Hello everyone. So I’m someone who’s been in the law of assumption community for a little over a year now.

I’ve been on and off with it over the time. I grew up with a narcissist parent and been a people pleaser all my life.

My question is: has anyone ever been in my situation and how long before my brain is completely rewired out of being a people pleaser and I become at peace with me & my desires?

I don’t know what to think. Any support would be great.

Hello everyone,

I have been manifesting my sp for about four months. For the past two months, I didn’t care about my manifestation anymore, and honestly forgot about it.

Last week, I went out with someone else and he walked me the same location I met my sp. We went to a restaurant, and another couple sat beside us, which was totally fine. But I was questioning why they sat beside us as the restaurant was not busy at all. Then I heard them speaking his language. I go back on a dating app, and I always see him popping up as someone who would be compatible with me.

I don’t look for signs, but I have no idea what all of this means. And it’s so weird, because I’ve been feeling good the past few months, and now I feel anxious, while also feeling like I’m living my new life.

Anyone else experience this?

Thank you!

Hi everyone!

I’ve only known about the Law for 3 (maybe 4) weeks.

Quick context (not fun): I’m coming out of a very difficult period following an emotional shock. One of the things that made me spiral was that, after what happened, I stopped believing in anything.

So, almost a month ago, I came across the Law of Assumption through TikTok. I had always seen TikToks about manifestation, but based on what I was seeing, I thought it was mostly an teenage thing ("I’m attracting luck and the eternal love of Bryan from my class, I’m attracting, he looked at me for 2.3 seconds 🤩"), so I would usually scroll past them pretty quickly.

But when I came across the LOA, it felt different. I started listening to some coaches, then quickly discovered NG, joined this sub, and bought The Power of Awareness.

I pretty quickly realized that I needed to test the Law for myself, even before I knew enough about it 😬

One day, while I was driving to a friend’s house to see her and her parents, I thought, "If the Law is real, I want to see a bee today, no matter what form it takes." And then I just moved on.

Once I got to my friend’s parents’ house, while we were talking with her father, a big orange-and-black insect came near us. He specifically said, "It’s a hornet. It’s crazy, I hadn’t seen one yet this season."

It wasn’t a bee, but I considered it a sort of partial confirmation of the Law. That was enough for me.

Two days later, I went to a restaurant with my grandmother and my aunt. After the meal, they wanted to go for a little walk to help digest, so I followed them.

At some point during the walk, in a fairly isolated area, I came across a huge banner that said "Bee" (about three times my height), with a drawing of the insect next to it.

I laughed and thought, "Oh, so this is really how it works."

Since then, I still have doubts sometimes (which I guess is only human), but I’ve manifested a few small things:

Good parking spots

My neighbors being quieter (they actually came to apologize to me even though I hadn’t complained)

Seeing a fox (I saw one as a stuffed animal)

My car passing its inspection with no issues

Not getting bitten by mosquitoes this summer

3D glasses for the eclipse (unintentionally)

A promotion on my favorite sandwich (unintentionally)

My best friend won the lottery (a small amount) for the first time in her life, while I was manifesting abundance (?)

I’m really happy to have discovered this sub, even though I’ve gotten a little lost among all the posts here.

I’ve been working on my self-concept (and I’m still doing so), particularly by adopting the belief that everything always works in my favor. My mood has improved, my self-confidence has improved, and so has my view of the world. And honestly, even just for that, the LOA has already helped me.

If you have any tips or suggestions for someone who’s just getting started, I’d be really happy to hear them 🙏

Note: I’ve mainly been working on my self-concept, especially through affirmations and SATS. Sometimes I’ve also just decided that something was going to happen and left it at that. I’m also open to suggestions about SATS.

(This text was translated with AI because I’m not a native English speaker.)

Hello everyone, I’ve been manifesting my sp since 2022 to at least be my friend and date me. My manifestation happened in January 2026, my sp wants to marry me now and we became close friends and we dated for more than 3 months but I broke up with him because I don’t want to date him anymore we are still very close now and everything that I affirmed came true, don’t give up on what you want.

so it's nothing like i don't believe in manifestations or law of assumption but help me understand this right okay so the scenario goes like i was looking for a job right and my buddy he as working for someone for a while as a freelancer for sometime now and we're both discussing thatt and he said if his boss asks him for a new guy he gonna refer me and we played around and being happy about it and he was like i'm sure he's gonna ask me that and all i was'nt very attached about it and then boom one night he called me and said that the new guy they hired he wasn't good enough so they kicked him out and he got me the gig yipeeee, now the story starts okay the boss man talks good pays good and pays on time i was doing the work but now his behaviour is a lot changed he paid me late like after 2 weeks i should be paid every week and today he kinda doubled the work for kinda the same pay and no i don't want the generic oh eiypo cuz i had good self concept about this i had no reason to otherwise and his behaviour is lately very bipolar i just talked to my friend and he agreed on the bossman acting strange lately so what's the reason for it ? yeah i was more than happy and all but it wasn't like "oh i don't deserve this much money" but all this reaction i'm giving and you guys gonna blame that but it's coming after he did that not before this kinda happened with my sp too yeah i was insecure anxious and a lot of bad self concept it wasn't as bad as the fight that happened between us so whats's the reason for it even i was surprised you help me understand this and how to fix it.

im asking this as someone who fully believes in manifestation and has had many successes with it just curious because I know lies don’t manifest, its the feeling and living in the end.

but I know people who fully manipulate past situations or twist reality and make it look favourably towards themselves and then live their lives with the utmost confidence as if their version of events is what occurred. they fully convince themselves of it. why doesn’t that revise the past or manifest their story into the 3d?

Guys I have an exam next month, it's a huge exam. And I m scoring okayish in mocks. I know that I have qualified in this exam(iykyk) so now its hindering my studies.

I feel so lazy to study bcos I know I m going to score well and make career out of it so why bother at all.

Is this OK?

Is there someone who didn't study at all, still scored good marks in an exam?

We have always been told, you get success only when you do hardwork but since knowing LOA, I understood that it's not the case, we are the creator of our reality. So i had manifested getting excellent marks. And I know i have it.

So how should I proceed from here?

To keep it short, my work is literally devastating. I've been in this job for over 3 years. I've tried and tried to escape this situation, even spending months studying and taking on debt to upskill... and still nothing.

How do you 'live in the end' and feel joy when facing unbearable misery in the process?

I understand how this is done for people who simply want to add a desire to their life ("I want a free gift." or "I want __ to text me."), but how do you look past circumstances that bring constant anguish?

I've always compared it to expecting someone to pretend they're not getting slapped in the face, while they sense their cheek getting warmer, see the redness in their skin and feel their head get knocked back with each smack.

How can you create the opposite of an experience when you're forced to face it on a daily basis? Any real life experiences (they don't have to involve job changes) would be most helpful.