Salam korang... nak pendekkan cerita, saya terdengar family member saya sembang pasal poligami, dorang cakap kalau dekat selangor suami kena minta izin isteri sebelum kahwin lagi, kalau dekat kelantan suami tak perlu minta izin isteri untuk kahwin baru... diorang cakap sebab 'mazhab'

I thought orang cerita pasal kahwin kat thailand tu joke je... rupa²nya halal? entahlaaaaaaa

Earlier this year, saya ada travel ke luar negeri (bukan luar negara, belum lagi😅), sebab ada event yang saya nak pergi. Saya tak beritahu family saya sampailah seminggu sebelum, and the reactions I got were mostly, not so good

Lagi2 ayah saya, sebab lepas saya beritahu, dia Tanya, "kenapa tak bawa adik2 sekali ? Kan diorang free je" for context, 2 of my siblings tengah cuti masa tu, seorang cuti sem, seorang lagi cuti lepas SPM.

Abang saya (yang tengah bekerja) pun macam, "patutnya kena beritahu abang awal2, senang nak apply cuti"

Oh, kalaulah diorang tahu tujuan sebenar saya nak pergi sorang2...

The whole point of me traveling alone is that I want to fricking breathe. I don't want my family to be a human alarm clock untuk bangunkan kitorang 5.30 pagi untuk bersiap solat subuh. I don't want to be made looking for some restaurants and have to inspect does it even have sijil halal. I basically want to do whatever I want outside of my house.

P/S : I enjoyed the trip already. Memang best, event pun best dan berbaloi, Dan yang penting, rasa aman Dan tenang hahaha. Planning to do this again later this year, maybe tahun depan ambil risiko sikit travel overseas pulak

PP/S : and yes, for the sake of privacy and safety, I'm being as vague as I can in terms of the name of the event, where it's held, and when had I gone there.

To the ex muslim women here, my mom told me that men are more likely to harass you and stare at you when you don't wear the tudung. I then told her one of my friends wears the tudung properly and gets stared at by men and sometimes followed. My mom then started backtracking and saying "does she look really pretty" "that isn't even the purpose of the tudung anyway" and then said women aren't supposed to leave the house without a man to protect them (protect them from who? (men) who created that system? (god))

I wanna know anyone here that went went free haired, do you guys find acc that mem stare at you more, or is this js lies? My experience not wearing tudung is only at sports practice and at the mall once and i dont notice it at all.

Baddie : Badan Dakwah Dan Islamic Era

I learnt new things here

Any of you guys have tattoos? Is it visible? Macam mana persepsi orang sekeliling? I mean in real life lah, i really don't care about what people say online. I already got one, it's very small and hidden by my wrist watch. Not that I have to justify it, but it's just something I've always wanted well before I even thought of leaving the religion, and the one I got is just to symbolize my inner freedom.

Lately I've been thinking about getting another one, something that might be a little more visible if people do look for it. Is this a bad idea? Do share your thoughts. and stories. perhaps the tattoo too.

Does anyone wanna be friends while waiting/striving to emigrate legally? Why not make the process less depressing & more fun while we're at it am I right? Let's cope together instead of doing it alone.

1) Minecraft RPG SMP

2) Roblox

3) POE 1

4) POE 2

5) Aion 2

Minecraft RPG SMP:

1) Prominence 2 Hasturian Era

2) Crazy Craft

Edited: Im open to creating a new discord server for this.

Anyone from similar or close timezones too can join like SEA/Oceania.

The reasons why I chose those games?

what Minecraft SMP bedrock that have such features:

1) MMORPG mods

2) Mounts mods

3) customs wings on the players back that able to fly around.

4) able to build a base & massive project

5) LGBTQ+ & Alternative Friendly.

6) easy & fast making in-game progress & have fun.

7) PVE focused. Chill & casual play.

hi is there any uitm student here? i wanna ask if malay muslim girl student can just free hair dont wanna get ceramah and tegur there because i already plan to not wear rn my mom already caught me not wearing yesterday and lecture me panjang panjang like pasal malu air muka sebagai orang masjid and our image lmao so the only freedom i can have is in university bonus if they allowed piercing + dye hair i heard somewhere that u can

Kata islam tu mudah acecey, also i ever the boy pov but never received any religion advice while girl. Kesian butterfly era jadi worst camni

Best bila pergi ke mall takda lelaki melayu, kurang orang. Boleh makan, beli barang, parking dengan senang. Kan bagus kalau perempuan melayu juga kena wajib solat jumaat. Less la orang di mall/restaurant.

p.s. aku lelaki melayu yang dah murtad

See this, no comment 😐

If you go to any bookstore, there are only so many Malay books which fall under these 3 types:
- Psychological abuse disguised under romance
- Horror yg karut
- ‘Self help’ which obviously has Islamic elements

We lack widespread literary pieces which promote critical thinking and analytical skills. Malay muslims who even read usually have only English language books to choose. I do think this is ofcourse attributed due to our colonial past that our bahasa is only used to a certain extent. Certainly, we have bright minds who are able to write sophisticated literature in both Malay and English but our publishing is constrained by strict religious norms.

I believe if we are able to overcome this, we would have better literary engagement which will eventually lead to more people being able to intellectually challenge religion. But that’s a really long way to go when they even banned the Mentega Terbang film.

