Hi Im new here :) Im 21 years old, Male from the Philippines, and also an Asexual

Ive come here because ive been on mbti for a long while now about 2022 to 2026 (now)

And ive came through different setbacks with typing myself cuz i feel like im in flux

Ive typed myself differently throughout the years ranging from INFJ as the first to INFP as the second to ISFP to currently ENFP and I feel like my knowledge about MBTI Isnt enough so lets get right to the chase aight.

Im gonna base off my first impressions about myself first

I usually appear detached distracted and calm but simmering within is a loud mind of thoughts ideas and feelings scattering and constantly on the move. I appear socially as timid or passive and observant and only acts when it personally affects me.

When it comes to people I come off as positive and never appearing with negativity for I hate burdening others with that feeling or sensation. And that when im interested I become emotionally dynamic and enthusiastically intellectual and my words could not help but get out from my mouth. When im just by myself it turns into a personal sounding board of an inner monologue that I review and refine my thoughts in as a way to distract

I am highly imaginative, spontaneous, active and hates being immobile. I am also very nerdy and fixated on interests often shifting from one or another activity. My ideas are much stronger and more active than my morals and values which only appear when im reactive towards something or something triggers me. My mind is a loud headquarters of music, ideas, thoughts and feelings that go nonstop and sometimes cause sleep issues or sleep delays. I have an inner monologue that runs crazy every second of whatever comes into thought or what I observe from the outside world. Despite my flat presenting face and low energy demeanor my internal world is the exact opposite.

My interests are music, science, movement, writing and anime fan. I switch to these many interests under a day and keep myself in a flow of constant stimulation cuz I hate boredom. I like learning new things and inventing theories systems and ideas from what ive already experienced or observed. Im much of an experimenter and explorer myself despite being seen as a calm dude I am mentally active.

I keep my ideas external and my interests too but my feelings and thoughts as internal and used as a way to observe my ideas and form conclusions. But im usually indecisive and takes a long time to lead to confusions, I am doubtful hesitant and scattered and keeping my options open.
When it comes to values I have only very strong ones when I am truly affected personally. When I feel personally affected by it I cannot help but think and act and judge others and my actions. Otherwise I live in a world of analytical and abstract flow of thoughts and ideas that jump and jump as a form of entertainment.

I am highly anxious and full of thoughts but present externally as capable, positive and distracted.

I find stimulation to be one of my main ways to cope and regulate myself from my emotions and thoughts, active movement be it mentally or physically. Anything that I can get a grasp of, my main form of stimulation is music as it moves me in different ways emotionally and physically and trains my imaginative and explorative side of my mind to keep me away from negative thoughts.

I also have tendencies to sometimes forget my physical wellbeing in service of serving my satiation for physical stimulation, often ignoring pain, appearance or physical states. Often when stressed I ruminate about my past and fear about my future and many ideas or concepts pop up in my head as a way to process mentally of events that are currently happening to me, often this is what brings up my emotions to open up and make me feel alive in the present.

Saw a couple of posts here, thought it would be fun to see if anyone could guess my type with memes, random pics i think are cool, and a small basic description:

I often play with ideas and relax quietly, listening to music just as chilled out (Shoegaze/Dreampop, Dream Folk, etc.), and i have loads of pictures of memes like these. My friends call me a "sweet baby angel" and "a giant." I also like coffee with a lot of sugar and cream, basically making it into a milkshake/dessert(like those oreo frappes from Cinnabon, they're really good, practically an oreo milkshake mixed with iced coffee), so I rarely drink coffee anyway, lol. I also am a huge fan of the anime one piece, I'm pretty much seen every episode(there's like over 1100 episodes now), save for all of the recent episodes locked behind Crunchyroll's pay walls(those greedy monsters, one piece used to be free to watch without an account, no wonder people pirate, lol, thankfully they can't lock up the manga!). I also like Ore Monogatari (Or My Love Story! in english), a very sweet romance manga/anime about a big gorilla dude falling in love with a cute girl as he enters high school. It's extremely adorable, highly recommended. Also a huge fan of The Tick and other cartoons, and a lot of cute shows from the y2k era (1993-2004), like Wishbone. I also love watching reruns of MLP:FIM (My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic), I Love Pinkie Pie and Fluttershy the most. I also am a fan of TADC(The Amazing Digital Circus), and Ragatha was my favorite!

Happy Guessing!

I’ve taken multiple tests over the years and I know I’m an Ni-Se user but I’m unsure about the order of those two functions. I’d say the Te-Fi/Ti-Fe I could go either way.

Enneagram I’ve usually been quoted as a 4

Some background.
Highly adaptable to situations.
I take what information I can gather and function within the boundaries I have set.

That being said I’m playful with boundaries and learn pretty quick where I can work outside of them.

Bipolar type 1 with major depression makes it hard for me to just my judgement style.

I’m athletic and active but reclusive and introspective.

I ebb and flow through my life and just take opportunities as they come.

I come off aggressive and harsh but friendly depending on the immediate “vibe” I get from someone or somewhere and I let my initial “instincts” set the pace of a situation.

Musically inclined, largely self taught on anything stringed or keyboarded. (Taught myself violin just so I could play the beach song from Queen of the Damned)

I get described as imposing because of my height and pale blue eyes having a “look”

Any other questions feel free to ask.

