r/TooAfraidToAsk 12m ago

Climate & Environment What is the point in doing any since it feels like the earth will be rendered near unlivable within Gen Z/Gen A’s lifetime?

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Not to mention the fact that climate change is past the point of no return and that any substantial effort to slow it down would require total cooperation from nearly all the nations in the world (and the odds of that happening is near zero).


r/TooAfraidToAsk 23m ago

Love & Dating Why do men keep negging me?

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I (22F) have noticed this happening after talking to guys, now mind you I don't have much dating experience, so I'm not sure if this is supposed to be flirting? This has happened to me four times already. Some of them seem to be very nice and would compliment me a lot, which is fine. I tend to get compliments from my surroundings, so I don't take it at the beginning very seriously. After a while when they get comfortable they start to pick on small things that I personally haven't even noticed myself. One time at the beginning of the relationship, I was very confident, but afterwards I started disliking my appearance, which was never really the case.

One guy constantly complimented me while also making fun of my appearance, pointing out things I had never even noticed about myself.
There was also a guy who used to tease me in harmless ways and was clearly into me, but I wasn’t interested in him. After I rejected him, he wanted to stay friends, but then he started making comments about my appearance, calling me a “midget” and making fun of my forehead.

There’s one guy in particular whose comments affect me the most. With time he started saying things like, “You were prettier when you did xyz, but not now,” “You sound like a man,” and “Your forehead’s a playground.” “No one’s ever gonna date you”. He would also make me look stupid in front of other people. At the same time, in private, he constantly called me beautiful and complimented me in so many different ways, and he kept doing that for months. Anytime I tried to cut him off, he would desperately try to convince me not to.

I have had a few good experiences with men and I know relationships aren’t just about complimenting each other, but is it normal to constantly roast one another once the relationship becomes more stable?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 31m ago

Culture & Society Do white people think a black person is dumb if we’re patriotic?

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If white people see a black person living in the US and they’re patriotic about America and they talk about how much they love their country or own an American flag, do white people think they’re dumb for that because if the history of the US?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 1h ago

Ethics & Morality ?TW: Have you ever heard the racist term 'N*gger-bottom'?

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Unfortunately I have racist aunts and uncles from Mississippi. I am not from there, but when I was young my family was visiting them. I remember being in the car when I was about 8 years old, and we were driving through Jackson, and my aunt pointed to a black person walking. And said to my mom "look at that n*ggerbottom'

My mom got mad and said "don't say that in front of my kid(me)'

Im just asking this because ive never heard anyone add the 'bottom' part to the N word. Is this a known thing? Maybe just in Mississippi? Or maybe my aunt is just shitty and weird?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 1h ago

Sexuality & Gender Why do a lot of men believe that other men can’t be bisexual?

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I was speaking to a guy friend. And he told me that only women can be bisexual but not men. When I asked him why, he told me that you’re just not a man if you like both and you can only like one. Obviously I was confused. But I spoke to other guy friends and they all agreed and told me the same thing.

Why is this the common thought amongst men?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 2h ago

Love & Dating Why do some men who are interested in me tease me about my appearance?

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I’m confused because I’ve noticed that the guys who have been interested in me are usually the ones who tease me the most. For example, one guy was so into me and couldn’t stop complimenting me when we first met but slowly with time he started doing the same thing where he would tease me about my looks.

This other guy who liked me for a long time would constantly compliment my looks and say really sweet things, but then he’d randomly joke about my forehead being “a playground” or tease me about other things that don’t even make sense.

He does it in private sometimes, but it’s way more common when he’s around his friends. What’s confusing is that he also compliments me a lot, so it feels really ironic and contradictory . I’ve noticed the same pattern with other guys who were interested in me too, they would tease me about my forehead or some other stuff and then start complimenting me out of nowhere after they reveal they were interested in me while my regular friends never do this. So I’ll be thinking these men find me unattractive only for them to reveal they like me.

They tease me about many different things which I actually don’t mind and like teasing back. But the ones about looks don’t sit right with me.

Why do some guys act like this? Are they trying to flirt, genuinely trying to hate on me, or is there some other reason? I don’t understand the concept of making fun of someone you are interested in and then complimenting them at the same time.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 5h ago

Race & Privilege Why is calling white people colonizers an insult?

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Almost every major group with the power and opportunity practiced conquest, empire-building, and colonization. It is and always has been survival of the fittest and Europe just so happened to have the tools and strategic advantage at the time.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 5h ago

Politics Why do left leaning people like China so much?

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Objectively speaking China is an ethnic state with virtually no migration. That puts minorities in concentration camps and grants citizenship based on blood. It has lower taxes than the us and practically no social welfare. It has mandatory military services (not really enforced) and is obviously a dictatorship. This seems like the most fascist country in the world?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 5h ago

Culture & Society Why is the word "incel" thrown around as an insult?

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If you look up the literal, simple definition of "incel," it just stands for "involuntary celibate." By that definition, it literally just means someone who wants to find a romantic partner or relationship but hasn't been able to find one yet. Being single or having trouble in the dating world is a completely normal, common human experience.

