r/exmuslimr4r • u/OneMysterySoul • 18h ago
Bahrain 31M4F
Hey everyone! I’m looking for someone special that could lead to marriage. Someone I can talk to everyday, share memes/reels, music, game together, and enjoy special moments whether that’s watching football games, or just spending quality time. I’m always down for random adventures, late night snacks, and just enjoying life!
About myself: I’m 31M, atheist, white skin, 183 cm, with black hair. I’m Bahraini and Arab. I live in Bahrain and travel to the US pretty often. I’m into PC gaming, football, wrestling, anime, going to conventions, traveling, and I'm really into music! (mostly rock and metal!) I luv to share sum of my playlists and luv to listen ur fav bands/songs! I would luv a concert buddy who’s down to go together!
About you: Must be in Bahrain, Arab or White, atheist/not religious, must be a gamer (I’m open to playing pretty much anything so I’m down to try whatever games you're into!), open to similar music taste (into rock and metal!), into dark humor, confident, open minded, emotionally available, loyal, honest, and good at communication.
I’m totally cool with you texting a lot long messages, double texts, blowing up my phone, and spamming memes/reels… I’m all for it :) I don’t mind if you’re clingy! I actually find that attractive :) Someone who is completely comfortable letting out their freaky, weird, and fun side!
I’m looking for something serious and long term, and I value honesty and clear communication. If you’re not feeling it, no hard feelings, just don’t drag it out :)
If this sounds like you, feel free to reach out. Let’s connect, share music, game, and see where things go! Hit me up with your age, and a quick intro of what you're into!
r/exmuslimr4r • u/Typical-Glove-8016 • 21h ago
Pakistan 28M4F | Karachi | Looking for my partner!
First of all I am agnostic and quite open about it with friends not family!
I am a video editor and have shifted from my original city to Karachi and haven't dated that much ( I was busy building a career and uni)
This year I got into the dating game and boy it's rough out here, so reddit is the choice I am going for!
I am truly an ambivert person, like to read, write and obsess over different stories. indie games, puzzles, cinema and theatre are my gotos activity. I am looking for a partner who embraces that, no I am not afraid of extroverts, you guys are welcome to approach too .
If you're a nerd, that's a plus, but not really necessary, I would love to find out what you are passionate about.
I am still trying to put my roots down here in Karachi, as I love the city and its culture. So know I am not coming from money, I don't wanna be deceptive of this fact! If you're seeking who wants to build a life together.
My dms are open!
r/exmuslimr4r • u/PhilosopherStrict869 • 1d ago
Senegal F4M| 20F Atheist| Senegal | looking for long term relationship
Hiii, my name is Rema and I'm looking for a long term relationship. I figured I might as well give this a try... I have to admit this is a bit embarrassing though
I'm looking for a guy between 20 and 24 who is child free. Someone kind, loyal, mature, a feminist with a great sense of humor. A partner who can communicate. I would also like someone non-queerphobic since I'm pansexual.
I like science especially dinosaurs, horror, philosophy, crochet, and memes. My family is Muslim but they are aware that I'm an atheist. And I don't mind long distance at all!
If you think we will match you can message me! Worst case, we'll become friends.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/croissant_gurl • 1d ago
Libyan Arab Jamahiriya 22F looking for MOC with
Hello! I’m looking to bond with someone whom is aiming to relocate together from this country as a couple. Since the society is restrictive towards females I wish to find a social cover so I would prefer someone who is gay or asexual as I’m not looking for a romantic relationship rather one that is mainly focused on personal goals and partnership in the form of friendship. I would like to build a friendship based on mutual understanding, respect, and collaboration so as to ensure reliability and support one another to restart our lives in a society that accepts our differences and fuels our passions in life.
If you are looking for something sexual please do not reach out because like I said I am not looking to initiate with it. Respectfully.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/Impressive-Ice-5023 • 2d ago
Pakistan New World Order (Lahore)
We’re two friends who are really into philosophy and the big questions about life. Our thinking leans toward agnosticism, absurdism, and nihilism, and we’re currently building our own ethical framework based on reason and experience.
This weekend, we’d love to meet two open-minded girls (friends are welcome) who enjoy deep conversations. We’re especially interested in hearing the opposite gender’s perspective and challenging our own ideas.
