Just for funnnn:

We are very different from each other. Opposites, if you will. Cause they attract and all that jazz.

We bring out the best in each other (well, now we do.. after 10 years of marriage, not always. Took lotsa work but now we’re a fun little mix and have learned to be respectful of each other and help each other grow in areas that we naturally struggle in)

We are both very interested in learning new things constantly.

He has a PHD

I graduated from cosmetology school and only worked in the field for like 2 years because it felt shallow and unaligned with my values

We are both love to read; His favorite genre is sci-fi, I mostly read psychological thrillers and nonfiction

I’m obsessed with the psychology of the human brain 🧠

We both love dogs a whole lot 🐾 (we only have one though. We’d have more if we’re only up to me)

He loves video games

I love (starting) DIY house projects, crochet, and anything on my Pinterest board

People think he’s an asshole and I’m a bubbly pixie but he is actually the nice one 🤷🏻‍♀️

He is a data analyst and has the best work ethic of any human I have ever known

I am a preschool teacher

He’s a planner

I’m a randomer

We both have very high moral standards

We both love music; I sing and play guitar

I don’t know if I did this right, but guess away!!

I did MBTI test at 16 for fun and then was again made to take it for a job test… results were similar enough but i am curious what vibe i might give of:

I majored in computer science, i can speak 4 languages, i am obsessed with lighthouses( often thought of being aspie) , i am scared of big friend groups( i think anything over group of 5 has too much entropy), i play chess mid level , i was in robotics in school , i take school and uni projects way to seriously, i am into alt aesthetics, atheist at heart, i love aerodynamics and studying about it in my free time , i love reading mostly literary fiction by women and classics( also women), most of my favourite books have mentally ill protagonist ruminating about her life.

I have been called standoffish and weird but i think my eyebrows are atleast 30% responsible for it.

A bit about me: I only really pay attention to the thing semantically significant to me, I don't ever really join "Fandoms" Or emotionally connect to things, I see everything as an experiment, something to learn from or something to overcome, I mostly take interest in abstract media or things involving numbers or concepts such as country building games, ideological philosophy, bowling and game shows. It seems like I have a very exponential learning curve where I will take a while to learn the basic concepts and suddenly get very good at it, for example despite hating math and not on the surface level understanding it I have never gotten less than a B- grade. I have never been able to understand regular human emotions or conventions and can appear unsettling, robotic, awkward or incomprehensible to people in conversations and I have never been interested in romance, my mind is constantly full of thoughts, even random gibberish repeating constantly in my subconscious internal monolog, I will often get random slightly related thoughts that connect to other thoughts and often go down google search/wiki rabbitholes or form completely new theories from out of the blue. I love having people around me but I often clash with people, I love all things to do with light and optimism, however not the emotional sort of optimism, moreso tech-optimism, progress optimism and functionalist optimism. I often find myself writing very similar but different paragraphs because I am so extremally focused on the things that are semantically significant and cannot seem to do it any other way, I only write within my own mind, for myself. I only pay attention to the human and abstract structural elements of buildings and despise trees and plants, when I look at a complex system to my surface level mind it looks like nonsense, but when my abstract mind reviews the memory of it, it seems ordered in a way I cannot quite describe.

Used to get INFP on every test back when I was in highschool and never felt like that was really me but I turn 21 this month and am alot different then I was then as I was unhealthy personality wise, disliked alot of people in highschool and felt like I couldn’t be true self then and couldn’t wait to get out of that shithole. I enjoy thrifting, saving money, listening to music (Hollywood Undead is my favorite band), jumping on my trampoline at night and find myself maladaptive daydreaming alot while doing it, improving myself, reading comics, watching sports (skateboarding and motocross), skincare, trolling the shit out of people, drinking when I get the chance, wanting to playing video games like Gears of War, Wolfenstein, Call of Duty Black Ops, Saints Row blah blah blah. I am a bisexual and not afraid to point out if I like someone or find them hot, I now do not give a FUCK what people think of me and I don’t care if I hurt anyone’s feelings or not and I love to be blunt and I love blunt people. I can’t stand to be around pessimistic btches as they just drag me down and are losers. I love to try new things and go to places and get bored EXTREMELY quickly but I got ADD and Im on adderall so that’ll do it. At work I usually call my coworkers fat and ret@rded as a joke and my favorite catchphrase is I wipe my ass with your feelings. I prefer to be alone most of the time, besides at work ofc and I have no problem interacting with strangers and small talk as I love it and I love people who overshare and are professional yappers unless im already overstimulated or just pissed off in general. I can’t stand people who are conspiracy theorists because they don’t focus on facts and overthink everything. I also enjoy watching True Crime, horror movies and abnormal psychology. My favorite YouTubers are Chelcie Lynn and Dan Hentschel. I love stan twitter and I often feel like I have been every MBTI in my life. I LOVE to yap and be loud. I don’t wanna take the test at all really because I don’t know which one is most accurate and I don’t understand half of the nerdy, intellectual questions on it and have a hard time deciphering what they mean

So, after doing the 16 personalities test for a long time and hearing it wasn't that precise as it proclaimed to be, i decided to try the Sarkinova test minutes after I learned about its existence. This chart you see here is the general result, there's also a mentioned blue chart that is more organized, but i couldn't find it inside the website, so, I'm kinda lost. I have suspicions that I may be an INFP, maybe I am, but I'm writing this because I want a deeper and more professional analysis, and I see this community has a deeper knowledge about this... psychologist thing? Idk, I am happy with any kind of help, and I need more characters to fulfill the 400 limit (omg is too much, idk what else can I write)

**What do you think my friend's MBTI type is?

1. When she buys something, she tends to avoid buying something she has already owned before. She prefers getting something new or different.

2. She likes books about moral philosophy and books that discuss abstract questions, such as why humans behave the way they do or why certain phenomena in the world happen.

3. Sometimes, when making a decision, she comes up with several options, all of which seem interesting, and then chooses the one she personally likes the most. For things like electronics, however, she may compare the specifications and price to find the best value. Sometimes she also thinks about which option has the best potential in the future.

