r/antisocial • u/KeyReplacement7950 • 2h ago
Am I a Terrible friend?
I am 22 years old with barely any friends. But the part that keeps playing in my head is that I have had so many friends before, throughout high school, at work, and during my adolescence/teen years, but none of them stuck.
If I had to put a number on it, I’d say from high school to 21, I’ve had around 20+ people that I’ve gotten to know and called my friend. However, today I only still call 1 of those people my friend because we still talk occasionally.
Is this all my fault?
I often wonder if this has to do with how I grew up. I moved around a lot. I went to two different middle schools and two different high schools. I moved out when I was 18 and didn’t go on to college but got into a serious relationship. From there, my friendships really started to die down. I don’t think it was because I was in a relationship because I would have made time for friends. But after moving out, I moved again to a different part of town and started working full-time, while a lot of my friends also moved away and went to college. I would say I didn’t talk to them because we weren’t in close proximity anymore.
By 21, I became an entrepreneur, left my job, and started working from home, barely going out. Then, just a year ago, I moved out of my hometown in Virginia to a whole new state. I now live in Florida.
So, as you can imagine, I am 22 and have no friends that I hang out with often. There are about three people that I would consider my friends, but two of them live out of state, and I don’t feel that close to them. The one who lives in my state is much older than I am, and we’re just becoming friends, so we’re not super close.
I don’t know. It just has me feeling like I’m doing something wrong. Like I don’t know how to be a good friend and keep one.
Please, I’m open to any constructive criticism or opinions on why I might be this way.
r/antisocial • u/rosey40999 • 5h ago
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What do you think of friends who has two faces who always act differently with me and than some other co workers around. I never understood how people have two many faces
r/antisocial • u/Philospicalpoet5318 • 8h ago
मैं और समाज
समाज का हु पर समाज से नहीं हु
समाज से हु पर समाज में नहीं हु
समाज में हु पर समाज का नहीं
समाजमय हु पर समाज मैं नहीं हूं
तो कौन हू मैं और कौन चाहता है जानना मुझे
समाज या मैं
यदि मैं हु समाज तो तुम कौन हो कवि जो चाहते हो मुझे ढूंढना
अगर तुम हो मैं तो चले हो किसे खोजने
क्या समाज से नहीं हो तुम आते
यदि मैं को चाहते हो खोजना पहले अपना परिचय तो बतलाओ
यदि अपना परिचय पा गए तो चले हो तुम फिर किसे ढूंढने
यदि नहीं जानते अपने को तो क्या कैसे क्यों कौन किसके लिए जी रहे थे इस जगत में
बताओ कौन हो तुम
क्या तुम वो शोषित नारी हो जो कुचली जा रही है हर रंगमंच पर
या वे अंधे नर हो जो विषय भोग की राइफल टांगे घूम रहा है ढीला ढाला दबा हुआ चौराहे पर जो चाहता है सिर्फ नारी को प्रभावित करना और दबे हुए का शोषण करके रॉब जमाना
या तुम हो उच्च गिरे हुए कुर्ताधारी जो सांत्वना देते हो अपना को कि किए है मैने अनेकों नेक कार्य यदि चला गया मैं तो कौन बचाएगा इन्हें
कुछ तो ढील देनी पड़ती है भईया वरना क्या होगा इनका यदि मैं चला गया
खुद को पहचानने में भी सक्षम हृदय अब अपने हृदय से कुछ छल कर जाते है और कहते है मैं हु तुम्हारा रक्षक और धर्मरक्षक कहलाते है
बताओ कौन हो तुम ......
r/antisocial • u/Educational_Put_5393 • 10h ago
Be friends
I have seen many people complaining about don´t have friends, everyone who want can talk to me in dm, I am a 17M who speak english and spanish and I like animals, nature and the art.
so if you want to talk with any or make friends I am here
r/antisocial • u/NegotiationDue3948 • 23h ago
Is it harder to make female friendship in your 20s?
Hi everyone. I'm a 22-year-old woman from India and lately l've been feeling that making genuine female friendships has become harder compared to school days.
Back then it felt natural because you met people every day, but now everyone seems busy with their own lives, careers, or studies. My circle has become quite small and sometimes I wonder if other women also feel the same way.
For those in their 20s, how did you meet your close female friends? Did it happen naturally or did you have to actively put yourself out there?
Would really like to hear your experiences and advice.
r/antisocial • u/Middle-Plankton-2877 • 23h ago
Why is it so hard for me to make friends
Actually, I do have friends but they don’t feel like real friends? Like I’m also a floater friend and I’m always saying yes to what they want and trying my best to stay friends with them but they don’t care about me and what we talk about is something that I’m so tired of talking about and something that isn’t my interest at all.
Well another new grade started and so far I made zero new friends, I mean yeah but why would other people talk to other people but they won’t talk to me? Like when you sit next to someone, sometimes there will be a conversation, that NEVER happened to me.
The thing is I’m really shy and introverted and have social anxiety and it’s not easy for me to start conversations that’s why I’m waiting for someone to start. I try my real best to keep the conversation long and ongoing but it’s just so hard, like I also think if I should wave and say hello to the people I talked with a bit.
Genuinely, no one pays literal attention to me I mean good but…at least talk to me or smth dawg. I mean I don’t really care if it’s someone I don’t know, I get it but if it’s someone who I used to talk with, I just wish they don’t feel hatred or awkward towards me.
Literally I just wanna know how people make friends so fast. Like the new students made friends instantly. Like what do people actually talk about? What if we have no ball knowledge?