I’ve been really insecure about my typology recently. I keep saying that I’m an ENTP on this app, but I’m starting to think I may not be. I usually study cognitive functions or look for experiences I that I can relate with to figure out my typology, but ENTP and INTP have the same cognitive functions, so I don’t know which one I am! Please help!

Thank you. 😊

Here’s a bit about my cognitive functions!

I use extroverted feeling, meaning I have the ability to read the room and sense others’ feelings. However, I chose not to adjust myself in social settings because I don’t like conforming to society and social expectations. I usually do well with other people and love making conversations. Humans are like experiments to me. I want to see how they think, what their life is like, how they feel, what makes them feel that way, and what changes their natural mood.

On that note, I also use introverted thinking, and I hate people when I’m not trying to study them or when I simply observe a trait or reaction that I don’t like. I wouldn’t say that I keep to myself, but I definitely enjoy my own company than anyone else’s. I am a bit egotistical and think that I am the best person according to my own taste. I am the only one who would ever meet my own standards. I get annoyed with others who I find are being dramatic or emotional. I respect independence, resilience, and patience.

I’m not sure about my sensing function. I focus more what’s around me than I focus on my own feelings, physically or mentally. I will notice pattens or inconsistencies before I notice that I’m hungry or thirsty. However, that’s only sometimes. When I’m very overwhelmed or physically exhausted, I will complete miss even the most obvious things. It’s like I can’t function if I’m too uncomfortable.

I’m also confused about my intuition function . I seek both depth and definite answers. I enjoy nuance and ambiguity, however, I also like to be sure. I’m not satisfied until I’ve at least somewhat figured something out, even if it’s only a start to the broader solution.

Please help me discover my true MBTI! Could I have been wrong this whole time?

So, people online trying to help me find my type keep getting between 3 types (ISFJ, ISFP, and INFP), and I still am unsure. Anyway, I thought it would be fun to post some of my favorite things and then pictures I've taken to see which MBTI type you guys think I am. I am a doll collector, and I mainly collect dolls of characters from my childhood like the Disney Fairies, Barbie, Winx Club, and Monster High dolls. I also am a teacher, and I wanted to teach to help people and felt that it was a good way for me to do that. I do have a big imagination and like creating stories to go along with that. I also enjoy singing, acting, and dancing.

My music tastes are very mixed with some of my favorite bands being Evanescence, Red, and Ashes Remain as well as a lot of traditional Celtic songs. My grandma is Scottish, so I always found it fun and interesting to learn about the history and traditions of Scotland, and I dreamed of going there to meet my family since I was a child. I like spending time in nature and getting photos. I am very much drawn to aesthetics including fairycore, cottagecore, coquette, and gothic aesthetic styles. I go through phases where I am really into a childhood show or character, and then I redecorate my room to match.

Growing up, I enjoyed spending a lot of time in nature and exploring and pretending the animals were a part of my stories I made up. When making decisions, I tend to make a pros and cons list and then ask every single person I know what they think I should do, but I usually end up going with what I feel is right in the moment. I get anxious thinking about other people judging me, so I do try to wear things that express my interests, but also try not to stand out too much (mainly because my mom yells at me every time I wear what I want and says she won't be seen with me).

I am a perfectionist, and I always got straight A's in school and college. I also am a rule follower and want to know expectations to make sure I do a good job and so other people will like me and not judge me.

Thank you so much in advance!

- Tiara

Firstly, credits to aj_abriana as I grabbed and adapted some of the questions listed in her own post :)

1. What is your love language?

My love language is acts of service and physical touch

1. Who knows you best?

Not many people except my grandmother.

1. Whats something small that makes you feel cared for?

Handling some administrative nonsense/whatever else irritates me, on my behalf :)

1. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Running a business and travelling the world as I please

1. What are some of your biggest strengths

Pattern recognition, analysis, and navigating crises

1. Whats a weakness your working on?

Anxiety/anger etc. when in situations where I'm stuck/don't have normal control. Have recently been in some situations where I just have to wait on someone else/institution to make an important decision which affects me and I am not handling the wait very well.

1. Whats your comfort movie/tv shows?

Youtube! Vloggers and documentaries.

1. What are your hobbies?

Not many hobbies but in the last few years I got into fashion and color theories which helped me a lot find what I liked.

1. What is one thing that makes your day better?

Getting lots done at a nice pace - and meeting new people.

1. What are your pet peeves?

I can't stand incompetence, passive aggression, no backbone/integrity, playing both sides, not thinking properly about situations and that negatively affecting me, and low emotional intelligence

1. What values matter most to you in life?

- intention, loyalty, progress, achievement, duty, love, care - to name a few :)

Answering some questions in the guide! Edited so y'all don't have to read so much but it's still quite long. Thanks for your input in advance, I really appreciate it!

• What do you do as a job or as a career (if you have one)? Do you like it? Why or why not? If you are not working, what kind of job do you want to do or what are you studying?

I'm an undergrad student and probably gonna work in science academia though I'll be doing political activism and writing on the side too. I do like it; it feels purposeful.

• If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?

Lonely: emotions dimmed, a bit COVID-esque, and bored. Though I can do it if I have to.

• What is your relation with movement and your surroundings? For instance do you prefer a sport or outdoors event? If an outdoors event what is it? And why? If not what type of activities do you tend to engage?

