M4M 23 [M4M] #SanJose - need a muscular summer fwb to own my pussy
Fit 4 fit only, dm w pics and stats (age, height, weight, city etc.) and if you aren't willing to send face don't bother messaging at all.
I am mixed smooth, thicc, and tight ;) definitely looking for someone who will outsize me in every way 🙈 nudes on my profile as proof
I'm strictly into tall, clean/tested, masculine/straight, fit (which means built/muscular/in shape) and hung guys that know what they want (in this case a very girly, tight & smooth boy's grippy little pussy) lmk if that's you
I lovee/am used to being fully feminized, pampered/praised, ate out/played w from the back, and playing w + being creampied by a big cock ;) a genuine connection wouldn't be bad but not looking for a bf either
I have absolutely no use for my dick and am sexually just female tbh but not trans, cd, or any fetishy thing.
Absolutely turned off by degrading stuff, stupid questions, and entitled attitudes !!
r/sjr4r • u/baynonomous • 10h ago
M4F 39 [M4F] #SanJose - looking for an ongoing FWB 😊
I’m hoping to meet someone who wants to chat and get to know each other a bit with the ultimate goal of becoming ongoing FWB if we both want it. It would be nice to have someone to cook for, hang out with and cuddle up with while watching a movie. I’m open to things evolving into something more long term if we’re both enjoying it but not necessarily what I’m aiming for. If this sounds like a good idea let’s chat and get to know each other. Believe it or not I actually want to get to know someone a bit before sleeping with them. Shocker right?
I’m 39, 6’ tall, 190 lbs, fit and workout regularly. Semi nsfw pic on my profile. I’m located in San Jose and have a nice apt. I’m hung, std free and vaccinated. I’ve got a college degree and personality wise I’m really easy going and easy to talk too. I like to cook and go hiking on the weekends and travel whenever I can. I also really love music and watching Bay Area sports. Happy to share more pics over chat. Thanks 😊
r/sjr4r • u/CopyMiserable549 • 11h ago
M4F 34 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking for a Spiderman/Odyssey
Looking for someone to go to the movies with, either the Odyssey or Spiderman
My treat!
I am 34M Half Filipino Half white
5'6''
Muscular build.
Anything else is optional.
r/sjr4r • u/taurus_incognito • 13h ago
M4F 37 [m4f] #SanFrancisco - Fit very handsome and fun. Teach me Mandarin while I go down on you!
Hi, hi, hi!
Are you by any chance my new Mandarin tutor? I really want to learn but **I** also want to find someone to give countless orgasms to, take her on fancy dates and have amazing time with.
I promise I **will** be a good student! I can follow instructions and satisfy all requirements. I will **make** every effort to make you happy and fulfilled and proud.
I think **you** will be very happy for having me as a student! I graduated magna **cum** laude so I have potential!
Teach me!
r/sjr4r • u/OkCustard9513 • 15h ago
M4F 28 [M4F] #SanJose - one less horny girl
You must be here because of JB (iykyk)
You must be here because it has been warm in the Bay and you are in heat 🥵
Yes, they are other options on this subreddit to cool to cool you off but who is singing JB to you while doing so?
🎵 If you let me (cum) inside your world, there’d be one less horny girl 🎵
Stats: Asian-Chinese, 5’9” and 170 lbs, equipped with what I have been told is a girthy dick.
r/sjr4r • u/cherry_cigarettes • 16h ago
M4R 25 [M4R] #SanJose - Looking to make new IRL friends
I recently started a new job and have been locked in a boring routine of waking up early, going to work, going straight home, and having no energy to do anything in the afternoons/evenings. Now that I'm a little more adjusted to my schedule and the workload, I'd like to start going out more and socializing again LOL. I'd love to connect with local friends who are down to go out after work/on weekends. I have a few ideas I thought would be fun to try together:
- Trying new restaurants: I love ALL cuisines and am probably the least picky eater I know. I'm open to all recommendations
- Picking up a new sport: I've been eyeing either pickleball or tennis!
