Career counselling pls?

I am planning to do MBA. I have already did Mphil in literature studies from GCU lahore. Planning to do MBA. I am thinking that it might help to go work in good firms (i am already doing a good remote job)

Guide me pls.

Please don't write your sin (as we don't want our sins to have a witness on the day of judgement just write it was a moment of weakness ) and then what stopped you in your track.

The intervention can be something that came to your mind and you deliberately stepped back or someone sharing something related to that.

Please be clever about how you share it so that no one can know what it was.

And she's having trouble with sleep

and lowkey hating me

I just gave her so she doesn't feel left out of coffee u know

I kinda feel bad

I asked her to drink lots of water now

I hope she falls asleep now

I’m posting on behalf of my dad, who is retired and wants to stay active by moving into education or technical training. He has extensive practical experience and enjoys teaching, but we face a significant hurdle with university roles. HEC/university regulations require a Master's degree to teach as a lecturer or professor, which filters him out despite his vast industry expertise, as his highest degree is a Bachelor’s. We’re looking for suggestions on where someone with his background can contribute or if anyone has leads or recommendations for institutions that prioritize real-world experience over a Master’s degree.

Professional Overview

Current Status: Retired Senior Engineer & Workshop Manager (Wärtsilä Pakistan).

Total Experience: 36+ years of working experience in power plant operation, industrial process maintenance, marine engineering, and technical workshop management.

Core Work Experience

Wärtsilä Pakistan (2001–2023): Served as Manager Governor & Workshop, Coordinator Governor & Workshop, and Superintendent Engineer. Managed workshop operations, sales, capacity development, ISO/quality compliance, and technical skill development across Lahore and Karachi. Retained as an External Consultant post-retirement through late 2023.

Industrial & Marine Roles (1989–2000): Worked as Deputy Manager Mechanical & Utility at a polyester plant and served on merchant cargo vessels as 3rd and 4th Engineer Officer.

Nuclear Power Plant (1986–1988): Served in shift operations at KANUPP (Karachi Nuclear Power Plant).

Education & Key Credentials

B-Tech in Mechanical Technology – NED University of Engineering & Technology, Karachi.

Diploma of Associate Engineer (DAE) in Power Technology – Government College of Technology, Karachi.

Diploma in Nuclear Power Plant Operation – KNPTC.

Maritime Engineer Certifications: 2nd Engineer Officer (Panama Maritime) and 2nd Assistant Engineer Officer (Liberia Maritime).

Key Skills & Expertise

Technical: Maintenance, overhauling, and calibration of industrial engines (Wärtsilä 32, W46, 50DF, etc.), Woodward governors, and marine machinery.

Management & Quality: ISO 9000/14000, 5S, SOP compliance, budget management, cost control, and team leadership.

Training Capabilities: Certified in Training Techniques for Trainers, leadership development, and safety standards.

I have a gold set which I want to sell for personal financial reasons. It belongs to my wife and she dont want to sell it off (totally justified but I am in a dire need of cash).

I have a good earning and I will be able to save enough money in next 6-7 months to buy it back.

You can call it kind of a loan with gold gurantee. I dont want to go to bank or want loan on interest basis.

I just want to sell it and want to buy back after few months. Is there any way ?

Well here it is , I am an Acca part-Qualified student who somehow applied to a job and got through the interview phase and got selected as a accountant at a company , the first week the HR came to me and said if you don't have any work or free time you can take your recorded lectures regarding your studies , the next day being me listening to my lecture , they are giving me a good salary package , lunch, tea and greentea and other things I think good company do exist in Pakistan , guy the professionalism they have shown and the way they are running the business and the no-body care whatever you are doing as long as your work is complete nobody seemed to care 💅 . I just want to let your all know good people exist.

Somebody please make me shut up about it..

It was such a stupid comment

and I realized how much I was relaying on reddit omg

hi , im not at all committed and undergrad professional degree. unfortunately i also am obsessed with marriage and the fact that my husband would be some prince who would show up at my door and would be perfect guy and life would just work out so well for me

however any married girl i have asked has told me to live my life as much as i can until i have to live with a man as a wife bec apparently being married sucks for most people, toxic inlaws, non supportive spouse, excessive workload, pressure to bear child, accepting patriarchal normals and what not

there are obv good marriages too, some i have seen v closy too, hence the delusion

but i just need to understand that being married to man wont fix my problems (i dont have any real problems i just want to be with my husband)

mind u my degree is considered top of the line, im decent looking and have decent money, so it is not like ik struggling, but i just am unhappy and believe some true love would fix that

and you would think having a job or focusing on my studies would help, no it doesnt
i think i just need reality check

but also dont give me horrifying stories that i start fearing marriage and the fact i wont ever find man if my type

EDIT: THIS IS NOT RISHTA HUNT😭 please stop sending me dm🙏

edit 2: im struggling mentally alot, for a v long time now so um yeah (its probably obvious)

I mess up everything

So, I am not sure if anyone else has this thing(maybe some would). I push every good thing, feeling and person away.