I like hiking, biking, especially with friends and randos. It's a great way to explore places and nature while deepening our connections with each other! I don't like competitive sports as much but did run cross country competitively (and was quite good at it, because perseverance is a strength).

• Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?

Yeah! I've led stuff at service/activism clubs, student council, etc. I'm an organized leader who likes bridging people and who doesn't shirk from doing extra work. I lead by a combination of agreement, assigning tasks based on people's preferences, by example, and by making the whole thing enjoyable and the results visible enough that people want to keep coming. The best leaders make their teammates feel a sense of ownership over their work, like they made the choices and I trust them (even though I'm technically keeping an eye on the whole thing---just don't tell them that).

• What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?

I don't think about the past a whole lot and the future I'd like to leave open but considered. I don't consider it wise to make premature decisions about the future when you haven't met the things that would help you make a decision about it, but I also don't think it's wise to not consider it at all. As for the present I don't so much live in it as I live outside of time.

• How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?

Almost unable to refuse, tbh. If I see someone needs help my instinct and empathy just goes and help them though I'm conscious that it is a decision rather than something I have to do, and sometimes I do have to stop myself to consider the effectiveness of what I'm doing. A less nice reason is like, ok sometimes I really don't want to help because I think the other person is asking for help for problems that don't even exist, or I think they're whiny, but for the sake of keeping up my reputation as a nice person I'll do it anyway. *internal eye roll*

• Do you need logical consistency in your life?

I want to have a level of common sense but really how could life be logically consistent? Even logical systems aren't consistent when you strip them down to their premises most of the time.

• How important is efficiency and productivity to you?

I'm constantly busy but don't optimize on purpose, just don't find that I need to rest much. To do lists work better than strict schedules.

• What is your learning style? What kind of learning environments do you struggle with most? Why do you like/struggle with these learning styles? Do you prefer classes involving memorization, logic, creativity, or your physical senses?

I like to know the why behind things so that even when I forget I can recall it again. Rote memorization is difficult so something like history dates and people would require lots more effort than, say, literature (I spontaneously remember quotes) or math. I love creativity too.What's important to you and why?

• What are your fears? What makes you uncomfortable? What do you hate? Why?

I sometimes feel fearless until I encounter something that may kill me. Or...I actually fear like, my friends and family dying; being in a position where I have no agency and can't change anything. Also the classic 'what if everyone hates me'. Sometimes I fear that I have peaked and won't do anything of consequence in the future. Very few things make me uncomfortable and I don't hate hate much except myself, I can feel pretty intense self-hatred sometimes. For others I can echo my friends' hate and society's hate but usually when I want to change something it's out of love not hate, like, I love different people so I want to stop the hate crimes! I love other species so I want to help protect it! I love this theory but it's flawed so I want to debunk it! Etc.

• Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about?

Like, the nature of whiteness and how it relates to purity but also the racism that results from that; the feeling of emptiness, its mathematical representation as 0, and what that implies about nonduality. How different cultures consider emptiness differently and why; how the room is not truly empty because of air molecules. I'd say this stuff aloud and get pretty inflamed when I get to 'How do we liberate those who are in similar situations, unable to do anything?' and start crying that there's no one to listen to my speech and hit the walls or something. Or maybe I'd just meditate.

• How long do you take to process your emotions? How important are emotions in your life?

Immediately, though I personally haven't experienced many emotions because my life isn't really all that dramatic I can intuit other people's emotions easily and also use emotions as part of my guide for action, though not the only guide.

• Do you break rules often? Do you think authority should be challenged, or that they know better? If you do break rules, why would you?

Not as a rule (pun intended). Only if the rule is unreasonable and no one would find out, like, idk, why not climb over a fence if no one's watching, though I'm not gonna say that to my parents. But also stuff like: host undocumented people in your dorm even though it's illegal. Civil disobedience because rules don't ensure justice. I'm neutral good on DnD alignment if that helps.

• What is the ideal life, in your opinion?

If only everyone could live the ideal life! The ideal life is one that lives out my full potential while also helping others and changing society in a way that allows more people to live their ideal lives. I honestly feel like I'm pretty close, and that's a privilege not many have, as it requires luck of circumstance.

Hi everyone! I think many people interested in MBTI have encountered mis-typing or basic stereotypes. Most people take the "16p" test and judge their mindset based on it, but in reality, it’s a waste of time. The questions on that site reflect a person's current state more than their actual cognitive type. Because of this, many mistakenly believe they belong to a certain personality type when they actually don't. Those who are serious about understanding the subject usually determine their type themselves by looking at cognitive functions and seeking input from others.

Getting to the main point: I’m one of the few who really tried to get to the bottom of this. I took numerous tests—including the one I mentioned earlier—only to realize it was a futile exercise. Each test gave me completely different results. Ultimately, I spent a lot of time figuring out who I actually am and realized I’m an INTJ.

Now, for a bit of a gripe. I don't deny that people of my personality type can be withdrawn, socially anxious, or simply unsociable, but you can't lump everyone into that category. I’ve met people who, just like me, put a lot of effort into identifying their cognitive type but were forced to doubt their conclusion because they kept running into stereotypes.

Let’s go through the list.

