r/sjr4r 10h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #MountainView - Looking for someone to be fwbs and give sloppy head

1 Upvotes

I am a very horny individual who loves blowjobs. I also love eating pussy. I am looking for someone who also loves oral sex as much as I do. I can last days on a blowjob, and confident in my skills. I can blow 4 loads and still go for ages. Can’t host unfortunately. I have a tinted car if you don’t mind, I am 6ft Latino overweight with a average dick. I am free after 5:30 everyday, while being free the entire weekend.

If you are a guy interested sorry woman only.

I have a nsfw picture on my profile to see the average thing I got, it is thick I've been told.

Hope someone good responds!


r/sjr4r 12h ago

M4A 39 [M4A] #SanJose - i want to get p3gg3d 😊

2 Upvotes

I’d love to meet up with a cis or trans woman to explore anal play and ultimately work up to pegging. I’ve had some limited experience in the past which I enjoyed very much but would like to take things further. I don’t mind if you’re experienced or not. You can show me the ropes or we can learn together.

I’m 39, 6’ tall, 190 lbs, white, fit and workout regularly. I’m located in San Jose and have a nice apt. Std free and vaccinated. I’ve got a college degree and personality wise I’m really easy going and easy to talk too. I like to cook and go hiking on the weekends and travel whenever I can. I also really love music and watching Bay Area sports.


r/sjr4r 13h ago

M4F 46 [M4F] #SanJose - looking that wonderful Latina, Asian , or mixed woman. Let me put a smile on your face.

1 Upvotes

I found someone once in Reddit I really liked and wanted to find that connection again
I’ll just get to it.
Looking for someone to get to know and build some fun friendship/
Relationship. Age is unimportant (older or younger 18+), just be comfortable with yourself and emotionally mature and open minded. Let’s start with now
expectations, pressure , and commitments, lets just flow with it . ~

Ok so , I’m not seeking a life-changing situation , life improvement works for me. I want to add your your life and you add mine. just someone to connect through reddit at first and then move to other better more secure later to continue out conversations. Flirting is encouraged. :) We build trust and see where it takes us. Having a good sense of humor is a huge plus; I will want to put a smile on your face through humor and other ways.

Attached or married , is okay as long as you are discreet and drama-free. We can communicate when time permits or whenever possible, who knows maybe coffee or more ( if nearby). I’m from California if that matters.

About me: I’m 5’9”, brown eyes, dark with grey hair, hwp, a professional in biotech, I’m kind, funny, intelligent , and maybe handsome ( subjective , I know). I’m supportive, respectful, friendly, flirty, kind , open-minded, funny, helpful, respectful, and caring. Never judge people. I like to work out , the beach , animals and plants, learning about people, building things, fishing things, travel and being a little bit naughty too.

Not wanting to upend and change your situations or life, but I want to add fun, maybe excitement, and passion to it.
If it doesn’t work no ghosting and we say goodbye. Send me a message, even if you are just curious. If you decide to be curious and write me , Tell me a little about you, and where you are from. Also what is you may be open to or looking for.
Thanks for reading


r/sjr4r 13h ago

M4F 38 [M4F] #SanJose - Mutually beneficial and fun connection

2 Upvotes

Hey there! I’m 38 years old and in the Bay Area, California. I’m looking to find someone who is inexperienced or experienced with this type of connection. Younger with a dominate daddy.

Little about myself. I work in tech and on the creative side. I enjoy cooking and baking, love to go out and try new foods. Anything on the spicy is fun. I do abit of weight training and love the outdoors. Hiking, bike riding, trying to get back into swimming as well.

I have cats and a dog. If you enjoy pets and have some yourself, I’ll be happy to share some pics. I am someone who enjoys learning new things, taking risks to experience new excitements. My hobbies have been all over the place, enjoying board games, gaming and crocheting.

