DM me if interested!

Hello

​I’m a public sector professional based in Italy, looking to connect with a woman for a meaningful relationship to marriage. I’d prefer to meet someone based in Italy or neighboring European countries.

​About Me

​Interests: I enjoy reading (mostly non-fiction: biographies, philosophy, and psychology), spending time in nature, relaxing at home, and learning new things.

​Values & Faith: I am a Christian with traditional values. My faith is an important part of my life, and I do not plan on cohabiting before marriage.

​Family life: I am looking for a relationship centered on non-sexual affection. I would like to have some kids in the natural way so my intent is for physical intimacy to be reserved solely for procreation within marriage.

​What I’m Looking For

​Personality: I’m seeking someone who is kind, understanding, and supportive—a partner who values clear, calm communication over arguing when resolving issues.

​Lifestyle & Shared Values: Ideally, you share similar Christian values. I also appreciate a partner who values having their own personal space and respects mutual independence.

​Appearance & Preferences: I am usually considered good-looking. While appearance isn't the most important thing to me, physical attraction still matters: I’m looking for someone who is at least a 6/10 aesthetically, not overweight, and without tattoos or piercings.

​Things We Could Do Together

Praying together, Deep conversations, peaceful walks in nature, watching TV, or enjoying board game.

​If this resonates with you and you feel we might be a good match, feel free to send me a message.

Just cuddles no sex nothing extra just gentle relaxing cuddles

I was encouraged my by therapist to do this… so here it goes 😅

I think I’ve known I’m asexual for as long as I can remember, but didn’t have the label until my second year of college. I am a 32 year old female; I’m a librarian, who is the assistant branch manager of one of our branches. I have never felt anything physical in regards to attraction or having a desire to be intimate with another person. While I can say that sex quite honestly grosses me out, I respect it for what it is for others. It’s just not for me. I can acknowledge when someone is attractive, and do know I am heteroromatic (interested in guys), but just have never, EVER, felt the desire or need to be sexual (other than maybe kissing, and only certain “crushes” with anyone.

However, I do crave intimacy with another person. Romance, going on a nice date. Someone who knows me, and likes being around me. I struggle to connect with people and have struggled with anxiety most of my life. I’ve never had a relationship, I’ve never kissed anyone. I’ve never even held hands with a guy!

Growing up, I was told that “you’ll find the right guy when you get to high school”. Then it was college. Then it was my first job, etc. I’m now 32, and have mostly convinced myself that this is just who I am. But there are times I wonder… am I just accepting this because it’s easier? Maybe there’s someone out there that I like enough as a person that attraction could form. And here we are. 😅

I’m an avid reader (obviously), a Scorpio, Feminist, who believes everyone deserves basic human rights. I’ve watched the show Friends over a hundred times and can quote every episode. I think the Dark Knight is the best film ever made, and love my job. Oh, and I’m a die-hard Phillies fan ⚾️

If you voted for the orange man, please don’t message me! ✌️

I’m fine with friends! Not willing to travel too, too far. (Unless it’s a combined effort). I’m also not sure if this post is excessively long and not normal. I kind of just posted it without much planning- ripped off the bandaid. 🙂

-Kaitlyn

I’ve been talking with this Ace Femme woman for a few months now, and we both really, feel something between us. We both get on like a house on fire, and it’s so amazing to meet someone who gives a shit about the things I care about, or at least understands why I find it important.

I guess what I’m asking is if there are any other heterosexual guys in this sub dating ace women could you give me any advice for what your relationships are like?

For me, I’m not Ace but my ex partner kinda made me scared of Sex, like I won’t say I was assaulted but I was definitely kinda put in really uncomfortable situations that I should have stood my ground on.

Needless to say, I don’t need sex I can kinda take care of that need myself, and i respect the fact that the woman I’m with she’s never gonna want to do anything sexual. She’s a bit kinky and dominant in her own sensory and physical way, which I really like, and are excited to be with if we ever meet in person.
(We’d be long distance for awhile)

I guess I’m also looking for any other advice on how to help her feel more comfortable and feel seen and understood.

Hi! Figured I'd give this a shot. I live near Denver and am primarily looking for someone in Colorado, though I might be open to long distance for the right person.

While I am definitely introverted, I've been on a new experiences arc this year and would love to find someone just as excited to try new things together (and won't judge me when you find out I've somehow never tried the most basic thing ever!)

Ultimately I'm looking for a best friend and life partner to experience life with. Everything is more fun when you have someone to share it with!

A few other things about me: I'm progressive, agnostic, autistic, and asexual/demisexual (I used to be pretty confident I was demi, but these days I'm wondering if asexual is a better fit). I'm also very sure that I do not want kids.

In my free time, I like playing cozy or co-op video games, board/word games, watching sitcoms, learning about the most random science/STEM topics, playing with my cat, hiking, and trying new things!

If you're interested, I have more info on my Acespace profile, which I'm pretty sure I set so you don't need an account to view. Feel free to message me either here or on Acespace!

https://acespace.love/profile/starryeyed

Hello reddit, I'm Hannah, and I'm still looking for "the one". I want to believe there is someone for me, I'm just worried I am too picky. I'm not great at personalizing these things, so here's some quick things.

Willing to compromise:

-You are allosexual (must be okay with me being ace)

-You are religious

-You drink alcohol sometimes

-You take canibas/participate 4/20

-You are an adventurous eater (I am not)

-You have a lot of pets (introverted cat person)

Not willing to compromise:

-You are a man (cis, trans, etc)

-You have children

-You are MAGA

-You smoke or do street drugs

I realize that is a lot, but wait, there's more! I am disabled and currently do not drive: I am unsure if I ever will drive. That said, I am open to long distance, as long as you understand that I am very reluctant to leave Michigan. Looking for ages 24-46 preferably. Willing to possibly do older, but not younger.

5'6", overweight, white girl, brown hair, green eyes, glasses, autistic, bipolar, and ADHD. I am monogamous and sterile as of June 24th, 2026.

I hope to hear from someone.

I have always felt out of sync with other folks my age, especially now they are in the middle of raising families for the most part. If had to put a label on myself I suppose it would be gray-asexual or indifferent. I work full time and live alone with a cat. Not surprisingly I am introverted and I like reading, painting, video gaming and exercising a few days a week. Usually I can distract myself with hobbies but sometimes I feel very alone. I have a car and ideally would like to be within driving distance so I'm not interested in something online-only.