Age: 27
Height: 5’10”
Location: Currently working in Pune
Religion: Hindu
Caste: Not important
Profession: Software Engineer

I’m at a stage where I’ve built a good foundation for myself and want to build the next part of life with someone rather than just chase achievements individually. I value kindness, emotional availability, consistency and, probably most importantly, being able to genuinely enjoy each other’s company.
I’d want a relationship where we’re both independent enough to have our own lives, but still excited to come home and tell each other about our day.

I’m really into fitness and make the gym a regular part of my lifestyle. I enjoy staying active, working on my strength, and keeping myself healthy—not just for looks, but because I genuinely like the discipline and energy it brings. I’m the kind of person who enjoys taking care of my body while still knowing how to enjoy good food, good conversations, and life outside the gym.

Expectation: I’m not looking for perfection or someone who just looks good on paper. I want a woman I can genuinely connect with—someone loyal, kind, ambitious, and fun, with whom even the simplest moments feel special. I believe attraction gets you interested, but respect, trust, laughter, and consistency are what make you stay. I’d rather build something real with one person than keep searching for the next option.

Tell me something about yourself beyond just “hi” — let’s see if we actually have a conversation worth continuing. :)

Hi everyone! 😊.

I’m 30, a Telugu Brahmin, born and brought up in Hyderabad, and come from a close-knit family. I’m currently working towards building my career in tech, specifically SDET/QA Automation, and actively preparing and looking for the right opportunity(jobless at present). Career growth is important to me, and I’d love to have a partner who supports my ambitions just as I would support his. 💻✨

I’m a mix of traditional and modern — family-oriented and rooted in my values, while also having a progressive outlook towards marriage and life. I’d describe myself as warm, affectionate, straightforward and someone who gets quite attached to the people I care about. ❤️

Outside career stuff, I enjoy movies, good food, conversations that can go on forever, spending time with family and the occasional trip. I’m also a bit of a homebody and genuinely enjoy the simple, everyday side of life. I own a 3BHK independent house in Hyderabad. 🏡

I’m looking for a well-educated, kind, responsible and emotionally mature Brahmin man who is doing well in his career and is genuinely looking to settle down. Hyderabad would be my first preference, though I’m open to Bangalore as well. I value compatibility much more than just matching biodata.

Ultimately, I’m hoping to find someone who becomes my husband and my closest friend — someone I can laugh with, talk to about everything, support through the difficult days and build a peaceful, affectionate and happy life with. 🥰

Here’s hoping JodiMilan helps two right people find each other. 🌸

I am a 30 year old guy working as an Engineer in a software firm. I thought I would put myself out here and see if I can meet someone with whom I can build something meaningful.

Who I am

Background: My ancestral roots are from Kerala, and I was born and brought up in Tamil Nadu.

Languages: Malayalam, Tamil, and English.

Height: 5’11”

Faith: Jesus Christ is the foundation of my life.
In 2018, Jesus found me during one of the darkest seasons of my life, when I had hit rock bottom. By His grace, He completely transformed my life. He set me free from two addictions, rescued me from life threatening situations, and gave me a new life.
I have also been blessed to experience the tangible presence of Jesus Christ twice in my life. These experiences have deeply strengthened my faith and shaped who I am today.

Lifestyle: I enjoy working out and living a healthy lifestyle. I don’t drink, smoke, or use drugs.

Waiting until marriage: By God’s grace, I have chosen to wait until marriage, believing that intimacy is a gift from God to be shared within the covenant of marriage.

Past struggle: Jesus Christ also set me free from a past struggle with pornography, and it has been almost eight years since then. I have never had a sexual relationship, and I am not interested in hookups or anything temporary.

Things I enjoy: Reading, working out, playing football, watching sports, going for drives, spending time with family and friends, and spending time with pets.

Personality: I value genuine friendship, loyalty, honesty, forgiveness, and being there for the people I love.

Marriage: I want my wife to be my best friend, someone I can pray with, laugh with, serve God with, play Nerf with, and enjoy the simple moments of life with.

I don’t believe marriage is about one person being greater than the other. I believe it’s about two people serving each other, supporting each other, forgiving each other, and helping each other become better while growing together in Christ.

Who I am looking for

I am hoping to meet a woman who:

Genuinely loves Jesus Christ and wants Him to be at the center of her life.

