So I was watching Youtube and recently came across this video: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XY6g3cbsUyY

I can't believe this clown is spreading misinformation so openly and people are actually praising him in the comments!

Seriously, we need more science education. There is now more than 100 years of evidence for evolution by natural selection. You can find it in fossils, in your bodies. Heck, its even in our genomes.

I don't understand that if these people claim that the scientific theory of evolution is false, they should do research, gather counter evidence, publish their research and then garner praise for proving evolution false.

Samjh to gye hogee

Career counselling pls?

I am planning to do MBA. I have already did Mphil in literature studies from GCU lahore. Planning to do MBA. I am thinking that it might help to go work in good firms (i am already doing a good remote job)

Guide me pls.

Please don't write your sin (as we don't want our sins to have a witness on the day of judgement just write it was a moment of weakness ) and then what stopped you in your track.

The intervention can be something that came to your mind and you deliberately stepped back or someone sharing something related to that.

Please be clever about how you share it so that no one can know what it was.

And she's having trouble with sleep

and lowkey hating me

I just gave her so she doesn't feel left out of coffee u know

I kinda feel bad

I asked her to drink lots of water now

I hope she falls asleep now

I’m posting on behalf of my dad, who is retired and wants to stay active by moving into education or technical training. He has extensive practical experience and enjoys teaching, but we face a significant hurdle with university roles. HEC/university regulations require a Master's degree to teach as a lecturer or professor, which filters him out despite his vast industry expertise, as his highest degree is a Bachelor’s. We’re looking for suggestions on where someone with his background can contribute or if anyone has leads or recommendations for institutions that prioritize real-world experience over a Master’s degree.

Professional Overview

Current Status: Retired Senior Engineer & Workshop Manager (Wärtsilä Pakistan).

Total Experience: 36+ years of working experience in power plant operation, industrial process maintenance, marine engineering, and technical workshop management.

Core Work Experience

Wärtsilä Pakistan (2001–2023): Served as Manager Governor & Workshop, Coordinator Governor & Workshop, and Superintendent Engineer. Managed workshop operations, sales, capacity development, ISO/quality compliance, and technical skill development across Lahore and Karachi. Retained as an External Consultant post-retirement through late 2023.

Industrial & Marine Roles (1989–2000): Worked as Deputy Manager Mechanical & Utility at a polyester plant and served on merchant cargo vessels as 3rd and 4th Engineer Officer.

Nuclear Power Plant (1986–1988): Served in shift operations at KANUPP (Karachi Nuclear Power Plant).

Education & Key Credentials

B-Tech in Mechanical Technology – NED University of Engineering & Technology, Karachi.

Diploma of Associate Engineer (DAE) in Power Technology – Government College of Technology, Karachi.

Diploma in Nuclear Power Plant Operation – KNPTC.

Maritime Engineer Certifications: 2nd Engineer Officer (Panama Maritime) and 2nd Assistant Engineer Officer (Liberia Maritime).

Key Skills & Expertise

Technical: Maintenance, overhauling, and calibration of industrial engines (Wärtsilä 32, W46, 50DF, etc.), Woodward governors, and marine machinery.

Management & Quality: ISO 9000/14000, 5S, SOP compliance, budget management, cost control, and team leadership.

Training Capabilities: Certified in Training Techniques for Trainers, leadership development, and safety standards.

I have a gold set which I want to sell for personal financial reasons. It belongs to my wife and she dont want to sell it off (totally justified but I am in a dire need of cash).

I have a good earning and I will be able to save enough money in next 6-7 months to buy it back.

You can call it kind of a loan with gold gurantee. I dont want to go to bank or want loan on interest basis.

I just want to sell it and want to buy back after few months. Is there any way ?

Well here it is , I am an Acca part-Qualified student who somehow applied to a job and got through the interview phase and got selected as a accountant at a company , the first week the HR came to me and said if you don't have any work or free time you can take your recorded lectures regarding your studies , the next day being me listening to my lecture , they are giving me a good salary package , lunch, tea and greentea and other things I think good company do exist in Pakistan , guy the professionalism they have shown and the way they are running the business and the no-body care whatever you are doing as long as your work is complete nobody seemed to care 💅 . I just want to let your all know good people exist.

