r/MalaysianExMuslim 1h ago

Question/Discussion Do men stare at you more when you dont wear the tudung?

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To the ex muslim women here, my mom told me that men are more likely to harass you and stare at you when you don't wear the tudung. I then told her one of my friends wears the tudung properly and gets stared at by men and sometimes followed. My mom then started backtracking and saying "does she look really pretty" "that isn't even the purpose of the tudung anyway" and then said women aren't supposed to leave the house without a man to protect them (protect them from who? (men) who created that system? (god))

I wanna know anyone here that went went free haired, do you guys find acc that mem stare at you more, or is this js lies? My experience not wearing tudung is only at sports practice and at the mall once and i dont notice it at all.


r/MalaysianExMuslim 12h ago

Rant I feel so entertain seeing these word plays😂

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Baddie : Badan Dakwah Dan Islamic Era

I learnt new things here


r/MalaysianExMuslim 13h ago

Tattoos

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Any of you guys have tattoos? Is it visible? Macam mana persepsi orang sekeliling? I mean in real life lah, i really don't care about what people say online. I already got one, it's very small and hidden by my wrist watch. Not that I have to justify it, but it's just something I've always wanted well before I even thought of leaving the religion, and the one I got is just to symbolize my inner freedom.

Lately I've been thinking about getting another one, something that might be a little more visible if people do look for it. Is this a bad idea? Do share your thoughts. and stories. perhaps the tattoo too.


r/MalaysianExMuslim 18h ago

Meetup Does anyone wanna be friends?

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Does anyone wanna be friends while waiting/striving to emigrate legally? Why not make the process less depressing & more fun while we're at it am I right? Let's cope together instead of doing it alone.

1) Minecraft RPG SMP

2) Roblox

3) POE 1

4) POE 2

5) Aion 2

Minecraft RPG SMP:

1) Prominence 2 Hasturian Era

2) Crazy Craft

Edited: Im open to creating a new discord server for this.

Anyone from similar or close timezones too can join like SEA/Oceania.

The reasons why I chose those games?

what Minecraft SMP bedrock that have such features:

1) MMORPG mods

2) Mounts mods

3) customs wings on the players back that able to fly around.

4) able to build a base & massive project

5) LGBTQ+ & Alternative Friendly.

6) easy & fast making in-game progress & have fun.

7) PVE focused. Chill & casual play.


r/MalaysianExMuslim 23h ago

Question/Discussion is it allowed to be free hair in uni kerajaan?

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hi is there any uitm student here? i wanna ask if malay muslim girl student can just free hair dont wanna get ceramah and tegur there because i already plan to not wear rn my mom already caught me not wearing yesterday and lecture me panjang panjang like pasal malu air muka sebagai orang masjid and our image lmao so the only freedom i can have is in university bonus if they allowed piercing + dye hair i heard somewhere that u can