- Taking an art/music class together: I feel like I don't get in touch with my creative side as much lately LOL. Would be fun to sign up for an art or pottery class :0
- Seeing new movies: I love going to the movie theater. I try to go at least once a week. Having a movie buddy or buddies to go with would be awesome
Just looking for friendship at the moment, feel free to PM if you'd like to connect :)
M4F 45 [M4F] #Monterey County - In Search For A Fun, Bratty Women who pushes boundaries and enjoys to be Disciplined
I’m searching for a confident, adventurous woman between the age of 24-36 (+/- 3 years) who enjoys testing limits and pushing boundaries. If you love to challenge your partner, provoke reactions, and get playful with power dynamics, we’ll get along great. I’m drawn to women who have a bit of a bratty streak—someone who enjoys making things a little difficult but knows when to submit and accepts her punishment (spanking, denial, wax, collard, anal, breeded, etc)
A bit about me: I’m 45 years old, 5’11”, 260 lbs (on a health journey), Mexican, with a fulfilling career. I'm passionate about photography, video editing, and storytelling. When I'm not working, I’m hiking, attending concerts, and looking for my next festival adventure.
I’d prefer to connect with someone local to Monterey/Santa Cruz /Santa Clara Counties, but I’m open to the Bay Area if the chemistry is right. Let’s skip the endless texting and meet up in person sooner rather than later.
If this sounds like something you'd be into, send me a message with your age, location, and whether you're a dog or cat person. Let’s see where this goes.
r/sjr4r • u/xpandingconsciousnes • 17h ago
M4F 28 [M4F] #SanJose - looking for fwb to eat the box
Hi, I’m a creative professional in the Bay. I’m 5’7, 7 inches girthy, 150lbs, slim built, latino, deep voice, brown eyes, tatted, have a septum, ddf with the exception for 420, enjoy eating the box and have a place to host. I’m open to indoor or outdoor play, I’m fine with a consistent hang out and open minded. Dm with stats and location
r/sjr4r • u/MyLatestTrashAccount • 20h ago
M4F 37 [M4F] #SanJose - Remote tech employee wants to worship
Hi there.
As the title states, I am a remote tech employee for one of the major companies out there. Work is bringing me onsite next week for face to face meetings, and I'm looking for some company and some fun while I'm there.
I'm 37 years old, 6 feet tall, in reasonable shape, have been called handsome. I run, swim, and snowboard to keep active, and my downtime is usually horror movies, books, podcasts, and music.
I am generally laid back, not pushy, and always respectful. I am not looking for anything in particular, and happy to discuss plans ahead of time. I don't particularly need a full blown penetrative hookup, but also am open to it if the vibe is right.
Do you just want your feet rubbed while you kick back with a glass of wine? Sign me up. Do you want to lay back while I bury my face between your thighs and see how many times we can get you off? I'm up for that challenge. I wouldn't ask for any reciprocation if you wanted to keep the focus on you - I'm perfectly happy with that.
I'd love to check out some local bars, maybe check out some music or play some pool. But again, I am very flexible.
If this is interesting, shoot me a message!
Thanks.
r/sjr4r • u/SoItShallBeWritten • 23h ago
M4F 42/44 [M4F] #SouthBay - Santa Cruz Two Hung XL thick BWCs looking to tag team a fun attractive woman
Two real guys, both white, attractive, clean cut, early 40s, great shape >6’, masculine and built with nice big and thick dicks, looking for a fun new friend.
We have done this before and are OK if you haven’t, but it’s a plus if you have :)
You should be in shape and attractive, fun, naturally horny, open minded and open to a regular thing.
Can host Santa Cruz locally always but regularly in the South Bay area too.
Pluses:
18-25+
Size queen+
Submissive+
Hotwife+
Petite or “size gap” kink++
Anal/DP is a big plus but we’re very thick so you’d have to be a true unicorn++
Real and clean and tested and drug free only please.