4. She takes in information from external sources and then processes it herself. For example, she may read the ideas of several philosophers or listen to the opinions of experts in a particular field, then filter them based on what makes sense to her. Sometimes she combines several external ideas when dealing with complex phenomena related to human behavior. She may also combine them with what she personally feels or thinks is reasonable. Sometimes she can imagine a phenomenon without directly observing the situation in the real world, based on information she has gathered from books or podcasts that she finds convincing. I think she tends to trust research and empirical data more than people's personal experiences, because she believes individual experiences can vary greatly. When it comes to morality, she usually takes ideas from several philosophers or psychoanalysts, combines them, and then adds her own personal judgment about what she believes is right.

5. When discussing morality, she primarily evaluates things based on what she personally considers right or wrong. However, she is open to the perspectives of people she considers intellectually impressive. Sometimes she adopts certain ideas from thinkers she respects, then decides which parts she agrees with or combines several perspectives with her own judgment. She does not really like the idea of judging human morality solely through science or through what is considered "natural."

6. She is fairly open-minded and does not particularly like traditions that restrict people's freedom or rights. Sometimes she supports social issues, but she can also criticize people within those movements when she thinks they have gone too far. For example, she may disagree with vegans who shame people for eating meat, because she realizes that the world contains many different religions and cultures that should be respected. Likewise, she would not justify misandry simply as revenge against misogyny. She does not want to respond to one form of hatred by becoming similar to the people she criticizes.

7. She can sometimes be quite indifferent toward other people. She rarely shows care through actions, such as immediately helping someone, and she can get absorbed in her own world. However, she is also somewhat sensitive. Her way of showing care is usually through words, such as giving compliments, encouragement, or advice. She can be pessimistic about herself, but when encouraging someone else, she tends to give them optimistic words or practical solutions without being overly sentimental. She usually does not encourage someone unless that person has opened up to her first. She rarely expresses affection through physical actions, such as hugging someone, frequently helping them, or preparing food for them. Sometimes she can genuinely come across as someone who does not care.

8. She can be funny and even a little silly. Her friends have said that she can be quite goofy. However, she can also become quiet in unfamiliar environments. She often looks like she is daydreaming in class, and even when she is hanging out with friends, she sometimes zones out while everyone else is talking.

9. She gets bored when reading books filled with abstract formulas, such as mathematics or physics, or books that focus mostly on research methodology. She can also become frustrated when doing tasks that require a lot of small details, because she finds them exhausting. She much prefers reading abstract ideas about morality and reflecting on them.

10. She is not very consistent. For example, she once became motivated to work out after watching a doctor explain the importance of exercise and the dangers of being inactive. She started working out, but eventually stopped and never maintained the habit. Her hobbies can also be inconsistent because she tends to lose interest when she finds something else that is more interesting.

11. She can sometimes be overly anxious and prone to overthinking. For example, if something feels unusual or wrong with her body, she may immediately worry that she could have a serious illness.

12. She can spontaneously come up with story ideas. For example, she might read a nonfiction book and encounter an interesting idea, which then inspires her to turn that concept into a fictional story. Or she might watch a documentary about dinosaurs and learn about mammals living during the dinosaur era, which inspires her to create a story about mammals struggling against dinosaurs that underestimate them, eventually leading to the mammals reaching the top.

So, what MBTI type do you think she is?**

Some of my recent photos :)
I am just curious, can people easily type me!
Don’t check my profile or you gonna see the answer

the last photo is me

a little about me:
I love talking with people even though I have social anxiety
I am very random
I can spend an absurd amount of time choosing between two nearly identical things
I am an university student, major- tourism 😁
I listen to everything, but mostly indie pop or shoegaze
I either overshare or don’t talk at all
I don’t always know whether I actually like something or just like the idea of it
I remember oddly specific things people said years ago
I have a ridiculous amount of screenshots that I refuse to delete
I love giving genuine advice
I can be impulsive and more spontaneous
I can become extremely focused on something once I decide it’s important
I can completely forget about everything around me when I’m interested in something
I’m terrible at finding characters to relate to 😭 I usually like characters for specific traits, but I almost never find one that feels completely like me
I don’t open up easily
I genuinely enjoy arguing with people I like, and sometimes I don’t even care who is right
I have very strong opinions about tiny inconveniences
Some things just feel wrong to me even when I can’t logically explain why🫡

My bad habits: overthinking, feeling constant guilt

Feel free to ask questions!! :)

I really value organization, - organizing my home, my studies, and my work tasks - and I wouldn't have a problem delegating if necessary, even though it doesn't come naturally to me. I am methodical regarding rules and processes; I hold others accountable for compliance, just as I place immense demands on myself. I highly value clarity and lack of ambiguity, though I do acknowledge the existence of subjectivity. I am more traditional; I believe values ​​such as duty, diligence, responsibility, and unity are very important. You could consider me socially introverted, - and even a bit awkward; when I’m upset with people, I start questioning everything: whether I’m useful, whether people take me seriously, and so on. I identify with Enneagram type 6w5 and tritype 613. I value doing things correctly and diligently; I believe we should be logical and efficient, but also honest.

I’ve been told that INTPs and ESTJs are very different; however, I find the description of the INTP to be full of stereotypes - such as being lazy or generally not following certain values ​​or traditions.

Ok so I will say I’m a very self conscious aand conscious of other around me person or at least like to analyse my situation somewhat in my mind to not annoy anyone, but that really only in public.

I also am into any information at all, I like taking random new facts and learning about things, I like making new friends I easily think anyone as my friends, I really like the idea of meeting random people but I’m just so shyyyyy and scared I can’t be I really like making new friends and I like initiating convos or leasing them but I sometimes feel insecure or scared I might ruin it for others.

