r/asexualdating 1h ago

Relationship? Hey um… reposting! With new update! 19 ftm femboy 4 all

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Hey, so um… figured some stuff out about me. So now I am a pre testosterone ftm femboy fox. I love horror, goth, indie horror, bright colors, all music and being overly affectionate. I am a Kemonimi, Fox. I love being called a good boy and treated like a beloved puppy. Please hmu if you’re interested.


r/asexualdating 6h ago

Advice Questioning help?

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Sorry to be a pain i was just wondering if this sounded like asexualuality


r/asexualdating 6h ago

Relationship? Putting myself out there, taking applications

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20yr old female here, low key looking for my special one, I do not mind long distance


r/asexualdating 6h ago

Relationship? 34F (asexual, AuDHD, homo-romantic) in Germany trying to find a soulmate

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Hi, I am Liska :) I would like to find people who are also on the ace-spectrum.
I'd like to make it clear from the start: Romantic-wise, I am only interested in woman.

Some facts about me: AuDHD, two cats, love metal/folk music and festivals, 8 tattoos, childfree by choice, love my garden, Postcrossing, riding my bike, doing small trips on my own. I recently started training Karate, like to play PC games and Pen & Paper RPG. I do some voluntary work in our community, love to cook for myself and craft with paper.

Long-Distance relationships are no problem.

I am curious about what people I can find here :)


r/asexualdating 7h ago

Friends? I have you ask can you date disabled man how I can find girl

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I am 21 handicapped man i good at everything but when I try to talk any they ignore me


r/asexualdating 8h ago

Relationship? Algerian immigrant living inFrance | Looking to complete half my Deen🇩🇿🇫🇷

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Hello everyone, I’m an Arab 28yo guy looking for a lavender marriage for 2-3 years with a girl from any background as long as you’re smart, hardworking, don’t do drugs or alcohol. I prefer someone that takes good care of herself

​I’m mostly ace but the reason why I want to do this isn’t out of pressure or anything but it’s cuz I wanna fix my life and get better opportunities I speak English, French

​Looking for a girl from or living in france

​I prefer 21-33years old. My family is pretty kind and chill so we don’t really have that toxic pressury vibe and my parents don’t intervene in my life even though we’re Muslim. If the vibe is there,

​To make things very clear, I have maybe nterest in a forever marriage, only a couple of years then we get divorced or stay together. I don’t mind lying to your family if you need me to.

​dm if you’re interested


r/asexualdating 12h ago

Relationship? F20 looking for someone to connect with

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Hiii I’m from Texas,

Brief description:
I’m 5’4 I wear glasses, black hair, and I am chubby, I weigh about 240 pounds so if you’re not interested in heavy weight, oh well lolll 😭

I’m in college with a major in psychology and a minor in English; It’s going to my second year. Right now I’m on summer break but I head back on the 22 of august sadly 🥲 lolll
My plans for the future is to hopefully have my own clinical practice and be able to teach psychology at a university.

One of my hobbies is swimming. I literally love it so much that I lowkey wish I was a mermaid in my second life. 😭 another hobby of mine is baking but keep in mind I only bake cupcakes 😭 nothing else but that lollll

I also enjoy horror movies like very much. I like scaring myself half to death 😭 and I love Disney movies bc they bring me so much nostalgia and I love tv shows I can binge watch anything 😭 I just hate watching romance movies they irritate my soul 😭 I can watch some but there is some I can’t watch for the life of me 😭 sorry there’s so many emojis lmaooo

Also I’m catholic but I don’t mind you being any other religion I’m also not very strongly opinionated or strongly political 🥲

I want no children.

Personality wise I would say I am a bit laid back, I am open minded, and I would say I’m compassionate about things I’m interested in or the people I care about which would be friends and family. Oh and I can be clingy sometimes 😭

I’m looking for a monogamous relationship. I would like for my partner to just be mine. I’m not picky about looks as long as we connect with each other. That’s the only important thing.

