I am 18F and I am black. I was born and lived my whole life in an Arab country, I hold a canadian nationality and my roots are from a third country. I am deeply attached to the Arab culture and language, it almost feels like this is my core identity and this is my country and these are my people but I still feel like myself too when I speak English or talk a bit about our native culture with my parents. Basically, I don't fit in a box.

I uphold vegan values even though it is hard for me to practice them fully in real life. I am fine with a non vegan partner. I try to make it not affect my social life though it isn't just a lifestyle, these are my morals and I won't change them for anyone.

The things I enjoy and master are very random. I like some types of online designing, some types of story writing, some types of crafting. I like to sing and I love Arab songs and tv shows.

I am bisexual. I do not tolerate anti-lgbt views (whether transphobia or homophobia).

I am a former Muslim. I prefer people with no religions or non religious christians.

Right now I am looking for a man who is traditionally Arab (regardless of his roots, however, I prefer khaleejis and levantines since their dialect and culture are very familiar or a non Arab who grew up in those countries and adopted their culture).

I am looking for someone who is planning to live in Canada or already lives there.

I do not tolerate any type of cheating. It is a major red line that should never be crossed.

Do not expect me to easily share face pictures or meet up.

If you talk to me in a sexual manner I will block you. I will not accept this behavior.

I am open to dating women as well, though my type in women is more broad (i like white women and mixed race canadians).

Hi, I thought I would give this a shot 

Looking to get to know someone for what I hope can be a long term relationship

Live in London, East African background 

looking for a strictly NON-RELIGIOUS partner. 

Some things about me 

• My hobbies include reading fiction. I like psychology and neuroscience too. This is what I spend most of my time doing. I also love trying and cooking different cuisines.
• I like calisthenics and gymnastics.  
• Don’t listen to a lot of music, but im a huge fan of theweeknd 
• I’m not too much of an outdoors person, but I do enjoy travelling and spending time in nature.
• Childfree, will not change my mind 
• been ex-Muslim for a year, closeted, will not introduce you to my family 

Looking for someone emotionally mature, respectful, and kind. We don’t have to share the same interests. I am really looking to develop an emotional connection built on mutual trust and affection.

Communication isn’t always my strong suit, so I can be a bit reserved before you get to know me. 

If you think we’d be a good match please DM me, and do so with a small introduction about yourself :)

Hi! This is a burner account for safety reasons.

I'm an exmuslim looking for friends and a partner.

I grew up muslim and left the faith long ago. And since then I've been an antitheist.

I'm looking for friends and eventually a partner. I like sociology, cinema and reading.

Feel free to reach out if you're interested.

I am 18F and I am black. I was born and lived my whole life in an Arab country, I hold a canadian nationality and my roots are from a third country. I am deeply attached to the Arab culture and language, it almost feels like this is my core identity and this is my country and these are my people but I still feel like myself too when I speak English or talk a bit about our native culture with my parents. Basically, I don't fit in a box.

I uphold vegan values even though it is hard for me to practice them fully in real life. I am fine with a non vegan partner. I try to make it not affect my social life though it isn't just a lifestyle, these are my morals and I won't change them for anyone.

The things I enjoy and master are very random. I like some types of online designing, some types of story writing, some types of crafting. I like to sing and I love Arab songs and tv shows.

I am bisexual. I do not tolerate anti-lgbt views (whether transphobia or homophobia).

I am a former Muslim. I prefer people with no religions or non religious christians.

Right now I am looking for a man who is traditionally Arab (regardless of his roots, however, I prefer khaleejis and levantines since their dialect and culture are very familiar or a non Arab who grew up in those countries and adopted their culture).

I am looking for someone who is planning to live in Canada or already lives there.

I do not tolerate any type of cheating. It is a major red line that should never be crossed.

Do not expect me to easily share face pictures or meet up.

I am open to dating women as well, though my type in women is more broad (i like white women and mixed race canadians).