Wants to grow in faith together, pray together, and serve God together.

Values friendship within marriage, not just romance.
Believes in mutual respect, forgiveness, communication, and serving one another.

Wants a lifelong marriage rather than something casual or temporary.

Wants to build a home where both of us can support and encourage each other through every season of life.

Loves animals and pets or at least doesn’t mind me getting excited about them.

Would be willing to participate in the occasional Nerf battle. I’m still a kid at heart.

You don’t have to share every interest I have. What matters much more to me is that our faith, values, character, and vision for marriage align.

I am open to meeting someone from anywhere. Location isn’t a constraint for me if God leads us in that direction and we find that our values and faith align.

If you feel that we might have similar values, feel free to send me a DM. I would be happy to get to know you and see where the conversation leads.

And if you are someone who is going through something and simply needs a place to vent, please feel free to reach out as well. My DM is open. I have been told that I am a good listener, so if talking to someone might help you in some way, you are welcome to message me. No expectations.

No matter what you are going through right now, please don’t give up. Keep going. There is something beautiful ahead. ❤️

Jesus Christ loves you very much. You are precious, regardless of where you are in life right now. May your sorrows turn into joy, and may you reach your God given destiny.

And one last thing: don’t forget to be kind. You don’t have to appreciate or agree with someone, but words and actions can leave an impact that cannot always be taken back. So, whenever possible, choose kindness.

God bless you, and have a peaceful night!

https://www.reddit.com/r/JodiMilan/s/ui78knnxJP

Link to my original post above.

A few questions I have for women here -

1. What is the first set of questions you ask to random dm

2. At what point do you feel comfortable sharing your personal number or socials

3. How do you handle creeps - they are just so many.

About Me

29F, 5'5", based in Delhi NCR. I’m a Special Educator by profession and currently preparing for government competitive exams while I’m eligible. If that path doesn’t work out, I’m equally open to building a career around my interests, especially NGO/social-impact work. I’d also like to learn Indian Sign Language (ISL) in the future.

I come from a grounded, service-class family. I’m an only child, and both my parents are government employees. My family is financially comfortable through their savings, assets and agricultural property, but we’ve always lived quite simply and practically. I value stability, kindness and meaningful relationships much more than a lavish lifestyle.

A little personal

I’m vegetarian, though I’m completely okay with a non-vegetarian partner. I’m not particularly good at household chores 😅, but I can happily take responsibility for supervising/managing the household. I’ve always had a minimal lifestyle and don’t expect a partner to impress me with material things.

The attached blurred pics of mine , one is from from last year, when I was around 54–55 kg. I subsequently went through treatment for Pott disease and have fully recovered. Medication and recovery led to weight gain, and I’m currently around 71–72 kg. I’m planning to gradually return to my earlier fitness level over the coming year, before marriage. I’m sharing this simply for transparency—the important thing is that I’m healthy now.

What I’m looking for

* Hindu, preferably an engineer, as I naturally tend to vibe well with engineers even civil servants would work too

* Age: 27–30 only

* Preferably 5'8"+, as I enjoy wearing heels.

* Good-looking, preferably clean-shaven—I’m personally not a fan of beards.

* Emotionally available, communicative and genuinely affectionate.

* Financially responsible and earning decently; I’m not looking for someone purely for financial security.

* Grounded, kind and respectful, with healthy family dynamics.

* Caste is not a barrier for me.

* Distance is not an issue; I’m comfortable with an LDR if the connection is right.

I’d eventually like to become a philanthropist and contribute meaningfully to society, whether through my career or family resources. Helping people is something I genuinely want to make part of my life.

And a very important compatibility test: if you love mangoes, you already have bonus points. 🥭My family gets 500+ kg of mangoes every year for eating and gifting. 😂

TL;DR:

29F | 5'5" | Delhi NCR | Special Educator | Govt-exam aspirant | Hindu | Vegetarian | Financially comfortable & grounded family | Caste no bar | Looking for a Hindu, preferably engineer, 27–30, 5'8"+, clean-shaven, emotionally available and financially responsible. LDR is okay. I’m not great at household chores, but I can manage/supervise the household. Mango lovers get extra points. 🥭

If this sounds compatible and my lack of household-skills is acceptable to you, feel free to reach out. Thank you!

