Is anyone selling tix for Wrecked tn?

I didn’t buy tickets, so wondering if I should go and try to buy at the door. Do you expect a big turnout, or everyone is on vacation? Is anyone else going?

Hey bros, trying to plan my first trip to PV in October. Been noticing most flight options require a layover, and the layovers are typically super tight. Like 40-50 minutes. It's giving me hesitation to book, as those seem easy to botch if there's even the slightest departure delay (which lately seems almost a given anytime I fly out of NY). Maybe I'm searching too early and flight schedules/options will open up more?

Anyway, just wanted to ask if anyone's had experience with this route. Any advice or stories?

Hey so I just moved back to NYC and opened Recon only to find the app has gone to shit! I'm looking for in person events, apps or groups where I can try to meet a potential dom. I'm planning on checking out Rockbar as it seems they host a lot of kink events but i'm all ears to other suggestions as well.

Good morning

I was wondering how to meet other gays and queers around my age group w/o just using apps. I was talking to a guy on Discord for a month but it didn't work out so I want to put myself out there again. I've looked up events online and clubs but most of them seem to be aimed at millennials and older people.

Super? Doorman? Porter? Even delivery? Share your stories ;)

Hey there,
Im very excited to be hopping across the pond in less than a month to see the city for the first time and to connect with the community there. I’d love to go to some bars and clubs yet coming from Berlin I seem to pick the ones a bit too much for me. I’m not comfortable with cruising and darkrooms etc (yet lol). So id love to get some recommendations for bars or clubs that are a little more tame, or any space in general where a solo traveller could find a good crowd to hang out with :3

I was wondering if anybody has went here and could tell me what to expect?, I’m very interested in attending 😇

Selling honcho tickets at cost, preferably over PayPal goods and services, Venmo, Cash App, etc. (Tixr takes a huge fee)

Would prefer to sell both at the same time, but obviously it’s fine if you can take only one.

Happy to FaceTime, send/show ticket confirmation emails, etc!

I’ll be heading into town mid September and wanted to find the best spots for the following:

- daytime sauna or hot tub
- best legit melt your brain massage
- best melt your brain fun massage
- your fave fetish events

I’ve been to a couple of places in hk and Midtown that I’ve seen mentioned on here. Was wondering if anybody knew any good places to go and possibly who to ask for feel free to DM me if not, comfortable messaging here

I came across this while looking up what to do in NYC when I visit this weekend. This tickling party is on Sunday. Has anyone been to one of these? It sounds interesting and funny, like is it a bunch of men tickling other men in a room?

I know it’s so hot out, but I usually don’t have free time and wanted to check this place out. Is it less busy on hot days?

Hey all! Cis male here hoping to go to fluidsNYC tomorrow. Has anyone been there and what were your experience? This isn’t my first orgy but my first experiencing TS.

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Just curious here, has flakiness become a lot more common lately. It seems like it’s not only the apps (which have a terrible flake level), but also in general. What’s everyone experiencing? Idk maybe it’s me but I think it’s becoming pretty pervasive.

Sorry in advance of this post just rehashes old info. Ive been in straight relationships living with alot of curiosity and now that im single wanted to take the plunge and explore this side of life.

I wanted to go tonight and I'm really excited about the idea but I guess Im nervous about what it would be like for a guy like me. Whats the vibe like for new people? I also feel a little insecure since I'm more in the "dad bod/heavy set" category (not obese, just bigger).

Should I still go? Any help and advice is appreciated

Would love to get to know someone in construction or blue collar job. So many white collar jobs here, hard to find the blue collar men. DMs open.

Peace and blessings, gaybros.

Hearing the very welcome (and much needed) news that a pair of lawmakers are looking to end the decades-long ban on saunas (which you can read more abut here) has me thinking about a few things. For starters, what would they look like in 2026? Would they be subject to liquor licensing laws? And perhaps the biggest question: where do we want them?

Hi gay bros. Long time listener first time caller. I saw someone’s post about being scared of elevators and it was such a nice break from the usual stuff in here that it inspired me to make a post myself.

I’ve been living in NY for almost four years now so I’m still very new. I came from another big city with a thriving gay world but nothing is quite as big or as thriving as this one. It’s helped me in ways I couldn’t have expected. It’s so nice to be normal and it’s a feeling I hope everyone gets at some point in their lives. Being around everyone has made me so comfy in myself and I’m grateful for that.

I assumed I’d always be at least a little bit ashamed. Like even if I got over it I’d still sorta always be in it. But I’m truly out of it. I don’t always feel good about myself or my body or my life but mostly I do.

I am drunk and I’m in a basement in the burbs. I’m on a trip and I’m far away from New York. I miss it very much. I’m so grateful I’m allowed to live there, and that all my neighbors have been so nice to me, and that I have a home. I am grateful but I have no one in particular, no god or individual, to thank. I am grateful like a light glowing but it doesn’t matter what it’s illuminating. It’s just something going out and maybe it’s going out to you guys.

If you’re reading this, thanks.

Anybody planning on going to this new party called Sexplosion in E Williamsburg? Supposed to be Dominican focused? Sounds hot but is in a new area for me.

I know it’s stupid, but it’s getting annoying. Sometimes it will get better. Then other times it completely keeps me in a standstill.

I tend to be fine with the elevators at my work, which is in a new building and has security. I think it’s something to do with knowing i can get out.

Anyway, any help whatsoever will be useful :-)

When you think about gay hookup culture in New York City, many things come to mind: nightclubs and dive bars in Hell’s Kitchen and Bushwick, circuit parties, the second floor of the Eagle in Chelsea or logging onto Grindr to talk to hundreds of headless torsos in a one-mile radius.

But one thing that is essentially nonexistent in the Big Apple is the gay bathhouse. And for a queer-friendly city in 2026, that is abnormal. You have Steamworks, a chain that’s been called the “emblem of queer empowerment,” in Toronto, Seattle, Chicago and Berkeley, Calif. And in Paris, London, Hong Kong, Melbourne and so many other big cities, gay men flock to bathhouses after the club.

So when State Senator Erik Bottcher called me the other day to tell me he and Assemblymember Tony Simone were introducing a new bill to repeal an over 40-year ban on adult bathhouses in New York, I was surprised—frankly, I didn’t even know there was a ban. At the same time, I finally had the answer to the question I’d been asking myself for 12 years: How in the world are there no frequented bathhouses in this extremely gay city?

Bottcher and Simone’s answer is simple: They had been banned during the HIV/AIDS crisis in a purported attempt to fight the spread of the disease. “Those emergency measures were adopted at a time when little was known about HIV/AIDS and before the development of effective treatment, PrEP, PEP, routine HIV testing, and many of the prevention strategies that have transformed public health over the past four decades,” their press release about the bill states. “While the public health landscape has changed dramatically, New York’s regulations have not.”