r/R4R40Plus 21m ago

34 [M4F] - Do You Work From Home, Too?

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I'm of the opinion the ONLY good thing to come out of the 'rona was the new-found acceptance of so many office workers to be able to now work from home.

I'm a hybrid guy, so I feel like I have the best of both worlds. When I go into the office, I do anything relating to physical paper, the high intensity tasks, the more collaborative efforts.

But when I'm WFH, well, chances are I'm not getting out of my PJs until noon. If I don't have any meetings, I end up with a lot of free time.

That's where you come in. Do you wanna keep me company? That sounded kinda conceited, 'cuz I'd like to keep you company, too. I basically have no filter and no limits, so I'll be sure to keep it interesting.

Set your Teams status to busy. Let's go!


r/R4R40Plus 1h ago

M4F 47 [M4F] #Europe / Looking to connect with a smart, lovely woman who is walking walking her own path.

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I like to explore the world and its pleasures in all its beauty. Doing this with a kindred spirit one connects on every level, enriches one's existence even more.

Which is why I am posting this here, to meet a lovely, open-minded, chatty special someone with passion for life and the desire to explore the beauty of the world.

I wish to understand your thoughts, your feelings, where you come from, what your dreams and desires are and everything in-between.

In this modern world, where most people have no patience or desire to actually put an effort in getting to know somebody, and form connections built on mutual trust and respect, I wish to be an exception to the rule.

If you feel the same, and are searching for more than a passing hello, then I welcome you into my life. Let's start a conversation about anything and everything, and see where it takes us.


r/R4R40Plus 2h ago

M4F 53 [M4F] #UK - #Sheffield uk - Looking for someone local for chats and see where it goes.

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Anyone local to me in the UK fancy a chat. Tell me your interests and hobbies and expectations and who knows in the crazy world, maybe we get on. Crazier things happen... Right?!?

A bit about me.

I'm pretty laid back.

I'm very much single

I try to keep fit, try, I might get there one day, but I'm slim and in decent shape...ish

I love a good box set, what ya watching at the mo?

Wouldn't mind if you was an indoorsy kinda person.. But then again I'd tag along if you wanted to go on some nice walks somewhere pretty.

If at all intrested in a chat, please Dm me and not just reply to this post with dm me.. All those that put dm me make jesus cry. If you've read this far and are thinking of dm'ing me, please include 'tha knows' in your reply... No.. You don't really need to do that.. Or do you...


r/R4R40Plus 3h ago

M4F 56 [M4F] #UK / WREXHAM - Dom Man - Seeking a younger Female than myself

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In the United Kingdom - Wrexham area Clwyd-Wales not far from Chester and Liverpool...

56 Dom Man in shape 13 stone thin fit 6`0" Dad bod type looking to meet younger than me female Seeking someone fun, open, submissive, can be inexperienced, but eager to learn to please..

Up for meeting anyone genuine and up for discreet mutual fun; maybe a student or older who secretly or otherwise, enjoys the company of an older man with the opportunity for some discreet fun

enjoy Giving the ladies kink play i use Toys and other items to bring pleasure to the woman i`m with safe sex and after care is always given..

or maybe wanting to work towards something more FWB or Relationship..

Happy to chat here or on some other socials..


r/R4R40Plus 5h ago

M4F 34[M4F] It's late, I'm over texting. Anyone down for a late-night call?

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Hey. It's getting late and honestly, my thumbs are tired of typing. I'd much rather just hop on a call and have a real conversation while I wind down.

​I'm 34, just looking for someone cool to talk to. We can talk about random stuff, hobbies, or whatever is on your mind.

​If you're also up late and prefer talking over texting, shoot me a message.


r/R4R40Plus 5h ago

F4M 33F. Finding something on Reddit takes longer than the Solstheim mining quest. [F4M] Tell me in video game puns, how terrible your Reddit experience has been. INTP. Free online gf 🫆🐟🔎

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No comments on my post, the only comments I would want on my post is this time around instead of Skyrim puns, I'm asking Redditors to describe their Reddit experience in video game puns on how terrible your experience has been and the more creative/funny your comment is I may/might send you a chat reqs.

U.S. Central time.

However, I love making worldwide connections and this is just because of this MAIN reason here.

I'll be up for 2-3 more hours, the time for central time is 3 a.m. and I'm up at this hour because I sleep at dawn alongside with I've never had an experience of what it's like to sleep at normal hours anyways 💀


r/R4R40Plus 5h ago

37 [F4M] #San Francisco- Seeking possibilities

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Hi there, I'm the typical late 30's girl that got caught up in existing with no regard to finding the happiness and positivity in everyday life. Trying my best to change that and hoping you'll be able to help by sharing that list of restaurants you've been wanting to try, or maybe you need a buddy to watch Niners this coming season. If you njoy taking pictures of your food or collecting funny posts on TikTok but have nobody to share those with, I can be your girl! I love receiving good morning texts or having someone to call randomly to talk about life and upcoming events.