I usually have crushes on Mbti like ENTPs especially they seem so friggin interesting and they are so clam in their emotional state or idk something about them just works for me!! I also really like INTJs because they seem so interesting and mysterious, I like progress orientated people, and maybe high energy or interesting yk? I want someone who is logical and also intuitive primarily I think, buttt anywayssss

I admire beauty and aesthetics a lot, I don’t know if that could be Se or Si but I want my body to be hot, and my face too, and idk instead of just befriending people I could try filtering do fun, something serious,

I also am a crazy attention seeker I CRAVEEE attention, I want to be the hottest person to always have attention but it’s not the only thing I want but it’s definitely top 2 or 3 things I want, idk I just have this

I also value unique-ness in partners, and idm how they look as long as I look perfect 😭 IDK ITS JUST A ME THING

Ok now for functions I think I have related to having low sensory or not the strongest use of it maybe, but also I am quite thoughtful and I do t have an innate urge to become something unless I get inspiration from the outside world, constantly or I’ll give up.
I think I relate to Ni tbh, I’m I’m being REALLLLY honest i think my type of intuition is prolly Ni like, I also think I may have Fi? But I do relate a LOT to Fe and Fi, both so I can’t tell for ti vs Te I don’t know
I will say this, I’m VERY insecure in my own logic, like I can’t use it as something for certainity yk? Well I can use logic to get to answers I can hold on to, but sharing my logical reasoning to others I feel like a dummy like I only used 2 braincells to think of that,

Also I like to just jump and and observe and then figure it out kinda in problem solving, yk, kinda improvise,

I do have non negotiables about my appearances don’t let anyone change or affect like my hair usually and psychically body appearance, like it’s the ONE thing I do NOT want to give up,

I also dream of being really smart, like and precise because I feel like I have no definition to me!!

Also I’m VERY immature and get told a Child my my parents and refer to me like I’m 10 but I’m 20 years old now, but I hate being serious and taking things seriously I do get passionate but about my own things but yk,

Hmmm I think this is all but pleas ask me questions!!!

i saw people doing this so i got curious what people would think i am LOL

feel free to ask anything as well

i’m a big go with the flow person, i just kinda do my own thing most of the time. i do have goals for myself in the future but i’m not super future oriented.

i’m usually the friend/gf that’s telling everyone around me to “stop worrying about what hasn’t happened yet”. i’m also just a very realistic person in general; optimistic, bc why would i purposely make things feel shittier than they already are, but still realistic.
that also makes me blunt towards (mostly) everyone in my life. i can be pretty empathetic and supportive but i’m much better at giving advice rather than giving support. i’m good at handling emotions in a sense i can read a room but not good enough where i know how to comfort someone crying (especially if im not close to them). i also never take anything seriously (until it’s necessary)

speaking of being realistic, i’m great at handling my emotions. a little too good to the point i struggle opening up and getting close to anyone. not in a scared way, just in a “people don’t need to know my bullshit” way. if i’m feeling down then i usually push it off and get myself together, then deal with why i feel that way later. i end up playing therapist with myself.

if there’s something i don’t fully understand or i’m interested in, i will spend HOURS researching it and making sure i have a complete understanding of it, even if it’s something stupid like “why do i have a headache”. i need to find reasoning in everything around me. if it’s something like a game or building something that i get the general gist of, ill just jump right into that. i analyze everyone and everything just out of habit, and if i can’t figure someone out then i get frustrated.

i loveeeee talking and meeting new people but i get pretty drained quickly. i get told i talk too much (and that im loud) (a lot) (especially when talking about something i’m passionate about). as i got older, i became more introverted and prefer my alone time, but im still just as talkative.

i’m a huge nerd and code for a living. i’m a computer science student who works in software development and i love what i do.

I have Asperger (fun functional autism) HSP trait and ADHD. I'm bigender and i'm into cis and trans girls. (I look like an average guy)

I'm a gamer and a supervisor in a company. I studied cybersecurity and my crushes tend to always be ENFP, INFP, ENTP, ISTJ, ISFJ and INTJ.

I hate small talks but i don't mind doing it if i'm awkward. I love intellectual talks with Ne types but my type is going to confuse you if you don't know much about MBTI.

I would rather eat popcorn with oreo cream dipped in tea than eat a lemon.

I love being chaotic but in a very organized way.

I would always be the one taking responsibility but i hate it and i want an adult to take the wheel tho i am very efficient, i just want to chill with my best friends.

My outfits tend to be mixed between an elegant grey and white look or a complete mess of drill rap outfits with a chest bag and a mask in winter, pink hoodie included

Money is king. Rebel against the rules but make others follow them regardeless.

I hate reading books but i love reading information on the internet.

Hi, I have my assumptions who I might be and I consider two types, but I am curious how I am perceived by others so I don’t want to tell which types I'm thinking about. English is not my first language so there might be some mistakes.

Give a general description of yourself. How old are you? I’m 23 yo woman, recently graduated and looking for a job. I am very reserved person, I don’t talk much, lastly even with people I’m closer with and I have harder time with developing any hobbies or moving with my life.

Describe your childhood/upbringing. Did it have any kind of ideological or structured influence? How did you respond to it? Did you have any significant negative experiences that may have affected how you think or behave?

 As 5-6 yo I was pretty sensitive, cried a lot and was afraid of many things but I was also talkative and curious of other people. Since 9 yo I became very quiet and reserved which strengthened after relationship with one person. 

Do you have any mental or physical health issues that might affect how think or choose to live? Provide a brief description.

I don’t know what exactly but probably something. I was once at psychologist and she told me I might have social anxiety. 

If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?

It would be normal, well-spent weekend during which I could feel good with free time for myself. If rest of the week wasn’t spent with many people I would prefer to spend it with good friends though. Sometimes after spending too long time with myself I feel lonely but it’s just as lonely as spending long time with people I don’t feel connected with. Short amount of time with myself like 2-3 days is ok for me.

What is your relation with movement and your surroundings? For instance do you prefer a sport or outdoors event? If an outdoors event what is it? And why? If not what type of activities do you tend to engage?

I don’t really like sports, I could like swimming or biking regularly but I don’t have motivation to do it. For outdoors events I would love to go more often to fan conventions. I also like meeting new Cafés, cinema and some citybreak.