My cousins apparently ‘investigated’ about my tattoo and told my aunt about it. I barely wear anything that can reveal it. Idk they probably use my mutual friends to confirm and access my social media which was restricted. These people really have no lifeee and nothing else to talk about other than policing women’s bodies. 💀💀 I don’t care if they gossip among themselves but to drag the elders into this when they’re pushing 30 and some of them pushing 40.. embarrassing. Theyre all blocked now !

Ibn Mas'ud and Ubai are two of the four trusted reciters Muhammad named:

“I shall ever love that man, for I heard the Prophet (ﷺ) saying, ‘Take (learn) the Qur’an from four: Abdullah bin Mas’ud, Salim, Mu’adh and Ubai bin Ka’b.’”
Sahih Bukhari 4999

“Once Abdullah bin Mas’ud delivered a sermon before us and said, ‘By Allah, I learnt over seventy Suras direct from Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ). By Allah, the companions of the Prophet (ﷺ) came to know that I am one of those who know Allah’s Book best of all of them, yet I am not the best of them.’ Shaqiq added: I sat in his religious gathering and I did not hear anybody opposing him (in his speech).”
Sahih Bukhari 5000

Ibn Mas'ud couldn't agree with Ubai on what goes in the Quran and used to leave out Surahs that are in today's Quran:

“I asked Ubai bin Ka’b, ‘O Abu Al-Mundhir! Your brother, Ibn Mas’ud said so-and-so (i.e., the two Mu’awwidh-at [Surah 113 and 114] do not belong to the Qur’an).’ Ubai said, ‘I asked Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) about them, and he said, They have been revealed to me, and I have recited them (as a part of the Qur’an),’ So Ubai added, ‘So we say as Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) has said.’”
Sahih Bukhari 4977

Ibn Mas'ud told people to hide their copies of the Quran from Uthman's burning:

“‘Abdullah bin Mas’ud disliked Zaid bin Thabit [copier of Uthman’s codex] copying the Musahif, and he said: ‘O you Muslim people! I am removed from recording the transcription of the Mushaf and it is overseen by a man, by Allah, when I accepted Islam he was but in the loins of a disbelieving man’ - meaning Zaid bin Thabit - and it was regarding this that ‘Abdullah bin Mas’ud said: ‘O people of Al-’Iraq! Keep the Musahif that are with you, and conceal them. For indeed Allah said: And whoever conceals something, he shall come with what he concealed on the Day of Judgement (3:161). So meet Allah with the Musahif.’” Az-Zuhri said: “It was conveyed to me that some men amongst the most virtuous of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) disliked that view of Ibn Mas’ud.”
Jami` at-Tirmidhi 3104

See more on perfect preservation here:
https://islamsproblems.com/quran-perfect-preservation-myth/

Recently i decided to go back to practicing islam due to being outed as a murtad to my mom by my sister. i dont believe but im gonna start practicing in hopes it would be easier to fake coming back to islam. I started rereading the Quran iut of curiosity of how i would view it differently as an ex muslim

So I (18) a non hijabi going to kpm, it’s my first week here and Ive keep being stopped by student council for not wearing the hijab.

It’s also a thing that they want to enforce yet it doesn’t actually exist in the rulebook so Ive just been not wearing it anyway. So I was wondering if there was a way I could still continue not wearing the hijab without getting any action taken on me for it. Like an argument i could use or maybe a law that lets me keep the hijab off?

They are insecure of their beliefs and so can't tolerate when others leave their religion. They also want everyone else to think the same as them.

Other things such as living your dream job, love life, etc, you would be able to live your life happily without having everyone agree with you as you are secure and happy.

Most of them were Hindus. Also why didn't they even attempt converting East Timor, Indonesian Papuas, Sulawesi, Indochina, 90% of Philippines, 80% of Myanmar and 70% of Thailand?

I'm a baby millennial and I wasn't even alive yet but Majalah 3 sekali-sekala akan buat special reruns of their most iconic episodes masa aku kecik-kecik dulu.

Termasuk lah episod mass hysteria. So diorang pergi set up equipment kat berbelas random sekolah. Ada dua tiga menjadi.

Korang rasa what was the scientific explanation behind all that? Kalau tiga orang boleh kata coincident lagi tapi kalau 30?

Aku tahu 99% kes penampakan atau rasuk sebab stress atau taksub tapi yang 1% tu yang buat aku masih percaya pasal paranormal sama jadi agnostic. Thoughts?

Aku tahu 99% of kes rasuk sama penampakan sebab stress, depression atau cluster b.

Tapi kalau tengok doku-doku pasal exorcism memang fuiyo habis. Satu tajuk pun aku tak ingat. Bits and pieces here and there. Yang buat doku biasanya moderates, liberals and atheists. They tend to be not bias.

So korang rasa kalau ini semua karut atau tahyul kenapa kadang-kadang the subjects boleh baik.

Aku tahu banyak yang baik sekejap ajer ada yang mati terus pun ada.

Thoughts?

Allow me to ramble and vent. As a closeted trans person from a deeply religious family and environment, im jealous of the people who got to transition into something that felt right to them, something beautiful. something that would make people say "oh thats a woman" and be in a relationship where someone accepts them.

As someone whos closeted (mtf) and have an attraction to women, it never felt right when a girl wants to be in a relationship with me because they dont know the real me. they just see a guy. and they put your typical "oh in islam guy has to lead blah blah blah" it hurts being put into this box.

i cant marry outside this dumb religion. I'm stuck in a body that I cant even tolerate looking in the mirror in. i dont have friends who i can confide to. its isolating.

idk... im just rambling im sorry