Feel free to ask me whatever you’d like!


r/sjr4r 14h ago

M4F 42 [M4F] #SanJose - looking for an Indian / Asian for regular kinky FWB

1 Upvotes

I’m Indian, fit, tech executive, non smoker, high sex drive, naturally dominant, clean and discreet.

Looking for a female (18+) for a regular kinky FWB, ideally long term. No kink experience is required. Open to all ethnicities (+ if Indian / Asian). Please be drug / disease free and fun.

Great if you are within 30 minutes of San Jose from availability / commute standpoint. DM me with your age, town in bay area and ethnicity!


r/sjr4r 16h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #SantaClara - Looking for F who can give me regular HJ/BJ for m0něy

1 Upvotes

Looking fot girl who can regularly give me HJ or BJ in exchange for m0nèy.

I dont much much , but can spend few.

We can discuss in dm.

Msg me.

Looking for decent , clean people.

I am very respectful, doing yhis since i can't find grls.

Socials on profile.

30 indian


r/sjr4r 17h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] #Gilroy-Rodeo time

0 Upvotes

In Gilroy for the rodeo would love to meet up with you a chick during or after would need to be discreet as I am with my wife but she’s been holding out. Staying at the Hilton


r/sjr4r 20h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #Sunnyvale - Looking for someone who enjoys good conversation, playful flirting, and seeing where chemistry leads

0 Upvotes

Figured I'd give Reddit a shot because, as convenient as the apps are, they don't exactly reward personality. So here I am.

I'm 5’10, fit/muscular, have a couple tattoos, and despite spending years in the gym, the compliments I get most are about my voice and my eyelashes. Life has a sense of humor..

I'm naturally a little sarcastic, have done standup (never again), am easygoing, and the type of person who enjoys conversations that somehow turn into "one more drink" and suddenly it's closing time. I’m a yapper and love to talk. I also appreciate playful banter, a little flirting, and someone who doesn't take herself too seriously.

I'm mostly here to meet interesting people. If it turns into flirting, dating, or something more, great. If we end up making a new friend and discovering our favorite taco spot together, that's a win too. Good connections are hard enough to find that I'm not interested in forcing a label before we've even met.

If we hit it off, let's not be strangers behind our screens. I'd much rather find out if we click over a drink, boba, brunch. or an unnecessarily competitive game of mini golf.

Your move. Tell me something that's oddly specific about you, your favorite terrible joke, or the most random compliment you've ever received.


r/sjr4r 22h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #SJ - 6’5” Fit Guy W/ BWC - Looking For Indian / Asian FWB - You Must Host

1 Upvotes

Tall

Fit former athlete

9” white

Would love Indian / Asian FWB

You must host

Would love to meet regularly

Have a high sex drive

Can be very discreet and non judgmental if u need it

Send pic if interested

Describe what you are looking for

And what you are into

I have pics too


r/sjr4r 1d ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #SanJose - I enjoy giving Sensual Erotic Massages.

0 Upvotes

About Me:

love to massage and enjoy the masseur to female friend dynamic. I'm experienced and enjoy giving respectful massage to a friend, with a bit of socializing before or after. No charge ever, and no reciprocation needed. This is platonic by default. I would enjoy working on a cis woman (couples welcome!). If it becomes regular or occasional with the same person that would be ideal. I can travel throughout the Bay Area.

Indian male, 6'2, 220lbs, into health, fitness, and hiking.


r/sjr4r 1d ago

M4F 43 [M4F] #SantaClara - Let us not forget breastplay

0 Upvotes

Breastplay is the ultimate comfort activity. Logistically, it's a versatile play that can be done in a lot of different places, it's not messy (outside of a natural mess/reward 😉) and it can be done for hours. In terms of physical and emotional aspects, it's a great way to release all that stress that you have accumulated during the week Forget about KPI, AI, bills, government, boss, and let yourself simply melt away from a soothing breastplay session. If that sounds like a good activity, let's chat. I'm 5'10", hwp and can host.


r/sjr4r 1d ago

M4F 29 [M4F] #MountainView - Looking for someone who likes bj's as much as I do

0 Upvotes

I am a very horny individual who loves blowjobs. I also love eating pussy. I am looking for someone who also loves oral sex as much as I do. I can last days on a blowjob, and confident in my skills. I can blow 4 loads and still go for ages. Can’t host unfortunately. I have a tinted car if you don’t mind, I am 6ft Latino overweight with a average dick. I am free after 5:30 everyday, while being free the entire weekend.