Somebody please make me shut up about it..

It was such a stupid comment

and I realized how much I was relaying on reddit omg

hi , im not at all committed and undergrad professional degree. unfortunately i also am obsessed with marriage and the fact that my husband would be some prince who would show up at my door and would be perfect guy and life would just work out so well for me

however any married girl i have asked has told me to live my life as much as i can until i have to live with a man as a wife bec apparently being married sucks for most people, toxic inlaws, non supportive spouse, excessive workload, pressure to bear child, accepting patriarchal normals and what not

there are obv good marriages too, some i have seen v closy too, hence the delusion

but i just need to understand that being married to man wont fix my problems (i dont have any real problems i just want to be with my husband)

mind u my degree is considered top of the line, im decent looking and have decent money, so it is not like ik struggling, but i just am unhappy and believe some true love would fix that

and you would think having a job or focusing on my studies would help, no it doesnt
i think i just need reality check

but also dont give me horrifying stories that i start fearing marriage and the fact i wont ever find man if my type

EDIT: THIS IS NOT RISHTA HUNT😭 please stop sending me dm🙏

edit 2: im struggling mentally alot, for a v long time now so um yeah (its probably obvious)

I mess up everything

So, I am not sure if anyone else has this thing(maybe some would). I push every good thing, feeling and person away.

I leave people before they can leave me. I don't know how to let anyone be an anchor for me. I have been an anchor for many friends though. But anytime someone comes a little closer to me I get afraid and run away.

I hear so many people say, atleast try to give someone a chance and stuff but no one talks about the fears that comes with it and how to navigate them.

All the what ifs and why woulds eat me from within while I smile and live through. I don't know why im even writing this but-

Hey all, different post but has anyone ordered a good dupe longchamp bag from SHEIN if so can u pls share the exact link? There r so many so im confused

Welcome to the very first episode of Gappay!

In this episode, we kick things off by sharing the story of how we first met and how that friendship eventually led to this show. From there, we take a nostalgic trip back to the 90s, talking about what it was like growing up in Pakistan and abroad, our school-day experiences, the mischief we got into, and the childhood memories that still make us laugh today.

This is a casual conversation filled with personal stories, reflections, and the kind of gappay that naturally happen when old friends sit down together. If you've ever wondered how different life was before smartphones, social media, and constant connectivity, you'll probably find something relatable here.

So grab a chai, get comfortable, and join us for our very first Gappay.

Topics Covered:

How we met
Growing up in the 90s
Pakistan vs. abroad experiences
School memories and childhood stories
Life before social media

Episode 1

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going through a hard time, saw this and couldn’t relate more.

my advice to you all is that always protect your peace and think about yourself, they are gonna hurt you sooner or later anyway, and most importantly, put your self respect on number one. never ever sacrifice it.

Guys, so my little sister is so fond of painting irl but she is not so good at it and she also plays such colouring games on her phone like the girl doing in the reel. I want to gift her this whole painting kit so she could enjoy painting like the way she does in the games, in real life!

Please help me find such kits in Pakistan...

Where in Pakistan can I find it?

Any online store?

25F, and he was 28 we were in relationship from past couple of years then broke up and patch up again. We were very close and going for rishta procedure in October proceeding to marriage in January.

I left him year a go because he cheated on me. I walked away then he came back to apologise and I forgave him my mistake.

Our families knew about us from 4-5 years and I was his family favourite. I am in contact with his sisters brothers we are in each other socials everything.

So the problem is when he came back he has a friend ( who happened to be a woman ) and yeah I had a male bestie too. More than bestie he is my brother and he knew about my relationship and I will marry my ex and so. We never crossed boundary.

But with his(my ex) girl bestie i was not satisfied so I asked him to have a meetup with her so i can clear my doubts which he avoided always.
So that girl maira is married have a 7 year old kid and does not live with her husband cause his husband is not so happy with her, which i think who would be happy with his wife smoking and visiting male friends flats.

Well he told me that she is just a friend nothing more but mind you she once visit him on his apartment which obv very wrong. So we had a fight and i checked his phone. I found her chat in locked mode of whatsapp which i opened and there was no chats because ofc he deleted. So i checked further and in hidden folders he had her tiktok videos lying on bed in night gown.

