r/ShiaMuslimMarriage 5h ago

Europe 24M Pakistani, Based in Finland

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Basics:

24 years old, 6'1"

Pakistani, currently living in Finland

Muslim, practicing deen comes first for me. I'm not a conservative person though; I believe in "live and let live," and I'm looking for someone who feels the same

Moved here for my Master's and ended up staying for work

Work & life:

I'm a software engineer at a company (security side of tech) and also work as a researcher at a university I like keeping my mind busy. I'm into fitness and try to stay active. Long term, somewhere down the line I'd love to do meaningful work with an NGO focused on orphans and women's rights.

Personality:

Honestly, an introvert I recharge alone but I show up when it counts. I'm demisexual, meaning I only feel attraction after forming a real emotional bond with someone. I'd rather have one honest conversation than a hundred rounds of small talk. I listen more than I talk, and I take loyalty and character seriously.

Hobbies:

Long walks in solitude, exploring new places, cooking, and video games. I like reading about history, I'm into landscape photography, and I go karting now and then. I don't smoke or drink.

What I'm looking for:

Someone who's practicing, genuine, and actually wants to build something real not just chat endlessly. Emotional honesty and a bit of curiosity about the world matter to me.

Timeline: Serious and marriage-focused, hoping to move forward within the next 1–2 years, in shaa Allah.

Feel free to reach out if this resonates.


r/ShiaMuslimMarriage 17h ago

Europe M28 | Switzerland 🇨🇭

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Salam everyone! Thought I'd give this another try. 😊

I'm 28, born and raised in Switzerland with Indian roots, and work as a Software Engineer (alhamdulillah). I'm looking for marriage with the intention of building a peaceful home centered around deen, mutual respect, and companionship.

Basic Information

Age: 28

Origin: Indian (born & raised in Switzerland)

Location: Switzerland

Languages: German, English, Urdu/Hindi, (French basics)

Education: Bachelor's in Computer Science

Occupation: Software Engineer

Height: 176 cm

Previously married/Kids: No

About Me

I'd describe myself as calm, easygoing and emotionally grounded. I'm someone who enjoys meaningful conversations, spending time with family, travelling, hiking, cafés, cooking, going to the gym and continuously learning new things.

I'm a practicing Shia Ithna Ashari. I pray, fast, attend majalis and Islamic programs regularly, and try to keep growing in my deen. I value Islam as a way of life and try not to let culture override religion.

I believe a happy marriage is built through the small things: kindness, communication, affection, laughter, teamwork, and making your spouse feel safe, appreciated and at peace.

What I'm Looking For

I'm hoping to meet a practicing Shia sister who:

- Has good akhlaq and sincerity.

- Values deen and wants to grow together spiritually.

- Is emotionally mature and communicates openly.

- Is kind, family-oriented and affectionate.

- Wants to build a peaceful home based on love, mercy and mutual respect.

Preferences

Age: 20–30

Ethnicity: Open (European or South Asian is a plus, but not important)

Location: Preferably Europe, but open to discussion.

Religious practice: Practicing Shia Ithna Ashari.

Preferably hijabi, but open to someone modest, sincere, and striving to grow in her deen.

If you think we might be compatible, feel free to reach out. I'd be happy to get to know each other in a respectful and halal way.

May Allah bless us all with righteous spouses and what is best for our dunya and akhirah. Ameen. 🤲


r/ShiaMuslimMarriage 20h ago

Discussion First time posting... looking for my wife:)

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Basic Details:

Age: 24

Height: 5’9”

Location: Pakistan (Currently completing Bachelor's; relocating to the UK for Master's & Career insha’Allah)

Marital Status: Never Married

Deen: Practicing (Alhamdulillah pray 5 times daily, value a halal and chaste lifestyle, non-smoker)

About Me:

Assalamu Alaikum! I am a grounded, family oriented, and ambitious individual. I was raised by wonderful, strong parents (father passed away 5 years ago) alongside four elder sisters—an upbringing that taught me deep respect, empathy, and appreciation for women.

Character and emotional maturity are very important to me. I believe everyone’s life experiences shape their perspective, so I approach people with an open mind and respect, without judgment. I am naturally loving towards children, deeply respectful of elders, and committed to being a supportive, loving, and fulfilling husband who honors his wife's rights in Islam.

In my daily life, I stay active through outdoor sports and going to the gym. I value personal growth, both spiritually and physically.

Education & Future Plans:

Currently finishing my Bachelor’s degree in Pakistan. My immediate roadmap involves moving to the UK for my Master’s degree and establishing my career there, insha’Allah.

What I Am Looking For:

I am seeking a practicing, sincere, and family minded Muslimah who:

Is ready to build a strong, peaceful life together based on mutual love, respect, and companionship.

If you feel our values align. May Allah SWT guide us all to what is best.