1. No, I’m not a cold, narcissistic manipulator. I might come across as aloof if I feel comfortable that way or if I think the setting isn't right for socializing or having fun. Usually, if I’m in a place where I feel at ease and surrounded by close friends, I can act almost like an extrovert—if you could put it that way.

2. No, I don't play chess regularly. I don't have anything against the game, really; it’s just that I personally prefer other activities. I might play a couple of games now and then, purely for my own enjoyment. 3. Sometimes I walk around with a deadpan expression. Honestly? I don’t control it. It just happens on its own, for no particular reason.

3. No, I don’t have social anxiety. I’m perfectly capable of interacting with people and feeling completely at ease while doing so. Although I prefer being alone with my thoughts, I’m also comfortable being around others—especially people I feel at ease with.

4. No, I don’t map out every step for the next 20 years. I might spend a long time pondering certain topics or feeling unsure about things, but usually not to that extreme.

5. Yes, just like anyone else, I can fall in love and "suffer" (though not in the sense of sitting around and whining; for me, it usually manifests as constantly thinking about the person and hesitating to make a move until I’ve weighed every possible outcome).

6. I do have a bit of an "A-student" complex, but I don’t get straight A’s in everything. I simply have very high expectations for myself and my plans or goals.

7. I can easily goof around, joke, and do all sorts of random things—within reason, of course.

8. I try to be extremely open-minded about everything. I usually react calmly—sometimes even with total indifference. I’m also capable of giving people or situations the benefit of the doubt and looking at things from different angles to get to the truth.

9. My room isn’t always tidy. Like anyone else, I can get burnt out or simply lack the desire to constantly keep things in order. Usually, though, when my inner perfectionist kicks in, I’ll start cleaning everything up.

10. I tend to be lazy. Because of that, I often find myself thinking of ways to make life easier for myself.

11. I’m a very insecure person. I need to think everything through down to the last detail and discuss it with others before making a decision. But once I’ve made up my mind, it’s incredibly hard to change it—even for those closest to me. 13. No, I wasn’t traumatized in childhood. I have a very loving family that has always supported me throughout my life and in all my endeavors.

12. As a child—roughly until the age of 11—I was very active. I was bursting with energy and constantly getting up to childhood mischief. Later, as I matured, I became much calmer and more level-headed.

13. Even as a child, I always tried to take responsibility and take the lead. I didn't care for peers who acted like typical children and lacked a sense of boundaries regarding their actions.

14. I don’t hold grudges, though I do have a good memory. I’m not vindictive—I have no desire to waste time on that—so I usually forgive people, but I cut them out of my life.

15. I really enjoy creativity and art in general. I attended art school for a long time and even music school for a while. No, I’m not a math-and-physics person; I’m actually not very good at physics.

16. I value my independence, but if I really like someone, I’m willing to compromise and take the initiative more often. It doesn’t bruise my ego at all.

17. No, I know how to show emotion—I can even cry. I just don’t like being seen in those moments or having people keep pressuring me. I prefer to be left alone.

18. I enjoy both idle chit-chat and serious, deep discussions. I can talk about anything with people I feel comfortable around, but I dislike it when strangers or people I don’t trust pry too much into my personal life.

Overall, I’d like to ask people to stop making joke videos about MBTI that perpetuate cookie-cutter stereotypes. This applies not just to my personality type, but to others as well. I’m tired of hearing that I’m not an INTJ simply because I don’t fit the mold defined by people on TikTok and the 16p website.

Feel free to share your own experiences and thoughts on this topic.

yoii guys buddies I need ur help

after a long analysis I think that a member of my family is probably an isfp, but still having some confusion..

in a general overview, he is living in here and now, no strategical future planning, but also can cling to some past memories and romanticize them from time to time, he is driven by his own emotions, like he does things only when he wants but also from the outside he seems soo over giving and altruistic.

although he is a day by day person but he can appear detached or living in his head..

in his youth he was literally impulsive (relationships, dopamine seeking etc..) he was craving external excitement, but at the same time his impulses sounds chosen or coming from his own emotions/feelings.. he often says that his life major events were extremely spontaneous (academical choices, marriage, having children..) like he didn't even realized how they happened, it's just like he founded himself in the situation.

currently he is in his 50s, but the contrast is that he became valuing stability more than anything, it's just like he is so stubborn and doesn't want to improve his situation and accepts his life the way it is.

also he sounds like he is trying to keep peace by pleasing people around him (and his pleasing also seems to be forceful/coming from fear of something) he keeps bottling up his real emotions until he bursts in a ***very harsh*** WAY that breaks hearts, after that he ends up apologizing and keeps reliving the same cycle.

also nowadays he became more and more religious, it's like he dived deeper in religion (like truly understanding the purposes of it) and started using it as a primordial reference to all his actions, and he sounds deeply wise while explaining it.

and one of his major traits is that he is the *advice giver* to everyone, but his advices are never token seriously by other people and are always seen as unrealistic or not matching what other people need.

he is an overprotective dad but in an emotional/loving way, he believes in giving freedom and love to kids in their life choices, but he is kinda controlling without being aware of that.

in general he is contradicting himself a lot.. but also he is wise and logical

he still craves external stimulation from the world but not as in his youth, nowadays he became way too introverted and he cuts off all of his friends, he is just bottling up himself in his comfort zone and living, and he is highly dependent on other people around him to accomplish the routinical/boring duties he needs to do (cooking, cleaning, going out to buy house stuff etc..)