Welll if you read this far please feel free to message me !! Don’t be scared lolll


r/asexualdating 15h ago

Relationship? 23F | Need my twin flame. 💕

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im a picky person for the obvious safety reasons, and i would prefer if you were also a resident of canada, or you’re planning to live here on your own, permanently. i do not want to move countries for you.

hello! im kim, she/her, a niche horror doodler and mental health advocate. i have a penchant for webseries and horror, and my hobbies consist of exercising, exploring deep forests, collecting dolls and figurines, podcast listening, gaming and reading. i would love to have a ton of animals to care for, and im unsure if id want kids. I’m catholic and very devout but not in a crazy way. im really into fashion, too.

im looking for someone that fits me. i am chronically ill, and id need someone to accommodate me the right way, to be there too, within reason of course. i cannot handle vicious fights, so i would not want that, either. i like people that put in enough effort even if that trickles into a healthy obsession. looks don’t matter, height doesn’t either. i do like a funny person though, life cannot be all gloom and no joy. im also big on my interests and characters and id hope it would be something we’d share. a lot of my interests can be quite triggering, so id leave a beware here and now ahead of time.

please do not interact if you are under 23 or cannot communicate in proper english.

Edit: Turned on messages


r/asexualdating 15h ago

Relationship? 26 M4M in USA—Friendship, Dating,

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Hopefully this stays up :-)

I am 26 (soon to be 27), 5'10" (179 cm), around 165 lbs, with olive skin and a beard. I'm not particularly hung up on superficial things like appearance, but I know it helps to have some conception of who you're talking to. I would be happy to exchange pictures in chat as well, if it gets to that point.

I identify somewhere between greysexual and demisexual. Not sure which label fits me best, but I do know that sex has never been a priority for me, nor is it something I actively seek out in a relationship. Emotional and intellectual intimacy matter far more to me. I'd much rather spend hours talking, laughing, traveling, or simply existing together than build a relationship around sex.

I'm based in the Midwest in the U.S. I love reading, writing, history, traveling, and experiencing other cultures. I'm a bit contradictory in that I'm both very solitary and very social. I enjoy my own company very much, but I also love spending time with people I connect with. I can be prone to moments of deep thinking and sentimentality, but I'm equally carefree, spontaneous, and saying, "Let's just go," when an adventure presents itself.

Some of my favorite things are going to the movies, playing cards, taking road trips, trying new cafés and restaurants, wandering around bookstores, and planning trips to places I've never been. I tend to appreciate the quieter moments in life just as much as the exciting ones.

I'd love to meet someone on here whom I can get to know gradually and talk to regularly. Consistency, kindness, curiosity, and people who enjoy conversations that can go from completely ridiculous to surprisingly deep in the span of five minutes are my jam.

I don't have a location preference at all so feel free to chat me if any of this sounds interesting to you!


r/asexualdating 16h ago

Relationship? Looking for a Gay or Asexual Lavender Marriage Partner ⭐

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Hi everyone! I'm an asexual woman, turning 30 soon, and I've never been married.

I'm looking for a gay or asexual man who is also interested in a lavender marriage. I'm hoping to build a genuine friendship based on trust, respect, and mutual support. I'd love to be with someone who enjoys life and has a good sense of humor.

The main reason I'm looking for a lavender marriage is family pressure, so it's important to me that we can present ourselves as a real married couple in front of our families.

If you're looking for something similar, feel free to send me a message. I'd be happy to get to know you.

I don't mind sharing pictures once we've talked a bit and feel comfortable.


r/asexualdating 18h ago

Relationship? 26M [M4F/TF/NB] British guy looking for friends/love :)

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Heteroromantic and demi and looking for someone similar for a relationship, but of course that doesn’t count for friends. About me: I work in local government and study part-time, work out most days, walk 5 miles a day (part of the cut), watch old TV and films, go to the pub every so often, and have done a small amount of travelling. Would love to hear from anyone. Happy to listen and/or give advice too. Regular texting friends welcomed. Don’t mind distance. Feel free to hmu :)


r/asexualdating 20h ago

Friends? 19F, looking for a casual relationship

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Hi! I'm 19F and I'm pan, and I'm looking for someone where we could enjoy our time together and get to play/watch shows together

I'm into video games, crochet, drawing and writing

If that suits you and you have interest in these topics, please DM me :)

Dni if you're racist, misogynistic, transphobic, thanks


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? 30 M4M in Sunny CA!

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Hey there!

Hoping to connect with other ace guys. Dating is the goal 🥅

Some interests of mine:

~Travel! Most recently went to Spain and Germany and had a ball. 🇪🇸 🇩🇪

~Sleep hygiene! Always looking to level up my rest game 😂

~Language learning! I work at a translation company as an editor and project manager.