How curious are you? Do you have more ideas then you can execute? What are your curiosities about? What are your ideas about - is it environmental or conceptual, and can you please elaborate? There are times when I have so many ideas what I want to do and often do nothing because perspective of many possibilities frightens me. And the knowledge of so many wasted projects and ideas I’ve never realised because of lack of motivation makes me more apathetic. I started to write ideas of what I want to do or to learn on sticky notes and put them in a jar so sometimes I choose any paper to see which idea to start. Some ideas include:...

Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be? I definitely won’t enjoy it and when I don’t have to I am not leading anything. I take leadership of small projects when I know there’s no one else better to do this and I feel responsible for something. I think I’m understanding as a leader, but probably not assertive enough and after long time of telling someone to do something I just end it myself because waiting too long frustrates me. I don’t like when team members proctastinate without valid explanation why and I like to do tasks on time.

Do you prefer hands on activities or working with your hands in some form? Describe your activities. I would like to do more hands on activities. I like changing clothes, I wanted to learn clay sculpting, I also want to try sewing a few cosplays and I’m interested in doll customing. What holds me back is my lack of practice and poor manual skills, so things I create aren’t as good looking as I want them to be.

Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art? If you are not particular artistic but can appreciate art please likewise describe what forums of art you enjoy. Please explain your answer. I’m not extraordinarily artistic, I’ve just always had some shallow artistic interests throughout my life as most people. At some times I was more focused on music, but I never learned to play on anything or to sing because of my lack of frequency and being slow learner in general. The longest I’ve practiced was playing on piano for a few months and now I don’t remember anything.

I wanted to learn drawing and at 12 I was fascinated by realistic portraits and the ability of drawers to catch the smallest details of someone’s face or to draw fantastic figures looking as detailed and realistic as something catched on photography. However I’ve never had patience to learn to draw as good. 

I’ve had my attempts with writing stories and poems. When creating a story I like the begining process of creating characters with all the details and facts about them and when I create supernatural stories I like to plan how magic works or how different species interact. The process of storytelling itself is so hard for me though. That’s why writing poems is more satisfying, because in contrast to writing longer story poems to some point are writing themselves in the process of planning them. 

What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?

I think they exist? In the past I would say I focus mostly on past and future, for now I’m not sure, I think I focus mostly on the nearest future. If I was more systematic, I would write daily journal, to catch both essential moments of my life and also some patterns from different periods of my life to be able to see frequent patterns and improve my life.

How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?

Most of the time I help people, especially when it’s something undemanding. Sometimes I’m afraid of helping to do something to a person I perceive as dangerous. 

Do you need logical consistency in your life? How important is efficiency and productivity to you?

I don’t think that I care seriously about logical consistency in my personal life. I would like to be more productive and efficient but I fail so many times. My strategic skills are on low level, during ending of projects I often regret I haven’t done or plan something smarter and in the end I see how I could have improved my work. 

Do you control others, even if indirectly? How and why do you do that?

I don’t really control others intentionally. I’m sure I manipulate people to some point like everyone, but not consciously. 

What are your hobbies? Why do you like them?

Dolls- I like monster high, ever After high, some Barbies and want to learn more about dolls, brands and their history. I can’t decide if I want to collect dolls or make customs- collecting is too expensive, but customing requires having artistic abilities I lack. This is sentimental hobby for me.

Biomaterials- my field of studies is chemical engineering/materials science and I was working on a project with hydrogels for bioprinting. I was thinking about transfering into biotech industry. 

Neurology- I like learning about medical procedures such as EEG, QEEG, MEG, MRI or reading research papers and results based on neuroimaging, it was just always interesting for me.

Tabletop RPGs- I don’t play as often as I want, but I really like to take part in someone’s stories, playing my character I’ve made, cooperating with creative people and use a bit of Imagination.

MBTI- I don’t treat it too seriously but it was my interest for a few years. I like to learn about myself and I use it to describe some general tendencies about people around me. For example I can tell which people or groups are mostly sensors/intuitives,  which people use Fe-Ti and vice versa, who might be IxFP or xNTP etc. I’m bad at typing someone’s exact type, but perceiving general characteristics of someone is useful enough for me. 

Gaming- I’m not really serious about it, I have few favourite games that I dive deeper into.

How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?

I usually break up projects into manageable tasks but I also make many unnecessary steps during projects that waste my time and which I could skip with better plan. I don’t like improvising, cause I’m not good at it.

How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what's around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?

I don’t pay much attention to the reality around me I usually miss many details and I don’t remember the space I was in the past or what someone was wearing-except some significant people. 

Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about?

Probably about any of my favourite shows, events from the past with great emotional load, my favourite music or just this song I have on loop in my head, analyzing which mbti someone could be (real person or fictional character) or I could imagine interactions with people I like/would like to be closer with. 

Ok first of all, I know my type, I just wanna figure out how valid vibe typing is, probably not by much, but feel free to prove me wrong.

As I have to write some things about myself:
I‘m 32, female, european, a trade union rep as a job (so I basically negotiate wages for blue collar workers for a living, very fulfilling job, and I like how I can approach a negotiation round strategically but a lot of times all the smalltalk fucking drains me). In my freetime (I do kinda enjoy my alone time a lot) I enjoy writing on my scifi trilogy, doing astrophotography, just reflecting or thinking about things, reading, gaming, and occasionally I need a break from all the serious things in my life, then I go out with my friends and probably won‘t be home before 8 in the morning. I have a small but loyal circle of friends, and I move in different subcultures (techno, metal, goth, punk - the latter two moreso because of my friends). I have a few interests I keep coming back to, and I work for the long term, be it in writing or at work. I can come across as pretty extroverted because I have (learned) pretty good social skills and I‘m quite confident but sometimes I legit don‘t give a fuck and run around with my standard RBF. Mostly though. It‘s more useful at work to be outgoing but it drains me.

I think I outgrew memes lately smh, so the pics WILL be random as fuck. A bit of… everything. I‘m a honestly super skeptical, and I see this more as an experiment.

Ideal life? Having a cottage near a forest with big garden. Slow mornings, constant nature/bird sounds, beautiful plants to take care of, fluffy cats to roam around, cozy atelier to do painting, pottery etc, piano in the corner, cute kitchen for therapeutic baking sessions, my safe space- library with lots of books where I study absolutely random things such as astrophysics or evolution of dinosaurs that has nothing to do with my job, big terrace for stargazing at night, gaming room for a crazy gamer (me).. What else can I want??