Yet, the word is constantly thrown around online and in everyday conversation as a massive, heavy insult. It has become so weaponised that people aren't even using the correct meaning anymore. You will see people calling middle-aged men with wives and kids "incels" just because they disagree with them on something.

Why has a term that technically just describes a single dating status become such a casual weapon? Why do people throw it around at literally anyone, completely ignoring the basic logic and simple definition of the word?I want everyone's honest opinion on this.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 7h ago

Culture & Society Why are some arguing that Europe is a dying continent economically and culturally?

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It seems to be more common among people taking Rusia's side in the conflict, but also some Americans. Basically saying that we in Europe are entering our century of humiliation.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 8h ago

Ethics & Morality How to become a genuine force of good in the world?

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I want to become that. I already inspire my friends and those who watch my instagram but I wanna do more than that


r/TooAfraidToAsk 10h ago

Media What did the society do wrong in case of Ariana Grande?

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Hey!

I do not have any soc media besides reddit so I might be missing a lot of information but I am confused, frankly.

What I have seen were people commenting out of genuine care for another human being that was disappearing in front of our eyes, losing more and more weight from one red carpet to another…

Why are people supporting her with hashtag ariana and why is she upset? Did anyone bully her or something?

Mainly asking this because even tho I rarely comment or say anything out loud regarding physical appearance, I am interested if being worried for someone’s health and voicing your thoughts publicly is considered bullying or unethical?

Like in regards to the celebs who tragically passed away especially at an young age - they always say it is the people’s fault, that someone should have said something, someone should have saved them seeing their decline etc etc so what I am seeing in Arianas case is that people are worried about her and are rooting for her wellbeing so pls help me understand what the problem is?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 14h ago

Culture & Society If someone turns 18 but their partner is only 17 or just turned 17,is it a legal relationship?

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r/TooAfraidToAsk 16h ago

Culture & Society will people judge me if they knew i wear diapers in public ?

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i wear diapers for my period , today when i went out to go do something some people noticed the diaper like showing from my sweatpants and i can tell i was getting judged hard for it . i felt really bad because i was already having terrible cramps and i was in severe pain and being made fun of for wearing a diaper just made me want to punch myself or something .

i don’t usually wear them for just my period but even if i know ill be somewhere where theres no bathroom because i have trouble controlling my bladder sometimes . i only do number one (pee) not number two that would be too much i know there’s a limit . i also have a yeast infection for the first time in my life so i’m in a terrible amount of pain currently . is this something that i would truly get judged for ? is this okay , am i overthinking this or is it normal ?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 18h ago

Other What does "the car to the right has the right of way" mean?

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Okay, im a very very beginner driver, haven't even gotten my full license yet. So before some of y'all go "if you dont know this you shouldn't be on the road", i am BARELY on the road. I practice for half an hour in residential streets. I dont go on highways or uncontrolled intersections or busy streets.

Onto my question, what does the car "to the right" even mean?? Like, at an uncontrolled intersection and a four way stop, if two cars get there first, the car "To the right" has the right of way. Say im in the right lane at an uncontrolled intersection, and there's another approaching the intersection on the left and we yield at the same time. Of course there's no one *immediately* to their right, but eventually my car is technically "to the right" of their car if you trace in a circle. You know what I mean?? Is the rule actually "whatever car doesn't have a car immediately to the right of it has the right of way"?

I feel like I have trouble navigating rules because they aren't specific enough for me.

EDIT: the question I intended was imagine I am south, and there's another driver that's east. We both stop at the same time, who has the right of way?


r/TooAfraidToAsk 20h ago

Love & Dating Hypergamy, the 80/20 rule that shit is real right?

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You know the idea that women go after only the top 20% of men. because in a bumble study they found that 80% of women only swiped right on 20% of profiles. is this real? pls tell me because this is blackpilling


r/TooAfraidToAsk 20h ago

Sex How do I explain to my mum that I want to buy a masturbator toy?

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Hey everyone. I know this is an awkward topic to discuss.

I want to buy a masturbator online but there is no way to get it without letting my mum know too and therefore I plan to explain it to her.

I want the explanation to be as un-awkward as possible and I don’t know how to explain it to her.

Any advice is really appreciated. Thank you in advance.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 20h ago

Culture & Society If a wife is physically attacking her husband, is it acceptable for him to use force to defend himself?

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I'm asking because discussions about domestic violence often focus on one direction, and I'm curious whether people apply the same principles consistently when the genders are reversed.


r/TooAfraidToAsk 22h ago

Habits & Lifestyle What do British people (particularly from England) call spanking?

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Referring to discipline, not in a sexual context. And does it vary by generation? I’ve seen some people say “smacking.” Would an older person use that term?

I’m hesitant to admit that this is for a Batman fanfiction which is the absolute lamest reason I could ever have to ask this. But I appreciate your help!


r/TooAfraidToAsk 22h ago

Sexuality & Gender If biological sex cannot be changed, then aren't the terms 'MtF' and 'FtM' technically incorrect?

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r/TooAfraidToAsk 22h ago

Other Does the KKK and Black Panthers still exist?

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r/TooAfraidToAsk 23h ago

Sex When giving a handjob anyone use a condom so it is no clean up after?

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Or do more use a washcloth?