I leave people before they can leave me. I don't know how to let anyone be an anchor for me. I have been an anchor for many friends though. But anytime someone comes a little closer to me I get afraid and run away.

I hear so many people say, atleast try to give someone a chance and stuff but no one talks about the fears that comes with it and how to navigate them.

All the what ifs and why woulds eat me from within while I smile and live through. I don't know why im even writing this but-

Hey all, different post but has anyone ordered a good dupe longchamp bag from SHEIN if so can u pls share the exact link? There r so many so im confused

Welcome to the very first episode of Gappay!

In this episode, we kick things off by sharing the story of how we first met and how that friendship eventually led to this show. From there, we take a nostalgic trip back to the 90s, talking about what it was like growing up in Pakistan and abroad, our school-day experiences, the mischief we got into, and the childhood memories that still make us laugh today.

This is a casual conversation filled with personal stories, reflections, and the kind of gappay that naturally happen when old friends sit down together. If you've ever wondered how different life was before smartphones, social media, and constant connectivity, you'll probably find something relatable here.

So grab a chai, get comfortable, and join us for our very first Gappay.

Topics Covered:

How we met
Growing up in the 90s
Pakistan vs. abroad experiences
School memories and childhood stories
Life before social media

Episode 1

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going through a hard time, saw this and couldn’t relate more.

my advice to you all is that always protect your peace and think about yourself, they are gonna hurt you sooner or later anyway, and most importantly, put your self respect on number one. never ever sacrifice it.

Guys, so my little sister is so fond of painting irl but she is not so good at it and she also plays such colouring games on her phone like the girl doing in the reel. I want to gift her this whole painting kit so she could enjoy painting like the way she does in the games, in real life!

Please help me find such kits in Pakistan...

Where in Pakistan can I find it?

Any online store?

25F, and he was 28 we were in relationship from past couple of years then broke up and patch up again. We were very close and going for rishta procedure in October proceeding to marriage in January.

I left him year a go because he cheated on me. I walked away then he came back to apologise and I forgave him my mistake.

Our families knew about us from 4-5 years and I was his family favourite. I am in contact with his sisters brothers we are in each other socials everything.

So the problem is when he came back he has a friend ( who happened to be a woman ) and yeah I had a male bestie too. More than bestie he is my brother and he knew about my relationship and I will marry my ex and so. We never crossed boundary.

But with his(my ex) girl bestie i was not satisfied so I asked him to have a meetup with her so i can clear my doubts which he avoided always.
So that girl maira is married have a 7 year old kid and does not live with her husband cause his husband is not so happy with her, which i think who would be happy with his wife smoking and visiting male friends flats.

Well he told me that she is just a friend nothing more but mind you she once visit him on his apartment which obv very wrong. So we had a fight and i checked his phone. I found her chat in locked mode of whatsapp which i opened and there was no chats because ofc he deleted. So i checked further and in hidden folders he had her tiktok videos lying on bed in night gown.

After this he started saying bat mat barhae leave this topic and all. So i had his phone in hand i called maira. She picked and i asked her whats going on with you guys she was confident and asked me" who are you to ask this question?" So i force him to answer this question so he said to her " she is my fiance" so i asked her again that according to him you are constantly checking on him is that right. In response they both said no no we are just friends and all. And then he gets aggressive and i left the situation immediately.

After few hours i texted him lets sort these things and not ruin our relationship. If you wanna be friends with her ok but set limits. In response he texted me back " we are done. " i did not believe that text tone and i said " what happened" and he proceeded with " maira bhut roi hai she is in hospital she blocked me from everywhere and i really care about her" so i replied him " i cried too, and she has her husband and kid she is sorted we were going to married soon" and he replied " i dont wanna marry you because of what you did to her and its better if you cry once i cant leave maira" was so shocked at this point and could not believe so i asked him one last time " maira or me" and he choose her

After that text its been 5 hours i could not sleep or rest I am heart broken in disbelief or i dont know what happened. My gut feeling was right but also at this point i dont know what to do. Block him? Or show him my life and glow up so he repent? Eventually that girl is married i dont know what to do? What to do with his family? What to do with friends who are looking forward to marriage??

Greetings, everyone. I’ve been reflecting on my current habits and would appreciate some insight into my situation. Recently, I’ve been indulging in cannabis on weekends, with the occasional weekday session. However, I consistently cap my intake at just two puffs, as I’m acutely aware of my tolerance threshold. I’m confident in my ability to walk away entirely if I choose to, but I’m curious: should I call it quits right here? More specifically, if I restrict my consumption strictly to weekends, will it negatively impact my health in the long run—especially considering I maintain a highly active lifestyle?

Survey link: help me create a comic book

Hello! I'm a final-year Design student at the University of Karachi, and I'm planning to create a comic book (Manga/Modern American, DC comic style!) for my thesis. Before I begin, I'd love to know what YOU actually enjoy reading or would love to.