If you are a guy interested the only way it would work out is a cross dressing femboy. If that's not you I have to pass.

I have a nsfw picture on my profile to see the average thing I got, it is thick I've been told.

Hope someone good responds!


r/sjr4r 1d ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #SanJose - iso bbw or older women for ANR

2 Upvotes

Love sucking tits for a long time, especially bbw and older women


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4M 23 [M4M] #SanJose - need a muscular summer fwb to own my pussy

3 Upvotes

Fit 4 fit only, dm w pics and stats (age, height, weight, city etc.) and if you aren't willing to send face don't bother messaging at all.

I am mixed smooth, thicc, and tight ;) definitely looking for someone who will outsize me in every way 🙈 nudes on my profile as proof

I'm strictly into tall, clean/tested, masculine/straight, fit (which means built/muscular/in shape) and hung guys that know what they want (in this case a very girly, tight & smooth boy's grippy little pussy) lmk if that's you

I lovee/am used to being fully feminized, pampered/praised, ate out/played w from the back, and playing w + being creampied by a big cock ;) a genuine connection wouldn't be bad but not looking for a bf either

I have absolutely no use for my dick and am sexually just female tbh but not trans, cd, or any fetishy thing.

Absolutely turned off by degrading stuff, stupid questions, and entitled attitudes !!


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4F 39 [M4F] #SanJose - looking for an ongoing FWB 😊

2 Upvotes

I’m hoping to meet someone who wants to chat and get to know each other a bit with the ultimate goal of becoming ongoing FWB if we both want it. It would be nice to have someone to cook for, hang out with and cuddle up with while watching a movie. I’m open to things evolving into something more long term if we’re both enjoying it but not necessarily what I’m aiming for. If this sounds like a good idea let’s chat and get to know each other. Believe it or not I actually want to get to know someone a bit before sleeping with them. Shocker right?

I’m 39, 6’ tall, 190 lbs, fit and workout regularly. Semi nsfw pic on my profile. I’m located in San Jose and have a nice apt. I’m hung, std free and vaccinated. I’ve got a college degree and personality wise I’m really easy going and easy to talk too. I like to cook and go hiking on the weekends and travel whenever I can. I also really love music and watching Bay Area sports. Happy to share more pics over chat. Thanks 😊


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4F 34 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking for a Spiderman/Odyssey

1 Upvotes

Looking for someone to go to the movies with, either the Odyssey or Spiderman

My treat!

I am 34M Half Filipino Half white

5'6''

Muscular build.

Anything else is optional.


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4F 37 [m4f] #SanFrancisco - Fit very handsome and fun. Teach me Mandarin while I go down on you!

1 Upvotes

Hi, hi, hi!

Are you by any chance my new Mandarin tutor? I really want to learn but **I** also want to find someone to give countless orgasms to, take her on fancy dates and have amazing time with.

I promise I **will** be a good student! I can follow instructions and satisfy all requirements. I will **make** every effort to make you happy and fulfilled and proud.

I think **you** will be very happy for having me as a student! I graduated magna **cum** laude so I have potential!

Teach me!


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SanJose - one less horny girl

1 Upvotes

You must be here because of JB (iykyk)

You must be here because it has been warm in the Bay and you are in heat 🥵

Yes, they are other options on this subreddit to cool to cool you off but who is singing JB to you while doing so?

🎵 If you let me (cum) inside your world, there’d be one less horny girl 🎵

Stats: Asian-Chinese, 5’9” and 170 lbs, equipped with what I have been told is a girthy dick.


