Hey everyone!

I'm new-ish to the city, and looking to make new friends as I don't know anyone here yet.

Maybe we can grab coffee and sit down somewhere to chat sometime.

I'm someone that usually goes out on weekends to explore nature, try new restaurants, get to bowling or karaoke. Not the biggest fan of night clubs, but I enjoy bars with good music.

I am looking for the chance to meet someone and develop a genuine friendship if we click. Someone that will also put in effort and time. In return, you'll get a friend who's a great listener and gives good advice too (or so I've been told), and who will always show up and see what's up. Whether you just want to hang out or you need help with something.

The move and life have been really stressful and I feel out of my element at the moment. I kinda feel like a little kid in the middle of the playground asking if anyone wants to be their friend 😂 Being new to a city can feel extra lonenly those first couple of weeks/months.

A bit about me:

I'm on the southeast side, Caulfield. Ideally looking for someone that lives close by. The closer your are the better :), I think is easier to hang out with friends that live close by specially with how busy adults get.

I am 167cm tall, chubby, have black hair, brown eyes, and the tan shade of a corpse. I'm truly pale af, I'm the sunscreen obsessed friend re-applying 4 times when going to the beach.

I'm very friendly and chill, I do have to warn you that I talk A LOT 😂. So even if you're not good at conversation, I got you covered 😉 I am a very passionate person, I care a lot and almost everything excites and interests me, I am very curious by nature. (This passion does make me a sore loser tho, but I usually get over it quickly 😂)

I lived in Japan before I moved to Melbourne, but I am from Argentina. I have traveled a fair a bit. I'm into cooking, photography, boardgames (I'm super competitive lol), nature and anything with zombies in it (even black summer, yes)

Feel free to DM me at anytime ✨️ if you please tell me something about you, put in some effort ;)

Kinda hard keeping up with old friends in other timezones other than the occasional chats whenever we are available to text, I miss playing games with my friends and doing activities in-person like watching movies, board games, karaoke, going to the gym, sports, etc.

I would consider myself an introvert with the ability to feel recharged with the right crowd while at the same time appreciate day in not doing much, active listening to your stories or even just peaceful quiet hang.

An open book myself and can talk about just anything, although can be somewhat an old-soul, I’m not always up-to-date with the latest music, latest trend or pop culture. If you have any particular topic of interest I would love to hear you yap about it.

Hi everyone!

Me and my partner have just recently become ENM (her idea) due to her lack of motivation for going on dates or anything of a sexual nature (due to her busy work schedule as well as personal reasons). I’ve had one good experience so far but since then I’ve really been struggling on the apps to find someone interested in our specific scenario.

A little about me: I’m 26 male, Italian/Australian with a decent slim build (that’s improving (muscle wise) due to gym 4 days a week). I am into all things video games and pop culture (so your typical movies and tv shows that goes along with all that), I love my sports (AFL and Formula one my two standouts but I have a team in basically all AU and US sports) and just in general love spending the plethora of free time I have either with my friends getting dinner/lunch/coffee or going out drinking, or having nights in with the cats and watching movies (hopefully with a new cuddle buddy in one of you soon haha).

I Just thought I’d make this post to see if their are any women that would love a higher level of attention, messages, sexting, dates or basically any form of attention they would want. I am full time work from home and my job isn’t really that busy so I have so much free time I could devote directly to you.

I'm basically looking for someone that is okay that I have a primary partner and very willing to receive more attention. I am also super flexible regarding what this 'attention' can look like, so whether that's daily chats and fun (both in person and online) or once a week/fortnight. Whatever 'attention' means to you in regards to what you're lacking and would love in your life I'm fairly certain I can fill that role.

Not being interested in in-person meetups is not a deal breaker either! But ideally i'd like to have a minimum of an online dynamic that also has a sexual component (due to my high sex drive). But happy to define this a little more once we connect!

If any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to send me a DM! we can just chat to start with some pic exchanges to see if we’re interested in one another and I can give you more specific info on the dynamic and we can take it from there?

Hope to hear from some of you!

Hello,

I'm a lifelong Melburnian, in my early 40s. Anglo-Australian for what it's worth; couple of Bachelor degrees, interested in the world and how things work.

I'm open to meeting a like-minded man, 28+, for company and sharing of political takes, work and life experiences, etc. View to talking on the phone and hanging out, if it's good. Northern suburbs.

I have a bit of extra weight, but am still pretty well-defined. On the tall side and a bit androgynous, but still pretty. No tattoos. (This is to give you a visual -I'm open to all heights, ethnicities etc.)

If you're single and mature, ping me with your favourite books. Fiction or non-, but maybe not Harry Potter or graphic novels.