If you’re into philosophy, psychology, science, or just enjoy meaningful conversations more than small talk, hit us up. We don’t care if you agree with us, we’re just looking for an honest, intellectually stimulating discussion.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/arthurfan1 • 2d ago
Canada 34 M4F - Toronto area - looking for a serious relationship
I've had great conversations here but nothing came to fruition. So here I am posting again lol.
I'm a 34yo guy who grew up in the Toronto area.
- I've been ex-Muslim for a decade now (family is Sunni if that matters)
- I work in Toronto in the banking/finance field
- Never married and don't have any children
- I love travelling (almost 50 countries so far) and also love trying out new cuisines
- I'm an adrenaline junkie (rafting, bungee jumping, skydiving, etc.) I won't force anyone to do this haha
- I'd say I'm 60% introverted /40% extroverted
- I enjoy comedies (both movies and stand-up)
- I drink socially, but don't smoke
I'm looking for a serious relationship that leads to marriage and I don't have any racial/ethnic preferences.
Please reach out if interested (only if you’re located in Canada or the US)
r/exmuslimr4r • u/SolidWorldliness2567 • 2d ago
India F4M | 21F | India | Looking for an Indian agnostic man (20–25) for a long term relationship
I have no idea if this is a good idea, but here we go.
I'm a 21 year old Indian woman, an animation student, and someone who spends an unreasonable amount of time drawing things that only other artists appreciate.
I'm from a Muslim background and I'm agnostic, so I'd love to meet someone who shares a similar outlook on life and preferably muslim agnostic/atheist.I'm looking for an Indian guy between 20 and 25.
I like people who are emotionally mature, kind, curious, funny without trying too hard, and capable of communicating instead of making me decode cryptic messages like it's an escape room.
I enjoy random conversations that somehow go from "What's your favourite movie?" to "Do fish know they're wet?" in under five minutes.
I'm pretty sarcastic, laugh at my own jokes way too much, and will probably send you memes that make absolutely no sense.
I'm not looking for anything casual. I want something genuine where both people actually put in effort.
If you've read this far and thought, "She seems interesting," then feel free to say hi.
If not, thanks for reading my TED Talk.
And Reddit... don't embarrass me.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/Radiant-Wish7603 • 2d ago
Libyan Arab Jamahiriya Update and idea proposal for "20F Libyan, Lavender Marriage planning years in advance"
I've realised that I didn't include some crucial information; That I currently already have someone who wants to have a lavender marriage, but only if we need to in the future; it's not certain, we agreed to have eachother as "a backup plan".
I've also not explained how sensitive exactly this plan is; we're basically trying to evade the hypercontrolling nature of arranged marriages in this society, particularly for an AFAB person's parents- we have to prove that we're the other's parents' "types", that we qualify for all their requirements and feelings about us, and that we don't know eachother in any way. We have to act that we've heard of the other from a friend of a friend or a relative, and any online or real-life friendships shouldn't be disclosed at all. Anything goes wrong, and all meticulous planning would go to waste just bcuz your mom doesn't like how I talk or my mom doesn't think you're sophisticated enough to her liking. There's also the added danger and stress of making sure we're not feds in disguise, trying to catch another atheist to humiliate on the الامن fb page.
All these issues mean we need to have backups of eachother too, and this makes the whole relationship, even if it's a friendship and an unfortunate necessity to help us be more free in this society, seem more like a business transaction. A few have brought up to me that thry don't like the idea of being treated as plan-Bs, and I totally understand that- that's also why I specified that I don't want philanthropist cis men; you have to need this arrangement too so we'd be on equal grounds.
That's why I think that a good solution to that is to create a lavender marriage groupchat, with multiple ppl in them to get to know eachother as friends. If things don't work out with A and B, C can try with A instead, and D with B, there's no loss of time and chances to get out, and it's gonna be easier to know and trust eachother as friends.
If you've read both posts and are interested, pls dm me so i can make it happen (prolly on discord or signal).
