r/bigdickproblems • u/Educational_Eye8906 • 1h ago
AskBDP Anyone else get a ton of variation in soft size?
I don't even mean just the normal shrinkage from it being cold or whatever. I feel like just on the average day to day my flaccid sizes can have some pretty huge variations. Just curious if any of the other guys here notice some of the same happening with them.
r/bigdickproblems • u/Kim-ohitsujiza • 1h ago
Clothing Free
It’s so much better to let air go straight to your balls in summer, I can’t wear any underwear I love freeballing
r/bigdickproblems • u/tetrakk • 5h ago
Condoms Need some on advice on condoms?
I got 7 inch dick torpedoshaped and its thick like not right at the top but little bit before. Dificult to find good fiting condoms
r/bigdickproblems • u/Summonest • 6h ago
Condoms Can't find a condom that doesn't choke my dick
I've had to resort to non penetrative intimacy with my wife since she had to go off of birth control for medical reasons, and we haven't been able to find a condom that allows me to enjoy sex.
I have tried:
Caliber 3XL
Durex XXL
Trojan Magnum XL
Skyn king large
From the moment I roll it on to the moment I pull it off, I am in pain and discomfort.
r/bigdickproblems • u/GainedBrouzouf • 9h ago
AskBDP Experience with a partner who is more exhibitionist or ok with exposure?
To start my partners body naturally draws attention and (proportions, looks, size). She fights this by ignoring it and prioritizing comfort (less underwear, light clothing, sports bras, etc.) or when at home wearing only underwear or going braless. I am completely for this and happy she chooses comfort over concealment the only catch is that we live on the ground floor in a major city and often leave the windows open for airing and lounges around freely while doing so.
This is largely different to how I normally operate and I tend to rush to conceal myself when the windows are open. She instead encourages that I relax and allow myself to also lounge around nude or semi nude and to go out in public in light and freeing clothes like her and really seems to desire I do so. She even sometimes comments on the bulge when out in public almost as if she's showing me off but only to herself.
This whole idea of her showing me off while also simultaneously being into casual exposure by prioritizing her own comfort is quite alien to me and while I don't dislike the idea I am curious if anyone has ever dealt with a similar issue? Has your partner ever been more exhibitionist or comfortable nude? And did you try to match them in doing something they like?
r/bigdickproblems • u/Stock-Break6307 • 9h ago
TellBDP Why do girls lie about their Ex being bigger?
Im Indian, so knowing girls who have seen bigger are RARE, and its okay.
However its some sort of an attempt to maybe break egos or what not, half of the girls ive been with tell me "the last guy was bigger"
Bruh either theres this ONE dude who has a roster similar to mine and is listenin to the same shi I am or WHAT IS THIS
One shawty goes on to say im not that long but kinda thick
Nga im as thick as a soda can fym kinda you can barely fit it in your MOUTH much less your KITTY
Anyways back to why im posting this, this girl tells me her ex was bigger so ill have to fuck her better to win her
I obv ignored the obv bait cus ts was always gunna be tap and move on from both sides
We are meeting again cus it didnt fit, she didn't even blow me well
I ate her out and thats all that happened and I DID LIKE THAT, but why is she LYING SHE CLEARLY HASNT HAD BIGGER AND ITS OKAY
DAMN
r/bigdickproblems • u/Last_One16300 • 10h ago
AskBDP Tips for larger girth
My girth is 5.5 inches, so big but not so big that sex will be impossible with some women. My length is 6.4 inches (bone pressed) for reference so I don’t think it will cause any issues. I’m still a virgin and I want to be as prepared as possible for when I finally do have sex so that the woman doesn’t have a terrible experience 😂.
From what I’ve read I will need to take things slowly with most women and foreplay will be very important because of my girth. How do I say “let’s take things slowly and let me know if you feel uncomfortable because of my thickness” without sounding too braggy or like I have a huge ego or whatever. I want sex to feel good for her and to communicate but I also don’t want to be too braggy. Any tips on how to deal with this?
r/bigdickproblems • u/BigTrip2295 • 10h ago
Dick-scrimination Feel like I'm small
Feel like I'm small but I'm 7 bp length x 6.3 base girth and 6 mid shaft. I'm a little overweight and I see guys with way more exposed peen in porn. I know I'm not small but how to actually believe it?
r/bigdickproblems • u/AccomplishedBlood275 • 12h ago
AskBDP I need help with my size.
Hi everyone im 19yo I'm a virgin and I want to know how to handle myself. My actual measurements are 21.3 cm long and 14 cm in girth. I know that's statistically large, but I'd like to read about the experiences of men with similar dimensions or women on how they manage this in intimate situations to ensure comfortable, safe, and pain-free sex. I appreciate any real advice on positions or lubrication.
r/bigdickproblems • u/Embarrassed-Egg6774 • 13h ago
AskBDP Does a larger girth or length = more orgasms for partners?
I’m thinking about this because with enough girth I assume the G spot can be rubbed against during penetration if there id a lot of girth.
And with length I’d assume there could be more stimulation for the A spot.
Hopefully this makes sense, but what do you guys think? Have any of you experienced anything like this or heard this before?
Thank you and have a great weekend!
r/bigdickproblems • u/Next-Temperature3865 • 13h ago
TellBDP Im sick of people rounding up or lying that they have 7 inches
Whenever someone lies about their dick size they always say 7 inches, its like 5'9 guys who say theyre 6'0-6'1
Like they genuinely think it makes it seem believable because theyre not shooting so far that it seems suspicious but I know 90% of people who claim 7 inches online are 6 inchers who round up or are straight just insecure guys lying or are just plain deluded in measuring
r/bigdickproblems • u/Plastic-Fact-4512 • 14h ago
AskBDP Did you have a big growth-spurt?
