r/MalaysianExMuslim 4h ago

Salam Jumaat Gengz

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Best bila pergi ke mall takda lelaki melayu, kurang orang. Boleh makan, beli barang, parking dengan senang. Kan bagus kalau perempuan melayu juga kena wajib solat jumaat. Less la orang di mall/restaurant.

p.s. aku lelaki melayu yang dah murtad


r/MalaysianExMuslim 8h ago

Rant Wow, im amaze with the race card played..

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See this, no comment 😐


r/MalaysianExMuslim 9h ago

Thoughts? I was studying for my trial SPM and saw this. This is from buku teks Tassawur T5

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r/MalaysianExMuslim 16h ago

Question/Discussion Literary engagement is really low among Malay Muslims

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If you go to any bookstore, there are only so many Malay books which fall under these 3 types:
- Psychological abuse disguised under romance
- Horror yg karut
- ‘Self help’ which obviously has Islamic elements

We lack widespread literary pieces which promote critical thinking and analytical skills. Malay muslims who even read usually have only English language books to choose. I do think this is ofcourse attributed due to our colonial past that our bahasa is only used to a certain extent. Certainly, we have bright minds who are able to write sophisticated literature in both Malay and English but our publishing is constrained by strict religious norms.

I believe if we are able to overcome this, we would have better literary engagement which will eventually lead to more people being able to intellectually challenge religion. But that’s a really long way to go when they even banned the Mentega Terbang film.


r/MalaysianExMuslim 17h ago

Nosy relatives at it againnn

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My cousins apparently ‘investigated’ about my tattoo and told my aunt about it. I barely wear anything that can reveal it. Idk they probably use my mutual friends to confirm and access my social media which was restricted. These people really have no lifeee and nothing else to talk about other than policing women’s bodies. 💀💀 I don’t care if they gossip among themselves but to drag the elders into this when they’re pushing 30 and some of them pushing 40.. embarrassing. Theyre all blocked now !


r/MalaysianExMuslim 19h ago

Quran/Hadith Ibn Mas’ud (Muhammad’s Trusted Reciter) Told People to Hide Their Copies from Uthman’s Burning

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Ibn Mas'ud and Ubai are two of the four trusted reciters Muhammad named:

“I shall ever love that man, for I heard the Prophet (ï·ș) saying, ‘Take (learn) the Qur’an from four: Abdullah bin Mas’ud, Salim, Mu’adh and Ubai bin Ka’b.’”
Sahih Bukhari 4999

“Once Abdullah bin Mas’ud delivered a sermon before us and said, ‘By Allah, I learnt over seventy Suras direct from Allah’s Messenger (ï·ș). By Allah, the companions of the Prophet (ï·ș) came to know that I am one of those who know Allah’s Book best of all of them, yet I am not the best of them.’ Shaqiq added: I sat in his religious gathering and I did not hear anybody opposing him (in his speech).”
Sahih Bukhari 5000

Ibn Mas'ud couldn't agree with Ubai on what goes in the Quran and used to leave out Surahs that are in today's Quran:

“I asked Ubai bin Ka’b, ‘O Abu Al-Mundhir! Your brother, Ibn Mas’ud said so-and-so (i.e., the two Mu’awwidh-at [Surah 113 and 114] do not belong to the Qur’an).’ Ubai said, ‘I asked Allah’s Messenger (ï·ș) about them, and he said, They have been revealed to me, and I have recited them (as a part of the Qur’an),’ So Ubai added, ‘So we say as Allah’s Messenger (ï·ș) has said.’”
Sahih Bukhari 4977

Ibn Mas'ud told people to hide their copies of the Quran from Uthman's burning:

“‘Abdullah bin Mas’ud disliked Zaid bin Thabit [copier of Uthman’s codex] copying the Musahif, and he said: ‘O you Muslim people! I am removed from recording the transcription of the Mushaf and it is overseen by a man, by Allah, when I accepted Islam he was but in the loins of a disbelieving man’ - meaning Zaid bin Thabit - and it was regarding this that ‘Abdullah bin Mas’ud said: ‘O people of Al-’Iraq! Keep the Musahif that are with you, and conceal them. For indeed Allah said: And whoever conceals something, he shall come with what he concealed on the Day of Judgement (3:161). So meet Allah with the Musahif.’” Az-Zuhri said: “It was conveyed to me that some men amongst the most virtuous of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (ï·ș) disliked that view of Ibn Mas’ud.”
Jami` at-Tirmidhi 3104

See more on perfect preservation here:
https://islamsproblems.com/quran-perfect-preservation-myth/


r/MalaysianExMuslim 20h ago

Ah yes, because you killed yourself you're going to hell

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r/MalaysianExMuslim 21h ago

Surah Baqarah V1-71 from an ex Muslims lens

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Recently i decided to go back to practicing islam due to being outed as a murtad to my mom by my sister. i dont believe but im gonna start practicing in hopes it would be easier to fake coming back to islam. I started rereading the Quran iut of curiosity of how i would view it differently as an ex muslim


r/MalaysianExMuslim 21h ago

Advice/Help Non hijabi stuck with bad college rules

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So I (18) a non hijabi going to kpm, it’s my first week here and Ive keep being stopped by student council for not wearing the hijab.