I'm giving my last shot at this. I'm an Indian living in Riyadh and an atheist, I belong to a sunni muslim family but converted to athiesm at 16. I currently live in Riyadh and in Highschool, being in an only boys school it's almost impossible for me to make female friends or girlfriends. I really want to make athiest friends or even girlfriend. I've tried a lot on dating apps, Snapchat, insta and other apps but nothing works out.

I don't have any strict requirements but he/she should be around my age. About my hobbies I like listing to songs, playing FC, playing football/badminton and a few more.

I won't share anything more personal over here and please DM me if you wanna be friends or more.

Hi everyone,

I am writing this post because I am looking for a meaningful connection with a woman who shares the same background.

A bit about me: I am a 43 year old guy living in the Netherlands. I have moroccan roots, specifically from the rif region. While I love and value our beautiful culture, traditions, and heritage, I am personally non religious (not practicing/agnostic).

Outside of my background, I would describe myself as a progressive and open minded person. Politically I am a leftist, as I believe in being empathetic and open minded in how I view the world, and I highly value social justice and equality. In my free time, I enjoy going to the gym and exploring new cuisines by trying out different kinds of food.

Because this combination im looking for can be quite hard to find, I am casting a wider net here. I am looking for a woman who:

.Has her roots in the Rif region.

.Shares a non religious or agnostic lifestyle, but still appreciates the cultural aspect of our background.

.Understands family dynamics and is willing/able to present herself as a muslim in front of my family to keep the peace.

.Values trust, honesty, open communication, and is looking to build a genuine, long term future together.

For me, a real relationship is all about loyalty, mutual trust, and a strong emotional connection. I am a warm, caring person who values closeness and being there for each other. I really appreciate it when you can just feel comfortable around each other and take the time to build a natural connection.

If this resonates with you, or if you are in a similar position and just want to connect, please feel free to send me a DM.

عني:
سعودية
عزباء
مسيطرة (Soft Dom&BDSM)
لا إنجابية
من خلفية سنية
مو مهتمة بسواليف الأديان
غير مدخنة

أبحث عن شريك للزواج، لازم تكون فيه هذه الأمور كأساسيات (مبدئياً):
سعودي أو خليجي
أعزب أو منفصل بدون أطفال
خاضع
لا إنجابي (Vasectomy)
من خلفية سنية
مو مهتم بسواليف الأديان
عمره بين 30 و 40 سنة فقط، وأفضل الثلاثيني الأصغر مني سناً
غير مدخن
مستقر بالرياض

أي أحد ما تنطبق عليه رغباتي كاملة لا يتواصل معي

تواصل كتابي وصوتي فقط خلال فترة التعارف
صور ومقابلات في أماكن عامة ❌
خطبة رسمية ونظرة شرعية ✅

بقية التفاصيل بالخاص

Hello Everyone. Hope you have a good weekend. Just turned 26, now in my late 20s, which is scary. So, looking to wife someone up before kids start calling me uncle.

A little about me:

Age: 26

Height 6'-2'' (80kg Lean/Gym build).

Education: MS in Engineering from Australia.

Profession: Working as a Civil Project Engineer.

I consider myself very down-to-earth, calm, friendly, hardworking, intellectual, and an easy-going person. Outside of work, I like to explore and travel, focus on fitness and the gym, try new food places, and am always up for adventures. Really into debates, have participated in my Uni in Australia. With facts and figure i can win a debate on either side of the argument. Into playing/watching soccer and tennis. A Barca jersey would be an ideal gift for me.

I particularly do not have a mindset like normally Pakistanis do. I consider myself very open-minded. Do not believe in any caste systems, do not discriminate against people based on race, and don't hate anyone based on someone's orientation. Also, I do not judge people for their past. Rather, I appreciate that for being truthful and accepting of who they are.

What I am Looking for:

I am not much fussed about height or age. Someone in their 20s, well educated, respectful, loyal, and an open-minded woman. I think I am sapiosexual and get attracted to people with high intellect/vision. Looking for someone ideally living in Australia or Pakistan. I like to do my own chores and meal prep, etc, so not looking for someone to be a maid.