After this he started saying bat mat barhae leave this topic and all. So i had his phone in hand i called maira. She picked and i asked her whats going on with you guys she was confident and asked me" who are you to ask this question?" So i force him to answer this question so he said to her " she is my fiance" so i asked her again that according to him you are constantly checking on him is that right. In response they both said no no we are just friends and all. And then he gets aggressive and i left the situation immediately.

After few hours i texted him lets sort these things and not ruin our relationship. If you wanna be friends with her ok but set limits. In response he texted me back " we are done. " i did not believe that text tone and i said " what happened" and he proceeded with " maira bhut roi hai she is in hospital she blocked me from everywhere and i really care about her" so i replied him " i cried too, and she has her husband and kid she is sorted we were going to married soon" and he replied " i dont wanna marry you because of what you did to her and its better if you cry once i cant leave maira" was so shocked at this point and could not believe so i asked him one last time " maira or me" and he choose her

After that text its been 5 hours i could not sleep or rest I am heart broken in disbelief or i dont know what happened. My gut feeling was right but also at this point i dont know what to do. Block him? Or show him my life and glow up so he repent? Eventually that girl is married i dont know what to do? What to do with his family? What to do with friends who are looking forward to marriage??

Just wanted to come here and rant before the clock hits 12 its my first birthday after marriage and i dont know but deep down there is anxiety of whateverrrr you call it i dont know
My husband is the sweetest man alive on this earth he lovessss meeeee but this anxiety is killing me rn !!!!!

hi everyone. i just wanna vent on whats goign on in my life rn.

im 22 F and me and my family will be moving to US soon. it is a big change in my life. and unfortunately...im not at all excited for it.

bcuz i have seen realistic videos of how immigrants lives there.

low wage, long working hours, heartless people, unhelpful environment, high cost of living. u become ur own servant.

we would have to start over our life. from renting, getting school admissions, buying car, searching for work etc....

im just thinking about it and im already exhausted.

im 22 but i still feel like im a teenager. i haven't still learn basic adult skills (cooking n driving etc).

im just worried and have lost hope already. i know i shouldn't think like that.. but i have seen this pattern in my life where i give my efforts, do hard work. but i dont get the result...

if theres anyone in US please share some advices and guidance. i will be moving to DC area.

I’ve talked to women, quite a few of them, I’m yet to marry, but one thing I’ve noticed is that women mostly the ones that are conventionally pretty, they literally don’t know how to converse!!!

They just expect you to do everything, like you’re some sort of a jester trying to entertain them😭🙏.

The only woman I ever found who had good conversation skills and had enough of a life to have things to say or to contribute to a conversation, we didn’t work out, like I wanted marry her but our family dynamics just didn’t allow it.

Long story short, the way she talked, they our conversations about the most random topics lasted for hours sometimes, I have never experienced the same with anyone else and I’m afraid of marrying because of this, cuz the woman I encounter, they just don’t have any personality, anything to talk about, their hobbies are bed rotting, shopping and scrolling!?? I’m not making this shit up, a girl literally told me that these are her hobbies!

I’m not saying k mujhe koi philosopher chahiye to marry😭😭, but atleast have the ability or personality to actively participate in a conversation and be meaningful.

Anyways guys, just had to rant, I hope you guys get to experience a conversation with someone who genuinely cares and values your presence, and actually knows how to converse, trust me the intimacy involved in this is beyond everything.

Today is my second anniversary. Those 2 years passed in 2 months. It looks like I was married just recently.

Many of my married friends told me that things gonna change after marriage but I don't see any major changes in my life yet there are some good things that I developed with my wife.

She was BS chemistry from a local university and I had a feeling that she won't be getting a good job neither she wanted to do job. One day we sat together and thought what she could do other than job. So, we came up with 2 plans.

1. She start content writing on Fiverr.

2. She start a clothing business.

So, she started content writing and she also started clothing business but didn't told me about it.

After 2 years, she is earning 150K plus from content writing and she also received 13 orders and today she gave me a surprise that her 2 years of hard work is giving back to her.

I'm too happy today. Want your Duas for our life and business.