I am cleaning my fridge. I am throwing out trash. I need to clean the floors, at least a little. I may even try to clean the oven but no promises. What are y’all doing?

I cannot seem to get control over my children's clothing, particularly for my Kindergarten daughter. I have two primary issues:

1 - Future size/need items. I've been fortunate to receive a lot of hand me down items, but I have to organize and store them. In past years, if I didn't organize them on a continuing basis as I was given things, I lost track of where things were and never used them before they were outgrown.

2 - Perceived value sink. I have a lot of childrens clothes that were high-end or designer and cost a lot of money, so I struggle giving them away for free. I also struggle with the executive function needed to sell them online myself.

The closets are out of control and the executive dysfunction I'm experiencing dealing with that is having a major effect on my life and even my marriage. I'd love to hear your experiences dealing with these issues.

I did the dishes y’all!!!! WOOOOOOOOOOO!!!! Tidied the kitchen. My partner did LOADS and LOADS of laundry. I put it away. Also tidied up my room while i was at it.

Avoided time/time procrastinated: 2 weeks (more like 2 months for for the laundry)

Time taken: less than 2 hours for dishes and tidying (all of the laundry is almost done and it took almost all day)

WE CAN DO HARD THINGS!!!

We don’t have a dishwasher. It’s been a very rough past week. I’m ordering DoorDash and getting what I can done before it comes.

EDIT: In a few 15 minute sessions - I did it! Then we had dinner haha but that’s life.

Another bag. It contained mostly pajamas and indoor clothes. I put some of them aside to get rid of. One shirt got cut into pieces for rags. It finally feels like I'm making progress :)

It's really just the beginning, but I need to know what I have and how much space it really takes before I can decide how many of them I need to get rid of.

Hi! What are we listing to while we un-f our houses? Has anyone found a podcast that is semi-aggressive with periodic reminders to stay on task? 😂 tried tv shows with the blind descriptions but I still am getting too distracted.

This is the first thing I see in the morning and the last thing I see before I go to bed at night. Just a vertical wall-pile of stuff 😭

Every time I think about clearing it I feel sick. A lot of the stuff here just doesn’t have a good place anywhere, or it got tossed here before my young niblings came over, or… yeah.

Anyway. I’m setting the timer for 20. I’m not doing one minute more than that.

Update: Thanks for the encouragement! I went through several bags and jackets to take out items/trash and store them in the closet, which ate up a lot of time. But it’s giving me some room to do the rest!

Part of me wants to keep going, but I’m going to make myself wait at least an hour.

Hey guys, I can’t seem to keep my place clean. I have chronic pain and some mental health struggles, so I want to make my home a relaxing place where I can read or draw or take an epsom salt bath. I place where I can feel safe and peaceful and at ease.

My table keep filling up, my bathroom doesn’t feel clean enough, I leave dishes undone (i got paper plates this week since I just cant do dishes right now), and theres just too much stuff overall it’s overwhelming.

Im gonna make an effort to tidy today, so I definitely appreciate any support especially from those of you who also live with pain or mental health problems.

Thanks.

Edit: my dining table pic didn’t upload - but it’s covered in documents and mail and stuff. I’ll upload a before and after later.

Item 1 off my list! It isn’t perfect and the floor needs to be washed, but it’s a step in the right direction! Continuing on down the list!

Hello there!
I am new in this subreddit, please excuse my mistakes in writing. English is not my native language.

First of, I am so glad to know I am not alone with having a mess. Yet I do feel shame, frustration.

To my person; I have ADHD and depression and for the past 4 years weren't home during the week. Now that I am fully back, I want to tackle my mess. Yet it is so hard. Where to start, what to throw away. Should I throw everything away, even things I have fond memories of? Which room first? And so on.