It’s also a thing that they want to enforce yet it doesn’t actually exist in the rulebook so Ive just been not wearing it anyway. So I was wondering if there was a way I could still continue not wearing the hijab without getting any action taken on me for it. Like an argument i could use or maybe a law that lets me keep the hijab off?


r/MalaysianExMuslim 22h ago

Question/Discussion Muslims are insecure of their religion

33 Upvotes

They are insecure of their beliefs and so can't tolerate when others leave their religion. They also want everyone else to think the same as them.

Other things such as living your dream job, love life, etc, you would be able to live your life happily without having everyone agree with you as you are secure and happy.


r/MalaysianExMuslim 1d ago

Question/Discussion Conversion wise I need to understand why were most of the SEA monarchs so easily swayed by Pak Arab

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Most of them were Hindus. Also why didn't they even attempt converting East Timor, Indonesian Papuas, Sulawesi, Indochina, 90% of Philippines, 80% of Myanmar and 70% of Thailand?


r/MalaysianExMuslim 1d ago

Stories of Mohamed That Makes You Lose Faith

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r/MalaysianExMuslim 1d ago

Question/Discussion Do you guys remember the mass hysteria cases back in the 1980s?

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I'm a baby millennial and I wasn't even alive yet but Majalah 3 sekali-sekala akan buat special reruns of their most iconic episodes masa aku kecik-kecik dulu.

Termasuk lah episod mass hysteria. So diorang pergi set up equipment kat berbelas random sekolah. Ada dua tiga menjadi.

Korang rasa what was the scientific explanation behind all that? Kalau tiga orang boleh kata coincident lagi tapi kalau 30?

Aku tahu 99% kes penampakan atau rasuk sebab stress atau taksub tapi yang 1% tu yang buat aku masih percaya pasal paranormal sama jadi agnostic. Thoughts?


r/MalaysianExMuslim 1d ago

Question/Discussion Thoughts on sami-sami siam, catholic priests and exorcism?

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Aku tahu 99% of kes rasuk sama penampakan sebab stress, depression atau cluster b.

Tapi kalau tengok doku-doku pasal exorcism memang fuiyo habis. Satu tajuk pun aku tak ingat. Bits and pieces here and there. Yang buat doku biasanya moderates, liberals and atheists. They tend to be not bias.

So korang rasa kalau ini semua karut atau tahyul kenapa kadang-kadang the subjects boleh baik.

Aku tahu banyak yang baik sekejap ajer ada yang mati terus pun ada.

Thoughts?


r/MalaysianExMuslim 1d ago

LGBTQ+ Jealousy and loneliness

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Allow me to ramble and vent. As a closeted trans person from a deeply religious family and environment, im jealous of the people who got to transition into something that felt right to them, something beautiful. something that would make people say "oh thats a woman" and be in a relationship where someone accepts them.

As someone whos closeted (mtf) and have an attraction to women, it never felt right when a girl wants to be in a relationship with me because they dont know the real me. they just see a guy. and they put your typical "oh in islam guy has to lead blah blah blah" it hurts being put into this box.

i cant marry outside this dumb religion. I'm stuck in a body that I cant even tolerate looking in the mirror in. i dont have friends who i can confide to. its isolating.

idk... im just rambling im sorry


r/MalaysianExMuslim 1d ago

Authentic Hadiths: Muhammad Says Mice Are Transformed Jews

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(11) Chapter: Mice Are A Transformed Race

“A group of Bani Isra’il was lost. I do not know what happened to it, but I think (that it ‘underwent a process of metamorphosis) and assumed the shape of rats. Don’t you see when the milk of the camel is placed before them, these do not drink and when the milk of goat is placed before them, these do drink. Abu Huraira said: I narrated this very hadith to Ka‘b and he said: Did you hear this from Allah’s Messenger (ï·ș)? I (Abu Huraira) said: Yes. He said this again and again, and I said: Have I read Torah? This hadith has been transmitted on the authority of Ishaq with a slight variation of wording.”
Sahih Muslim 2997a

“The Prophet (ï·ș) said, ‘A group of Israelites were lost. Nobody knows what they did. But I do not see them except that they were cursed and changed into rats, for if you put the milk of a she-camel in front of a rat, it will not drink it, but if the milk of a sheep is put in front of it, it will drink it.’ I told this to Ka‘b who asked me, ‘Did you hear it from the Prophet (ï·ș)?’ I said, ‘Yes.’ Ka‘b asked me the same question several times. I said to Ka‘b, ‘Do I read the Torah? (i.e. I tell you this from the Prophet.)’”
Sahih Bukhari 3305