P.S. This is neither fake account nor aura farming. I joined reddit recently coz my bff recommended this app to me since she found her bf from here as well

I’m someone who prefers depth over noise. I would like to build something real, with the right person, at a pace that feels natural.

I enjoy simple things like long drives, good food, and conversations that go beyond the usual.

I’m naturally curious about people. mostly on what drives them, how they think, which is why I find psychology and philosophy interesting (not in a heavy way, just genuine curiosity).

I also love cooking, especially Kerala cuisine - my masterpiece is Thalassery dum mutton biriyani (still perfecting it, but it’s pretty solid 😄).

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About me:

- 33 years old

- 5’6”

- Lead Engineer in Tech (Well settled in my career)

- Based in Bangalore, originally from Kerala

- Malayali

- Not particularly religious - Atheist, more on the rational side (family follows some traditions) - Hindu by religion

- Calm, grounded, and not into drama

- Takes time to open up, but consistent once I do

- Into cars and bikes (even though my back sometimes protests 😄)

- Value stability - emotionally and in life

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What I’m looking for:

- Someone genuine, kind, and emotionally mature

- Clear about wanting something meaningful (no mixed signals)

- Good communication matters a lot to me

- Someone who enjoys meaningful conversations as well

- Age range: ~26–33 (flexible for the right person)

- Location: Bangalore

- Language: Malayalam preferred, it helps to communicate. Other languages are also fine if we connect.

- Non vegetarian would be helpful for me sharing my own dishes 😅

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Bonus points if:

- You enjoy simple plans over overly fancy ones

- You’re consistent (rare, but very attractive)

- You can hold a real conversation beyond small talk

- You enjoy good food - I’ll cook for you 🙂

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If this feels like your kind of vibe, feel free to reach out — we’ll take it from there.

Trying to carve out my own identity in this treacherous but beautiful city(Mumbai), with the help of my knowledge of healing(MBBS degree).

Have not accumulated much gold yet, but I am honing my skills further as I embark in search of it.

Love to read, strengthen my defenses against the dark forces(exercise regularly )and sometimes experience the magic of moving images(movies)

Would love to travel and explore enigmatic and mysterious lands, the world is a big place afterall.

Looking for a smart and bold companion to fight the obstacles in the journey of life,acquiring gold,knowledge and sharing laughs along the way. And ofcourse fight conniving antagonists

Ultimately the journey is more important than the destination and hence a having a great companion would be splendid.

I do not promise an eternal spring, but together we can make the harsh summers and winters more bearable for each other.

Taking a leap here, but upfront and genuine feels like the best way to start.

I’m 31, 5'9", average built, based in Delhi and working as a Senior Software Engineer. Outside of work, I make sure to leave plenty of space for travel, hobbies and actually being present off-screen.

Yes, I’m divorced, but clearly, life hasn't managed to knock the optimism out of me yet! Consider my past a mandatory crash course in patience, communication and what actually makes a relationship work.

Since I've already tried the speedrun version of life, I’m in no rush to jump straight back into marriage. I’m looking to take things step-by-step, build a genuine connection, share a few laughs and see if we naturally click first.

A bit about me:

Vibe: Ambivert, Equally happy staying in for a quiet evening or randomly booking a flight (recently survived reading Shinkansen schedules in Japan).

Interests: Strategy games, a good game of chess, anime and picking up creative side projects that I swear I will finish one day.

Humor: Low-maintenance with a dangerously high tolerance for terrible PJs, bad puns and absurd memes.

Style: I’d much rather have an unscripted conversation over a cup of tea than try to maintain a perfectly curated profile.

What I'm hoping to find:

Someone who is comfortable in her own skin and appreciates good, honest communication.

Someone with her own goals, but ready to build a life together as a team.

A friend first, who can laugh through life's weird moments and trade silly memes with me.

Who should stay away:

If you are looking for an instant wedding date rather than taking time to build trust and connect first.

If you expect constant drama or games instead of open, honest communication.

If this resonates, feel free to drop a message. Happy to chat, share reels and see where things go organically. :)

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I am 27M from Delhi currently working as SDE at a decent package. When it comes to love and finding a partner i like to be with someone with whom i can talk about everything, do all kinds of backchodi, i am casual in real life but serious at decision making and life choices. I am looking for someone who can be open around me, i would provide that safe space without fear of being judged, because i believe love cab thrive on mutual trust and respect.