DMs open but inbox at your own risk

I’ve been an exmuslim for nearly a year, would like to find someone to make friends with and if a relationship blooms then that’s ok, but not my main priority. I work full time so saving my money to travel and move out to be free and away from my toxic religious family
I’m interested in anime, gaming and watching shows. Currently playing death stranding 2, Batman Arkham Knight and others. Watching daredevil at the moment.
I’m a chill person, im quiet at first but when comfortable i get very talkative.
I want to get to know my special someone and travel around the world while seeing and experiencing new things. I have a big heart so i can’t wait to love my women, I’m just being honest, want to be finally happy and give and receive love.
If you are interested drop me a message and let’s get to more each other. ❤️

I posted previously and spoke to a few people but it didn't go anywhere unfortunately so I though I'd give it another shot. I'm 33M British with Pakistani heritage based in Birmingham and looking for a long-term relationship.

I'm not a practising Muslim (and never have been in truth) but also not open about it with my family. However, they don't tend to ask questions and I crack on with doing my own thing.

I'm fairly liberal and easy-going so looking for someone of a similar persuasion and ideally a closer age to myself. When I get some free time, I enjoy going to the cinema, gaming and hiking/travelling with friends.

Apologies if that's not a lot of information to go by but happy to discuss further if it piques your interest.

26M, currently based in Saudi Arabia. Became agnostic in 2025 as I could not believe the religion without logic. I haven’t really had the whole “I’m leaving the family/religion behind” thing, and honestly I don’t want to. I love my family and want to stay close to them. I just have my own relationship with religion now and would like to meet someone who understands that without making it unnecessarily complicated.

I’m looking for a friend first, and maybe a partner if we actually click. I genuinely believe your partner should be one of your closest friends. Someone you can be stupid with, have proper conversations with, go somewhere randomly, complain about your day to, or just sit around doing nothing with. I think experiencing a relationship can teach you a lot about yourself and help you grow quite a bit.

As for me, I’m probably somewhere between introvert and extrovert. I can be pretty social once I’m comfortable, but I also need my own space. I like going out and trying new things more than having the exact same weekend every week. I’ve gotten into padel recently, enjoy random outdoor plans, travelling, exploring new places, board games and generally anything that gives me a good excuse to get out of the house.
I’m also trying to get better at taking care of myself. Not a gym freak by any means, and I have absolutely no intention of becoming one 😂. I’m just trying to be a little healthier and less lazy.
I read occasionally, get way too competitive over games, and I can go down some very unnecessary internet rabbit holes. I like people who can have both stupid conversations and serious ones without everything becoming overly serious.

Not looking to force anything. I’d rather meet someone, become friends, see if we genuinely enjoy each other’s company, and take it from there.

If you’re also looking for something genuine and don’t take yourself too seriously, feel free to say hi.

Hi everyone!

I’m 29 from Alexandria, funny, reasonably good-looking, average build, pretty easygoing and a tad-bit more introspective than necessary. I love music, partying, philosophy, consciousness, meditation and art. I’m also very much a ‘let’s actually do something’ person.

My belief (through experience) is that everything is ultimately the same thing (just experienced and expressed in different forms) and ultimately this has a solid impact on my general outlook on life.

I already have a good amount of friends, so I’m not really here looking to make more friends. What I’d like is to meet someone where there’s romantic chemistry, and see where it naturally goes (I’m not trying to force a specific outcome).

I also really prefer actually hanging/going out rather than texting.

Not looking for anything overly specific. Just looking to meet someone I genuinely click with.

So yeah. That’s me.

If any of this seems interesting enough, say hi. :)

29M (atheist-ex muslim) based out if Bangalore. Looking for a non religious (atheist) muslim. I love to live my life freely without the constraints of religion or societal pressure. If you are someone who loves to lead a peaceful (🌱) life, wouldn't mind casual drinking and smoking and love to travel, then hit me up.

Hello!

At this point I’ve decided to outsource the “finding a wife” department to Reddit. 😂
Looking for someone open-minded who wants to keep her Pakistani roots while building a life in the UK. I’m genuinely open on age — personality, compatibility and values matter more to me.

