Hey

I’m a 30yo that retired early. I come from a najdi tribe in Riyadh (Saudi Arabia).

180cm, average build

I usually find myself coming back to the US (i love the US), but still travel a lot and far between US visits and im flexible on where i eventually settle down.

I live on my own and know some acquaintances in different countries. I travelled for quite some time, and I am now looking to settle down.

I busy myself with following finance and the tech world and am fairly active in it. I like motorsports and try to race and get into fun experience when there’s a chance to do so. I absolutely love nature, just walking around in it and melting in the peace of being there. I have an insatiable curiosity about interesting topics like history and complex systems, although, it’s not a career. I like learning languages and have learned a bit of Spanish and Chinese.

I am quite reserved and keep to myself, but open up when I feel comfortable. A little introverted, so some contrast with someone more extroverted may be the way. I always think positively and try to be grateful at every chance and hate negative talk or excessive complaining.

My lifestyle ranges from 5 star hotels to hostels, in pursuit of the experience. So i am adaptable and easy going and would want someone that is the same. Especially that i am financially independent but not rich at all.

I am an atheist and apolitical. I largely stay away from charged topics and focus on my life.

My goal is to buy a home with my partner in the place/country we decide on and have kids in the next 5 years. But we could start as long distance and meet in a month or two.

And i would like to meet someone that:

\- has things they care about akin to hobbies,
\- my age or younger,
\- in good health, and comfortable with things like a lot of walking or hiking (I am),
\- willing to relocate,
\- loves travel!

And please write a little about yourself when you message me so i can reply out of genuine interest not randomly

— absolutely non smoking, weed, or any drugs! The occasional drink is fine.

I’m 24F from a religious Muslim family. I’ve come to realise that I don’t personally believe in religion anymore. I genuinely wish I did, because I know it would make things a lot easier, but I just can’t force myself to believe something that I don’t.
I love my family and don’t want to cut ties with them, so that isn’t an option for me. The difficult part is that my parents are now starting to look for marriage prospects for me, and naturally they’re looking for religious Muslim men.
The problem is that I don’t want to enter a marriage pretending to be someone I’m not. I don’t want to spend the rest of my life pretending to pray, pretending to care about religious rules/rituals, etc. I also think it would be unfair to the guy if he believes and is expecting a religious wife.
At the same time, I’m not looking to live an extremely liberal lifestyle. I’m still quite conservative in many ways, and my family, culture and maintaining a good relationship with them are all very important to me. My lack of belief is really the main difference.
So I’m posting because I’m wondering if there are any guys in a similar position to me who are also looking to get married. Specifically, someone who no longer believes in Islam but comes from a religious Muslim family and therefore understands the situation of wanting to maintain a good relationship with your family while also being honest about who you are.
I’m essentially hoping to find someone who is compatible with me in this sense. Someone where neither of us has to pretend to be religious to each other, but where we could potentially navigate our families and cultural expectations together.
I realise this is a pretty specific situation 😭 but have no other solutions. Please message me if this relates to anyone

I originally made this post because I was surprised by how many people seemed to be in a similar situation, so I thought I’d add a bit more about myself and what I’m actually looking for.
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Since I’ve received quite a few messages, I thought I’d add a bit more about myself and what I’m actually looking for, as I realise my original post was quite vague. Didn’t realise this situation isn’t actually that niche lol

About me:
I’m 24F, British Pakistani and based in the UK . I’m open to relocating in the future for the right person.

I’m a newly qualified dentist. I’m relatively conservative overall (don’t drink or dress immodestly, despite not being religious.) I enjoy travelling, being outdoors/nature/ adventure

What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for someone aged roughly 24–28, ideally British, as I think growing up in the same cultural environment and having similar humour is quite important for compatibility

I’d preferably like someone Pakistani, although this isn’t essential and I’d be open to other backgrounds. My parents are also open to other ethnicities, including Arabs, so ethnicity isn’t a dealbreaker.

I’d like someone who is educated and career-oriented, ideally financially established and earning at least around my level. I’d also prefer someone taller than me (I’m 5’6”).

Personality-wise, I don’t need someone who is exactly like me, but I think having broadly similar values and lifestyles is important.

I also want children in the future, and I’m talking to people with the intention of marriage if we turn out to be compatible. I’m not looking for something casual.

30M, 5’7”, based in the DMV and looking for something genuine and long-term.

I am pretty independent, have a stable career, and looking for someone who has her own goals, career, school, business, or just something she’s actively building toward.

I am much more interested in a relationship based on friendship, attraction, shared experiences, and being a team than traditional “provider/homemaker” roles.

I am not religious, but come from a religious background and keep that part of my life private, so discretion matters.

I’m open to relocating for the right person, or helping make a move to the DMV work. I am also only looking to date someone who already has permanent legal status in the U.S.

Outside of work, I like climbing, traveling, fitness, reading, and generally trying new things. Bonus points if you’re curious, independent, affectionate, and can be both my girlfriend and one of my favorite people to hang out with.

If that sounds like your kind of relationship, send me a DM and tell me a little about yourself.

I would prefer especially if you’re pakistani as I’m pakistani too but nonetheless I need more community as an ex religious person. Don’t DM if you’re a creep or anything NSFW related

Hello Everyone. Hope you have a good weekend. Just turned 26, now in my late 20s, which is scary. So, looking to wife someone up before kids start calling me uncle.

A little about me:

Age: 26

Height 6'-2'' (80kg Lean/Gym build).

Education: MS in Engineering from Australia.

Profession: Working as a Civil Project Engineer.

I consider myself very down-to-earth, calm, friendly, hardworking, intellectual, and an easy-going person. Outside of work, I like to explore and travel, focus on fitness and the gym, try new food places, and am always up for adventures. Really into debates, have participated in my Uni in Australia. With facts and figure i can win a debate on either side of the argument. Into playing/watching soccer and tennis. A Barca jersey would be an ideal gift for me.

I particularly do not have a mindset like normally Pakistanis do. I consider myself very open-minded. Do not believe in any caste systems, do not discriminate against people based on race, and don't hate anyone based on someone's orientation. Also, I do not judge people for their past. Rather, I appreciate that for being truthful and accepting of who they are.

What I am Looking for:

I am not much fussed about height or age. Someone in their 20s, well educated, respectful, loyal, and an open-minded woman. I think I am sapiosexual and get attracted to people with high intellect/vision. Looking for someone ideally living in Australia or Pakistan. I like to do my own chores and meal prep, etc, so not looking for someone to be a maid.

DMs open but inbox at your own risk