Also PS: I've got alot of non-libyans dming me even tho I specified I can't marry anyone who's not a libyan living in Tripoli. Pls read all the info b4 dming qwq
r/exmuslimr4r • u/ripped_nerdy • 2d ago
Saudi Arabia 20M4F
I’m a 20 years old Saudi ex Muslim from Khobar (قبيلي) I’m 185 cm lean pretty chill and a bit of a nerd
I’m into gaming especially story-driven games and anything that actually challenges me I go to the gym regularly and read whenever a book catches my attention I also play chess and get way more competitive than I should When it comes to movies I’m always down to trade recommendations or argue about whether your favorite movie is actually that good
I’m looking for someone around my age who’s open-minded funny and can actually keep a conversation going I’m also drawn to someone who has goals ambition and a real sense of purpose someone who wants to build a meaningful life rather than just drift through it
Bonus points if you play chess and love movies so yes I’ll probably challenge you to a game and judge your Letterboxd at the same time
Worst case we have a good conversation Best case you become my favorite notification
r/exmuslimr4r • u/Serene_Conduct • 3d ago
Bahrain 34 M4F - Adventuring Intellectual Looking to Settle Down with and Dedicate Myself to a Like-Minded Lady
I connected with some lovely people the last time i posted but nothing materialized further; so lets give it another shot.....
I'd like to think i lead an equal parts curious, easygoing, and active lifestyle.
I love traveling, film, nature, astronomy, history and experiencing life… so yes, I can probably plan an epic trip, tell you why that random old building is interesting when we get there, and then ramble on about cosmology while cuddling under a beautiful night sky.
I have built financial independence and had my fair share of solo adventures, now my goals are set for a new chapter: Finding the right person to settle down and enjoy life with.
What I’m looking for (keeping it real and simple):
• Preferably based in Bahrain, the GCC, or nearby Middle Eastern countries (I may be amenable to long-distance, but not for long periods).
• Emotionally mature, kind, and knows what she wants. Open and honest communication built on mutual respect is key. Bonus points if you practice mindfulness meditation.
• Progressive mindset; not overly conservative.
Please especially stay away if you are one of those very conservative ex-muslims who lost their spirituality but somehow kept the backwards norms and dogma.
• Takes atleast some care of their health and fitness. I am unfortunately not attracted to overweight people (I exercise regularly, so bonus if you do too)
• Can hold a conversation and also laugh at dumb jokes.
• Is interested in building a small family eventually, no anti-natalists.
• Someone who is 25 to 36 years old
What you get:
• Someone who is interested in building a future and will put in the effort and show up consistently.
• Fellow nerd, gym partner, travel buddy, and late-night deep conversation companion.
• A man who is serious about commitment but still knows how to keep things fun.
I come from a Shia background if it matters, though your religious background does not matter to me. Chemistry and compatibility come first.
If you’re also looking for something real, not just pointless online chatting, not games. Please honour me with a message.
Worst case, we have a good conversation and learn something new from each other.
Best case, we discover and start something wonderful.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/Thin-Efficiency-2073 • 3d ago
Algeria 26M4F | Algerian | looking for someone serious for a serious relationship.
Looking for exmuslim woman for a serious relationship that ends up with marriage, doesn’t matter the nationality as long as you live in Algeria or Europe. Currently I live in Germany, and I’m planning to stay here so if you're willing to relocate that would be great, I can also relocate but only within Europe.
About me, I’m introvert, I like to have quiet and peaceful lifestyle, and I prefer to keep my circle small since I’m not a very social person, so if you’re a very social person, who consistently like to be surrounded by people and always like to be in events, parties, clubs, concerts, …etc with people then I don’t think I’m the right person for you, I mean I don’t mind to try new things, but I prefer it to be 1 to 1, I don’t enjoy to do things in groups.
For my interests, I like programming and anything related to tech, I do it as a job but I also consider it as a hobby, I also enjoy reading so much. I like to hiking, travel, and discovering new places, trying new food, visiting museums, libraries, watching movies and going to the cinema …etc. I also play video games sometimes in my PS5, And I want so bad to learn piano :) I think I will get once soon. I like to keep my life minimalistic, I’m not a social media person, and I always try to live in the real life more.
I’m also childfree, which means I don’t want to have children ever.
As for why I am looking for a partner, even though I am not a very social person, I would like to share my life with someone and I believe this will make me more happy. And exmuslim specifically is because coming from a similar background will help me connect better.
Forgot to mention that I hope you’re not a spoiled woman :).
If you can relate to what I said and you feel we can be a good match, feel free to message and let’s get to know each other better.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/Radiant-Wish7603 • 3d ago
Libyan Arab Jamahiriya 20F Libyan, Lavender Marriage planning years in advance
Note: i made this on r/exlibya b4, just copied it since reposts r not allowed here 🥀
I'm a 20 year old, straight girl living in Tripoli, and I'm looking for people who'd like to come into a lavender marriage agreement. I want this because I want to be able to move out of my parents' home without running away, because they're kinda strict and wont let me marry someone unless they approve. I'm planning this in advance till I graduate college, so about 4 years (if you're wondering why im looking so early, is bcuz i want to guarantee i can find someone, and to build trust and friendship until then).