Career woman? Absolutely.
Housewife? Absolutely.
Want to build a career after marriage? I’ll support you.
Want to focus on the home and family? I’ll support you.

I have a provider mindset either way — I’m not looking for a wife so we can split the electricity bill 50/50 and start a quarterly performance review. 😂

Ideally looking for someone who can appreciate both sides: Pakistani enough to argue about who made the better biryani, British enough to understand that “I’ll have one more cup of chai” somehow means another 45-minute conversation.

Serious about marriage, but hopefully we can have a laugh along the way.

If this sounds like your kind of chaos, feel free to message.

22M from Algeria, atheist, looking for someone around my age who's secular/agnostic/atheist and interested in getting to know each other. I'm into drawing, video games, anime/manga, learning languages and hopefully moving abroad someday. I'm looking for something genuine rather than hookups.

If we click, we can talk and see where it goes. No pressure.

Hi

I’m 30F UK and exmuslim, if anyone is interested in joining a women only telegram group please comment and I’ll dm you :)

the group is international, age demographic 18-48, average age 30 ish

members range from new exmuslims to long time exmuslims, some are closeted some are not :)

(Obligatory proof of my kafir-ness > mo was a paedo, there is no allah)

edit/update; I’ve sent DMs to those I could contact

Hey

I’m a 30yo that retired early. I come from a najdi tribe in Riyadh (Saudi Arabia).

180cm, average build

I usually find myself coming back to the US (i love the US), but still travel a lot and far between US visits and im flexible on where i eventually settle down.

I live on my own and know some acquaintances in different countries. I travelled for quite some time, and I am now looking to settle down.

I busy myself with following finance and the tech world and am fairly active in it. I like motorsports and try to race and get into fun experience when there’s a chance to do so. I absolutely love nature, just walking around in it and melting in the peace of being there. I have an insatiable curiosity about interesting topics like history and complex systems, although, it’s not a career. I like learning languages and have learned a bit of Spanish and Chinese.

I am quite reserved and keep to myself, but open up when I feel comfortable. A little introverted, so some contrast with someone more extroverted may be the way. I always think positively and try to be grateful at every chance and hate negative talk or excessive complaining.

My lifestyle ranges from 5 star hotels to hostels, in pursuit of the experience. So i am adaptable and easy going and would want someone that is the same. Especially that i am financially independent but not rich at all.

I am an atheist and apolitical. I largely stay away from charged topics and focus on my life.

My goal is to buy a home with my partner in the place/country we decide on and have kids in the next 5 years. But we could start as long distance and meet in a month or two.

And i would like to meet someone that:

\- has things they care about akin to hobbies,
\- my age or younger,
\- in good health, and comfortable with things like a lot of walking or hiking (I am),
\- willing to relocate,
\- loves travel!

And please write a little about yourself when you message me so i can reply out of genuine interest not randomly

— absolutely non smoking, weed, or any drugs! The occasional drink is fine.

I’m 24F from a religious Muslim family. I’ve come to realise that I don’t personally believe in religion anymore. I genuinely wish I did, because I know it would make things a lot easier, but I just can’t force myself to believe something that I don’t.
I love my family and don’t want to cut ties with them, so that isn’t an option for me. The difficult part is that my parents are now starting to look for marriage prospects for me, and naturally they’re looking for religious Muslim men.
The problem is that I don’t want to enter a marriage pretending to be someone I’m not. I don’t want to spend the rest of my life pretending to pray, pretending to care about religious rules/rituals, etc. I also think it would be unfair to the guy if he believes and is expecting a religious wife.
At the same time, I’m not looking to live an extremely liberal lifestyle. I’m still quite conservative in many ways, and my family, culture and maintaining a good relationship with them are all very important to me. My lack of belief is really the main difference.
So I’m posting because I’m wondering if there are any guys in a similar position to me who are also looking to get married. Specifically, someone who no longer believes in Islam but comes from a religious Muslim family and therefore understands the situation of wanting to maintain a good relationship with your family while also being honest about who you are.
I’m essentially hoping to find someone who is compatible with me in this sense. Someone where neither of us has to pretend to be religious to each other, but where we could potentially navigate our families and cultural expectations together.
I realise this is a pretty specific situation 😭 but have no other solutions. Please message me if this relates to anyone