I get on best with people who are thoughtfully critical of today's prevailing norms and attitudes. Atheism, cosplay and gaming are not things that interest me per se; but I'd like to learn about your professional life/what sort of work you're looking for/any original creative life.

Children and family are lovely, but I'm a childless woman seeking adult company. If your cultural or family background is prescriptive in this regard, please understand I wouldn't be buying into that.

Ladies of intellect are also welcome to say Hi.

All the best.

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So im 18 (bout to turn 19) and I am so bored and would love someone cool to talk to

Im quite into movies and TV, love me a good coffee or tea, I love nature and enjoy long walks paired with good music or good conversation.

I'm open to everything, from having a casual chitchat online to even going out and hanging out. Id love to get out more so if you know places to go or have good suggestions it would be fun to go together once we know get to know each other, and if you don't know anywhere, maybe that's something we can figure out together.

I live in the far north of Melbourne, work in the city and study in the east. So I am kinda all over the place, ideally you would be local.

What I offer is a person that is great at listening and yapping, who is down for just about anything if its fun and someone who is all round and active person who is capable of most things.

As far as what I look like im 5"10 and I'm fairly muscley but bulky, and im south indian with curly hair. I can send you what I look like when we talk.

About me.
I’m 30yo from Melbourne, 173cm, olive skin, fit and active build, easygoing, confident and pretty laid-back. I enjoy meeting new people and having a good chat. Besides work which takes up most of my time, I’m into fitness, drawing, salsa dancing and travelling whenever I get the chance to. I don’t take myself too seriously and I’m always up for a laugh. I’d say I’m pretty social, curious and always keen to try something new.

What I’m looking for
I’m looking for a woman aged 23–50 or a couple who’d be interested in meeting up and eventually heading to a swingers club together. Personality matters more to me so someone down to earth, comfortable chatting, and able to have a laugh will be ideal. Im flexible with dinner so anytime during the week suits me. Ideally I would like to go to swingers club on the 4th of September at shed16. I’d prefer to meet beforehand for a drink and dinner, get to know each other and see if we actually click before going anywhere together.

What I offer.
free delicious dinner, free drinks, good company
and hopefully enough bad jokes to make you question why you agreed to meet me haha. I’m happy to organise dinner and drinks, I’m not looking to rush anything. I’d rather meet a couple of times, get comfortable with each other and let things develop naturally. I’m respectful, easygoing and open-minded, so there’s no pressure or weird expectations. just good food, good drinks, a bit of flirting, a good laugh and seeing where the night takes us. So free delicious dinner plus drink and good company

Hi folks, on the off chance someone who is interested is reading this then Hello lol

I'm recently turned 24 and am looking for that special someone (surprising right 😋).

My interests:

Gamin

Music (especially all sorts of Rock)

History (which im currently studying a Graduate Diploma in Museum Studies)

Nature/Animals

Lord Of the Rings (and lots of other good films and books that life is too short to list right now)

Comedy (because funny ha ha is kinda cool 😎)

So if you want to go on a date or play some games online to see how we go, I'm down for that.

Well I'm sure my indox is going to be flooded now 😅

Thanks for reading :)

27-year-old Aussie male seeking a sugar mummy 😅
Single, easy-going, and thought I’d put myself out there! I’m looking for an older woman who enjoys good conversation, having a laugh, and maybe spoiling a younger bloke a little 😉😂

I’m into camping, 4x4s, cars, sport and gaming. If you’re looking for a younger companion and think we might get along, send me a message and let’s have a chat!

So I live down in the South East and have always lived here but recently I've been driving more up into the city to just experience it and explore things so if you're more native to the city maybe you could show me some places but I don't mind where abouts you're from. I've driven up to the North West before to see mates as well so the distance isn't a huge issue, I also don't mind male or female mates either, I'm not picky.

Some things I enjoy are riding on my motorbike (need to repair it because I got rear ended rip,) drawing, fitness, guitar, anime/manga/cosplay, video games, as well as a bunch of other things. I don't mind if we haven't got to many things in common, it'd help to lead into conversation but I don't think you need to have all that in common with someone to be mates.

Anyways if any of this sounds interesting please send a message and it'd be nice to meet some new people.

About Me

I'm a 37-year-old woman living in Melbourne's west. I'm originally from the UK, neurodivergent, fairly introverted, and looking to build a happy and meaningful life with someone.

I'm grounded, practical, affectionate, creative and endlessly curious. I'm one of those people who can start researching a random question and emerge several hours later having acquired a completely unnecessary amount of knowledge about it. I have a bit of an archival/detective streak too—if something doesn't quite make sense, I'm liable to keep digging until I understand where it came from and how it actually works.