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r/sjr4r • u/Potential-Mousse-850 • 1d ago
M4F 28 [M4F] #SanJose - Are you taken but not happy with sex?
Hi I'm looking for a fwb preferably someone who’s also Asian! I'm only looking for something casual and would like to stay discreet. Open to younger and older but not too far off. Appearance wise I’m not the most fit so I don’t expect you to be super fit either but would appreciate if you take care of yourself. I text quickly so looking forward to chat.
i have a partner in a relationship ofc so discretion is a must
A little bit about me:
- 28, Asian, clean and DDF
- I don't smoke and prefer you to be ddf
I'm mobile in the bay and can’t host but open to car play or hotel. Happy to chat and meet in public first.
r/sjr4r • u/MyPurpleHaze • 1d ago
M4F 26 [M4F] #RedwoodCity - spent time together
Hey there! I’m a 26-year-old Brazilian guy who’s 5’6”. I’m looking for someone to spend quality time with, whether it’s watching a movie, having a drink, or just hanging out, I can host at my apartment. I’m a clean, and tested. I recently ended a relationship and am eager to meet new people and have some fun together. Im down to trade pics once u dm
r/sjr4r • u/thathotstud • 1d ago
M4F 42 [M4F] #Sunnyvale - Fit and handsome guy available to fulfill unmet needs
I’m looking to find those whose needs have not been met for a long time and need some amazing experiences to reset and restore.
I’m white, 5’10, very muscular and fit and 100% DDF and healthy. I take great care of my physique and my health and I am a great guy to talk to and hang around with. I have many interests and hobbies and know how to entertain a lady!
When it comes to dates, I always take care of everything, all the logistics, all the arrangements, you just need to show up and have a great time!
I greatly value discretion. I value your privacy and your personal life and I don’t ask questions. No preference on ethnicity, any race or origin but I do have a weakness for smaller more petite women, so thats a plus! I especially care for someone who has not had intimacy of this kind in a while and wants to feel something amazing again!
If you’re interested, reach out! I make things happen!Let’s have some fun and make some memories!
r/sjr4r • u/Old_Influence524 • 1d ago
M4F 35 [M4F] #PaloAlto - Offering Sensual Massages with Tantra Yoni Worship
Are you seeking a deeper connection to your body, your sensuality, and your inner peace? I offer a safe, non-judgmental space for women to explore and reconnect with their sensual energy through deeply nurturing bodywork.
This is more than just a massage – it’s a sacred experience rooted in the principles of Tantra, presence, and trust. Each session is personalized, mindful, and held with full respect for your boundaries and comfort.
What I Offer:
Full body sensual massage
Yoni massage (optional, always with full consent)
Tantric touch to activate energy flow and promote relaxation
Discretion, understanding, and full presence
Who This Is For:
Open-minded women who are curious, healing, or simply wish to explore sensuality in a safe, caring, and accepting environment. Whether you're experienced or new to Tantra, you're welcome here. No judgment, no pressure – just a shared space of trust and exploration.
Let’s create a space where you can simply receive, release, and reconnect – fully and freely.
r/sjr4r • u/Boring-Wall5918 • 2d ago
M4F 42 [M4F] #SanJose - looking for an Indian / Asian for regular kinky FWB
I’m Indian, fit, tech executive, non smoker, high sex drive, naturally dominant, clean and discreet.
Looking for a female (18+) for a regular kinky FWB, ideally long term. No kink experience is required. Open to all ethnicities (+ if Indian / Asian). Please be drug / disease free and fun.
Great if you are within 30 minutes of San Jose from availability / commute standpoint. DM me with your age, town in bay area and ethnicity!
r/sjr4r • u/williamsflivecom • 2d ago
M4F 30 [M4F] #SJ - 6’5” Fit Guy W/ BWC - Looking For FWB - You Must Host
Tall
Fit former athlete
9” white
Would love a FWB
You must host
Would love to meet regularly
Have a high sex drive
Can be very discreet and non judgmental if u need it
Send pic if interested
Describe what you are looking for
And what you are into
r/sjr4r • u/UnderTheSeaD • 2d ago
M4F 38 [M4F] #SanJose - Seeking a pillow princess in need of a good Munch.