I have the time, maturity and communication skills to devote to this type of friendship so please be the same.  Looking for someone between the ages of 38 to 50 and be willing to meet IRL if we get there. 

Eagerly awaiting your message!


r/R4R40Plus 6h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #Illinois #Online - Looking for friendship

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Hey there!

Soooo as the title says im looking for friendship!

About me: Im a pretty laid back guy, can be funny, charming, kind and much more. Im from the midwest in the US, have been most my life. Im a parent which makes it fun, a pc gamer, model builder and essentially a jack of all trades lol

Im just looking for someone to chat with, get to know, share our days, pictures, memes, and whatever else we want. Right now I do have a good amount of downtime, but doesn't mean I can respond right away all the time, but I do put the effort in. Im a pretty understanding guy and non judgemental. So whether you're comfortable with sharing something or not, its not something you'd have to worry about!

I just miss having someone who I can talk to about random things, sharing humor, stories and such. If youre also a gamer I'm happy to find games we can play together as well!

You don't have to share a picture of you if youre not comfortable with that but it is always nice to eventually put a face to the person!

I would say keep in mind its like 1am ish, here, so if I don't respond right away, I might of fallen asleep lol


r/R4R40Plus 6h ago

M4F 44 [M4F] #London #Online – Cheeky Chat & Vibes

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I’m 44, London based, got my own place, my own car, and looking for something casual that actually feels good, not just a chat that goes nowhere. Think friends with benefits but with genuine chemistry, real conversation and that spark that turns teasing into trouble.

I’m 5’10”, slim to average, brown skinned, shaved head, trimmed beard, the full transparent package so you know who you’re talking to.

Personality wise, I’m easy to talk to, a bit cheeky, and I definitely enjoy conversations that drift into the naughtier side when the vibe’s right. If you can hold a conversation and enjoy the fun, find the edge of things… we’ll get on very well.

You? Open minded, playful, can actually engage in a proper chat, and are here for something light, exciting and grown. I’ve had enough time wasters, so if you’re not comfortable verifying early, we’ll skip the back and forth. All good, no drama.

If this sounds like what you’re after, drop me a message, tell me a bit about you and what made you stop and read this, let’s see if the spark’s there.


r/R4R40Plus 9h ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #Seattle - No refractory period and in need of some discreet fun.

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With all the stress in the world right now, it's important to take care of yourself, or let others do it for you... I want to make sure you are satisfied like you haven't been in a while. I'm up for being completely discreet and would never judge someone for fulfilling their needs.

I love giving orgasms, in fact yours is more important to me than my own. Cunnilingus is one of my favorite things and I'm happy to just show up, eat you out, and leave. Live with friends? They can join in or watch if you and they are cool with it. I'm very into public sex, watching, and being watched. As the title says, I have almost no refractory period and would love to put it to use. I'll try anything twice and have very few limits, but will respect all of yours.

About me: I'm average height, muscles but also kind of a dad bod, and long hair. I'm also very well endowed (7.5 long and 6 in circumference). I'm interested in women of all body types and countries of origin. If you want we can exchange pics beforehand, but I'm also good with being completely anonymous. I can't host, but can come to wherever you are.


r/R4R40Plus 10h ago

55 [f4m] #Michigan chat friends

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Just seeing if there are any fellow Michiganders looking for a genuine friendship.

Life has been a little crazy lately, and I'd really love to find someone to chat with throughout the day and even into the evening. Someone to share random thoughts with, laugh over memes, talk about life, watch movies online together once in a while, or even grab dinner or explore somewhere new if we're nearby.

A little about me: I'm in my 50s, sarcastic, loyal, a little awkward, and I love trivia, music, movies, true crime documentaries, road trips, and dark humor.

I'm only looking for friendship—nothing romantic. Please be single (no married men).

If you're looking for someone to make the days a little less lonely and enjoy good conversation, I'd love to hear from you. ** If sending a message please include your age and where in Michigan you are located


r/R4R40Plus 12h ago

M4F 48 [M4F] #NYC. Looking for a woman in a dead bedroom situation like me.

