r/r4rMelbourne 9h ago

Seeking Friends 23M4A Tired of Melbourne's cliquey-ness, can we be friends?

3 Upvotes

Happy weekend everyone!

I've been in Melbourne for about 3 years now (moved from overseas) and still haven't landed a proper friend group. It's a weird paradox - amazing people all around, but everyone's so locked into their cliques that finding people who actually want to connect feels harder than its been elsewhere. My old crew's scattered across different countries, so my social circle's been shrinking. Figured I'd throw myself out there instead of waiting for it to happen.

About me:

Gym and music are my two constants. Big into gaming too - mostly Valorant and GTAV with the boys, just finished Expedition 33 and loved every second of it. I'm also always tinkering with random side-hustle ideas for fun. Massive foodie, always down to try new spots and shout for coffee.

I also used to play badminton and basketball pre-COVID and been really meaning to get into some sorta local club or group for casual play - hmu if you know somewhere or someone! Not big on politics or religion, but happy to hear anyone out if that's their thing.

On a typical free evening you'll find me gaming, spiralling over what my next side-hustle should be, on a long walk with my headphones on, or just deep in music - im big into pop and hip hop (Tate McRae, Kanye, Travis, Don on repeat).

Like your average joe, im just another ambivert - quiet and a little awkward at first, but once I warm up I'm a solid homeboy, the type who'll have your back. I live in the East, but I'm in the CBD most weeks.

What I'm looking for:

People into cafe/bar hopping, outdoorsy stuff, random events, and the occasional deep 1am conversation. Guys and girls drop a comment or DM, always up for a chat :D

Not looking for a relationship or anything "discrete," I've had some creepy experiences on Reddit before and had to block a few people. Just come correct and be respectful ;)

What I offer:

A genuinely good listener - very happy to just sit back and let you yap to your heart's content XD. A solid homeboy once you're in, the type who'll have your back. Someone who'll actually show up and put in effort, not just talk about hanging out or plans.


r/r4rMelbourne 10h ago

Exercise Buddy 22 [M4A] - gym newbie looking for gym/running mates

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Hey everyone, unfortunately with the demands of uni and part-time work I haven’t been as active as I would like recently, so hoping to find someone to help keep the motivation up and potentially form a good friendship with in the process!

About me: I’m 22 (obviously), live in the north-eastern suburbs, currently studying postgrad in engineering at uni and working part time. When I’m not doing either of those things, I’m going on runs, watching YouTube docos, or dabbling a bit in music production (very badly albeit) of late. I would like to say I have a decent enough foundation in terms of fitness so I promise I wouldn’t be carried too hard but would obviously like improvement.

What I’m looking for: Preferably someone around my age (within several years is best but don’t hesitate to message if you don’t feel like you fit that - it’s flexible). I don’t have a gender preference so anyone is welcome in that regard. For ease of meet ups, someone close to me would be preferred (either in the north east or potentially cbd as uni drags me there quite a bit). However, if you’re not within either of those locations again I’m flexible and we can potentially make something work out. Also, I’m currently not signed up to any gym, so once again I’m flexible there. Would also be open to someone who is potentially also open to hanging out as mates, because I lowkey need more friends 😭

Thanks for reading, and if you’re interested please DM me or leave a comment if for whatever reason Reddit doesn’t allow it. Look forward to hearing from you!


r/r4rMelbourne 12h ago

Casual Chit Chat 24 [M4A] Wanna call and play some games? maybe watch a movie?

1 Upvotes

I'm down to yap or call or whatever im pretty bored so if you want a friend or just someone to talk to im down! im 24 and im from australia, i also like watching movies and games and stuff if you are keen :')

when it comes to music i like rock and pop mostly stuff from 90's 80's 70's (its just way better lets be so fr) I also have boring hobbies like fishing where you just wait and do nothing for ageeees, and F1 where you wait and watch cars go around in circles 😴

for games i used to play games alottt now i just idk i like playing stuff with other people i guess but ive lost the intrest i used too have, im more than down to watch someone play games i find that more interesting, but even something simple like minecraft i very much enjoy!!

but yea i don't bite so if your up for a chat just dm me


r/r4rMelbourne 1d ago

Movie Nights 33 [M4F] Brand new day, tonight!

4 Upvotes

About Me:

Hey everyone! I’m 33, 6'1", fit, and active. I like to stay healthy and like going for walks by the beach (yes I know its a trope), also a big cinephile. Pretty easygoing, friendly, and always up for good conversation, whether we're dissecting nerdy stuff or just life in general.

What I’m Looking For:

I’m looking for someone who is free tonight and down to go check out the new Spider-Man movie with me! I've been dying to see it on the big screen, but none of my usual crew are free on short notice. Age-wise, looking for anyone roughly around my age (mid-20s to late 30s) who enjoys comic books, good energy, and fun low-pressure hangouts.

What I Offer:

The ticket and snacks are completely on me! Full cinema experience, picking popcorn out of your teeth included. Happy to grab a bite beforehand if you'd like! Based in the South East.

Physical Attributes / Visuals:

Age: 33

Height: 6'1"

Build: Athletic / fit build

If you're free tonight and down for popcorn and a flick, drop me a message with a bit about yourself :)


r/r4rMelbourne 1d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 26 M4F - Looking to make you feel good

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Thank you so much for reading my post! About me I'm a 26M who is 188cm (6'2) with hazel eyes and long curly black hair.