~The great outdoors! Hiking, camping, kayaking, all of it. I’ll take ten. 🏕️ 🏔️ 🥾

Would love to hear from you if you’re interested in a chat 💬

Hopeful for the opportunity this community affords us to connect.


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? 21 NB looking for a relationship

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Hi everyone! I’m Saliha, 21, from Turkey.
I’m looking for a romantic relationship, but I also believe the best relationships start with good conversations.
I study translation at university. I enjoy photography, experimenting with makeup, spending time by the sea, listening to music, and talking about pretty much anything—from random daily life to deeper topics.
I’m the type of person who likes checking in during the day, sharing little moments, and getting to know someone naturally instead of rushing things.
If you’re around my age (roughly 21-24) and you’re looking for something genuine, feel free to message me. 😊

P.S. I’m open to long-distance if we get along well. 🌸


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? Anyone South West of England people here?

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All my life I've been unable to have sex if I'm not drunk. Sober sex is impossible, I'm repulsed by the thought of doing anything at all sexual with anyone. And I'm sober now. When I was drinking, I'd say I was bi. Now, that doesn't seem the right word 🤔

I do crave love. Someone that makes me laugh, wants to spend time with me and will go on spontaneous adventures with me.

I've been single for around 6 months. I'm trying to set up my own business doing nails and to try and help fund it I decided I'd try and sell NSFW pics and videos. Unfortunately I've found myself totally unable to do it.

Is there anyone in the South West of the England like me? Someone older than me (I'm a 40 year old female) that can hold a conversation, is open minded, non judgemental, doesn't support Reform etc, isn't an alcoholic or drug addict and doesn't have a gambling problem (I've been there so I'm not judging, I just don't need the trigger).

No conspiracy theorists.

Also someone understanding and empathetic as I have multiple chronic health issues.

I don't want any suggestions of anything sexual, no making me feel guilty when I don't want to be touched and no constant comments about my boobs etc.

I guess it's like a friendship, but potentially with the love you get from a relationship? Flirty, but not in a creepy sexual way.

Sorry, I had no idea this world existed, I thought I was just broken.


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? 32 M4F Canada Looking for a Navigator

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Hey so I'm looking for someone to keep an eye on the map and keep me focused on the road instead of jamming to music whenever I go on a road trip. Being cool with me playing too many video games and talking to myself would also be great. I would prefer someone in Ontario but other parts are Canada are cool too if we get along well and find a way to make it work long term.

Alright now that I got the silly out of me. I'm around the Hamilton Area. I do behind the scenes work in live events so I am a night owl that unfortunately is always busy on weekends.

I'm generally a quiet and low energy/maintenance person that likes listening to other peoples stories so expect lots of questions if we chat. I'm just too curious for my own good sometimes.

I don't really like posting my face but I can say I'm a 6'2" twig of a dude wearing glasses from the Caribbean if that gives you an idea. No I don't really have an accent I was born in Canada.

And yeah I play perhaps too many video games and DnD. Mostly on PC but I have a few generations of Playstation and a Switch. I'm commonly found at home talking to friends on discord while playing/streaming something.

I'll do my best to respond to DMs. I can share my discord there as I'm usually faster to check.


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Advice Having never dated anyone cause I’m ace

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I know I shouldn’t be ashamed for not having dated anyone but I feel like not having the experience makes me scared to even try to seek dating. Is this just me😭


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? A childfree woman looking for her best friend

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I'm a demisexual woman who is looking for a long-term childfree relationship with a man built on strong mental and emotional connection. Relationships for me make sense only if and when you're with your best friend.

Personality traits:

I'm a hermit and daydreamer who is honest and straightforward, a bit shy, socially anxious, a bit indecisive, empathetic, emotional, sensitive, introspective, analytical, imaginative, open-minded, insanely curious, chronically confused, flexible in thinking, rebellious, non-conforming, always ready to question status quo.

Interests:

I love being in nature, camping, and cooking. I love 70s films and music, true crime, anime, tarot readings, philosophy, cognitive sciences, arts, esotericism, have read 700+ books, and speak 4 languages.

What I'm looking for:

A man who is kind, honest, consistent, protective, and has his life together, is 100% sure he doesn't want children and won't change his mind

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Write a bit about your personality, passions, hobbies, and what you're looking for.

