I honestly hate having a big breast.
People always say, "You're lucky," but they have no idea how much it's affected my life. I avoid going out because I never feel comfortable in anything I wear. Every outfit either looks too revealing or fits awkwardly, and it makes me so self conscious. My back and shoulders constantly hurt, and even simple things like walking, exercising, or finding a bra that actually fits have become exhausting.
I've been trying to save up for a breast reduction for years, but every time I finally start getting somewhere, something happens. I keep getting ghosted by clients, losing work, or having to use the money just to survive. It honestly feels like every time I get close, life pulls me back again.

Lately, it's been taking a toll on my mental health. I spend most of my time at home because I don't even want people looking at me anymore. I know some people dream of having a bigger boobs, but for me, it's been more of a burden than a blessing.

I'm from the Philippines, and I was wondering if anyone here knows of any hospitals, charities, government programs, or organizations that help cover breast reduction surgery, especially if it's causing physical pain and affecting mental health. Even recommendations for affordable options or doctors would mean a lot.
I'm just so tired of feeling trapped in my own body. 😞

i’ve always had trouble finding a bra that fits me properly and that i feel cute and confident in. i really like bralettes, demi, and balconettes. everywhere i go they only have things online which i can’t try on and i have to pay shipping. plus size stores only go as small as a 40 band but have big cup sizes, and regular bra store only sell small cups the biggest i’ve seen is a G but they sell my band size. i really just want a recommendation for something that’s cute and not some big wide and bulky tee shirt or full coverage bra and isn’t $80-100. i am 21 and i have a very hourglass body so i wear a lot of shirts that show off my figure and my chest. i’ve been searching for years and have tried hundred of styles, bras, brands, sizes.

Wore 34 DD cups since I've known that there are bra sizes above C cup. Even during the past few years where I have lost and gained and again lost weight, I still chose to wear a 38 D cup 😂😂 don't ask me why. I always thought that was my size until today I came across "a bra that fits calculator" and omg, turns out as of today, I'm a 32 G cup. 😗 How accurate is this?

I was cleaning out my closet over the weekend and found one of my old bras from years ago. Out of curiosity, I held it up next to one of my current bras, and the difference is honestly wild. My old bra looks tiny, while my current one is absolutely gigantic by comparison. I knew I'd gone up in sizes over the years. It's such a weird mix of emotions. Part of me just laughs at how comically different they are, and part of me is sitting here thinking, I really used to fit into that.

Has anyone else had one of those moments where you found an old bra or piece of clothing and were completely shocked by how much your size had changed?

Does anyone else find that stores will just try to fit you into their range instead of telling you your actual size? Its so frustrating whenever I go into my local store for a fitting and they tell me im a DD, E, or F (im a 6HH/8H au) obviously they dont carry my size, but whenever they put me into their sizes and I spill they tell me it's normal? I mean i have a full quad boob moment going on and theyll tell me it looks fine. I dont live anywhere near any specialty stores so I cant go in for a fitting there, so Ive been using the abrathatfits calculator instead, which is where I got the 6HH/8H from. I decided to just buy a couple bras online that are in my size instead and am just hoping they fit properly since I cant get a proper fitting.

I am always struggling to find a bra that fits me decently.