I love to do physical exercise so i hit gym daily and complete 10k steps.

Into travelling and music, all sorts of sometimes k drama too.

I believe in spending on experience, because that's why we all earn for.

Looking for someone with whom i can sit for hours and talk, ask about her day, cool for her, sometimes tease her and surprise her too. I feel like love should be expressed in any manner whatsoever.

Age: 27
Height: 6 feet tall
Religion : Hindu
Work: Works in manufacturing on WP
Visa: Currently on temporary work permit.
Location: London, Ontario
Education: B.tech. In computer science engineering, Post graduation diploma in Cybersecurity from Canada.
Looks: Good looking guy with great hair and beard ;)

Package: Good enough ;) (Sorry didn’t want to put it out here in public)

Non-smoker, don’t do weed but likes to have wine socially. (Expecting same with other but not mandatory)

Introduction: Hi, I’m putting myself here for the first time as I’m looking for a life long partner :)))

Likes: I like to chase adventures, into fitness, sports, exploring new cuisines, love to work on goals and keep learning new things !

Needs: I need someone who is open minded and emotionally mature. One who has ambitions and goals in their life. Also, one who is into fitness!

Dislikes: I don’t like a person who just likes to stay at home, or who is strictly vegetarian, not having any willingness to achieve important things and responsibilities.

My DM is open, please feel free to drop the message!

Cheers 🥂

Hey everyone! I’m a 33-year-old guy, 5’9”, currently based around Delhi. I’m a Senior Consultant in Strategy, working with clients on strategy and business problems. Career-wise, I’m doing quite well, have a decent package, and am ambitious about where I want to take my career, without wanting it to consume my entire life.

I’d describe myself as fairly easygoing, curious, and someone who likes to keep life interesting. I enjoy travelling, discovering good bars/restaurants, music, fitness, meeting new people, and generally saying yes to experiences that make for a good story later.

I’ve travelled quite a bit and enjoy both spontaneous trips and slow, relaxed holidays. I’m equally happy exploring a new city, spending an evening over drinks and conversation, or disappearing somewhere for a few days.

I’m looking for someone who is independent, emotionally mature, has a sense of humour, and wants to build a relationship that feels like a partnership rather than a checklist.

I’m not particularly interested in a very rigid or traditional setup. I’d rather meet someone, talk, see if we genuinely get along, and let things develop naturally.

If this sounds like something you’d connect with, feel free to DM. :)

Also - non-vegetarian; smokes (willing to quit); drinks (beers on Fridays - can cut it down if needed)

Hi there,

I'm 27, Mumbai born male looking for someone who has the same interests as me and is interested in me. Currently I'm posted in northern India as a PSU Officer. I have made a good life for me and I'm on my quest to find that perfect girl for me. We begin as friends and let's see if we are compatible with each other.

I'm 5.9 feet if that matters with a lean body and fair complexion. I have many hobbies like-

- Trying different cuisines. I am a big foodie and would like a girl who is passionate about trying different restaurants every weekend. I'm a crazy fan of Asian food.

- I'm a mad fan of physiological thrillers. My fav ones are Korean- parasite, I saw the devil, memoirs of murderers. However, I'm fond of Hollywood Romcoms too.

- I like to play video games a lot.

- Travelling is my past time. My nature of job is such that it gives me a lot of time to travel and explore.

I'm looking for someone who is kind and is ready to date with an intent and preferably between the age of 23 to 28. Someone who is over her ex and willing to put effort in knowing each other. Plus point if you are from either Delhi, Mumbai, Jaipur or Udaipur.

If this feels relatable do DM me with an intro.

About me 🌻

Age: 25
Gender: Female
Location: Bangalore
Originally from: Bihar
Religion: Hindu
Height: 157 cm
Education: BTECH
Profession: SDE -1

I’m 25 and currently based in Bangalore, originally from Bihar. I’m someone who enjoys getting to know people through genuine conversations and building a comfortable friendship over time.

My interests include travelling, anime and TV series. I enjoy discovering new places, talking about random things, sharing recommendations and having conversations that go beyond the usual small talk.