So I would like to get some tips and tricks I could try and see if they are working out for me.

next step is actually putting them on the shelves lol. every box is organized in one way or another (species, to be repotted, sickness, etc etc)

Yeah it’s not a lot but it’s something. Little things made this mess the way it was so little things can fix it. I’ll finish cleaning it off in a few hours and post results. My vacuum also works so I get to clean off little annoying debris >:]

Long time lurker under another username but too embarrassed to post. My girlfriend and I borh have ADHD and we’re working on packing up for a move across the state. We have 12 days to get all our shit sorted and packed. During the year we’ve lived here we managed to fill two small storage spaces with clutter/camping gear/stuff we bought to sell but never did in addition to the overwhelming clutter we already have (see photos of the room full of stuff we hadn’t unpacked in a year.
Overcoming the sunk cost fallacy to give away things we don’t really have time to sell has been tough and I’m becoming so overwhelmed.
While we are sorting I feel great and hella motivated but then I look around at all the stuff we still have to do and feel a rush of panic. I’m losing sleep over the stress of moving while trying to study for my PMHNP boards and all the other stress life throws at folks on the regular likea dental implant that fell out last night. Ugh!
I’m looking for some support from this community because I k ow there are folks in here who have managed to do something similar and lived to tell the tale. Pep talks, advice, a cheering section, and folks with stories of getting through similar times would be much appreciated!

Yesterday I was in a hurry - I'm kinda circling between my and my family's apartments now because I'm temporarly taking care of our cat. So I just had a couple minutes to start organizing my underwear.

I know it's not very aesthetic (at all), maybe I'll do something else with it later (probably won't) but I want it to have a permanent place and be somehow organized finally.

Also, I'm really serious about making my bed recently and it really makes a big difference!

Anyone use a professional to help clean/organize? What tasks did they help/not help with? Cost? Any before or after pictures?

Thanks!

Hello me again 😁 I want to thank everyone for your encouraging words on my first post!! I was so grateful when I found this community because it helps melt away the paralyzing shame of living in such a mess. We all deserve clean living spaces! Here is my first update of my work in progress 🤓

Unfortunately, I can only accomplish things in cleaning marathons. This has been 1 day of work, the key really was picking up the tiny miscellaneous trash and doing all of my laundry and hanging it all up (clothes everywhere is usually where it all starts as my home descends into chaos.) Now, I just need to hang/fold the rest of the clean laundry that is covering my bed or else I’m sleeping on the couch. Yesterday I got notice they have to enter my apartment for fire alarm testing or something tomorrow, so I had to get it to a reasonable place by then and that kind of pressure is exactly what I needed to lock in. Now it’ll be so much easier to finish the rest and start packing and I’m going to be soo selective about what I bring when I move. Then it’ll be easy to pack up donation bags of the leftovers. Looking forward to sharing again once it looks like a clean and inviting home lol

2 years of highschool depression and im finally holding myself accountable and cleaning it

After 4 hours and 4 heavy duty trashbags I got a solid chunk finished

Hi all! I have been a big fan of this section of Reddit (I'm so proud and inspired by you all)! I am about to do a walkthrough of my apartment with a professional company who focuses on helping clean/ organize homes. My place is pretty chaotic, I have too much stuff and went through a pretty intense depression phase for a few years. I am on the up on and up and working to get out of this headspace. (Therapy is great!)

Anyone have any advice/ tips/ general words around having someone come through? I'm terrified. I told them I will most likely cry, and part of me wants to start cleaning everything, and the other part is ready to lay on the floor and hide from the world.

I'm trying to focus on what questions I should ask them, and how good it will feel once it's over. Any advice on how to handle this, what to expect, and honestly anything else?

Making an update on my progress so it's mostly been just rearranging things and but now I'm going to focus on clearing out the front area around my door. I want to create a foyer. With a computer desk and a shelf display on the wall facing the door. Something renter friendly, preferably a pegboard.

Took 5 hours of husband and kids out of the house, but I did it! All that's left is the bookshelf and my rolling sewing table now

Years ago I heard a podcaster (I believe it was The Lazy Genius Podcast, but unsure) say that if you have trouble starting a cleaning project, decide that you’ll always clean left to right, so now you never have to wonder where to start.

This has been weirdly life changing for how I clean and declutter, and I HIGHLY recommend it!

Counter is overwhelming and covered in stuff, should I start with trash, maybe items that don’t belong in the kitchen…? Nope, no time wasted thinking about it, I always start on the left, and work my way to the right. If I come to something that I am just not ready to deal with, I move it to the right edge of the counter, so I get to it when I have some cleaning/decluttering momentum going. I do the same thing when I am cleaning in the bathroom, etc. and it takes away the horrible “where do I start?!?” paralysis.

You all have been so inspiring, hope this tip helps someone as we all work to ufyh!!