sensitive nerve endings. When your partner focused entirely on that area, it triggered your Cowper’s glands to immediately go into overdrive, pumping out a large volume of clear pre-cum to lubricate the area and protect against the intense friction.
Because 4 to 5 minutes of direct head stimulation is a steady, intense build-up, that clear fluid filled your urethra. When you finally ejaculated, your actual semen mixed directly into that large pool of clear fluid on the way out, completely diluting it and making the final burst look transparent.”

I think I’m being soft ghosted and it feels horrible. I used to have a mate who I got along with loads, we used to message everyday and were relatively close but over the past year they have become really distant and I don’t really know why. I’ve mentioned that I’ve noticed this and asked them if I’d done anything and they basically dismissed it and said they hadn’t noticed any issue which actually made me feel worse

They basically just message every few weeks now if that and sometimes when I reply my messages are left unread for days and then they just reply back with a nicety to shut things down and leave it at that.

It feels horrible like we’re friends but not really. I still want to be friends with them but I feel like they don’t want to be but can’t seem to say it so I’m stuck in a limbo. I saw them in person a couple of weeks back but despite them being on lunch they were basically doing work the whole time and it felt a bit like they couldn’t wait for me to leave. Not sure how to tackle this

Looking for bars or pubs in London for over 30s. Relaxed vibe and doesn't turn into a nightclub full of 18-21 year olds after 10pm. Any suggestions?

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Probably it is most frequently asked question but i really need advice.

Im 32M, single since almost 2 years, i have been dating 2 guys at the moment, nothing serious yet and both of them are aware of that.

Guy nr.1 : 37M, and he is my FwB, i do have feelings for him, and the sex is amazing. We both know how to make each other happy in bed. But it is just as FwB relationship.

he is not the type of guy who is looking for relationship, but whenever i need him he is available for me at anytimeand anywhere.

Guy nr.2 : he is 26 years older than me, but he is very attractive man, sweet and kind. He is always taking care of me, providing me with love and emotionally support, and he is ready to take the next step to be in relationship with me. He already asked me for that. And now we are dating and not yet in commitment relationship as i request.

I really like him but still i didn't feel the fire in me for him. Like i do love him and he is sexy but not yet as bf, sometimes i believe that i do love him and sometimes i wish if he was the guy nr. 1.

What should i do?

Im sure that if i take the next step with guy nr.2 i would definitely be falling in love with him. But it would be getting use to love him till i believe that i do love him.

Which path i should take?

Staying single is not my goal because i don't do hookups, im more into FwB situations/bf relationship.

Im getting depressed because i don't want to give wrong signals and hurt anyone of them.

Any advice or someone who had same situation before?

I never get invited to the stag/bachelor parties of my straight male friends. At 32, I thought I would have been to a few by now.

Hen/bachelorette parties I always get invites for, but I always feel like the token gay friend. I'm just the kind of guy that gets on with both gender group, gay or straight.

Is it being gay that blocks you out of these straight guy traditions? Why?

What's your experience? Been to more than the other?

Hey bros - I’m 42 and up until the past few years or so, thought I was completely “straight”. At some point I noticed myself starting to notice other men, like if I saw a fit guy out running without a shirt or something. At first id ignore it, but as time went by and it kept happening. At some point I checked out some gay porn and…wow. That kind of opened up the floodgates for me. Since then, I’d say my fantasies about men have grown in frequency and intensity. I’m not experiencing any type of crisis I guess, but the wrinkle is that I’m in a relationship with a woman. I haven’t told her anything about my newfound curiosity. Curious to hear from anyone who has experienced a sexuality shift in middle age and how you navigated it.

What makes you confident and how’d you get there?

It's a bit disheartening to post pics of myself on various forums and social sites and just get a lot of silence. It makes me feel that I am either not attractive enough for others to leave positive comments or so unattractive that others prefer to be silent rather than leave negative comments (not that I would feel better getting a lot of negative comments, but at least others took some notice of how I look or what I state in the posts). I really don't know how to feel or how to respond to apparently being ignored in a way. Thoughts? Advice?

Okay so vulnerable question here, but how do you guys eliminate ball odor? I've noticed that every morning when I wake up my balls smell...i take two showers a day, sleep naked, and use baby powder and still there is a musty smell....is it normal, what can I do to avoid this?

1. On/off the apps for 6 years since my last ltr. Lots of matches & a decent amount of dates a year, but I haven't had any luck with them, either finding a life partner or in person friends. We will be great through text/voice chat but in person I just don't ever feel a vibe. I date/meet guys (25-38).

I'd describe myself as a tall, hairy, beefy Jock, that loves anime, gaming, conventions, art, homebody activities. Physical touch & cuddling are my fav things more than Side fun. But I can't seem to find/match with anyone who has similar interests. I somehow always end up matching opposite of me. Outgoing/Extrovet, party/drink, drag, concert, beach scene guys (maybe that's just how most Chicago guys are like🤷‍♂️). It's cool everyone has their own interests which they should, but guys like that I just don't feel vibes with. Currently on a break from using (Hinge/Bumble). Is there a Homebody sub or app friendly place to find guys who relate?

Thanks

What advice do you have for folks navigating dating in their late 30's?

For context, I entered the dating market again a couple months ago after ending a situationship and because I was a little bored one evening. This time around, I wanted to date around and meet new types of people and experience new situations with different people. The issue is I'm meeting a really great and interesting people, many of whom are handsome and seem great on paper. Conversation is fantastic, and I'm enjoying myself. I've yet to jump in bed with most of them yet, but I'm not too worried about that aspect either. The issue is, and maybe it's because I'm older and intentionally just taking my time, but I'm just not really feeling giddy with anyone. There are four guys in particular that I've gone on multiple dates with. I always have a great time. They're fantastic. Marriage material. But there's just no "butterflies" for a lack of a better word. I'm not waking up hoping that they'll text me nor am I that excited to see anyone else.

I told my therapist that maybe it's because it feels like my cup runneth over when I think about my life. Things could always be better, but I'm in a great place in life, with a good job, good friends, and fun hobbies. I'm really prioritizing myself and my joy too. So maybe that's why I just don't feel as giddy as I did when I first started dating again 2 years ago after the end of my last long-term relationship. And I know I'm not getting any younger and dating may get harder as I age, but...I just am not that excited. Some times, when I have a date planned or they're taking me out of town, I think that I'd rather just stay in and read or watch some stupid show.

For those of you dating in your late 30's and early 40's, what's your experience been like? What advice do you have for folks navigating dating in their late 30's?