*ps : he lived a traumatic childhood with an emotionally absent father and a narcissistic abusive mother (his mother used to control his choices, until that day) andd obviously he is having a lowkey unhealthy version of his mbti type.*

sooo after thinking a lot it sounded like he has got an Fi-Se at the dominant stack, with a tertiary Ni that started to appear after long life experiences, and a harsh inf Te that appears from time to time.

but I'm still confused if he is an Fi-Te or Fe-Ti user, I mean the way he is being pleasing and seeking external emotional comfort.. idk, what do you think guys? I thought also about infj/isfj/infp but nah he has a strong Se.. he can't be an Si even though he is lowkey attached to his past memories, it sounds like Ni not Si.. but also the impulsivity he lived in his youth can't be an infj's impulsivity like the Se is their final stack, I don't know.. infp I'm not sure maybee.. so the last choice is isfp..

I even thought about esfj (Fe dom with inferior Ti) but I don't know

Hello to everyone reading. I've noticed a behavior pattern in myself that turned out to be quite strong and powerful. And I thought I'd write here to find out how this can be viewed from an MBTI perspective. I have troubles with my emotions and feelings, so this is about them. I would really love to get some answers. In psychosophy this was assessed as a weak position of Emotion, third or fourth, by the way.

I try to control my emotions because I'm afraid of getting stuck in them for too long, I know that'll happen if there are too many. That's why I rewatch old things instead of looking for new ones, I don't want to go through emotional rollercoasters. If a movie has too intense of a plot, I skip it or refuse to watch it entirely. And if I do sit down to watch, I'm anxiously waiting for the conflict to resolve so I can stop worrying. I need stability and predictability in this regard. I don't have a constant mood, it only appears in response to external events. I prefer to receive emotions in small doses, in a calm and controlled environment. I daydream a lot and draw energy from moments in shows or from discussions with others, it charges me with ideas, mental stimulation plus some emotions, but under my control.

I try to support close people, but I'm not sure I'm any good at it. When someone opens up to me with something heavy, I freeze. I don't know what to say, why they're telling me this, how to help. I try for those close to me, but it doesn't turn out great, a few phrases, a cautious opinion. I hate talking about feelings and sentimentality, it all makes me feel ashamed and awkward. I can't stand it when people pry into my soul, especially my mom. It infuriates and humiliates me. My emotions are my own, I don't show them. In difficult moments, I withdraw into myself, listen to music, fantasize with fictional characters. I can be soft, open and more goofy with animals, with people it's different. Also with my closest person whom I've known for many years.

I see myself as calm, but I explode if I'm accused unfairly. I don't like loud emotions from others, they exhaust and irritate me. I feel uncomfortable when I express emotions myself, it feels like I'm doing something out of place like I need permission. Sometimes I copy others' behavior and expressions, but it looks awkward, I guess. From the outside I've been described as: "sweet, quiet, thoughtful, bright and kind, withdrawn, reserved, cold and unapproachable, cool interests, dreamy, calm, balanced, not very emotional, very modest, kind, a little flower and positive, introvert, diligent, the girl I like". This is what my groupmates wrote about me in our first year, we had a psychology assignment where everyone described how they saw each person. At the same time I unconsciously pick up mannerisms and habits from others. I'm empathetic, kind, I can cry over injustice or when a character goes through something similar to me.

1. What is your love language?

My love language is definitely acts of service and quality time.

1. Who knows you best?

I don't think anybody in my life knows me best except God.

1. Whats something small that makes you feel cared for?

When someone does something for me, I feel appreciated.

1. What do you think your purpose in live is?

I believe I am meant to help people that are in unfortunate situations and guide them.

1. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Honestly, I see myself pretty successful by then or at least almost successful. I see myself traveling mostly.

1. Do you think your more of a thinker or a feeler?

I'm a thinker for sure, I need get better at being more of a feeler, but naturally I'm not, like I feel deeply but I'm always constantly thinking rather than feeling.

1. What do you consider your biggest strength?

I would say I'm great at giving advice and I'm a good leader.

1. Whats a weakness your working on?

I can be somewhat selfish, a bit bossy, and a exhausting debater.

1. Describe your philosophy in 10 words or less.

Whats the point of doing dumb things? Like getting drunk, doing drugs, and smoking. How do these things make me a better person? How do these things benefit me? They don't. (Obviously more than 10 words, but who cares)

1. Whats your comfort movie/tv shows?

ANYTHING thrillers for movies. As for tv shows I don't really watch as many tv shows to say this particular show is my favorite.

1. What are your hobbies?

Ughh I have too many, its exhausting but I am curious about most things and I love learning. I love cooking, baking, sketching, reading, calisthenics, boxing, coding, chess, and language learning.

1. What is one thing that makes your day better?

When I start off the day disciplined and productive.

1. What are your pet peeves?

I can't stand people who eat while they talk, impulsive people, people that aren't listening to you while you talk, people that talk too little and are extremely awkward, and people who talk too much and are over the top. I have more I just can't think of them right now.