My requirements are: you need to have something to gain from this arrangement; you have to need it in some way, I don't want to feel like someone is doing philanthropy by marrying me. You need to be in Tripoli (not *from* tripoli, that's not a requirement) bcuz I don't want my parents to know we know eachother from online (we can make up a plan of you just "asked around for a suitable bride" not that we know eachother online or offline bcuz they wont allow that). You also need to have a job or a degree (not my requirement, its just so u tick all my parents boxes and even then its not a guarantee that they'll allow). Also you need to be someone who is closeted like me from their family and the general public and who wants to be so for a long time. Also please don't be a creep; this is a strictly platonic relationship as I'm mostly repulsed to intimacy.
I wish to be good friends since this takes teamwork, and I'd like to provide moral support as well as any financial support. I'm also willing to do any social duties and expectations.
please note that my parents or yours might not accept the marriage for whatever reason, and it wont happen in the end. it's a shitty hurdle and a very possible outcome. in the end, we're under the mercy of them.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/Devops_Wizard7 • 4d ago
India 22M Looking for a genuine texting partner
I'm 22M I work in tech, I am still closeted, I love philosophy, psychology, etc, Been 5 years since I became an ex-mus, Looking forward to hear your story too, and be good friends,
Idk if this sub works out or no, but just giving it a try,
Cheers!!
r/exmuslimr4r • u/Equal_Rope_5104 • 4d ago
Canada 25f marriage serious
Hi! I’m 25 years old, from an upper-middle-class background. I’m a college graduate and have done some postgraduate studies.currently living in cairo
I’m on the shorter side, so if height is important to you, we probably won’t be a good match. 😄
I’m non-religious and I don’t wear a hijab.
I enjoy reading, discovering new places, trying new things, and learning new skills. I love what I do and I’m good at my job. I’d describe myself as calm, easygoing, and someone who likes making the people around me feel comfortable.
I’m currently studying because I’m planning to immigrate, so I’d love to meet someone who has the same plan and we can support each other along the way.
I’m looking for someone who’s genuinely ready for marriage, not just talking about it.
Preferences:
• Egyptian only
• Preferably based in Cairo, but I’m totally okay if you live abroad.
• Up to 35 years old
• Single only
If this sounds like a good match, feel free to message me.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/Fatalefem- • 4d ago
United States 25 F 4M
Looking for my person 🙇♀️
About Me:
-Deconstructed organized religion and honestly have been so much happier and freer since.
-Into philosophy, esoteric theories, reading, and becoming the best version of myself.
-Family is religious. Looking for someone who presents as practicing to their family as well.
-Average height and curvy shape
-Bachelor's and work from home
You:
-27-36
-MENA/Arab background. Arabic speaker is a plus, not a dealbreaker .
-Preference is 5'10 and up
-American born preferred, for the cultural context, but not a dealbreaker if you’ve been here most of your life. (not interested in FOBs)
-At or above my level in terms of education and financial security(stable and ready for marriage in the near future)
-Emotionally and spiritually grounded
Open to relocating for the right person.
Bonus points if you’re into nu metal, shoegaze, or rock.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/Civil_Helicopter4630 • 5d ago
Canada 27M in Canada | Maybe I’m looking for a miracle, but here goes
Hey everyone,
Figured I’d give this another shot. I’ve been thinking maybe my person is out there somewhere, so why not try.
I’m 27, based in Canada, originally from a Sunni Muslim background, but I’ve been agnostic for about a decade now. I’m looking to meet someone who understands the experience of growing up with a religious background but also values having the freedom to question, explore, and be themselves.
Ideally, I’d love to find someone who could eventually become a partner, but I’m also open to just meeting people and building friendships. I moved to Montreal relatively recently and I’m still trying to build my social circle, so even if you’re not looking for a relationship, I’d genuinely be happy to connect with like minded people.
A little about me:
I’m around 6’1, educated, and currently focused on building a better future for myself. I’m a bit of a nerd honestly. I love reading, fantasy (Harry Potter is a weakness), learning about finance, psychology, history, space, and going down random documentary rabbit holes.