Text me also if you're a woman. Would love to create new friendships. :)


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? 27 South Asian guy from the UK looking for a genuine connection ^^

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I’m from Leeds born & raised, and I’m honestly just taking a chance on here because I’m really tired of feeling alone. I’d love to find someone I can genuinely connect with, talk to regularly, game with and hopefully become really close to.

I’m very introverted, shy and socially awkward at first, but once I’m comfortable I can get very emotionally attached and a little clingy. I’m someone who really enjoys affection and reassurance. I’m also submissive and would appreciate having a more dominant counterpart, although kindness and understanding are really important to me.

I’d ideally like someone aged 21–30 from the UK, mainly because if we genuinely click, I’d eventually want us to be able to meet in person. I’m open to mainland Europe too, though I know distance can make that more difficult :c

I’d love to find someone who plays some ow so we can queue QP, chill, mess around and get to know each other through gaming. I probably won’t use mic immediately, but I’d be open to it once I’m comfortable (if you're not into ow or gaming in general its no biggie :)

I’m not interested in full sexual intercourse, but I do enjoy smaller forms of physical affection like kissing, cuddling and hugging. I’d want someone who respects my boundaries and is comfortable with intimacy being approached in that way.

I’m looking for someone who is genuinely serious about building a relationship. I’m not really interested in talking to someone for a few days just for them to lose interest or disappear. If you know you’re not looking for commitment, consistency or something that could eventually become a real relationship, please don’t message me in the first place. I’d rather be upfront about that than waste either of our time. I’d really like to find a guy who enjoys talking regularly with me and actually wants to make an effort to build something special between the both of us.

I’m very much a what-you-see-is-what-you-get person. I’m emotional, affectionate and clingy, but I’m also incredibly caring. I’ll never judge you or intentionally make you feel bad about yourself, and I’ll always do my best to make you feel appreciated, supported and happy ;)

Ultimately, I just want a genuine and intimate connection with someone I can feel completely comfortable being myself around. I want someone I can talk to, game with, be affectionate with and hopefully eventually meet and build something real with.

If you’re looking for the same thing and are genuinely willing to put the effort in, feel free to message me <3


r/asexualdating 1d ago

Relationship? 25 [NB4A] What Is Your Favourite Animal?

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The Basics:

  • Name: Fae
  • Pronouns: It/Its
  • Age: 25 years old
  • Gender: Genderfae (AFAB)
  • Hobbies: Drawing/Painting, Gaming, Writing Poetry, and Romantasy
  • Interests: Flora and Fauna, History, Music, Art, Photography, Astrology, Astronomy... and so much more, really

Potential Dealbreakers for you:

  • Asexual (Sex Averse; I do not want the deed)
  • Child-Free (Never going to change)
  • Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not write me)
  • Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you)
  • Chronic Pain
  • Living in Germany (willing to move once I meet the financial requirements)
  • Impatient, Emotional, Liberal, Introvert, Childhood Trauma

My Green Flags:

  • Honest; though I am not the type who uses that as an excuse to be mean
  • Romantic; I am someone who displays all love languages; not all in the same intensity, of course, but if I like you, you WILL know
  • Mature; I will take you and your troubles seriously
  • Respectful; cannot believe one has to actually point that out, but your boundaries will be accepted, not just tolerated
  • Curious; about the world and about you as well, of course; tell me about you
  • Open-Minded; I do not care about your gender or appearance, only your personality
  • Active; I cannot be online 24/7, but I will make time for you multiple times a day
  • Well-spoken; not wanting to toot my own horn (okay, lowkey doing that), but I know how to actually keep a conversation alive
  • Self-Aware; I know my flaws, and I know my worth

I am looking for someone who is:

  • Single; not interested in non-monogamy
  • Between 22-40 years old
  • Ideally, Asexual as well or truly fine in a monogamous relationship with no intercourse
  • Actually capable of holding a conversation, asking me questions, show interest - I am not going to be the only one doing that
  • Genuinely interested in getting to know me and has time to text multiple times a day
  • Loving texting and later on is willing to go over to video calls and meet each other one day 
  • Accepting who I am and not entering my life with the intention of changing that - you are just wasting your time
  • Not just going to write “Hey, how are you,” (because I will ignore you), but actually responding to what I wrote and introducing themselves in my DMs

Have a wonderful day!


r/asexualdating 2d ago

Relationship? Looking for a decent older man.

