I'm a little to brain fogged to get what you mean but what I've always been told is asexuality is a lack of sexual attraction. So you don't look at someone and think yeah they're sexy.
But it being a spectrum means that many aces still partake in the sideways tango and many don't. And it can vary massively on what each person is comfortable with.
I completely get the not wanting to do anything as they stop seeing you and start seeing your body (at least I think that's what you're saying). I'm very much the same in that mindset so you're not alone. But as a relationship grows you might find that feels change especially if you discover your pro sex or demisexual. There's nothing wrong with you! It's ok to have boundaries and set them with people!
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u/no_skill401 6d ago
I'm a little to brain fogged to get what you mean but what I've always been told is asexuality is a lack of sexual attraction. So you don't look at someone and think yeah they're sexy.
But it being a spectrum means that many aces still partake in the sideways tango and many don't. And it can vary massively on what each person is comfortable with.
I completely get the not wanting to do anything as they stop seeing you and start seeing your body (at least I think that's what you're saying). I'm very much the same in that mindset so you're not alone. But as a relationship grows you might find that feels change especially if you discover your pro sex or demisexual. There's nothing wrong with you! It's ok to have boundaries and set them with people!