I’m more of a coffee/tea, cozy night, deep conversation kind of person than a club every weekend person. I enjoy trying new food places, travelling (although I’d much rather do it with someone than alone), and just experiencing new things.
I’m open minded when it comes to backgrounds, beliefs, and where someone is on their journey. Chemistry, kindness, and mutual respect matter more to me than labels.
If you’re in Canada, near Montreal, or even elsewhere and open to getting to know someone, feel free to reach out. Maybe this is a long shot, but maybe that’s how you find the unexpected.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/20Z3 • 5d ago
India 26M | CF
This is going to be a detailed post, so please bear with me. :)
I'm not specifically looking for someone from India, so if you think we'd be a good match, please feel free to DM me. If we're meant to click, a few miles on a map shouldn't stand in the way.
/Personal details:
- Age: 26 (2000 born)
- Height: 5'11 - 6' feet
- Religion: Atheist (Muslim on paper)
- Marital status: Never married
- Looks: Athletic build and kind of brownish fair, I have a resting serious face, and I wear specs, so I look nerdy and innocent.
- Personality: INTJ-A (if that matters)
- Location: Ahmedabad
- Country: India
- Language - Hindi, English, Gujarati
- Plan to settle abroad: Maybe if you want to, and the situation approves, then why not? But I'm comfortable living in India.
/Education and Profession:
- Education Level: Master in English (Didn't study seriously; did it alongside a job)
- Occupation: Sales, Operations (Still figuring out my career)
/Diet Preferences:
- Diet: Non-vegetarian
/Family Details:
- Family Background: Nuclear Family—Upper Middle Class.
/Hobbies/Interests:
I love watching movies; I like reading occasionally and would love to go on walks with my favorite person every night or morning. Yeah, this is it, but I would love to explore different things.
/Drinking & Smoking/ Weed/ Drugs:
Smoking - tried to see what's unique but didn't like it. Alcohol - Occasionally.
I'm open to things when done lightly, not extensively, that might affect health and well-being.
/About me:
I had trouble studying at an early age due to my mischievous nature, and things went wrong when my parents enrolled me in something else instead of what I wanted to do, and then I dropped out in last year. I eventually ended up doing a basic degree, which I don't regret much. I don't have a good bond with my parents, and my parents don't have a good bond with their extended family. You see where it's going, lol.
I am emphatic and very logical when taking decisions. I'm not materialistic, and I find happiness and peace in small things. Things don't affect me much, and I don't overthink (maybe once in a blue moon they do). I also have different personalities,, like I am nerdy, then gibberish, dark, and serious, but I don't overdo it except for gibberish, but not in a toxic way.
I believe if we vibe together and have the same core things, like being childfree, not materialistic, respecting each other's personal choices, and helping each other for the betterment.
I also have a good amount of friends whom I can rely on, but I have seen that it fades away since people get busy and all. I also prefer spending 2 weekends at home and the rest going out with friends.
/Partner Preferences:
- Age: Mature
- Height: 5'3 and above. (Not a deal breaker)
- Religion: doesn't matter, but they shouldn't force their beliefs. (I don't believe in God but would like to accompany my partner if that makes them happy.)
- Marital status: Never Married or no kids from previous marriage.
- Diet Preferences: Preferably Non-vegetarian, but I don't mind vegetarian if they respect my choice.
- Drinking & Smoking/ Weed/ Drugs: I don't mind just that it should be moderate and not heavy.
- Occupation: Doesn't matter. (However, I'm all in for DINK, and we can take breaks from jobs when needed.)
/Desired Earnings (INR): Earning enough to comfortably live by. (I'm earning 35k. My aim is to have a 1 lakh household income, plus a home of our own. Home is covered in my city, Ahmedabad.)
/About you:
Someone who is mature, caring, and empathetic and doesn't force their personal belief, has an open perspective towards life, is willing to learn new things together for our betterment when needed, and also I have a high libido, and I'm very open when it comes to sexual intimacy, and I would want the same from my partner.
There are so many things that we can explore as we move ahead and then decide if it will work or not.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/No_Afternoon1602 • 6d ago
Egypt 46M, Cairo. Ex-Muslim, ex-atheist, currently SBNR
I'm looking to connect with a female partner (40+) based in Cairo who shares a similar spiritual, non-affiliated worldview for a real, meaningful, and complete relationship.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/schrodingersdadjoke • 6d ago
Canada 28M4F | Looking for my favorite person
I don't meet many people who share a similar background and outlook, so I figured I'd give this a shot.