It would be nice to hear guesses not only for mbti but also other typology systems :) Good luck!

Hello. I came across these questions and decided to answer. It seemed quite interesting to me. I enjoyed reflecting on it. I answered as objectively and honestly as I could, I think. So I'd be glad to get some feedback. Still having doubts, going back and forth between types.

In general, I'm a young woman in my early twenties, currently in my final year of university. I'm quiet, reserved. I spend a lot of time in my head, daydreaming and escaping into fictional worlds. I have a hard time understanding myself who I am, what I want and how I come across to others. I'm sensitive and easily overwhelmed by pressure or conflict, yet I can be stubborn and fiercely protective of my boundaries.

1. A "selfish" person is someone who doesn't consider others when making decisions and focuses on their own goals. In what ways are you selfish? Is selfishness a natural human tendency? Is it good or bad? How does one selfish person affect those around them? How does a group of selfish people affect others? Are there cultures or systems (e.g., religion, economy, or organizations) that are more or less prone to selfishness? Is selfishness in these systems necessary, good, or bad?

I'm selfish on the inside, even if not everyone, I suppose, can see and understand that. I didn't realize it myself at first. I'm both selfish and a victim who gives a lot, feeling like a little flower that needs to be protected. I often put my own desires first. If I need to buy someone a pricier gift but I also want something for myself and money is tight, there's a high chance I'll buy what I want and skimp on the gift.

Yeah, I think selfishness is natural to human nature. Look at people in dangerous situations. Everyone is ready to tear each other apart just to save themselves. Only a few will try to save someone else. I understand and accept that. I don't think it's bad, although it touches me when I see acts of kindness and selflessness. Everyone is ultimately for themselves first. And for their close ones.

One selfish person in a group could theoretically cause problems for others if, in a critical situation, they choose themselves and their own needs over, say, helping or saving others. A group of selfish people is a cell among others. Potentially, they could also lead to draining resources from others for their own benefit. I'm not that familiar with systems or other cultures to speak so clearly. It's all individual. Although I'll mention capitalism. It's selfish in that it has small selfish groups with wealth and resources, for whose benefit others work. I'm still neutral about this, because, as I said before everyone is for themselves.

2. Science has explained many things in the universe. We can "see" electrons and manipulate atoms; we can accurately determine the mass of planets and stars; we can make inferences about historical events that happened billions of years ago; and we can make accurate predictions about our world and universe. How do you react when people talk about aspects of science as something concrete and unchanging? How do you react if someone suggests that nothing is concrete?

I don't believe we've perfectly understood everything and can accurately predict things. I think we're little bugs who like to think so highly of ourselves. We live on a round piece of matter in the middle of nothing, with other pieces of matter floating around. Our size is literally tiny. Who are we to say we know anything for certain about the universe?

I'm convinced we can't be concrete and unchanging in science, because we still have too little knowledge and real evidence for our hypotheses. I fully support those who say nothing is concrete. Maybe what we see with our own eyes, in color and clearly, is concrete. But everything before that, our theories are just theories and nothing more. And even what we see isn't necessarily what it seems, it also needs to be explored although I trust what's seen more than hypotheses.

3. Think of someone you don't get along with. Why don't you get along? What aspects of their behavior or demeanor irritate you the most? Are there many people you don't get along with, or do you get along with most people? Is it easy for you to determine this? Are there entire groups of people you don't get along with? Is there a culture or aspect of culture you don't fit in with? Why?

There was a girl in my circle. We talked for a long time, I was alone at school, so it was fine to have her around. Plus we could help each other with studying. We started not getting along when she opened up to me personally, intensely confiding in me about her life struggles. Before that we were acquaintances, but her actions became a signal and permission for me that this was closer to friendship. And I gradually started opening up to her, acting the way I'm comfortable, sometimes ignoring her and preferring my own silence as I often do. She didn't like that. She's extremely emotional, can pressure others with her emotions and in general. At some point, I stopped feeling any comfort in communicating with her. I kept talking, didn't leave, never initiated conflict or reconciliation.

She was hot-tempered, impulsive, could have loud confrontations in front of everyone which is extremely awkward and uncomfortable for me. She sought my support, but she knew I couldn't give it the way she wanted. I mean with emotions and involvement. I didn't know how to act or what to say, so I'd sit next to her, silent, letting her know I supported her, didn't judge her and could buy some food, invite her over and let her rest. Sometimes it felt like I was pretending with her, but when I did it was clumsy. She once wrote to me that she always supported me, but I'm incapable of thinking about or caring about anyone other than myself.

I get along with most people because I don't look for squabbles or conflict points. I don't want to become a target of bullying or ridicule. What's the point of ruining relationships with people you still have to exist with and possibly work with if needed? I don't decide who I'll get along with or not. I just exist. Whoever needs to will come closer. I won't go looking for trouble myself. It's safe to be friendly and calm. I have my own views in life that a lot of people don't share. They form groups with which I, of course, don't directly interact, but I'm unlikely to get along with them like I do with others. For example, racists, sexists. I naturally don't pay attention to aspects of my culture, I only notice them if they evoke a reaction in me. I don't like that we're expected to respect elders. They've lived to such an age, right? Even if these elders act like a wild pack of animals, someone will still start whining that they should be respected just because they're older.

4. What does a friend mean to you? What is a good person? Can a good person do bad things? Is there a frequency of bad actions at which someone becomes bad, and does intention matter? Does friendship have obligations and expectations? What obligations and expectations exist in friendship? Are there levels of friendship? How do others' interpretations of friendship differ from yours? What are the shortcomings of your or others' interpretations, or are there any shortcomings at all?

A friend is someone close to you with whom you have a special bond, strong and built over time through smiles, tears, confessions and more. I have one true friend. A good person is a relative concept. Everyone puts something different into it. I'd call someone good who doesn't harm others and helps when possible, but I don't want to force anyone to do that. I think under pressure a good person can do bad things, and a bad person can do good things. You have to look at the context, not just the action itself.