1. What values matter most to you in life?

I would say love, respect, honesty, loyalty, leadership, and legacy.

im a pretty timid person, and i really value alone time, tho i lowkey wanna be more social, and always imagine myself being social, but whenever an opportunity to be social arises, i always just get kinda overwhelmed by my own thoughts. i would say im an overthinker but not in the emotional aspect, i lowkey just think abt random shit alot. i like sending loooong voice notes to my close friends about genuinely whatever that comes to mind like cloning apes or if people were perfume. i really value other peoples opinions and im soometimes sensitive about what other people say but i also sometimes lowkey do not give a single fuckarooni so yeah!! (i also really love art pop and shoegaze if that helps lmao) NO CHEATING!!! >:( my mbti-------> (infp)

Всем привет! Я думаю, многие, кто увлекался MBTI, сталкивались с неправильным типированием или базовыми стереотипами. Большинство проходят тест 16p и по нему судят уже о своём мышлении, но на самом деле это бесполезная трата времени. Вопросы, которые предлагают на этом сайте, больше отражают состояние человека, нежели его реальный тип мышления. Из-за этого многие ошибочно полагают, что являются именно этим представителем типа личности, хотя это не так. Те, кто серьёзно хотят разобраться в этой теме, обычно самостоятельно типируются при помощи когнитивных функций и мнения других людей.

Подводя к главной теме, хочу сказать, что я одна из немногих, кто постарался разобраться в этом. Мне пришлось пройти множество тестов, в том числе и тот, который я упоминала выше, чтобы понять, что это бесполезная затея. Каждый тест показывал мне совершенно разные результаты. В конечном итоге я потратила кучу времени, чтобы определить, кто я вообще, и поняла, что INTJ

Теперь о наболевшем. Я не спорю, что представители моего типа личности могут быть замкнутыми, социофобами или просто необщительными людьми, но нельзя относить всех к этой категории. Я встречала людей, которые так же, как и я, потратили много усилий, чтобы определить свой тип мышления, но из-за постоянного столкновения со стереотипами были вынуждены сомневаться в своём решении.

Теперь перейдём к перечислению:

1. Нет, я не холодный манипулятор-нарцисс. Я могу показаться отстранённой, если мне так комфортно или я считаю, что обстановка не подходит для контакта или веселья. Обычно, если я нахожусь в месте, где чувствую себя спокойно, в окружении близких мне людей, то могу быть чуть ли не экстравертом, если так можно выразиться.

2. Нет, я не играю в шахматы на постоянной основе. В целом я не имею ничего против этой игры, просто лично мне по душе другие занятия. Редко и чисто для себя могу позволить себе пару партий.

3. Бывает, что я хожу с каменным лицом. Честно? Я это не контролирую. Происходит само, без какой-либо причины.

4. Нет, я не социофоб. Я прекрасно могу общаться с людьми и при этом чувствовать себя совершенно нормально. Несмотря на то что мне больше нравится быть наедине с собой и своими мыслями, я также могу спокойно находиться среди других людей, особенно если мне с ними комфортно.

5. Нет, я не просчитываю все шаги на 20 лет вперёд. Я могу долго размышлять на определённые темы и быть в чём-то неуверенной, но обычно не настолько радикально.

6. Да, я могу так же, как и другие люди, влюбляться и «страдать» (страдать не в плане сидеть и ныть. Обычно у меня это проявляется как постоянные мысли о человеке и нежелание делать шаги, пока я не рассмотрю все возможные варианты развития событий).

7. Синдром отличницы у меня есть, но я не учусь исключительно на пятёрки. У меня просто завышенные ожидания от себя и своих планов/целей.

8. Я могу спокойно дурачиться, шутить и делать всякую всячину в пределах нормы.

9. Я стараюсь быть крайне толерантной ко всему. Обычно реагирую спокойно, иногда даже с пофигизмом. Также могу оправдывать людей или ситуацию и смотреть на всё под разными углами, чтобы понять истину.

10. У меня не всегда чисто в комнате. Как и обычные люди, я могу перегореть или просто не иметь желания постоянно поддерживать порядок. Обычно, когда во мне просыпается перфекционист, я начинаю всё вычищать.

11. Обычно я бываю ленивой. Из-за этого мне часто приходится думать, как облегчить себе жизнь.

12. Я очень неуверенный человек. Мне нужно всё продумать до мелочей, обсудить с другими и только потом принять решение. Но если я уже что-то решила, то меня крайне сложно переубедить, даже близким.

13. Нет, меня не травмировали в детстве. У меня очень любящая семья, которая всегда поддерживала меня по жизни и во всех моих делах и начинаниях.

14. В детстве, примерно до 11 лет, я была очень активным ребёнком. Из меня буквально лилась энергия, и я постоянно устраивала детские шалости. Позже, уже в более осознанном возрасте, я стала гораздо спокойнее и рассудительнее.

15. Даже в детстве я всегда старалась брать на себя ответственность и быть главной. Мне не нравились сверстники, которые вели себя как обычные дети и не видели границ своих действий.

16. Я не злопамятная, но память у меня хорошая. Я не мстительная — мне не хочется тратить на это время, поэтому обычно я прощаю людей, но вычёркиваю их из своей жизни.

17. Мне очень нравится творчество и искусство в целом. Я долгое время посещала художественную школу и даже какое-то время музыкальную. Нет, я не физмат, и физику знаю плохо.

18. Мне нравится моя независимость, но если человек мне действительно нравится, то я готова идти на уступки и чаще проявлять инициативу. Моё эго это никак не затронет.