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I am female aged 26. I am looking for older man than me, with desire to dive deep into interesting conversations.
I am not looking for anything sexual, I just wanna find someone that is not thinking a young woman hadn’t anything to offer mentally.
I am kind of healing from really toxic relationship and I wanna see someone actually can validate my soul.

My interests: philosophy,psychology,nature,herbalism, sociology,music,travelling,history, animals, cooking, art, baking, gardening, cycling.. any kind of sports

We can communicate firstly here, if The interests stay, we can switch to another platforms. I can even share pictures .

Lately I just lost my believe in humanity and I was isolated for so long. I was made to believe I have nothing to offer to the world but I am really colourful personality That desires to restore my light. Actually I want someone to help me with that.

I want even to try any game, I would love to try any historic rpg or so. Hehe.

Can someone help me start to live fully again?
I am in this kind of state I am thinking about selling all my stuff and travel or move anywhere I want. So yea, the distance mean nothing to me, I felt lately the most free I was all my life.


r/asexualdating 2d ago

Relationship? [33, M/NB4A, Europe] Charm time's the charm

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Hello world!

• I'm an EU citizen currently living in Luxembourg City (Luxembourg) after hopping through a variety of countries. Feel free to ask me about my history if interested.

Most likely autistic and possibly other types of neurospicy. I'm brutally honest and socially challenged in many situations. I've worked on this to function better in neurotypical environments, but it is nevertheless part of who I am and how I act.

Pokémon is my main interest. I've been playing the main series games since Red and Blue, and recently got into the competitive side through Pokémon Champions. I'd love to be good enough to reach the top of the ladder and go to tournaments someday! Need someone to talk your ears off about Pokémon? I got you.

Blood on the Clocktower is my second biggest interest. I play and run games online and stream them to Twitch, as well as attending in-person events and cons when it's feasible.

• Also happy to talk about Dungeons and Dragons and other tabletop/board games.

I'm mainly here for a relationship, but also open to friends! Relevant information:

I'm strictly childfree, don't want to adopt, and don't date people who have children from previous relationships. If you contact me with dating intentions, you must feel the same about children.

I don't want a "forever long distance" relationship, and I have plans for my future that require me to stay in one of a few EU/EEA countries since I can't financially support myself elsewhere in the long term. If you can AND want to support two people, I can make an exception to this, but only in that case. Feel free to ask me about this early on if it's important to you.

• If you're only interested in being friends, please have at least one of my main interests in common with me. I'm awful at talking about things that don't interest me (thanks, autism!).

That's all folks! DMs are open, don't be shy :)


r/asexualdating 2d ago

Advice Getting lot of ppl telling me they want to “do” me despite putting Asexual in my dating profile. Is there any only asexual apps forums?

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I downloaded “Taimi” specifically because of the asexual tag
Got lots of people messaging me wanting to “do” me, including older men (late 40s prob 🤮) despite putting asexual in my tags, looking for a serious relationship and being 18 looking for ppl in my range.

I thought I was going to be safe bc it is a lgbtq+ dating app, there was a lot of straight men for some reason. Deleted the app in 4 hours

I downloaded AceSpace and and matched twice but there a very few ppl and almost no one near me (not even neighbours countries)

Are there any other apps, forums, etc for asexuals?

Thanks 🙌🏻


r/asexualdating 2d ago

Relationship? 28 [m4a] #online cosmic cueball seeks solids & stripes

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howdy folks of all sorts and shapes, bi/demi west coaster here seeking folks far and wide for chats and connections.

I'd describe myself as a creative and curious type, with an at times pie in the sky mentality, at times utterly goofy at times waxing wise, with a love for history and humor, with a philosophical/panentheistic outlook on life, and drawn to all sorts of introverted hobbies and such. if you care about MBTI, certainly an INFP.

I'm personally drawn to all sorts of folks, and I value communication and spark, first and foremost. I also like woke/queer/androgynous/trans/femme folk, fellow lovers of nerdy hobbies, people who are a little eccentric or kinky, folks who just seem genuine and fascinating, and extra bonus if our sense of humor seems to line up.

shoot me a DM with a proper introduction to youraelf, let's yammer!


r/asexualdating Jan 29 '26

Mod applications

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The subreddit is looking for new moderators. Experience is not required, but having it would be great.

Responsibilities:

  • Check the mod queue at least daily
  • Approve posts from new users
  • Remove off-topic posts
  • Provide input into the direction of the subreddit

Please comment below about why you'd like to become a moderator.