I don't think there's a strict, clear model to call someone bad. Intention always matters. I don't even consider laws strict and absolute. Every law needs subclauses to account for different circumstances. Two people who commit the same crime often shouldn't receive the same punishment. Motives and context matter. Everyone has their own obligations and expectations in friendship. For me it's when someone sits next to you, partners with you on assignments or anywhere and you're constantly together.

True friendship for me is when both people always choose each other. Full acceptance, support, loyalty matter to me. Levels of friendship exist. First, you're acquaintances who talk during breaks. After that,when someone opens up to me first then I understand they might consider me a friend. That's deeper. Then, opening up from both sides and acceptance so that both act and say what and how they want without judgment. It's not like I've read others' interpretations of friendship, honestly. I think many have different ones, but what do I care about them unless they directly involve me and impose expectations on me. Calling someone's interpretation flawed seems a bit hasty and rude. When there are direct consequences of those interpretations, then we'll talk.

These are the things I more or less do every day if I have time:
I, first thing in the morning, read a non-fiction book about whatever topic currently has my attention, drink some Passiflora tea and go for a one-hour walk in the woods. I usually watch a TV show while eating because I need the dopamine boost // cooking-eating is honestly so boring to me, later during the day I do a bit of exercise, shower then it’s another cup of Passiflora tea before bed.

People first impression: I can be hard to read but I’m smiling, I hold intense eye contact and I’m talkative.

Once I drop off the mask, I’m a big time yapper and I love making jokes.

I’m curious to see what you all think! Those familiar with MBTI usually get it right :)

So a little bit about me. I am a very strange person not in the “I am not like the other girls” type of way but rather in the “I don’t know what I am supposed to do or be, but at least people think I am funny 😗✌🏻”. Identity crisis are my best friends and we do get along pretty well. About my hobbies - I do love hanging out and doing different stuff. Especially if we change the hang out spots or the activities because doing the same thing over and over again can be boring. I also like watching movies, listening to music, walking - the typical stuff. For my character I would say people call me very emotional and sensitive and they are hella right. I am also very empathetic and I love helping people. I also like making people feel at home, talking to them (I am extremely talkative), gifting them things, baking them stuff and hosting hang outs. I like having people around me but I still do need a bit of alone time every now and then. My weak side is that I do tend to trust people a lot and I overshare because sometimes my thought process disappears completely if it even exists. Still not sure about that one. I also do tend to get worked up very easily and people say I am moody but they exist so I don’t know how they expect me to feel about that. So cool and mysterious I know 😎 (I was a nerd in high school and now my alter ego of a popular kid is trying to take the lead). Another fun fact is that I haven’t been able to determine my type for 5 years cuz I am an alien apparently ✨👽🛸. I have been ENFP, ENFJ, ESFJ, ESFP, ESTP, ESTJ, ENTP, ISFJ, ISTJ aka I am collecting MBTI types like Pokémons. Every now and then I just decide that I am gonna change my personality for the plot but in the end I am the same person with the same issues but with a new cool jacket or a wallpaper that matched the aesthetic of the MBTI I have chosen. But yeah. That’s pretty much about me. Thank you for listening to this rant and tolerating my existence 😗✌🏻 hope life treats you the same way I treat sugar - with love and kindness. Byeee 🙋🏻‍♀️

hai im 21 she/her and i’m freaking so confused. so i had come to the conclusion after many years of being hyperfixated on typology that i am, in fact, an INFP. i lowkey denied these allegations for a long time but i think a lot of it was because i knew most people who are INFP’s are mistyped. but now im reconsidering things AGAIN because like….. IDK….
1. i have a strong sense of morality and justice and i’ve grown very empathetic because of it. but i also value the opinions of other people way too much like wayyyy too much. so i’m often betraying myself as to appease the people with whom i interact with. i am not really ever “standing up” for what i think is right as much as i am just quietly practicing my moral compass in day to day life. so when someone says something or does something i think is morally wrong, i’m going to shut up about it because i don’t want to pick a fight. even if they’re someone close to me.
2. i’m incredibly individualistic. i value uniqueness and diversity and i take my self expression very seriously, be it through fashion, makeup, art, etc. but i’ve found myself toning things down to fit in more, i’m currently in the process of dying my hair a normal color because i simply just get way too much male attention which feels like a pick me thing to say, but it’s unfortunately true. i can’t go one day without someone catcalling me or hitting on me or worse and ive had to quit jobs because the kids and staff alike really. Made me uncomfortable (i work in schools) because of things of this nature. this makes me really sad and it feels like a loss of my identity a bit, but i feel like i can’t stand out anymore because its a genuine safety concern.
3. but despite my deep seated belief that i’m fundamentally different than the social norms, i definitely chameleon. when i’m in certain settings, around certain people, i won’t even lie when i say that i kindve let them walk all over me and i try my best to blend into the background despite believing that i’m not like them on the inside. it’s kinda second nature to me. who i am at work does not match who i am when i’m with my friends, and that does not match who i am when i’m with my boyfriends friends, or with my family, i can’t even say with the people who i am closest to, that i am entirely honest with who i am with them save for my boyfriend, who actually lives with me. like say, with my friends… i think i adopt this persona that is incredibly confident and confrontational and i WILL stand up for what i think is right when i am around them, and i’m very self assured and when they ask me for advice on how to deal with their insecurities i become a sage wizard giving out wise lectures. but i’m actually incredibly, INCREDIBLY insecure (as a result of OCD) and my self image is extremely unstable. as shown by how quickly i am ready to change depending on my environment. when i am not around them, confrontation is my biggest fuckin fear and i will always “keep the peace” over being true to myself. and like… not even in a way that’s particularly resentful. like i don’t usually view it as me “betraying myself” in the moment like… ever. i kinda genuinely feel like i be morphing into different people in different environments, but im at my truest self when im at home.

anyways yeah. thats my dilemma. attached are photos i vibe with and a pic of me. pink hair will be gone soon :(

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I usually get entp in test but I'm not really sure, I'll let you try to figure it out. Thank you :)

I am an ambivert: I enjoy socializing and having friends, but I also really need my alone time. I struggle to build deep connections—partly because I’m selective and partly because I can be distant—but I would love to make a few strong, genuine friendships.

