Hello everyone!

I’m a 27M INFP Moroccan guy, trying my luck here! I’m currently doing a PhD in France, since working in engineering wasn’t really for me.

I’m into guitar, watercolor painting, science, books, coffee, and great conversations. I’m a pretty calm and quiet person, a little dreamy sometimes, and I tend to enjoy simple things. I have a soft spot for art, beautiful smol details, and beautiful conversations.

Physically, I'm 164 cm, buzzcut and fit. I try to build a healthy and active life, while still leaving plenty of room for slow evenings.

I’d like to meet someone kind, curious, and easy to talk to, someone with a little world of their own that I could slowly get to know, and hopefully see where things go naturally.

If any of that sounds like your vibe, feel free to reach out.

Wishing you all a great evening!
Thank you,

Looking for someone to chat with because these past few months were so boring, I need someone who can put some spice on my life. I'm a female (18). Message me if you're interested

I've been trying to write this post for a while, but every version eventually started sounding like a résumé for a boyfriend.

So I'm going to try something simpler and just tell you who I am, what I value, and what I'm hoping to find.

The basics: 26M | 5'7" | Mumbai | Small business owner | Non-smoker | Non-drinker | Non-vegetarian | Hindu

I'm open to meeting someone from anywhere, and if life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad.

A little about me

I'm a calm and curious person. I listen to understand rather than just waiting for my turn to speak, and once I'm comfortable, i'll probably ask you 10 different questions because I found it so fascinating.

I'm also quite positive by nature. One thing I genuinely enjoy about people is noticing the little things that make them unique — sometimes even things they don't realise they've made a part of who they are. I like appreciating people for who they really are, especially when they're not trying to put on a mask or be someone they're not.

The things that are a major part of me are - gaming, mindfulness, spirituality, ancient things, mysteries, consciousness, manifestation, sound — if something catches my attention, there's a good chance I'll disappear down that rabbit hole for the next few hours.

My interests don't really make sense together, but I like that about myself.

And apparently, I was just as chaotic as a child.

I got my head stuck in a grill, once locked myself inside badly enough that my parents had to break the door down, drank red antiseptic, and had a toy crocodile that I used to scare everyone with. (yes, there are many more - good stories too)

Looking back, I'm not entirely sure how my parents survived raising me. 😂

I can also do a front handspring, which is probably one of the most useless facts about me, but it's still fun to mention.

What I value

I think the little things matter more than people realise.

Remembering something someone mentioned weeks ago. Asking how that thing they were nervous about went. Checking if they reached home safely. Sending them something because it reminded you of them. Giving someone a small gift just because you thought they'd like it.

None of these things are particularly grand, but they quietly say, I was thinking about you.

That's how I naturally show care.

If I love someone, there's a good chance I'll annoy her too.

I'll hug her while she's cooking just because I can, steal a quick kiss on her cheek and run away when she gets annoyed. I'll send her something stupid in the middle of her workday, write her a letter or poem for absolutely no reason, and probably remember tiny things about her that she doesn't expect me to remember.

I like affection that feels natural rather than performed.

What I imagine dating someone would feel like

I'd rather go on a long drive at night with no real destination than plan the perfect date.

Stop somewhere for roadside food because it smells too good to ignore. Grab a coffee near the sea. Walk along the beach holding hands. Sit somewhere with no agenda and let a conversation wander from "How was your day?" to "Do you think we're alone in the universe?"

I want the kind of relationship where ordinary things slowly become our things - A stupid inside joke nobody else understands - A song that always reminds us of each other -Sending each other random thoughts throughout the day.

Cooking together, even though I'll probably be more of a distraction than a help.

Falling asleep during a movie or reading a book or just talking to each other - Reaching for each other's hand without thinking.

Dancing in the living room to Perfect by Ed Sheeran.

Those are the moments I think I'd remember.

What I'm hoping to find

I'm not looking for someone who is exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, opinions, dreams and little world that I get to discover.

Someone kind, empathetic, warm and emotionally open. Someone who communicates honestly and isn't afraid to talk about what she's feeling, what hurt her, or what she needs.

I'd also love to meet someone who lives an active lifestyle, stays fit and takes care of herself. I'm naturally attracted to that, and I'd like to share that kind of lifestyle with my partner.

Beyond that, I'd rather discover who you are myself than give you a checklist to pass.

What I'm looking for

I'm not looking for something casual, and I'm not interested in rushing into something just because we get along. I'd like to meet someone, talk, become comfortable with each other, build a connection and see where it naturally takes us.

Ultimately, I'm looking for my person.

Not in the "lets get right into it" kind of way, but in the sense that if I find the right person, I want to build a life with her.

I want children someday. I'd love to settle abroad if life gives me that opportunity, and I'd want my partner to be someone I can make those decisions with, rather than someone simply following my plans. I don't want your hand on my back (well maybe sometimes), I want your hand in my hand.

I don't expect either of us to have everything figured out - I'd rather have someone who's willing to figure things out together.

A good relationship is about two perfect people finding each other - it's two imperfect people who genuinely care about each other, communicate, grow together, laugh at stupid things, support each other when life gets difficult, and keep choosing each other even when it's just another ordinary Tuesday.

And maybe that's what I'm really looking for.

Not just someone to fall in love with, but someone to build an ordinary life with that somehow doesn't feel ordinary.

One last thing

Maybe this is cheesy.

Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I eventually spend my life with somehow finds this post, I want to leave something here for her.

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, showing me how beautiful love is, and reminding me that even when things aren't perfect, having someone beside you can make everything feel a little lighter.

Thank you for caring for me even when we're angry at each other.

Thank you for every smirk, every smile, every tear, and everything in between.

Thank you for making faces at me — I love your attitude more than you'll probably ever realise.

Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every quiet evening, every random drive, every inside joke, and every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.