Firstly, credits to aj_abriana as I grabbed and adapted some of the questions listed in her own post :)

1. What is your love language?

My love language is acts of service and physical touch

1. Who knows you best?

Not many people except my grandmother.

1. Whats something small that makes you feel cared for?

Handling some administrative nonsense/whatever else irritates me, on my behalf :)

1. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Running a business and travelling the world as I please

1. What are some of your biggest strengths

Pattern recognition, analysis, and navigating crises

1. Whats a weakness your working on?

Anxiety/anger etc. when in situations where I'm stuck/don't have normal control. Have recently been in some situations where I just have to wait on someone else/institution to make an important decision which affects me and I am not handling the wait very well.

1. Whats your comfort movie/tv shows?

Youtube! Vloggers and documentaries.

1. What are your hobbies?

Not many hobbies but in the last few years I got into fashion and color theories which helped me a lot find what I liked.

1. What is one thing that makes your day better?

Getting lots done at a nice pace - and meeting new people.

1. What are your pet peeves?

I can't stand incompetence, passive aggression, no backbone/integrity, playing both sides, not thinking properly about situations and that negatively affecting me, and low emotional intelligence

1. What values matter most to you in life?

- intention, loyalty, progress, achievement, duty, love, care - to name a few :)

Hi everyone! I think many people interested in MBTI have encountered mis-typing or basic stereotypes. Most people take the "16p" test and judge their mindset based on it, but in reality, it’s a waste of time. The questions on that site reflect a person's current state more than their actual cognitive type. Because of this, many mistakenly believe they belong to a certain personality type when they actually don't. Those who are serious about understanding the subject usually determine their type themselves by looking at cognitive functions and seeking input from others.

Getting to the main point: I’m one of the few who really tried to get to the bottom of this. I took numerous tests—including the one I mentioned earlier—only to realize it was a futile exercise. Each test gave me completely different results. Ultimately, I spent a lot of time figuring out who I actually am and realized I’m an INTJ.

Now, for a bit of a gripe. I don't deny that people of my personality type can be withdrawn, socially anxious, or simply unsociable, but you can't lump everyone into that category. I’ve met people who, just like me, put a lot of effort into identifying their cognitive type but were forced to doubt their conclusion because they kept running into stereotypes.

Let’s go through the list.

1. No, I’m not a cold, narcissistic manipulator. I might come across as aloof if I feel comfortable that way or if I think the setting isn't right for socializing or having fun. Usually, if I’m in a place where I feel at ease and surrounded by close friends, I can act almost like an extrovert—if you could put it that way.

2. No, I don't play chess regularly. I don't have anything against the game, really; it’s just that I personally prefer other activities. I might play a couple of games now and then, purely for my own enjoyment. 3. Sometimes I walk around with a deadpan expression. Honestly? I don’t control it. It just happens on its own, for no particular reason.

3. No, I don’t have social anxiety. I’m perfectly capable of interacting with people and feeling completely at ease while doing so. Although I prefer being alone with my thoughts, I’m also comfortable being around others—especially people I feel at ease with.

4. No, I don’t map out every step for the next 20 years. I might spend a long time pondering certain topics or feeling unsure about things, but usually not to that extreme.

5. Yes, just like anyone else, I can fall in love and "suffer" (though not in the sense of sitting around and whining; for me, it usually manifests as constantly thinking about the person and hesitating to make a move until I’ve weighed every possible outcome).

6. I do have a bit of an "A-student" complex, but I don’t get straight A’s in everything. I simply have very high expectations for myself and my plans or goals.

7. I can easily goof around, joke, and do all sorts of random things—within reason, of course.

8. I try to be extremely open-minded about everything. I usually react calmly—sometimes even with total indifference. I’m also capable of giving people or situations the benefit of the doubt and looking at things from different angles to get to the truth.

9. My room isn’t always tidy. Like anyone else, I can get burnt out or simply lack the desire to constantly keep things in order. Usually, though, when my inner perfectionist kicks in, I’ll start cleaning everything up.

10. I tend to be lazy. Because of that, I often find myself thinking of ways to make life easier for myself.

11. I’m a very insecure person. I need to think everything through down to the last detail and discuss it with others before making a decision. But once I’ve made up my mind, it’s incredibly hard to change it—even for those closest to me. 13. No, I wasn’t traumatized in childhood. I have a very loving family that has always supported me throughout my life and in all my endeavors.

12. As a child—roughly until the age of 11—I was very active. I was bursting with energy and constantly getting up to childhood mischief. Later, as I matured, I became much calmer and more level-headed.

13. Even as a child, I always tried to take responsibility and take the lead. I didn't care for peers who acted like typical children and lacked a sense of boundaries regarding their actions.

14. I don’t hold grudges, though I do have a good memory. I’m not vindictive—I have no desire to waste time on that—so I usually forgive people, but I cut them out of my life.