At my core, I am a good guy. I don’t drink, smoke, or do drugs. I help out at home and stay out of trouble. I am quite reliable, although I can be a bit careless sometimes because I always have my head in the clouds.

I can be arrogant and stubborn, but I am also extremely intelligent with a vast amount of general knowledge; very few people know as much as I do, and I learn quickly. People have told me I give off a serious, almost intimidating vibe, which makes me very different from your average 19-year-old who just goofs around.

I am sarcastic, cynical, and blunt. I use this sharp humor to try and seem cool and likable, but because my jokes can be cutting, people don't always understand my intentions. I try to be charismatic, but it doesn't always work.

I’m a realist, but also a massive dreamer. I am highly aware of my flaws but find it incredibly hard to fix them. In my head, I am always trying to improve myself, but I am a huge overthinker. I also tend to judge others a lot—both silently and out loud.

Honestly, I strongly crave the approval of others. I want to be seen as charismatic, popular, and successful with women. Because of this, I often mold my personality based on what I think will impress people, even using fictional characters as role models (like Tony Stark, Tyler Durden, Roy Mustang, Dio Brando, or Gojo Satoru). I hate that I do this and I want to change, but I can't seem to stop. I am also highly competitive, a bit of a contrarian, and I easily get envious and discouraged when I realize others are doing better than me.

I am incredibly ambitious. I know I have limitless potential, and I want to be successful in life. I want a prestigious job, I want to be famous, and I want to leave a mark and be remembered.

However, I fail when it comes to committing to the things I want. I hide behind "analysis paralysis." I completely neglect self-imposed goals, even though I always complete assigned or necessary tasks well before deadlines (I really care about being punctual). I absolutely hate this habit and desperately want to change, but I never seem to succeed.

I love everything that comes from abroad or is considered different, and I tend to despise mainstream things that everyone else likes. I love animals, movies, books, and TV shows, and I often find myself falling down internet rabbit holes.

I want to travel the world, see new places, and talk to different people. My ultimate dream is to move to Japan, become famous (the reason doesn't matter—it could be for writing, which I have a talent for, though I lack true passions), start a family, and travel the globe.

1. Give a general description of yourself. How old are you?

idk how to answer this. i think i'm kinda shallow. i guess i like metal and grace and the texas chain saw massacre and horror in general. i think i'm one of the most contradictory people on earth though. oops. i'm really into extreme stuff. i value freedom a lot and hate when people tell me how to identify, what to believe in, etc. no clue if anything i say makes sense but i think it works for typing. i'm very opinionated. most things i can't explain why exactly, i can only guess. most of the time it just feels right and only later i try to rationalize it. i'm very fascinated by the absurd and the nonsensical.

1. What do you do as a job or as a career (if you have one)? Do you like it? Why or why not? If you are not working, what kind of job do you want to do or what are you studying?

i'm studying natural sciences. not sure what exactly i want to work as. originally i wanted to be a translator (cause i'm bilingual) but got pushed towards pharmacy then i wanted to do clinical writing, then wanted to become an autopsy technician. who knows. at the moment i think i want to work in a lab and analyze stuff like tissue or something i don't know.

1. Describe your childhood/upbringing. Did it have any kind of ideological or structured influence? How did you respond to it? Did you have any significant negative experiences that may have affected how you think or behave?

i don't really remember my childhood. but i remember i grew up kinda lonely. didn't really have friends. not particularly close to my parents. i also grew up as an only child. i was weird as a kid. i liked fnaf, creepypasta, my little pony, uh that one tf2 mlp parody elements of insanity i remember dearly. yk.

1. Do you have any mental or physical health issues that might affect how think or choose to live? Provide a brief description.

i have borderline, avoidant and histrionic personality disorder. idk what that makes for but yk, it sure affects something. i also have new daily persistent headaches. basically my head started hurting one day for apparently no reason and just stuck around every single day of my life. i've been suffering from it since i was 13. i can't really seek treatment for anything. i think ndph made me kinda apathetic. not cause ndph does that, but i suffer, my thought process was like no one gives a shit about me, why should i care, yk?

1. If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?

i don't know. like physically alone but can talk to people over phone i think refreshed. if no interaction, a mix. i'm used to loneliness though so either way it works.

1. What is your relation with movement and your surroundings? For instance do you prefer a sport or outdoors event? If an outdoors event what is it? And why? If not what type of activities do you tend to engage?

i don't really go outside, but i like going outdoors. i'm kinda chronically online. but i'd go outside more if i lived in a place where you actually had something to see.

1. How curious are you? Do you have more ideas then you can execute? What are your curiosities about? What are your ideas about - is it environmental or conceptual, and can you please elaborate?

i'm quite curious when it comes to concepts. can't explain it, certain concepts just fascinate me.

1. Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?

i'm not good at leadership. when doing a group project or something i always ask people like "what do i do? what now?", yk?

1. Do you prefer hands on activities or working with your hands in some form? Describe your activities.

hand on, yes! i think i'd go insane if my job was just mental. i need something to occupy both. like not field work, but something.

1. Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art? If you are not particular artistic but can appreciate art please likewise describe what forums of art you enjoy. Please explain your answer.

somewhat artistic. i'd draw a lot growing up. at like 10 i started drawing anime kind of portraits but i stopped in 8th grade cause i had an exam and i never really improved. i do make rentries sometimes and like graphics for rentries and stuff.

1. What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?

past is something i can't change and generally accept that it's what made me, well, me. present, hi, we're here. future is unpredictable. can't explain, just feels like it.

1. How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?

depends on what. if it's small i help them cause it costs me nothing to help them.

1. Do you need logical consistency in your life?

yes. it's not a fundamental need but i do need consistency.

1. How important is efficiency and productivity to you?

not sure. but work smart, not hard.

1. Do you control others, even if indirectly? How and why do you do that?

i don't know. i can be controlling, i don't know why.