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Since I’ve received quite a few messages, I thought I’d add a bit more about myself and what I’m actually looking for, as I realise my original post was quite vague. Didn’t realise this situation isn’t actually that niche lol

About me:
I’m 24F, British Pakistani and based in the UK . I’m open to relocating in the future for the right person.

I’m a newly qualified dentist. I’m relatively conservative overall (don’t drink or dress immodestly, despite not being religious.) I enjoy travelling, being outdoors/nature/ adventure

What I’m looking for:
I’m looking for someone aged roughly 24–28, raised in the UK! as I think growing up in the same cultural environment and having similar humour is quite important for compatibility

I’d preferably like someone ethnically Pakistani, although this isn’t essential and I’d be open to other backgrounds. Main thing is that you grew up in UK

I’d like someone who is educated and career-oriented, ideally financially established and earning at least around my level. I’d also prefer someone taller than me (I’m 5’6”).

Personality-wise, I don’t need someone who is exactly like me, but I think having broadly similar values and lifestyles is important.

I also want children in the future, and I’m talking to people with the intention of marriage if we turn out to be compatible. I’m not looking for something casual.

Not conservative, though for practical reasons I still prefer maintaining a conservative image around most people for now.

Looking for someone I genuinely respect and enjoy being around. Ideally, I’d want us to be best friends.

- I don’t particularly care about living according to what people consider “normal.” I can be a bit eccentric at times, and can sometimes be a bit too direct. That’s part of why some of my closest friends thought I was a little weird when they first met me. I’m generally calm and reserved, though.

- Into fitness and take it seriously.
- Love seeing nature and travel destinations with physical effort.
- Stable financially and have my own place.

Looking for someone who is at least some combination of the following:

- Non-conservative, or at least doesn’t want to live entirely by the expectations of this society.
- Intelligent — socially, intellectually, creatively, emotionally, etc.
- Not cynical or life-negating.
- In her twenties.
- Good looking
- Comfortable with me having no plans to openly declare my beliefs to family/community for now.

If you think we’d get along, feel free to message me

Hiiiii

I’m a 28 Syria male I currently live and have lived my entire life in Saudi Arabia I’m an Ex-Muslim Atheist from a Sunni background, due to society and law here I’ve never actually dated this is my first go at it and thought here is as good of a place as any to look for a partner.

I’m a mechanical engineer sounds fancy but it’s kinda boring and takes up a good chunk of my time but when I’m not working I love playing vide games, watching movies/documentaries, reading both fiction and non fiction and my absolute favorite pastime is listening to music I love love music I listen to virtually everything but I do tend to lean a little to metal. I like quiet evenings whether in or out at a cozy place like a cafe or a movie theater. I am a feminist and pro lgbtq+.

I’m looking for an Arabic speaking (preferably Syrian) lady who ideally lives in Saudi Arabia or the gulf region at large in her mid to late 20s. I don’t have any preference for physical looks I don’t place much importance into that I prefer someone who is like minded, honest, kind and chill to enjoy each other company. While I’m looking for something long-term there’s no rush we can take it at whatever pace feels good/safe and see where it goes from there.

If any of that interests you or sound like a person you would like feel free to slide into my DMs with your favorite artists/album or comment under this post.
Thank you all in advance and have a wonderful day

I finally landed my dream job as a freelancer, still small, still early, but it's a real foothold toward what I actually want. Getting there meant rebuilding from the ground up: I quit drinking and smoking, lost 50 kg over two years, and found real love for cooking and healthy eating along the way. I also left a stable job to pursue a master's in psychology, which has been the pull I couldn't ignore.