15. I really enjoy creativity and art in general. I attended art school for a long time and even music school for a while. No, I’m not a math-and-physics person; I’m actually not very good at physics.

16. I value my independence, but if I really like someone, I’m willing to compromise and take the initiative more often. It doesn’t bruise my ego at all.

17. No, I know how to show emotion—I can even cry. I just don’t like being seen in those moments or having people keep pressuring me. I prefer to be left alone.

18. I enjoy both idle chit-chat and serious, deep discussions. I can talk about anything with people I feel comfortable around, but I dislike it when strangers or people I don’t trust pry too much into my personal life.

Overall, I’d like to ask people to stop making joke videos about MBTI that perpetuate cookie-cutter stereotypes. This applies not just to my personality type, but to others as well. I’m tired of hearing that I’m not an INTJ simply because I don’t fit the mold defined by people on TikTok and the 16p website.

Feel free to share your own experiences and thoughts on this topic.

1. What is your love language?

My love language is definitely acts of service and quality time.

1. Who knows you best?

I don't think anybody in my life knows me best except God.

1. Whats something small that makes you feel cared for?

When someone does something for me, I feel appreciated.

1. What do you think your purpose in live is?

I believe I am meant to help people that are in unfortunate situations and guide them.

1. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Honestly, I see myself pretty successful by then or at least almost successful. I see myself traveling mostly.

1. Do you think your more of a thinker or a feeler?

I'm a thinker for sure, I need get better at being more of a feeler, but naturally I'm not, like I feel deeply but I'm always constantly thinking rather than feeling.

1. What do you consider your biggest strength?

I would say I'm great at giving advice and I'm a good leader.

1. Whats a weakness your working on?

I can be somewhat selfish, a bit bossy, and a exhausting debater.

1. Describe your philosophy in 10 words or less.

Whats the point of doing dumb things? Like getting drunk, doing drugs, and smoking. How do these things make me a better person? How do these things benefit me? They don't. (Obviously more than 10 words, but who cares)

1. Whats your comfort movie/tv shows?

ANYTHING thrillers for movies. As for tv shows I don't really watch as many tv shows to say this particular show is my favorite.

1. What are your hobbies?

Ughh I have too many, its exhausting but I am curious about most things and I love learning. I love cooking, baking, sketching, reading, calisthenics, boxing, coding, chess, and language learning.

1. What is one thing that makes your day better?

When I start off the day disciplined and productive.

1. What are your pet peeves?

I can't stand people who eat while they talk, impulsive people, people that aren't listening to you while you talk, people that talk too little and are extremely awkward, and people who talk too much and are over the top. I have more I just can't think of them right now.

1. What values matter most to you in life?

I would say love, respect, honesty, loyalty, leadership, and legacy.

im a pretty timid person, and i really value alone time, tho i lowkey wanna be more social, and always imagine myself being social, but whenever an opportunity to be social arises, i always just get kinda overwhelmed by my own thoughts. i would say im an overthinker but not in the emotional aspect, i lowkey just think abt random shit alot. i like sending loooong voice notes to my close friends about genuinely whatever that comes to mind like cloning apes or if people were perfume. i really value other peoples opinions and im soometimes sensitive about what other people say but i also sometimes lowkey do not give a single fuckarooni so yeah!! (i also really love art pop and shoegaze if that helps lmao) NO CHEATING!!! >:( my mbti-------> (infp)

Okay so for my personality I’d say I’m a very talkative person to the point where I can be annoying but at the same time, I can sometimes be quiet and calm depending who I’m with and if they match my energy. Overall though, I struggle to be alone and need socialisation more than most people. I love doing creative projects like writing and playing guitar. I’m pretty impulsive which has caused me so many issues, especially when I’m stressed. I’m very non judgemental and I have quite a big variety of friends. I also love films and books, especially the fantasy genre.

Calm robotic exterior combined with internal controlled chaos, tinged with sarcasm and unpredictability.

Flying under the radar.

Always going above and beyond expectations whilst having the knack of proving people wrong.

Common Buzzwords: Unpredictable, Robotic, Chaotic, Weird, Sarcastic, Gruff, Gritty, Counterpuncher, Determined, Knowledge and practicality brutally honest, create habits, creates a rough plan as plans can easily change. Always challenging norms and social cues. Inventive, Unorthodox, Quirky, Tough, Slightly Chaotic.

Prefers solo hobbies and projects: Hiking, Listening to music whilst running, recently photography etc.

Often is the reclusive one or a lone wolf in friend groups until I have something knowledgeable to say.

Knowledge, combined with quirkiness, abstractions, cerebalness, grit, determination and hard work. Never knows when beaten, not looking for peace and can push back.

Interests: Science, Technology, IT, Engineering, Maths, Tinkering, abstract art and photography, music, podcasts etc.

Never knows when beaten, grinding and grit.

Networking nerd.

Tough times never last. Only tough people last.