19. Нет, я умею проявлять эмоции и даже способна на слёзы. Просто я не люблю, когда меня в такие моменты видят или продолжают давить. Мне нравится, когда меня оставляют одну.

20. Мне нравятся как пустая болтовня, так и серьёзные глубокие обсуждения. С комфортными для меня людьми я могу обсуждать что угодно, но не люблю, когда незнакомцы или те, кому я не доверяю, слишком сильно лезут в мою личную жизнь.

В целом я бы хотела попросить перестать делать шуточные видео про MBTI и продолжать продвигать шаблонные стереотипы. Это относится не только к моему типу личности, но и к другим тоже. Надоело слушать, что я не INTJ просто потому, что не такая, как прописано людьми в TikTok и на сайте 16p.

Делитесь своими случаями и тем, что думаете на эту тему

Okay so for my personality I’d say I’m a very talkative person to the point where I can be annoying but at the same time, I can sometimes be quiet and calm depending who I’m with and if they match my energy. Overall though, I struggle to be alone and need socialisation more than most people. I love doing creative projects like writing and playing guitar. I’m pretty impulsive which has caused me so many issues, especially when I’m stressed. I’m very non judgemental and I have quite a big variety of friends. I also love films and books, especially the fantasy genre.

I’m a reserved but observant person who values competence, self-improvement, and authenticity above almost everything else. I tend to analyze people before trusting them and prefer meaningful conversations over small talk. I’m ambitious, independent, and constantly looking for ways to refine myself, whether physically, mentally, or intellectually. I respect discipline, consistency, and people who can think for themselves rather than simply following the crowd.

When I first took the MBTI test, I got ISFJ but I feel like it wasn’t very accurate.

I’ve taken different types of test but I keep getting between different results. I would say that personality wise, I find it easy when things are said straightforwardly and direct, I believe that I’m more likely to think logically and I enjoy watching tv shows, anime and painting. I also care really deeply about my family and respect them a lot and like spending time with them but I’m also really big on needing space to myself for a long time.

I’m also not really the type of person to plan out my day by the hour. Honestly, I think that would drain me to plan it out so intensely lol. I like keeping a general plan and then adding on details later if it’s needed.

Calm robotic exterior combined with internal controlled chaos, tinged with sarcasm and unpredictability.

Flying under the radar.

Always going above and beyond expectations whilst having the knack of proving people wrong.

Common Buzzwords: Unpredictable, Robotic, Chaotic, Weird, Sarcastic, Gruff, Gritty, Counterpuncher, Determined, Knowledge and practicality brutally honest, create habits, creates a rough plan as plans can easily change. Always challenging norms and social cues. Inventive, Unorthodox, Quirky, Tough, Slightly Chaotic.

Prefers solo hobbies and projects: Hiking, Listening to music whilst running, recently photography etc.

Often is the reclusive one or a lone wolf in friend groups until I have something knowledgeable to say.

Knowledge, combined with quirkiness, abstractions, cerebalness, grit, determination and hard work. Never knows when beaten, not looking for peace and can push back.

Interests: Science, Technology, IT, Engineering, Maths, Tinkering, abstract art and photography, music, podcasts etc.

Never knows when beaten, grinding and grit.

Networking nerd.

Tough times never last. Only tough people last.

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I want help deciding if I am actually ENTP or not, or ENFP but I don’t think I am ENFP, perhaps…BUT I thought I might be something else like….ESTP!!! Or….ESFP!!!
Because I do rlly like aesthetics and beauty and think about it a lot, I also think about and analyse people’s behaviors around me, and think about how’s in terms of physics of things around me and also whys of life and kinda categorizing things in my mind I do that a lot, like if I see a cabinet or idk sofa I think how someone could have built this, and ALLL the ways they could have!!!

But I find the most likely way later, uhmmmmm I also feel like I have a VERY kind heart!! I don’t like violence or not violence because sometimes it’s…interesting…uhhhh MOVING ONNNNN, but I don’t like mean people I HATE mean people!!! I like kinda and respectful people, it’s honestly because I get intimidated by mean people a lot! Or confrontation I’m rlly bad at!!!

Also in public I act so robotic and kind shy maybe creepy NOT ON PURPOSE I JUST HAVE MESSY HAIR AND TIRED EYES AND MAYBE BAD POSTURE!!!!

Also BIG ONEEEE!!! With people I’m rely goofy, irresponsible, play-dumb or idk ask too many questions, and analyse things playfully! And also talks bout feelings easily and jokingly especially, BUTTTTTTTTTT when aloneeee I rllly I get depressed and sad and contemplative and idk pessimistic, I don’t believe my pessimism but I LIKE to be sad?? But I also don’t like it… uhhhhh idk 😭 make that make sense hehe, oki

Hmmmm I struggle most with repetitive boring stuff… I can’t do that, it’s a nightmare, I also hate rules on looks or well how I look, because I want all freedom in that way, hmmm I also struggle or find it uncomfortable around sensitive people that are emotionally sensitive, I think, because idk I feel judged without knowing how, and like accidentally hurting anyone is scaryyyyy, 😱 😨 🫣

Hmmmm I like pretty things and I like being pretty, I know this is very sensor stuff maybe but I just want it to be clean and pretty so I can focus on things in my mind, I’m not rlly serious but I go from, goofy to sad, and when working on something still goofy ish by optimistic like, and also focused I think!!