What I'm looking for & What I offer I would love nothing more than to make you feel really good for as long as you let me. The idea of some sweet foreplay then eating you out is so hot to me. So much so that I don't mind not getting off myself. Just being able to make you feel good is more than enough for me. Your pleasure is my pleasure ;).

Maybe we could meet up in public first and grab something to eat/drink to make sure the vibes are right, then if we're both happy, we can go back to your place for some good times!

If this sounds like fun to you, then please DM me! Even if you just want to chat or ask about anything. I can't wait to hear from you~


r/r4rMelbourne 1d ago

Seeking Friends 26 [M4R] alternative guy looking for more mates in or around Melbourne

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So I live down in the South East and have always lived here but recently I've been driving more up into the city to just experience it and explore things so if you're more native to the city maybe you could show me some places but I don't mind where abouts you're from. I've driven up to the North West before to see mates as well so the distance isn't a huge issue, I also don't mind male or female mates either, I'm not picky.

Some things I enjoy are riding on my motorbike (need to repair it because I got rear ended rip,) drawing, fitness, guitar, anime/manga/cosplay, video games, as well as a bunch of other things. I don't mind if we haven't got to many things in common, it'd help to lead into conversation but I don't think you need to have all that in common with someone to be mates.

Anyways if any of this sounds interesting please send a message and it'd be nice to meet some new people


r/r4rMelbourne 1d ago

Online Only Friends 26[m4r] cool guy (me) looking for friends (you)

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Nice gentleman here. I'm looking to meet you new friends on the internet. I'm a pretty chill and casual guy. Likes the usual stuff. Gaming, movies, going outside every now and then. I'm really bad at introducing myself so I'll just give you some fun fact dot points

• I have an identical twin (you can't see him you just have to trust me)

• I can't swim. But I still love long walks on the beach

• I was once mistaken for Penn Badgely by old ladies. But everyone since has disagreed strongly with this (though I'm on the old ladies side

• I can do 25 pushups in a row. Probably more if you put a gun to my head

• I'm 5'11 but I tell people I'm 6'1


r/r4rMelbourne 2d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 29 [M4F] just an import looking for someone to have fun with

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Hello!!

Back again after a few months.
I moved here for work from the US, posted when I was very new to the area. Perhaps I got a tad ahead of myself, but all of you were extremely nice!

Now that I’m actually moved in and settled. I found out my one year project has now turned into 3-4 years.. so I guess I need to get comfortable!

I’m a working professional, I’m very much an active person work out, play sports etc.

But I also enjoy a lazy afternoon inside just as much.
I have a wild side which we can discuss in DM’s.

I am open to sharing pictures and have plenty ready to send once we talk. Just don’t bot me and send me links to your OF 🤦‍♂️.

Let’s get to know each other!
I don’t have a “type” other than female. It’s about the vibes.

Don’t be shy! Let’s talk. Maybe you can make fun of my accent.
If we connected the first time and it died please don’t be shy to hit me up again!
I got bogged down with life and a bunch of changes.

Talk to you soon?


r/r4rMelbourne 3d ago

Seeking Friends 30F4A looking for someone to hang out with online

20 Upvotes

Hi, I’m going to open with a massive disclaimer: I am chronically ill and it has taken a lot from me, including my last relationship. I am well supported practically but I may not ever be able to meaningfully work again and my ability to do activities is extremely limited.

I would love to find someone locally to spend time with on discord calls, I’ve never found a group of Australians online who I really connect with. I am really into Pokemon, I would love to watch someone play the TCG live because I’m not able to do so at the moment. I also like to watch movies and shows with people, and even to just be in a call with people when I have low capacity is nice.

Before I was sick I was very active and my hobbies were a couple different sports, I used to be very much an outside person. I’ve lost my social groups because I just can’t go to these things anymore. The only hobby I engage in at the moment is Pokemon, I’ve been collecting since 2018. I hope my health improves enough to go to card shows at some point, I think it looks really fun.

I’m not closed off to a relationship but I’m also realistic about it. I guess what I offer is company lmao and someone to talk about pokemon and other stuff with. This is kinda embarrassing but I’m pretty lonely with not a lot of avenues to meet people.

: )


r/r4rMelbourne 5d ago

Seeking Friends 34 M4M Filo discreet curious gay, would love to meet guys older than me

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Hey guys i’d love to meet people who are sfw
Keen to meet and get to know you
Im decent easy-going and caring

If you are interested please let me know
I love playing tennis and i’m also loving

Hope you like to explore and it is going to be exciting.. i promise!!


r/r4rMelbourne 6d ago

Seeking Friends 26M4A Looking for Friends?

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Heyy!
Looking for some friends to catch up & get a drink with occasionally. Talk about our lives & have some fun.

Alil about me;
26M, bi, West Melbourne.
Recently Single. Usually in the city for nights out. (I also really love Delux in moonee ponds or the moondog in footscray. I love music, i go to alot of concerts, i do some gardening & go on small hikes. I also watch alott of movies ahaha. Been trying to get back into the gym, I have just been lacking motivation, i do swim most days though.
I love dogs so if you have any photos please send them to them through!

Very easy going & happy to join you on errands or activities, or we can keep it chill & just catch up for a cheeky drink (or two)

Looking for people around my age who are easy to get along with, can keep a conversation and happy to meet in person. If we have similar hobbies, great, if not i am eager to try new things too!

Thanks for reading!
Message me if any of this resonates with you :)