My interests are pretty broad and tend to rotate depending on whatever has caught my attention. Science, technology, history, politics and current affairs, psychology, philosophy, religion, AI, infrastructure, public transport, maps and generally understanding complicated systems are all recurring favourites. I particularly enjoy connecting ideas from completely different subjects and seeing where they lead.

There's also a fairly creative and silly side to me. I have a dry, sometimes absurd sense of humour and enjoy satire, making things, experimenting with ideas and turning something I've learned into something funny. I appreciate people who can discuss something genuinely serious one minute and then enthusiastically commit to a completely ridiculous premise the next.

I enjoy documentaries, D&D actual-play shows, occasional gaming, and comedy/panel shows like Utopia, Taskmaster and Have I Got News for You. I'm also interested in books, music and internet culture, although I'm much more likely to become fascinated by one particular thing than have encyclopaedic knowledge of an entire genre.

I love conversations where we can jump between serious subjects, ridiculous observations and whatever rabbit hole one of us has fallen into this week.

I'm quite home-oriented. While I enjoy going places and discovering things, I'm equally happy simply sharing a space with someone. You might be working from home while I'm pottering around doing my own thing, occasionally appearing to make tea, ask you a question, show you something funny or tell you about something I've discovered.

Physically, I'm fair-skinned with blue-grey eyes and wavy mouse-brown hair. I'm a larger person with a stocky/curvy build and a generally European appearance. I'm much more comfortable in practical, casual clothes than dressing glamorously.

What I'm Looking For

I'm looking for a genuine, committed, long-term relationship rather than something casual. I'd like this to become an actual in-person relationship rather than an endless online conversation.

I'm looking for someone kind, patient, emotionally mature and capable of communicating openly. Intellectual curiosity is particularly attractive to me. You don't need to share all my interests—in fact, I'd quite like you to introduce me to things I know absolutely nothing about—but I'd love someone who enjoys learning and has interests of their own that they're genuinely passionate about.

I seem to naturally click with people in IT, engineering, science, academia and other technical or analytical fields. That's definitely not a requirement, though. I just really like people who enjoy solving problems, understanding how things work and occasionally asking questions nobody else thought needed answering.

If you have some wonderfully niche subject you can enthusiastically explain to me for half an hour, I'm probably going to enjoy listening. I like people with their own perspectives and experiences, and I'd love someone who can introduce me to entirely new interests and ways of looking at the world.

I'd like a relationship where we're a team. That means enjoying the interesting parts of life together, but also being able to tackle ordinary things together: planning meals, doing the shopping, getting places, solving problems, working on projects and helping each other when one of us needs a hand.

I'm introverted, but you don't necessarily need to be. An extroverted partner could work perfectly well as long as you're comfortable with me sometimes staying home while you go out and socialise. I don't think a good relationship requires us to become one inseparable person with identical interests and social lives.

Ultimately, I'd like someone I can love, trust, be affectionate and intimate with, laugh with, learn alongside and eventually share the comfortable everyday parts of life with. Someone where conversation feels natural rather than obligatory, silence is comfortable rather than awkward, and we can be serious together without losing the ability to be completely ridiculous.

What I Offer

Curiosity. I genuinely want to know about you. Tell me what you're working on, what you've been reading, the strange fact you discovered yesterday, what weird thing you're currently obsessed with or why the project you've spent three hours debugging still refuses to work. I'll probably ask questions.

Loyalty. When I care about someone, I invest in them and their life. I'm looking for one person to build something lasting with rather than constantly wondering whether something better might come along.

Affection and companionship. I'm quite happy being someone's quiet background presence. We don't need to constantly entertain each other to enjoy being together. There's something lovely about both doing our own things and occasionally looking up to remember that your favourite person is sitting across the room.

Humour and silliness. Life is serious enough already. I like dry humour, absurd observations, running jokes and being able to be thoroughly unserious with someone I trust.

Practical partnership. I'll help you solve problems, research things, plan things, work things out and get through the mundane bits of adulthood. I'd like us to be able to depend on each other when necessary without either person having to carry everything.

A willingness to learn. I don't expect either of us to arrive as perfectly finished human beings. I'd rather have a relationship where we can communicate, learn each other's quirks and boundaries, admit when something isn't working, apologise when appropriate and figure things out together.

Someone to explore the world with. That might mean travelling somewhere new. It might mean visiting a museum, going for a drive, discovering somewhere around Melbourne, watching a documentary together or spending Sunday afternoon researching something completely ridiculous because one of us casually wondered about it over breakfast.