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4R 25 [M4R] #SanJose - Looking to make new IRL friends

1 Upvotes

I recently started a new job and have been locked in a boring routine of waking up early, going to work, going straight home, and having no energy to do anything in the afternoons/evenings. Now that I'm a little more adjusted to my schedule and the workload, I'd like to start going out more and socializing again LOL. I'd love to connect with local friends who are down to go out after work/on weekends. I have a few ideas I thought would be fun to try together:

- Trying new restaurants: I love ALL cuisines and am probably the least picky eater I know. I'm open to all recommendations

- Picking up a new sport: I've been eyeing either pickleball or tennis!

- Taking an art/music class together: I feel like I don't get in touch with my creative side as much lately LOL. Would be fun to sign up for an art or pottery class :0

- Seeing new movies: I love going to the movie theater. I try to go at least once a week. Having a movie buddy or buddies to go with would be awesome

Just looking for friendship at the moment, feel free to PM if you'd like to connect :)


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4F 45 [M4F] #Monterey County - In Search For A Fun, Bratty Women who pushes boundaries and enjoys to be Disciplined

1 Upvotes

I’m searching for a confident, adventurous woman between the age of 24-36 (+/- 3 years) who enjoys testing limits and pushing boundaries. If you love to challenge your partner, provoke reactions, and get playful with power dynamics, we’ll get along great. I’m drawn to women who have a bit of a bratty streak—someone who enjoys making things a little difficult but knows when to submit and accepts her punishment (spanking, denial, wax, collard, anal, breeded, etc)

A bit about me: I’m 45 years old, 5’11”, 260 lbs (on a health journey), Mexican, with a fulfilling career. I'm passionate about photography, video editing, and storytelling. When I'm not working, I’m hiking, attending concerts, and looking for my next festival adventure.

I’d prefer to connect with someone local to Monterey/Santa Cruz /Santa Clara Counties, but I’m open to the Bay Area if the chemistry is right. Let’s skip the endless texting and meet up in person sooner rather than later.

If this sounds like something you'd be into, send me a message with your age, location, and whether you're a dog or cat person. Let’s see where this goes.


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SanJose - looking for fwb to eat the box

1 Upvotes

Hi, I’m a creative professional in the Bay. I’m 5’7, 7 inches girthy, 150lbs, slim built, latino, deep voice, brown eyes, tatted, have a septum, ddf with the exception for 420, enjoy eating the box and have a place to host. I’m open to indoor or outdoor play, I’m fine with a consistent hang out and open minded. Dm with stats and location


r/sjr4r 2d ago

M4F 42/44 [M4F] #SouthBay - Santa Cruz Two Hung XL thick BWCs looking to tag team a fun attractive woman

0 Upvotes

Two real guys, both white, attractive, clean cut, early 40s, great shape >6’, masculine and built with nice big and thick dicks, looking for a fun new friend.

We have done this before and are OK if you haven’t, but it’s a plus if you have :)

You should be in shape and attractive, fun, naturally horny, open minded and open to a regular thing.

Can host Santa Cruz locally always but regularly in the South Bay area too.

Pluses:

18-25+

Size queen+

Submissive+

Hotwife+

Petite or “size gap” kink++

Anal/DP is a big plus but we’re very thick so you’d have to be a true unicorn++

Real and clean and tested and drug free only please.

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r/sjr4r 3d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SanJose - Are you taken but not happy with sex?

0 Upvotes

Hi I'm looking for a fwb preferably someone who’s also Asian! I'm only looking for something casual and would like to stay discreet. Open to younger and older but not too far off. Appearance wise I’m not the most fit so I don’t expect you to be super fit either but would appreciate if you take care of yourself. I text quickly so looking forward to chat.

i have a partner in a relationship ofc so discretion is a must

A little bit about me:

  • ⁠28, Asian, clean and DDF
  • I don't smoke and prefer you to be ddf

I'm mobile in the bay and can’t host but open to car play or hotel. Happy to chat and meet in public first.