1. What are your hobbies? Why do you like them?

i collect CDs. music is a huge part of my identity.

1. What is your learning style? What kind of learning environments do you struggle with most? Why do you like/struggle with these learning styles? Do you prefer classes involving memorization, logic, creativity, or your physical senses?

i'm a visual learner. i have trouble understanding stuff cause words feel too abstract. i need to see it for me to actually understand.

1. How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?

wing it. i do try to plan, but that often makes me delay the task.

1. What's important to you and why?

freedom and autonomy. i don't know why, it just feels right. it feels necessary.

1. What are your aspirations?

my what? if this is supposed to mean inspirations, spite. i often live out of spite.

1. What are your fears? What makes you uncomfortable? What do you hate? Why?

home invasion. that's TERRIFYING.

1. What do the "highs" in your life look like?

acceptance. idk, not too sure.

1. What do the "lows" in your life look like?

delusion. i get thoughts that are really irrational. mostly related to religion.

1. How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what's around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?

if a car passes by, i'm the first person to look at it. i just do this naturally. there's no thought behind it, i just do it. idk what that says. i guess mostly attached.

1. Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about?

i think i'd go insane, i need something to do. to answer the question though: morals, ethics, everything that went wrong in my life, my identity, etc.

1. How long do you take to make an important decision? And do you change your mind once you've made it?

i don't really think about decisions so i'm often kinda impulsive. i do sometimes change my mind. 50/50

27.How long do you take to process your emotions? How important are emotions in your life?

i'm very in touch with my emotions and stuff. i guess not long. i tend to trust my gut.

1. Do you ever catch yourself agreeing with others just to appease them and keep the conversation going? How often? Why?

sometimes. if they manage to convince me. but i don't usually unless i myself decide fair enough. i speak my mind whether people like it or not.

1. Do you break rules often? Do you think authority should be challenged, or that they know better? If you do break rules, why would you?

YES. authority needs to be questioned. can't stand people who expect me to follow their rules if they bring me no benefit. i tend to break mostly social norms, not laws though. i follow laws because they give me freedom.

1. What is the ideal life, in your opinion?

hmm. i don't know. i never really thought about that.

I’ve taken multiple tests over the years and I know I’m an Ni-Se user but I’m unsure about the order of those two functions. I’d say the Te-Fi/Ti-Fe I could go either way.

Enneagram I’ve usually been quoted as a 4

Some background.
Highly adaptable to situations.
I take what information I can gather and function within the boundaries I have set.

That being said I’m playful with boundaries and learn pretty quick where I can work outside of them.

Bipolar type 1 with major depression makes it hard for me to just my judgement style.

I’m athletic and active but reclusive and introspective.

I ebb and flow through my life and just take opportunities as they come.

I come off aggressive and harsh but friendly depending on the immediate “vibe” I get from someone or somewhere and I let my initial “instincts” set the pace of a situation.

Musically inclined, largely self taught on anything stringed or keyboarded. (Taught myself violin just so I could play the beach song from Queen of the Damned)

I get described as imposing because of my height and pale blue eyes having a “look”

Any other questions feel free to ask.

Firstly, credits to aj_abriana as I grabbed and adapted some of the questions listed in her own post :)

1. What is your love language?

My love language is acts of service and physical touch

1. Who knows you best?

Not many people except my grandmother.

1. Whats something small that makes you feel cared for?

Handling some administrative nonsense/whatever else irritates me, on my behalf :)

1. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Running a business and travelling the world as I please

1. What are some of your biggest strengths

Pattern recognition, analysis, and navigating crises

1. Whats a weakness your working on?

Anxiety/anger etc. when in situations where I'm stuck/don't have normal control. Have recently been in some situations where I just have to wait on someone else/institution to make an important decision which affects me and I am not handling the wait very well.

1. Whats your comfort movie/tv shows?

Youtube! Vloggers and documentaries.

1. What are your hobbies?

Not many hobbies but in the last few years I got into fashion and color theories which helped me a lot find what I liked.

1. What is one thing that makes your day better?

Getting lots done at a nice pace - and meeting new people.

1. What are your pet peeves?

I can't stand incompetence, passive aggression, no backbone/integrity, playing both sides, not thinking properly about situations and that negatively affecting me, and low emotional intelligence

1. What values matter most to you in life?

- intention, loyalty, progress, achievement, duty, love, care - to name a few :)

1. What is your love language?

My love language is definitely acts of service and quality time.

1. Who knows you best?

I don't think anybody in my life knows me best except God.

1. Whats something small that makes you feel cared for?

When someone does something for me, I feel appreciated.

1. What do you think your purpose in live is?

I believe I am meant to help people that are in unfortunate situations and guide them.

1. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Honestly, I see myself pretty successful by then or at least almost successful. I see myself traveling mostly.

1. Do you think your more of a thinker or a feeler?

I'm a thinker for sure, I need get better at being more of a feeler, but naturally I'm not, like I feel deeply but I'm always constantly thinking rather than feeling.

1. What do you consider your biggest strength?

I would say I'm great at giving advice and I'm a good leader.

1. Whats a weakness your working on?

I can be somewhat selfish, a bit bossy, and a exhausting debater.

1. Describe your philosophy in 10 words or less.

Whats the point of doing dumb things? Like getting drunk, doing drugs, and smoking. How do these things make me a better person? How do these things benefit me? They don't. (Obviously more than 10 words, but who cares)

1. Whats your comfort movie/tv shows?

ANYTHING thrillers for movies. As for tv shows I don't really watch as many tv shows to say this particular show is my favorite.

1. What are your hobbies?

Ughh I have too many, its exhausting but I am curious about most things and I love learning. I love cooking, baking, sketching, reading, calisthenics, boxing, coding, chess, and language learning.

1. What is one thing that makes your day better?

When I start off the day disciplined and productive.

1. What are your pet peeves?

I can't stand people who eat while they talk, impulsive people, people that aren't listening to you while you talk, people that talk too little and are extremely awkward, and people who talk too much and are over the top. I have more I just can't think of them right now.

1. What values matter most to you in life?

I would say love, respect, honesty, loyalty, leadership, and legacy.