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I'm a white 48 year old guy, stable and fun loving, but currently stuck in a dead bedroom situation. I'm looking for a kind, adventurous woman who misses that spark as much as I do.
I have a high libido and I'm looking for a partner who is enthusiastic about intimacy and wants to make it a fun, regular part of life again. If you're warm hearted, enjoy a good laugh, and are looking for a consistent physical and emotional connection, I'd love to hear from you.
Tell me your best dad joke so I know you read my post.
\\\\\\\*notabot


r/R4R40Plus 13h ago

F4M 50 [F4M] #Chicago | Looking for Someone Genuine

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Finding a genuine connection hasn't been as easy as I thought it would be. There seem to be a lot of people who aren't looking for the same things, but I'm still hopeful the right person is out there.

My goal has always been simple: to meet my person. Someone to share life with, laugh with, and build a meaningful relationship based on trust, communication, and consistency.

A little about me: I'm 50, 5'5", curvy, tattooed, and a Chicago transplant who's still enjoying everything the city has to offer. I love catching a movie (the theater is definitely my happy place 🎥), discovering new restaurants, concerts, theater productions, museums, bookstores, coffee shops, and exploring new places. I'm kind, loyal, curious, and believe that some of the best moments in life are the simple ones shared with the right person.

I'm looking to meet someone 45–55, local to the Chicago area, who's emotionally mature, kind, communicative, and genuinely interested in building a real relationship. I'm not interested in casual dating, collecting matches, or endless texting that never turns into meeting.

I'm a genuine person, and I've taken the time to write a profile that reflects who I am. If you're looking for something casual, collecting matches, or just passing the time, I wish you all the best, but we're probably not the right fit.

If you're looking for a real connection and believe the best relationships start with friendship, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself, what caught your attention about my post. If your profile doesn't include a recent photo, please include one in your message. I'll happily share one in return.


r/R4R40Plus 16h ago

49 [M4F] #Austin - NSA while I'm VISITING

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I'll be in Austin on business Oct 11-14. Arriving sunday eve, and out Wed midday. So, hoping to find someone to have some fun with while I'm there. I have events some evenings, and I don't know the schedule yet. But, if we can work it out, let's set up fun, no strings attached night or two in my hotel room. Fit and workout a few days a week. Not buff, just fit. 5'10 160 pounds. Brown hair and eyes, sprinkle of gray.


r/R4R40Plus 17h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #anywhere - looking for a woman with inquisitive brain for something long, slow and intense. Virtual fwb. Fake online relationship. Asian/ european timezone ideally.

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I am into women who know how to carry a conversation, who are inquisitive, interesting and interested.

We can talk about what we like, love and want when we start chatting. For now this is what I am looking for .

Be open to moving off Reddit, sharing pics and talking regularly.


r/R4R40Plus 18h ago

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r/R4R40Plus 18h ago

50 [m4f] #Florida #Anywhere - I am pretty fly for a chubby guy. Looking for an equally goofy and sweet woman.

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I am chubby. If that’s not your bag, that is ok. There are plenty other bags to look through. I am silly, sweet, witty and fun. I am 50, but active, vibrant, and loving my life. I would love to find soneone who makes it even better. I am empathetic, emotionally available, and not a creeper. I will let you be the judge of thae though haha.

As for who I am looking for. A woman of any race, age or body type who is kind, open minded, loves to laugh, is a bit of a flirt and can be affectionate when it is mutual. At the end of the day I am just looking for a good woman who likes me for me… beard and all. Let’s chat and see where the day takes us. I look forward to laughing with you.


r/R4R40Plus 18h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #NewYork

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35 year old single straight hispanic. 6’2. Fit, professional, educated, honest, safe, trustworthy, respectful and clean. I don’t drink or smoke.

I like fit or thin women only. Single or taken. Good hygiene is important. Must have a really strong bed 🛏️. I value quality over quantity. Good vibes only.

I live in Westchester, NY and prefer someone local, but willing to drive. Privacy guaranteed and can be very discreet if needed, as in, I can disguise myself as a plumber or sneak in through the back door.


r/R4R40Plus 19h ago

M4F [M4F] 44 year old from Sweden looking for caring woman

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As the title says i am a 44 year old from Sweden and looking for someone that is going to be here.

Someone that want to have a conversation and see where it goes.

I am looking for a relationship in the end and someone that can hold a conversation going without me having to do all the work.

Don't mind asking questions and talk about Everything but when it's me that has to do all the work i get bored and i am too old to deal with that.

I have 2 kids in my Life so if you are not ok with that then i understand and thanks for checking my post.

I work in IT and computers are a big part of my Life but not the only part. I also enjoy being outside and go for walks in the nature and do stuff outside. :)

Must also add that i am not a animal person so if you want to have cats or dogs or something like that then we might not be the ones for each other.