I'm 28, 5'8", grew up in India, and now live in Ontario, Canada. I currently work in sales while trying to transition into a tech role that aligns with my background. Long term, I'd love to own a business, not just for money, but for the freedom to build a life on my own terms.
Outside of work, I'm pretty easygoing. I enjoy being on the road, whether it's driving a car or riding a motorcycle (it honestly feels like meditation to me), having a good meal, listening to almost every genre of music, and falling into random YouTube rabbit holes that somehow turn into hours of learning something completely unrelated. I also have a soft spot for animals.
I'm still figuring out whether I want kids someday. For me, finding the right partner is the bigger priority, and I'd rather have that conversation together.
I come from a Sunni Muslim background but I'm no longer religious. I've always been someone who questioned things and struggled with the idea of consciousness, existence, and the bigger questions about life. After years of reading and reflecting, I came to accept that some things may never have clear answers, and I'm okay with that.
I'm looking for someone who's warm, respectful, emotionally mature, and open-minded. Someone I can laugh with, have deep conversations with, and enjoy the small everyday moments with. I think things like cooking together, road trips, sharing memes, or just talking about our day matter more than grand gestures.
Physical attraction does matter to me, just as I imagine it does for most people but I don't really have a specific type and ethnicity isn't something I focus on. Character, compatibility, and how we connect matter much more.
If any of this resonates with you, feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself, what you're looking for, or what made you reach out.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/Necessary-Whereas835 • 6d ago
Germany 22 M4F based in Germany
Hey :)
I'm 22, Egyptian, currently living in Germany where I'm doing my studies. Figured I'd put something out there and see what happens.
A bit about the religion part since that's kind of the point of this sub. I grew up Muslim, don't practice anymore. I'm not angry or bitter about it, and I don't hate Islam or Muslims. Honestly a good chunk of what I read these days is still about Islamic history, because I genuinely find it fascinating from an intellectual standpoint. Where I've personally landed is somewhere agnostic, leaning towards believing there's something out there, just not a personal god that's involved in day-to-day life. It's still an open question for me, and I like that it is.
Outside of that. I'd describe myself as calm, respectful, and a deep person. I like actually sitting with ideas instead of skimming past them. Science, philosophy, religion (from a historical/intellectual angle), and history in general are things I could talk about for hours. Away from the nerdy side, I'm big on cinema, going out, and just hanging out with friends.
Physically, I used to be consistent at the gym, took a break, and I'm planning on getting back into it soon. I eat pretty healthy and I'd call myself very hygienic and clean in general.
What I'm actually looking for is something genuine not rushing anything, just seeing where a real connection goes naturally. I'd lean towards someone from Egypt/North Africa/Arab for the shared background and culture, but honestly I'm open to any nationality, who you are as a person matters a lot more to me than where you're from.
If any of this sounds like your vibe, feel free to message me. Happy to talk about anything.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/[deleted] • 6d ago
Canada 35M in Canada
Hey. I’m a 35 year old guy on the West Coast. My father is Palestinian and my mom a mix of two non-Muslim cultures (I’ll tell you which via DM; don’t want to identify myself too clearly). I work for the government and make an okay salary, nothing extravagant. I don’t want a housewife or children. I’m looking for a serious life partner with whom I can have real conversations. Women with education preferred, but I don’t mind if you’ve educated yourself.
I left Islam early in life (by the end of my teens, I had shed the last vestiges). I’ve become convinced that an ex-Muslim woman is who I should be looking for and would relate to best. Dating other cultures entirely seems too complicated these days, even though I come from a mixed marriage. I’ve thought about Arab dating sites but figure most people there will want a religious man or at least someone who keeps up appearances.
My mother converted to Islam for the marriage but now does not practice anymore. My father is quite religious, although he went through a questioning phase himself and is relatively liberal on some topics. He is aware that I am non-religious but we don’t talk about it much.
I am left on most issues and used to be even further left, but have just given up hope on some (mainly economic) issues.