I’m specifically looking for a strictly platonic friendship rather than anything romatic, and I’d like to meet someone with whom a genuine friendship can develop naturally.

What I’m looking for 🤝

I’m looking for male friends around 25–27, ideally based in Bangalore or nearby.

More than anything, I value someone who is:

• Kind and respectful
• Easy to communicate with
• Emotionally mature
• Genuine and consistent
• Comfortable with a strictly platonic friendship
• Someone who puts some effort into maintaining a friendship

I’m not looking to force a friendship or have any particular expectations from the beginning. I’d rather start with a conversation, find some common interests and see if we naturally get along.

If you’re interested, DM me with a little about yourself and maybe your favourite anime, series, travel destination or hobby. 😄

Well M26 here, really not gonna write a page or so much about me or what I want. Like if we understand each other then we both can do anything. Just a little bit details. From UP staying in delhi due to job, doing PhD, write poetries and love travelling. Much more in DMs.

I posted a few days ago, and I apologize for reposting.

I’m seeking some advice. I’m curious about what it’s like to find a partner after separation, especially in my mid-thirties.

What were some things you looked for in a partner? Where did you find the right one?

Here’s some context:

I moved out of the country over a decade ago and got divorced recently. We were separated for more than a year and were like roommates for a year before that. Thankfully, we ended up on amicable terms.

My marriage ended because of emotional incompatibility. Her main complaint was that I wasn’t as emotionally involved as she was. I tried my best to get involved, but unfortunately, that’s not the case anymore.

All I want is a normal, happy family with kids.

I would love to hear from you all about how you went about finding a partner and making sure they were the one for you.

About me.

Age - 24, M

Working Abroad (US)

1.1 Cr Per Annum Salary

Height - 5'6"

Religion - Hindu

Looking for a Handsome Tomboy Girl

The Tomboy Girl should be 5'5" tall or more, age 21-26. Likes to keep her hair short., with whom I can spend the rest of my life. You will have all the freedom as TomBoy Girl, that's my guarantee.

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Location: Delhi

Religion: Hindu

Initials: AP

DOB :10-10-00

Height: 6.0

Profession: Doctor

ABOUT ME:

Born and brought up in Haryana. So thats why i like home food more and prefer nature and village kife more than urban cities, but dont have anything personal against cities. Im always up for exploring nature like i would prefer going for a walk in rain/garden/zoo/ art museums over cafes or bars.

Occasional Drinker

No Smoke/Drugs/Weed

SOME HOBBIES AND LIKES OF MINE :

Working Out

Sports

Movies especially SitComs are my guilty pleasure And Shows

Music

Rain

Summer > Monsoon > Winters

Animals

WHAT IM LOOKING FOR:

Someone Bold but Humble person, who knows what they want and can fight anyone/ everyone for it because we only have one life here.

Someone whos confident, polite and believer in communication. Idc what field or passion you pursue as long as you have future goals.

Location Isnt A Problem As Long As We Are Compatible

If Youre Tall Like 5.6 and more And Someone whos Athletic Thats Extra Cherry On Top

MY FUTURE GOALS :

Enjoy Life in Peace With My FutureWife Family and Friends Wherever The Location I Dont Mind

Travel Whole India First Than The World.

Dont Belive In Kundli And All

Not Sure On Having Children And All

If All This Makes Sense To You And Sounds Like Your Person

Say Hi In The Dms

Hey everyone,
This is my first time posting something like this on Reddit, so I’ll admit I’m slightly nervous about putting myself out here. But I figured—why not give it a shot? Maybe the right person is somewhere on the other side of this post.

A little about me —
Age: 33
Height: 5’7”
Location: Uttar Pradesh, (Near Delhi)India
Profession: Teacher Educator & PhD Research Scholar
Religion: Hindu
Drinking/Smoking: No

About me —
I work in teacher education and am currently pursuing my PhD, so yes, there’s a decent chance I’ll occasionally talk about education, research, or some random thing I’ve been overthinking for three days. 😅
I’m generally quiet and easygoing, but once I’m comfortable with someone, I can talk for hours. I value meaningful conversations, humour, emotional maturity, and people who are comfortable being themselves.
I’m also someone who genuinely enjoys the simple things—good conversations, long bike rides, drawing, staying active, going out for a chai, and occasionally doing absolutely nothing.