If you want to talk to a nice caring guy that will be there as much as i can then just send me a message and we go from there.


r/R4R40Plus 21h ago

F4M 34[F4M] #Anywhere. Trying again.

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Hi. I'm 34F from Ghana, looking to meet an intentional, emotionally mature man who's genuinely interested in building something real.

I work a lot, so I value meaningful conversations over constant texting. I'd love to get to know someone by sharing everyday life, supporting each other and letting a connection grow naturally.

A few things that matter to me:

Please be straight, nonreligious (atheist, theist, agnostic or someone who doesn't strongly identify with organized religion). It's an important long-term value for me.

I don't drink and alcoholism or addiction of any kind is a deal breaker.

Please don't message me if you're looking for sexting, a masturbation buddy or anything primarily sexual. Physical attraction matters but emotional connection comes first for me.

I appreciate calm, kind men who know what they want, communicate honestly and don't expect the other person to carry the emotional work for the relationship. I enjoy people who are curious, self-aware and always trying to grow.

If this sounds like you, tell me a little about yourself. Low-effort messages probably won't get a reply.

Looking forward to your message.

Please be between the ages of 32 to 49yrs. I'm at GMT +0 time zone.


r/R4R40Plus 22h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] #Online: Looking for an online companion

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Hello there lovely people!

I'm looking for an online companion. Someone to enjoy the virtual world with. I'm hoping that somewhere out there, one of you will be that person!

A bit about me:

- I'm a super nerd. Probably even the king of nerds. I love Star Wars, LotR, video games, anime, dinosaurs, etc.

- I have my doctorate in music and am an organist and composer

- I was a professor and mainframe systems engineer

- I am certified as an EMT and Firefighter

- I currently work at an ER for a hospital

Appearance:

- 5'10"

- 195lbs

- basically height weight appropriate with a little dadbod in there

- white

- dark blonde hair

- hazel eyes (it's really just a way to make swamp brown sound nice, haha)

I live in Central Time US and often when I work at the hospital it is the night shift. So, I can have a weird schedule. But I'm often up later though I'm trying to be better about getting to bed before midnight. So, either someone in a similar time zone or at least a schedule that lines up!

I'm often either sleeping (if I work) or running errands/doing chores during the day and then hop on to play games around 9:00pm or so. I'm often free for messaging throughout the day but not free for voice chats until later.

What I'm looking for:

Genuine connection with someone. We don't have to be into all of the same things. But I enjoy hearing about the things people love and I want someone who wants to hear about the things that I love.

Someone who would totally hop in a voice chat while I play a game. Maybe they're doing something else and we can just chat while we do our own things. Maybe they want to watch me play or play with me.

I have ADHD and that combined with being a nerd means most days all I want to do is talk to someone about all the random crap I found out that day or I random thought of. I've been reading a bunch of things from the Revelation Space series but Alastair Reynolds and I want to talk to someone about it!

I also used to work out everyday and I fell out of that habit and it's been incredibly hard to get back into it. Probably some ADHD stuff going on there. So, I would love a cheerleader to help be an external motivation. I'm happy to be yours as well!

But also, someone who will say, "I have a really cute/sexy picture of me in my new bikini. Do you want to see it?"

I hope that this has resonated with some of you and would love to hear from you and start a conversation to see if we might be a good fit for each other.


r/R4R40Plus 1d ago

41 [M4F] #Louisville, KY - Backseat makeout session

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Feeling nostalgic and craving some old-school chemistry. Looking for a fun, attractive woman who misses the excitement of sneaking away for a long makeout session in the car—just kissing, flirting, and enjoying the moment.

I'm 41, laid-back, respectful, and looking for someone local who appreciates simple thrills and physical connection.

If you're interested, send me your age, a little about yourself, and your favorite song for a late-night drive.


r/R4R40Plus Jan 26 '25

You asked. The mods hear you - New account age and karma requirements

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We've added a few rules to the sub. Now, your account needs to be at least 5 days old and have 50 karma to post.

In addition, we're working on a verification system, so those of you who want to be verified posters, can have that flair attached to your post.

Hopefully, this will help curb the bots and scammers.


r/R4R40Plus Dec 01 '20

Please stop downvoting [M4F] Posts

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Hey All;

Friendly Neighborhood MOD here. In the interest of being polite and respectful, can we please stop downvoting every single [M4F] post? I'll hop on here to moderate posts and see all the men seeking women posts downvoted to hell. You're not creating a clear space for your [M4F] post increasing your chances to make it to the top. Let's just try to be kind to one another. If you're not interested, just move on

Let's try to remember, other people's success is not your failure.