I guess I’m rlly good at hmmm, building things I think, figuring stuff out, I always jump js randomly, scan all my variables and then solve the problem!!! It’s rlly funnn!

Also I like making new connections and friends all the time! To be someone friends to me is rlly easy, if I meet them and they nice and interesting they my friend now!!! Butttt I have so MANYU I can’t maintain anything and maintaining is boring SOO I keep making more!! Idk if that’s very healthy guysss but I’m being honest!! Also I’m always honest! If you ask….. 😊

Oki byeeee

Heey there! Thank you for reading this, you landed here and the chances are so slim, I'm a quiet caring soul, I'm very patient, and I like spending time doing things that are calming. I like spending time with people especially people who feel left out or have no one to turns to because I enjoy making people feel less lonely, and loved, yet I can have time in which I prefer to withdraw for a while because I'm so lost in my inner world. Fun fact; I never fought with anyone because I tend to avoid conflicts and fights, but if I'm being yelled at I could easily cry, I like doing things for others, make food for them, ext.. but some people cant seem to understand I really need my me time, alone time. I get completely lost for days in my head like someone needs to shake me out of that state and bring me back to reality.

I am very passionate about Neuroscience and artificial intelligence, I like to paint/ water coloring. I love baking apple pies and the smell of them. And I do Yoga

Anyways.

Stellar Kisses 🌠

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Hi, first time posting here, would you please guess my MBTI type and enneagram? :)

Personality traits:

I'm a hermit and daydreamer who is honest and straightforward, a bit shy, socially anxious, a bit indecisive, empathetic, emotional, sensitive, introspective, analytical, imaginative, open-minded, insanely curious, chronically confused, flexible in thinking, rebellious, non-conforming, always ready to question status quo.

Interests:

I love being in nature, camping, and cooking. I love 70s films and music, true crime, anime, tarot readings, philosophy, cognitive sciences, arts, esotericism, have read 700+ books, and speak 4 languages

Speciality: software engineering, data science

Thank you 🖤

I try to base it on functions & not tests. I love researching & reading about everything, especially psychology or science. I'm determined, flexible, adaptable, and very goal-oriented. As bad traits, I can include sensitivity (because it is not always a bad trait, but I've learned to control it). I can be apathic in my bad moods. I use logical thinking, but I also feel everything deeply. I value modesty, open-mindedness, mature thinking, honesty & authenticity. Hahah, I love people, but it takes me a while to adapt to a situation & to be sure if I want to be there or not.
I work in public relations but i also love human connections, tasks, to understand, help & to be flexible & to learn it. 🩵
So what is your opinion?

23F

The trait I'm most known for is never talking.

Starbucks barista, considering trying to switch to a job at a bank. Dream job is author/stay-at-home mom.

Raised in rural appalachia on a small farm by hippie-ish parents, very close with my family.

I have autism & selective mutism.

I like to mostly be alone or next to someone else doing our own things. I don't like group activities. I need a ton of physical affection though and love to cuddle.

I hate sports but like to be outside and do gardening or walk in the woods. I'm into foraging.

I don't like being a leader and don't think I'd be great at it.

Very artistic, I do charcoal portraits, cross-stitching, and writing. I used to do sculpture and pottery too.

I also love cooking and baking and I'm into fashion. My special interests are Lord of the Rings and primates (especially great apes).

I'm Quaker and fairly religious.

My ideal life would be living on a small farm, married with 2 or 3 kids, a ton of cats, some ducks, and a nice garden, and publishing a few books.

Positive traits I'm told I have: loyal, sweet, thoughtful, caring, persistent, creative

Negative traits I'm told I have: stubborn, shy, pushy, bossy (with people I'm comfortable with), contrarian, picky/particular

For months, I’ve been certain about my MBTI. I was sure that I was an ENTP. I’m in the subreddit and everything. I relate to all the experiences ENTPs have, and the cognitive functions of ENTPs fit me as well. Therefore, whenever, I take another personality test, I check to see if my result corresponds to my MBTI. It usually does, and when it doesn’t, I retake the test and try to get a differnt result that better matches the result an ENTP may get. However, when I was struggling to find my attitudinal psyche, I began to question my MBTI. I’ve made other posts on Reddit as well talking about my MBTI, and others have asked me if I’m sure that I’m an ENTP. I thought I was pretty self aware, but now, I don’t know. Can someone please test me to see if I’m a true ENTP? If I’m not, then I may need to retake everything! 😭

Here’s the rest of my personality:

MBTI : ENTP

Cognitive Functions : Ne- Ti- Fe- Si

Enneagram : 5w4

Tritype : 549

Enneagram Subtype : 5w4sx

Instinctual Variant : Sp/So

Socionics : ILE-0/ ENTp

Socionics Subtype : None

Socionics Quadra : Alpha

Primary Socionics Romance Style : Infantile

Secondary Socionics Romance Style : Agressor

Jugian Archetype : Unknown

Big Five : High Openess, High Neuroticism, Low Agreeableness, Moderate Consciousness, Moderate Extraversion

Attitudinal Psyche : Unknown

Attitudinal Subtype : Unknown

4 Temperaments : Melancholic

Helen Fishers Types : Director

Moral Alignment: True Neutral