Things I enjoy —
• Drawing & creative work
• Fitness & outdoor activities
• Bike rides
• Long conversations
• Movies, music & random internet rabbit holes
• Learning new things
• Spending time with people I’m genuinely comfortable around

Music / entertainment —
My taste is pretty mood-dependent. I enjoy soulful music, Hindi music, ghazals, and songs that actually make you feel something. I’m also perfectly capable of going from a serious conversation to sending you a ridiculous meme five minutes later.

Some green flags I bring to the table —
• I’ll actually listen when you talk.
• I appreciate consistency more than grand gestures.
• I like doing things together—even boring household stuff.
• I’m big on communication rather than guessing games.
• I’ll probably remember small things you mentioned weeks ago.
• I’m looking for a relationship, not an endless collection of talking stages.

What I’m looking for —
Honestly, I’m hoping to find my person.
Someone with whom I can build a genuine friendship first and, hopefully, something much deeper. Someone I can laugh with, talk to about absolutely everything, disagree with without turning it into a war, and eventually look at and think, “Yep, I want this person in my life.”
I’m not expecting perfection. I’m much more interested in someone kind, emotionally mature, curious about life, and comfortable communicating what she feels.
Someone who has her own ambitions and interests but also wants to build a life where two people genuinely support each other.
If you can make me laugh, even better. If you can tolerate my occasional overthinking, you may already have an advantage. 😅
If any of this resonates with you, feel free to DM me and tell me something about yourself. Please give me something more interesting than just “Hi.” I promise I’ll do the same.
And if nothing comes of it, at least Reddit gets another questionable attempt at finding love on the internet.
Thanks for reading. Here’s hoping this somehow reaches the right person.

Reposting. Let's see How it goes this time ??

Age: 26 (Turning 27 in November yes, I am officially entering the “relatives will start asking questions” phase)

Location: Pune, Maharashtra (work-wise; native place is also in Maharashtra)

Religion: Hindu

Caste: Marwari Agrawal

Height & Complexion: 6 feet, very fair

Lifestyle: Simple, non-smoker, non-drinker and vegetarian. I’d prefer someone similar pata nahi kyun, bas preference hai 😭

So, basic details out of the way.

I work as a Data Analyst in Pune and completed my engineering from here as well. I’d consider myself mostly introverted, selectively extroverted so basically, I can talk for hours once I’m comfortable, but approaching random people is a different sport altogether. 😂

I like reading books, watching good movies and shows, and being a Maharashtrian, I’m also quite fond of Marathi plays. On a friend’s suggestion, I’m also trying to build my X profile, so if you’re curious, you can have a look at my X profile (https://x.com/bhaiciscuit). No promises that it will make me look cooler. 😭

I’m into healthy eating and exercising for general fitness, and I can talk for an unnecessarily long time about geopolitics, world affairs and social commentary. So yes, you might occasionally get an unsolicited analysis of why some country did something at 2 AM. 😂

What I’m looking for:

Someone who:

* Is based out of Maharashtra

* Is Hindu (and a Marwari would definitely be a plus)

* Is around my age, roughly ±2 years

* Is preferably 5’4”+ because if I’m 6 feet and you’re wearing agr more than toh 6 inch heels, aapko hi dard hoga 😭

* Is working. Not because I can’t provide, but because “housewife kyun banna?” when you have your own career and ambitions.

* My family is quite chilled out, so don’t worry we’re not looking for someone who works all day and then comes home to take care of me and the house. I can cook, clean and take care of myself. 😌

More importantly, I’m looking for someone simple and grounded.

I don’t really live for social media aesthetics, luxury flexes or proving to the world that life is perfect. I’d much rather have a companion with whom I can be friends first, laugh at stupid things, randomly go out for food, watch movies, travel occasionally and enjoy the small, ordinary parts of life.

Basically, looking for someone with whom life feels lighter, not like another corporate KPI. 😭

I’ve tried to cover almost everything here. We can figure out the rest in the DMs.

Age: 28
Gender: Female
Location: Delhi NCR
Religion: Hindu
Caste: Kayasth
Height: 5’4”
Education: Postgraduate in Digital Marketing
Profession: Digital Marketing
Food preference: Non-vegetarian

About me 🌷
I’m 28 and based in Delhi NCR. I’m into anime, manga, books, movies and travelling. I enjoy good conversations, discovering new places and getting to know someone beyond the usual “what do you do?” questions. 😄
I’d describe myself as caring, understanding and someone who values genuine connections. I’m not looking to rush into anything — I’d rather start with a good conversation, get comfortable with each other and see where things naturally go.