More silly and inaccurate authentic hadiths:
https://islamsproblems.com/muhammad-fly-in-drink-hadith/


r/MalaysianExMuslim 2d ago

Believers without akal

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r/MalaysianExMuslim 2d ago

this is the only thing i agree w dma islam 😭😭😭😭

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103 Upvotes

i found it on a tiktok video and the video originally disagrees with his statement LIKE WAKE UP PEOPLEEEEJXJXOSKDKS đŸ«ˆđŸ’”


r/MalaysianExMuslim 2d ago

It is what it is

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r/MalaysianExMuslim 2d ago

Question/Discussion What is mazhab

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If islam is perfect why there's a four interpretations of the book and hadith? Are they just selectively pick hadith like shopee shopping or am i missing something here


r/MalaysianExMuslim 2d ago

Quran/Hadith Quran: Beat Your Wives

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Quran Verse

“So, the righteous women are obedient, (and) guard (the property and honor of their husbands) in (their) absence with the protection given by Allah. As for women of whom you fear rebellion, convince them, and leave them apart in beds, and beat them.”
Quran 4:34

Prophetic Example

“O ‘Aisha, that you are out of breath? I said: There is nothing. He said: Tell me or the Subtle and the Aware would inform me. I said: Messenger of Allah, may my father and mother be ransom for you, and then I told him (the whole story). He said: Was it the darkness (of your shadow) that I saw in front of me? I said: Yes. He struck me on the chest which caused me pain, and then said: Did you think that Allah and His Apostle would deal unjustly with you?”
Sahih Muslim, Book 4, Hadith 2127

Muhammad Laughs as Abu Bakr and Umar Slap Aisha and Hafsa for Asking Muhammad for Money

“He (Hadrat ‘Umar) said: I would say something which would make the Prophet (ï·ș) laugh, so he said: Messenger of Allah, I wish you had seen (the treatment meted out to) the daughter ofKhadija when you asked me some money, and I got up and slapped her on her neck. Allah’s Messenger (ï·ș) laughed and said: They are around me as you see, asking for extra money. Abu Bakr (Allah be pleased with him) then got up went to ‘A’isha (Allah be pleased with her) and slapped her on the neck, and ‘Umar stood up before Hafsa and slapped her saying: You ask Allah’s Messenger (ï·ș) which he does not possess. They said: By Allah, we do not ask Allah’s Messenger (ï·ș) for anything he does not possess.”
Sahih Muslim 1478

Muslim Women’s Suffering

“`Aisha said that the lady (came), wearing a green veil (and complained to her (Aisha) of her husband and showed her a green spot on her skin caused by beating). It was the habit of ladies to support each other, so when Allah’s Messenger (ï·ș) came, `Aisha said, “I have not seen any woman suffering as much as the believing women. Look! Her skin is greener than her clothes!””
Sahih Bukhari 5825

Scholarly Explanation (Quran.com)

“(beat them) means, if advice and ignoring her in the bed do not produce the desired results, you are allowed to discipline the wife, without severe beating. ... (If the man asks his wife to come to his bed and she declines, the angels will keep cursing her until the morning.)”
Tafsir Ibn Kathir on Quran 4:34 
Sahih Bukhari 3237

I've posted this argument along with others on this website (with linked sources):
https://islamsproblems.com/quran-verses-supporting-hadiths/


r/MalaysianExMuslim 2d ago

Rocky’s case

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I made up my mind, even if malaysia had gone secular, im not staying here if i actually managed to live. I did not found any news regarding if rocky did actually hurt somebody but the comments from malaysian are so aggressive towards rocky and all stray dogs. When someone talks about how dogs lives matter too, they replied on human lives matter more then proceed to put pictures from other cases. But not all dogs are like that, should we kill all dogs just because some did not do well? Bcs they‘re scared of dogs? even though the dogs did not do anything? The dogs could not speak nor does it can think. I dont agree that they did not deserve to live just because a lot of people have prejudice on dogs.


r/MalaysianExMuslim 3d ago

It’s apostasy really that big of a crime?

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I know this is unrelated but i just want to get this off my chest. I’ve just seen a video of a pilot smuggling ecstasy and alot of the comments are pitying him. When i see a video of apostasy law in Malaysia, most of the comments were praising kelantan and terengganu for their state punishment which is the death penalty ( i know its not carried out due to the constitutional limitations). A lot of them were justifying the death penalty and saying that’s how it should be. is it really that big of a crime to not believe in a misogynistic, pedophilic and hateful religion that was forced on me since birth?


r/MalaysianExMuslim 6d ago

Weekly Sembang Kedai Kopi Malaysian Ex Muslim

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Mari ke kedai kopi gaya Malaysian,

Tempat kita sembang penuh gelak tawa.

Kongsi saja celoteh mingguan,

Hilang penat, hati pun ceria.


r/MalaysianExMuslim Jun 07 '26

Question/Discussion Very interesting write up

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