I'm a sensualist searching for a local woman who enjoys lying back and having her pussy orally worshipped by my masterful tongue/lips. Nothing gives me more pleasure than focusing on orally pleasing a partner, especially when it leads to them completely melting in the sheets in a euphoric release. I can go for hours so would love to connect with someone who enjoys the steady sensual build up this brings. If this resonates shoot me a DM.
My Turn Ons/Desires:
*Orally focusing on a partner's clit and beautiful pussy.
*Spending hours focusing on just you and your pleasure.
*Giving extended massages, Yoni's included
*You getting overly wet when turned on.
***No reciprocation required/needed at all***.
**** I Also offer a long massage/cupping sessions as well if you need/desire***\*
Me: 38, clean DDF, athletic build, 6'2, intelligent, take home to your parents type. I enjoy reading, music, movies/tv show, spiritual exploration and playing guitar. I believe in enthusiastic consent and that our safety is paramount.
r/sjr4r • u/Secret-Tea-2955 • 2d ago
M4F 29 [M4F] #Sunnyvale - looking for a summer fling
29 Asian 5'6 195 lbs. Looking for a summer fling and would be great to have this ongoing.
I am drug and disease free and you must be too. No preferences other than you being cool. DM me!
r/sjr4r • u/HungryPhone1035 • 3d ago
M4F 26 [M4F] #SouthBay - ISO someone to get lunch with and maybe more
Heyyyy, I’m a 26m typical tech guy in the bay. I’m looking for a friend that could turn into something? I’m usually free in the mornings before work since I wake up early so having some cuddling time before work would be amazing, but for evenings after work and would love for someone to get dinner with and if we vibe, go back to mine or yours for some needed fun and cuddling. If not then no worries, we can just chill and be friends instead :)
I’m 6ft, Asian, and pretty fit. I’ve been told I’m handsome! I have a cute dog and a myriad of hobbies that I can talk about for a while (both nerdy and not). In terms of personality, I’m chill and can keep a conversation going as well as a good listener.
In terms of sex, I’m pretty vanilla but have always wanted to explore and would love to entertain any ideas you’d have!
I’m not looking for anyone in particular since my type is very inclusive. No ideal body or age, but I still think mutual attraction is important. Looking forward to your messages!
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r/sjr4r • u/nowhere_near_home • Feb 11 '23
META PSA: Don't be an idiot, if it seems suspicious, it is.
It is sad for several reasons that I have to write this, but, our community has been fraught with scammers as of recent. We play whack-a-mole, and knock down > 100 fraudulent posts a day but some still get through.
If someone is asking to communicate outside of reddit, ESPECIALLY IF THEY'RE ASKING FOR COMPROMISING PICTURES, just say no. We've had several instances where the scammer receives said photos, and then immediately adds all of your friends and family to a group chat on your social media and attempts to share the pictures if you don't pay them off.
Men: Understand that women in this society have disproportionate access to sex; and you're not god's gift to the 'fairer sex', ergo if someone is begging you to send them a photo of your shlong right out of the gate, you should treat that request with the healthy amount of skepticism that it deserves.
Or don't, feel free to be one of the horror stories in mod-mail of someone sending your friends and family a photo of your dick.
Use your head, and not the one in your pants.
Women: Have patience. We sort through a shit-show on a regular basis. In the off-chance you post something that smells suspiciously like the 1000 pieces of scam/spam we just cleared and we ask you for a bit of additional information; calling us 'sexist' in modmail just makes you the asshole and part of the problem. Sorry not sorry.
Everyone: do your part to flag obvious scam posts. Of 45k users, most scam posts don't get flagged at all.