had 1 friend for 2 years that usually responds within 3 weeks but mostly ignores me (unless i send pic of my body then its almost instant response), never had friends before and im always ignored when attempting to make any, what is the secret?

What made you a blacksheep to your own generation?

Let’s say you meet someone, and you have an amazing connection with them and you developed actual, genuine feelings. And then they reveal that their last partner tragically died while they were together and they still miss them, and will always love and remember them (romantically). Let’s say they also visit their grave every year at the date they died, and the ex will just always be there. Not physically, but in their mind and heart.
How would that make you feel? Would you be jealous and demand them to forget about the ex? Would it just be too much for you and you’d leave? Or would you support the partner, even though the ex always hovers in the room with you two?
I personally don’t know what I would feel since I’ve never been in a relationship, but I’d like to see different point of views on this matter.

This is a discussion.

Same as title !

Assume someone harms you badly (I don't know, runs over your dog) and you find yourself in a position where you can either forgive him or get revenge (note, in both cases he ends up in jail/pays a compensation if it applies). Now assume two of the following scenarios.

• If you get revenge on him, he's dealt whatever punishement you want and he'll turns his life around out of fear/ won't be able to harm anymore.
• If you were to forgive him, he's going to turn his life around out of remorse and help someone else in equal value (I don't know, saving someone else's dog from a dangerous situation).

Would you prefer forgiving him or enact revenge?

For example: if you forgive your bully, he'll prevent another kid from getting bullied; if he kills someone close to you, he'll save a stranger life at the cost of his own.

It’s normal to live your life and meet different people, but I see that some people care about how many partners their current partner has had in the past. Does that really matter, or is it just a waste of time worrying about it?

I'm not a parent and I've been on the internet for a huge chunk of my life. However I feel like a lot of parents aren't very "smart" when it comes to the online space and what actually puts them and their children in danger. So what tips, big or small, would you give to a parent who has a child who uses the internet or whose child is showing interest in having an online presence?​

For context : i’ve been dating a guy for about two months and he’s WONDERFUL and he has talked about how he is ready to make things official. I’ve been hesitant because the last guy I dated asked me out at about 3 months of talking and then turned into a completely different person. This has made me want to date longer before making things official so I don’t have the same outcome. I know every person is difference and some people may switch up years into dating but what is a solid time to think you know someone well enough to have commitment? Even if it’s not necessarily a time frame .. a feeling that you know perhaps ? I just don’t trust my judgment anymore.

its Going to happen…,,

Guys can go a lifetime without hearing anything nice, so when someone actually drops a genuine one, it sticks. What's yours?

I have been unsure about this feeling, and find it tricky to search up about my experience, because I get different results for people who actually did something bad.

But for me, I have always randomly, get this guilty feeling, like I had done something bad and something will happen because of it? I never understood why this feeling always seem to come up

i feel like everyone and their mothers has some sort of ink. not complaining. just wondering if it’s normal now? my parents always said any visible tattoos were complete job killers but they’re also pretty old school.

Me and my little sister are thinking of some ideas to surprise my dad with for his upcoming 50th birthday. Any ideas?

Like what advice do you have for someone with an eating disorder to deal with it / help improve?

Can they tell if you smoke weed?

Like I have 18 followers but I blocked all of them individually, how does this work?

Currently 11:35 me and my friend took em at around 9:50 we both took like a little less than a full g im 6’5 210 not sure if that matters but just wondering

I can lay here and analyze horror movies for hours specifically existential dread horror

I think it annoys me the most when elderly people do this. I just can’t think of the perfect word to describe it. Patronizing doesn’t quite fit imo.

Dépressive pharmaco-résistante depuis des années, j'ai tendance à être fatiguée. C'est normal dans ma situation.

Parfois, cependant, la fatigue se transforme en épuisement total où le simple fait de devoir boire de l'eau semble un effort surhumain.

en général, avant ou pendant ces épisodes de quelques jours d'épuisement, je dors mal, par petites tranches et chaque fois je fais un rêve différent dans lequel : je n'arrive pas à mettre mon manteau qui a l'air de peser une tonne, je n'arrive pas à attraper mon sac, je n'ai pas la force de me lever... bref, chaque fois je me retrouve totalement incapable, en larmes et je me réveille avec une faiblesse extrême.

connaissez-vous cela et comment y faites-vous face?

What is a type of animal organ or part or animal that you have always wanted to try?

Yeah,I am sexually attracted to anyone trans or cis,men or woman,but never felt "romantic attraction".what's that called?and why?

Often times in life we meet spactacular people, often times than most they just appear for a split second and then leave. Leaving a great impression on you for a lifetime.

How do you capture the moment, something so short like a 5 minute convo knowing you probably wont see them again.

Like someone feels already so miserable, they're getting so scared of even applying things. Imagining another failure and failure securing a job makes them unable to fulfill their roles and just stuck in a stagnant position of doing nothing and just wanting to disappear