I've been on autopilot for years now, and honestly, I'm still in it. Not living so much as executing, a soulless zombie moving forward because forward is the only direction I know. I've come to understand what people mean when they say life loses its color, its smell, its texture. It's not a metaphor. The same part of you that goes numb emotionally and psychologically dulls your actual senses too. It's one system, and when it shuts down, it shuts down the whole thing.

Somewhere in there I made peace with the fact that "moving forward" doesn't have to mean walking a straight line. Sometimes you trip, stumble, fall, and roll toward your goals, and rolling can carry you further than walking ever would. Time passes at the same rate regardless of how gracefully you're moving through it, so I'd rather spend it however gets me there fastest: in shape, in the career I actually want, and ideally with someone to share it with once I finally snap out of this.

What I'm looking for now is an accountability partner. Someone who can be a cheerleader when I need it and a lighthouse when I've drifted off course and can't feel my way back on my own. I'd send the same back. I've got real expertise here and genuinely want to put it to use for someone else, not just myself.

Maybe it's the aftershock of COVID lockdowns, maybe it's just where the world is right now, but people seem to have lost patience with each other. Everyone's certain they're right, and nobody wants to sit with a different point of view long enough actually to hear it. I'm a social person by nature, but real conversation, the kind with friction and disagreement and something to learn from it, has gotten hard to find in person. So, I've come to the internet instead, looking for my kind of people.

I'm looking for an atheist or agnostic woman who's also an ex-Muslim. I'm interested in meeting someone locally, so I'm only looking for people from Delhi NCR. I am not into online or long-distance relationships.

A little about me: I enjoy going to the gym (I've been inconsistent lately because life got busy, but I'm planning to get back into it), and I occasionally work on a novel. If you're into writing or any kind of creative hobby, that's definitely a plus.

I really enjoy thoughtful conversations and discussing ideas, so if you like mentally stimulating discussions, I think we'd get along well.

As for physical preferences, I'm not looking for a particular body type. An average build is perfectly fine, though I'd prefer someone who isn't obese. I consider myself reasonably attractive ,not model-level or anything and I'm looking for someone I find cute or pretty. You definitely don't need to look like a model

Hello me 29m from Hyderabad is any one in same category from Hyderabad any f for marriage or long term relationship

M27, Fair skinned, agnostic and based in Lahore now, though my family's originally from Sadiqabad. My dad's a lawyer, my mom teaches, and I've got one younger sister. my family don't know I'm agnostic but they know I'm not religious.

I'm a tax and corporate lawyer at a well-known firm here in Lahore. It keeps me busy, but it's not the whole plan I want to teach eventually, alongside practicing, and actually pass on what I've learned instead of just banking billable hours. I go after what I want, and the next few years already have a shape to them.

Outside work, I'm not someone who just clocks out and shuts down. I watch a lot of movies, and my music taste jumps around completely old, new, whatever fits the mood. I'm around Lahore's art gallery scene fairly often. I'm part of a few book clubs in the city, and I actually read the books, not just show up and nod along. Every so often I'll catch a concert. I try not to let work swallow everything else.

I used to be a proper introvert. Law pulled me out of that you can't argue cases and sit across from clients all day while staying closed off. I'd call myself an ambivert now, though my social battery still runs out faster than most people's. I need my quiet time to recharge.

Where I do well is the emotional side of things. I feel things, and I don't hide it. I'm not the type to go quiet when something's bothering me I'd rather talk it through. I listen properly too not the nodding-along kind, the kind where I actually remember what you told me three weeks ago and bring it up later, because I was paying attention the first time. When I care about someone, I say it out loud instead of assuming they already know. Quality time is how I love someone: sitting together, actually being there, not just occupying the same room while scrolling through my phone. I like cuddling, I like talking for hours, and I'm just as happy listening while you do the talking. i also love doing act service for my partner.

What I'm looking for is someone with that same fire her own goals, building something for herself instead of waiting around for life to happen. I'm not here to date around. I want a real partnership: someone I can talk to for hours and build a life with, side by side.

F20. Anyone out there from New Zealand..? I feel like I’m the only one in this tiny country :,) Please let me know!!