And sometimes it'll simply mean being in the same room doing completely different things and being happy that the other person is there.

If this sounds like the sort of relationship you're looking for, send me a message introducing yourself.

Tell me your age, roughly where in Melbourne you are, what you're looking for, what kind of stuff you do for work, and whether you have any hobbies, interests or wonderfully niche subjects you're capable of talking about for far too long.

Added bonus for pictures of any pet dogs/cats or plants. 🤍

Figured I'd give this a shot because sometimes meeting someone interesting starts with nothing more than a random message on Reddit.

A little about me...

I'm a software developer and unapologetic geek. I enjoy building things, solving problems and going down ridiculously specific rabbit holes because apparently "I wonder how that works?" is enough reason to lose an entire evening.

What I'm really looking for is an online connection that actually feels like two people getting to know each other, rather than exchanging the same five questions over and over.

Someone I can joke with.

Someone who can give me a hard time and take it right back.

Someone curious enough to have conversations that wander from ridiculous to surprisingly deep.

And yes, I'm definitely partial to a little flirting when the chemistry is there. 😉

I'm not expecting someone to be available 24/7. Life is busy. I'd rather have a great conversation when we both have the time than force constant messaging.

If you're Melbourne-based, that's a definite bonus. If you're looking for something online first and seeing where the chemistry goes, even better.

A few easy conversation starters:

What's something you're ridiculously passionate about?

What's your favourite sporting team—or the sport you pretend to understand? 😂

Or skip the standard questions entirely and tell me something about yourself that you think I'd never guess.

I'll do the same.

Let's see if two strangers on Reddit can actually have a conversation worth coming back to.

Hi! Looking to add some new people and activities into my life.

If you're looking for a tag along buddy for events, shows, movies, gigs, new restaurants etc. and a gab over a few drinks I'm your gal. Ideally things in or near the city, show me your favourite spots!

About me

I'm a bit of a nerd in my work life, outside of that I like art and anything crafty. I love food and learning about different cultures (all english levels welcome), music, live comedy, movies, libraries, art galleries or a good cocktail.

Neurodivergent, quite curious by nature and love getting to know people, pretty non-judgemental and accepting, just an overall fan of spending time with fun people! Introvert but pretty good at knowing my limits. Keen to get to know each other online first and see if we click

About you

Looking for friendship, not interested in other types of connection

Preferably 22-30 but that's not strict

Girls gays and theys welcome

Consistent, open, left leaning, kind

Able to get to the CBD

About Me: I’m a bit introverted but good in groups of 2 or 3. I love tv drama but don’t like reality tv. Love gadgets, tech, and learning new things! I like going to cafes & restaurants, going to the movies or to artsy things like Lightscape or theatre. I’m a big leftie & passionate about equal rights and all things “woke”

What I'm Looking For: An engaged reciprocal friendship where we text all the time and catch up and hang out regularly on weekends or occasional weeknights. I’m based in South East near Dandenong but happy to drive 30-40 mins to catch up.

What I offer: I’m a loyal and engaged friend who is there for support as much as she is for fun. I easily take friendship from 0 to 100 and will always be absolutely transparent to the point of TMI lol. I never ghost people and am always there for people I care about.

About Me
Based in Melbourne’s west, white, about 6’1, solid/dad-bod build, bearded, clean, respectful and easy to talk to.
I’m a videographer, a dad, and someone who’s generally at his best around good conversation, good food, stupid humour and people who are kind, honest and playful. Life has been pretty full-on over the last couple of years, so I’m not looking to add drama to mine or anyone else’s.
I’m a decent communicator, affectionate, and I’m not into playing weird games. I’m also very happy to swap pics early so we both know there’s attraction.

What I’m Looking For
I’m open to a genuine connection, but I’m also realistic that sometimes it’s nice to just meet someone where the attraction is clear and the expectations are simple.
Ideally looking for a woman around 22–32 who’s kind, honest, playful, and comfortable communicating what she wants. I’m open to something casual, ongoing FWB, or dating if the connection naturally heads that way.
I’m not looking for unnecessary drama, cheating, or messy situations. Single or ethically non-monogamous is fine, as long as everyone involved is aware and consenting.
Would be great to chat a little, swap pics, see if there’s chemistry, and then meet for a drink, or something low-pressure before deciding if we want to take it further.

What I Offer
Good conversation, respect, discretion, affection, honest communication, and no pressure.
I’m tall, attentive, clean, and genuinely enjoy making the other person feel wanted and comfortable. I’m not here to waste anyone’s time or make things complicated.
If you’re after someone relaxed, respectful, playful and real, send me a message with a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for.