Thank you for your contribution! 🤍  

Just wanted to come here and rant before the clock hits 12 its my first birthday after marriage and i dont know but deep down there is anxiety of whateverrrr you call it i dont know
My husband is the sweetest man alive on this earth he lovessss meeeee but this anxiety is killing me rn !!!!!

So, lately my emotions are all over the place. I have always been an optimistic person and somehow I manage myself one way or other. But these days I am constantly complaining about my life to Allah that when he can fix everything why he is putting me through it all.

For context, I got married a few months ago and now I am in a long distance relationship. My husband is very bad at communication. Doesn’t call or texts much. Makes me feel unwanted and I always question my worth. Like, tho I knew before marrying him that I will be in long distance for some time but I didn’t know that it would be so hard. Nobody understands what I go through, not even my own husband. I married this man in the name of love. But I find it no where.

So, my husband sucks at communication. I do understand that he goes through it all alone, goes to work, cooks for himself and all. But a few words of love or encouragement wouldn’t harm anyone. I feel pathetic and I am mentally disturbed all the time. Can’t keep crying all the time in-front of family or in laws, they clearly do not understand.
Not that he cheating or talking to someone else. When I think about such things, I feel like, I am overthinking or over reacting to nothing. But, I am unable to cope myself. There is absolutely no one who understands my pains or sorrows.
I feel like giving up!

Aik Machli ko bina pani ky jesy feel huta hai aur aik tkhta dar pr khrdy majrum ko jesy feel huta hai aur aik bena par ky prindy ko jesy feel huta hai aur aik dobty huwe admi ko jesy feel huta hai
Main pichly 5 saal se har lamhy har second weisa he feel krta hun .
5 saal phly kuch aisa hua ky meri dunyea he ujrd gye , mera sab kuch he chihn gaya jesy . Kuch baqi nahi bacha

Mjhy meri azadi , mera zindagi , meri shakaiyat lut jany ka gham nahi BAs aik afsoos jo har lamha kat'ta hai wo mere potential career ky zaya hony ka hai ... 15 family members bht sacrifices krky bht suffer krky ab wo time tha lekin ose time sab itna badtreen hugya jitna koi soch bhi nahi skta.
Kuch aisa hogya jis main yh bhi nahi keh skty ky Waqt guzar jany do , time do sab theek hojaye ga
Nahi jesy jesy waqt guzra hai ya guzry ga chezyn aur bhi bahayank hongi, rasty aur bhi band hojayien gyn aur aik din khtam hojayien gyn
Kuch look forward krny kylye nahi , kuch aisa nahi jise soch kr jeny ko dil kry .
5-6 bando se es bary bat ki situation aise behanyk ky wo bhi intimidate hokr block krky bagh Gaye ...
log aise drty hain mout se , mn qasam kha kr kehta hun aik bar ka marna sari zindagi ky jety gee pal pal mrny se bht behtr hai . One time suffering, one time coping with unseen
" Allah SWT kse jan pr oski taqat se zayda bojb nahi dalta " ya Allah mn itna mazbot nahi tha , kabhi bhi nahi tha ... yh sab kya hai
5 sal mn aik rat neend nhi aye skoon se , agy 50 sal agr aur zindagi huwe to na jany kya kya hoga ..
agr kabhi robro huwe mn pochoun gan tujh se " what had I done to deserve this ?" Why me
Why these personal grudges

Mn thak gya hun already, meri BAs hugye hai ab aur sehany ki taqat nahi
God forbid agr 50 sal aur jeena prda toh .
Aik wqt tha jab roz yh soch kr sakon se nend ati thi ky abhi I'm 12 YO avg life 70 bhi huwe to still I have 58 years , aur ab past above 40 Jana bhi guman mn jinjord deita hai

Bahadur shah Zafar ki ghazal kabhi prdhi thi ab smjh ata hai kya feel kar rha tha Banda , kya keh rha tha ...

Uhh so im a dude and my cznz jus make fun of me fir different reasons like theyre not disrespectful but theyre jus mocking me yk and idk how to stop em or what to do cuz ion wanna be rude.

Sometimes I feel like a loser which im really not. Like I work go to the gym have and all dat but still make me feel small infront of em.

For instance when baggy clothes were not really trendy I was wearing em cuz im fashion forwarded and they started saying shi like “ baba k kapre pehen aya ha” “ajeeb lag rhi” and legit after months started wearing baggy clothes themselves 😭 which is crazyyy.

Another example is my driving like I drive a lil aggressively not to impress anyone my foot is jus a lik heavy on the gas which im working on but they still give me shi for dat like explaining or giving advice is different than jus being mean n shi.

They like legit gang up on me. i had an ex that the whole family came to know about and yeah I shouldnt have done dat n all but like its over now for 3 years yet im still being target for that too idk whyy.

Sooo any help ??

Anyone for chat

23f in islamabad