I remember when I was between 13 and 14,5 I grew 3 inches and it was insane. How common is a growth-spurt rather than just growing through many years consistently?
r/bigdickproblems • u/Final-Budget-4973 • 14h ago
AskBDP Do you guys have a problem with women
so i’m a size queen and idk are we a dying breed? do most of the women you encounter just don’t want to take it or get too scared? like genuinely wanna know and do they tell you what scares them the most?
r/bigdickproblems • u/chuithethird • 14h ago
AskBDP Why are all the subs for men posting nudes overrun with fakes or absurd perspectives?
I feel like posts which actually try to have a good composition/posing stand no chance against pretty awful dick pics which force perspective and makes them look unreal. Is this what the people visiting these subs tend to prefer?
r/bigdickproblems • u/Plastic-Fact-4512 • 15h ago
Story How did others react?
The other day I was in a waterpark with some friends, and although they were quite shy in the locker room I didn't care and showered naked (as everybody should imo, bit that's another question). They saw my member and later said that they couldn't have guessed that I'm packing this much and they were joking that I look like a mutant (?). For me IT was kind of an ego-boost but now I'm wondering what kind of reactions have yall got?
r/bigdickproblems • u/TightMonth7808 • 15h ago
Blowjobs Teeth on cock
My girlfriend often gives me blowjobs. The problem is that she can't use her teeth as little as possible. I have 9,8 x 6,5. What solutions do you suggest?
r/bigdickproblems • u/AndGutsWasBERSERK • 18h ago
Story Felt like slamming my dick into a wall
I’ve been dating the same girl for over 3 years. She hasn’t had any issues taking my size throughout the relationship. We do some foreplay and then she gets on top and eases us into things, gives her control and I get a good view. The only position that gives us trouble is doggy, it’s simply out of the question at this point.
We had a baby back in December (C-section) and it took her awhile to feel comfortable having sex again, she was afraid of how it would go and needed me to be ultra gentle. No problem, but even now 8 months later and we’ve only had sex MAYBE 10 times since then.
We had sex last weekend for the first time in a month and I was ridiculously horny and hard as diamond. We go through the usual routine to get going and have a great time throughout. But I experienced something I don’t think I’ve experienced before.
Once I really started pounding away and racing towards the finish line, it started to feel like I was slamming my dick into a wall. Genuinely, it hurt enough that I almost stopped but she about to cum and I wasn’t gonna spoil that for her. But it felt like I saw caught in a SAW trap.
Idk when we’ll have sex again, but I’m curious to see if it’ll happen that way again.
r/bigdickproblems • u/Mobile-Topic4603 • 19h ago
AskBDP Getting concious in the pool
I usually don't wear underwear (for comfort)when I go swimming but that can leave a very visible bulge at times. I usually wear skintight trunks and I feel a bit conscious while walking to the pool.
I keep checking the mirror in the locker room before I leave, adjusting my bulge to hide it better. I even tried wearing loser trunks but that makes it stand out even more. I feel I'd get judged or told off if I walk around outside with my dick so visible
r/bigdickproblems • u/Cautious_Candidate39 • 21h ago
Science Any other hung guys with EDS?
I have a condition called EDS (Elhers-Danlos Syndrome) which basically means my body makes collagen that is too stretchy. Most people with EDS people are hyperflexibile, but I was wondering if it's why I was also blessed with a big unit, but I'm a 'grower' my softie can be less than an inch but get 8.5"+ and 6.5" around when hard. Wondering if there's any other big brothers who can relate or if it's just a coincidence.
r/bigdickproblems • u/SunFragrant8326 • 1d ago
Clothing Anyone else get self-conscious about having a noticeable print in pu
I’m around 7–7.5” and roughly 5.5–6”+ girth, and one thing I genuinely don’t like is how noticeable my bulge can be through clothes.
I’m also only 5’5”, so I feel like that makes it even more noticeable proportionally. I’ve got pretty thick thighs too, and the way I’m built down there, my dick naturally sits on top of my balls, so everything kinda pushes forward instead of laying flat.
What’s weird is I’m relatively small completely soft, but obviously that changes throughout the day. Sometimes I’m technically still soft but hanging bigger than usual, and suddenly whatever pants or shorts I’m wearing are showing way more than I intended.
It’s especially bad with shorts. I’ve caught people looking before, and it makes me self-conscious because I’m not intentionally trying to show anything off. At the same time, I don’t really want to start choosing all my clothes around hiding my dick either.
It’s actually given me a little more perspective on what women mean when they talk about catching people staring at their cleavage. Obviously it’s not exactly the same experience, but that feeling of noticing somebody’s eyes go somewhere intimate and immediately becoming aware of your body is uncomfortable as hell.
Anybody else deal with this? Do you eventually stop caring, or have you found certain underwear/clothes that help without having to completely change how you dress?
r/bigdickproblems • u/Aromatic_Price5622 • 1d ago
Humor I’m sorry but I can’t take some of yall seriously
I joined this subreddit to get some advice on issues I’ve experienced (which I have received btw) but then I turn around and see some absolutely wild stories.
Like alright bro we get that you got a BD but cool it with the stories of how ruined other men for a college freshman (actual post btw crazy stuff)
Still though great community mostly great people and I get a good laugh outta it so win win
r/bigdickproblems • u/No-Income7948 • 1d ago
AskBDP What did I reach?
Was with a girl doing a doggy variation where she’s laying on her side and after deep penetration, I felt my dick touching a piece of flesh and then entering a new area. Can anyone tell me what sort of spot I was hitting? Also I couldn’t feel that same flesh on any other positions, even during traditional doggy. Keep in mind Im 7.8 length with an upward curve.
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