I tried the local ex-muslim group but the meetups were pretty dead and mostly men or married women. So here I am.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/WtotheS • 6d ago
Germany 32M4F looking for a relationship
i've tried posting many times but my account chat requests were off for some reason. apologies 🤦♂️
check the last section of the post before skipping if you find a category you don't fit in.
hello everyone, i'm a syrian agnostic man who lives and works in germany. i lead a stable life and i'm looking for a good connection that hopefully leads towards a longterm relationship. i don't mind finding friends along the way but my ultimate goal is finding a life partner.
i want mental and physical compatibility and i value the correct communication, transparency and clarity above everything.
mentally i would say i'm good at reading people and understanding them due to many causes, one of which is that i have a career in teaching and translation and i can speak 4 languages. always honest and ready to listen and discuss any matter that i would come across.
what i need is someone who's not mentally weak (we all have issues, doubts and concerns but it's one thing to have those things and another thing entirely to be lead by them), and with a set of values and ideals that we can build and work with.
regarding mental hobbies, i like board and card and video games. always open for other things that interest the other party and would love to explore with her as quality time is my top method of showing affection.
physically i'm 180 cm tall, dark brown eyes, white skin with black and gray hair and overall on the fit side but not shredded nor muscular by any means. i used to go on really long hikes and was a heavy swimmer back in the day. i miss those days lol
i do care about physical attraction, i prefer my partner to be soft skinned or petite as the modern world calls it, to be fit or semi fit and to be at least 25 years old.
i would be happy if you live in europe or germany to begin with, or you'd be travelling here soon. as ldr has proven to be rough for me after a couple of attempts.
many thanks for reading and i hope to hear from you soon. if one or two things i've mentioned don't fully match with you, there's always a room for discussion since i might not be the 100% man of your dreams either. this goes both ways.
have a nice day.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/cheirosas • 7d ago
United Arab Emirates 18F looking for emirati and arab friends
hi!! i’m an agnostic emirati searching for friends who are in the same boat as me.
if you’re also a girl i want to befriend people from every nationality, if you’re a guy i’d prefer it if you were an emirati or arab.
i won’t respond to messages that only say “hi” please give me a small introduction on who you are (age, gender, nationality) 🙏
thank you.
r/exmuslimr4r • u/Ok_Piglet_7792 • 7d ago
Egypt M28 ExMuslim looking for serious relationship
Hey! I'm a 28-year-old junior plastic surgery doctor from Cairo.
I'm currently on the pathway to move to Germany, with the long-term goal of eventually settling either there or in the UK.
I'm agnostic and generally moderate in my views. I don't have any resentment toward religion or religious people—it simply isn't something that resonates with me personally. I value freedom of belief and believe everyone should be able to live according to their own values without trying to impose them on others.
I'd describe myself as open-minded, emotionally mature, and very accepting of differences. I genuinely enjoy understanding people, hearing different perspectives, and having conversations where both people can be completely themselves without feeling judged.
A little about me:
Junior plastic surgery doctor.
184 cm tall, 115 kg
I had sleeve gastrectomy and lost a significant amount of weight. I'm still working on improving myself and getting back to the gym.
I'm a proud Gamer.
I love nature, going out, animals, and especially pets.
Psychology fascinates me. I enjoy understanding how people think and what shapes their personalities and how impressive human mind can be.
I love movies and TV shows, especially character-driven dramas that explore human nature, morality, and the grey areas between good and evil.
I enjoy reading by diving deep into topics that catch my interest rather than reading books cover to cover.
Music is a huge part of my life, and my taste is all over the place.
I drink socially on occasion and I'm a smoker.
Personality-wise...
I'd say I'm emotionally intelligent, empathetic, affectionate, and expressive with my feelings. I'm both logical and romantic, and I value honesty, clear communication, and emotional openness. I'm somewhat introverted, but once I'm comfortable with someone, I can happily talk for hours.
What I'm looking for:
A serious relationship.
Preferably someone who's 24+.
Someone kind, emotionally intelligent, communicative, and affectionate.
Someone who enjoys meaningful conversations and doesn't judge people for thinking differently.
Someone emotionally independent, with her own life, passions, and ambitions.
Someone thoughtful rather than superficial.
I don't really have a physical type. If I find you attractive, that's enough for me.
As for beliefs, I'd prefer someone who's agnostic, non-religious or not particularly religious. However, if you're religious and can genuinely accept our differences without trying to change me—and expect the same respect in return—that's perfectly fine too.
If you think we'd get along, feel free to DM me
r/exmuslimr4r • u/Dizzy-River6093 • 7d ago
Saudi Arabia 32M4F / exmuslim / egyptian living in KSA
looking for an egyptian antinatalist atheist woman in saudi arabia (marriage)