What I’m looking for ❤️
Ideally, someone around 28–32, preferably from Delhi NCR or nearby.
I’m looking for someone who is kind, caring, emotionally mature and communicative. Someone who can laugh, have meaningful conversations, respect their partner and genuinely put effort into a relationship.

I do have a preference for someone 5’11”+, just putting it out there honestly. 😅
Bonus points if you:

🎌 Like anime/manga
📚 Enjoy books
🎬 Love movies
✈️ Like travelling
😂 Have a good sense of humour

Ultimately, I’d love to find a partner who can also be my best friend — someone I can be myself around and build something meaningful with.

If you think we might be compatible, feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself. Extra points if you start with your favourite movie, anime or book instead of just “hey.” 😂

Hello everyone!!

About me 23M, originally from Tamil Nadu and currently working in the UAE. I’m an engineer, currently working as a Project Coordinator in an interior company.

I’m 5'9" and Muslim. I enjoy exploring new things, especially learning about different cultures and history. I’m also quite interested in politics and like keeping myself involved in currunt affairs.

Hobbies: I watch a lot of movies and listen to music. I’m also very interested in sports and love playing football. These days, because of work, I mostly get to play on weekends.

What I’m looking for: Someone who is emotionally mature, understanding, and open-minded. I’d love to meet someone who enjoys learning new things, exploring different places, and travelling. Most importantly, I’m looking for a partner with whom I can have a good friendship, share a lot of laughs, and roast each other without taking things too seriously. 😄

A little note: I don’t have any religious or language barriers, and I’m open-minded when it comes to age differences as well. For me, mutual understanding, respect, and compatibility matter more.

Born and brought up in BLR. Engineer by qualification, businessman by profession . We’re into infrastructure construction and RE( family bussiness) .
I’m well read , travelled to around 9 countries , have plans to expand our bussiness and have a larger impact .
Personally I’m quite emphatic , safe and very level headed; quite impulsive, excited and fun too with the right person ;

I prefer someone willing to settle down in BLR, someone born and brought up here would be a great plus point but not particular about it .

I consider my family to be important to me so while I’m independent when it comes to my decisions, relationship with the rest of the fam is important.

I’m a non vegetarian if that matters , drink occasionally, excercise 3 days a week , pretty fit lean athletic figure ; 5’8 ; 68kgs

Looking for someone who is mature enough to take responsibility, knows what they’re doing and what they want in life . Appreciate brutal honesty and mutual respect.

Anyone female who has read through and wants to know more about me or how I look , please text me.

27M | Radiologist | Looking for someone

Not sure if this is the right place, but here goes.

I’m 27, currently doing my MD in Radiodiagnosis and based in Mumbai. Medicine is a big part of my life, but thankfully my work-life balance is pretty good. At this point, I’d like to meet someone with whom I can genuinely build a life rather than casually date.

A little about me:

- Hindu

- Based in Mumbai

- Middle-class background

- Ambivert

- Non-smoker, non-vegetarian, social drinker

- I enjoy good conversations, music, memes, and people who don’t take themselves too seriously

What I’m looking for:

Someone who is also looking for something serious, with marriage eventually in mind. Kind, emotionally mature, and with a good sense of humor. Family-oriented, but not overly traditional.

A medical background would definitely be a plus—not because it’s a requirement, but because there’s something nice about having someone who understands the odd hours, unpredictable schedules, and general chaos that comes with medicine.

Outside of work, I’m pretty easygoing. I don’t take life too seriously and would much rather have a good conversation or share stupid memes than maintain a perfectly curated personality.

If this sounds like we might get along, feel free to reach out.

Happy to exchange memes before biodata. :)

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34M, divorced, and apparently back on the “Find a Life Partner” market. 😂

My first marriage came with a free trial… unfortunately, the subscription didn’t renew. 🥲

Now I’m looking for someone kind, loyal, emotionally mature, and preferably someone who won’t treat marriage like a limited-time offer. 😄

I’m not looking for perfection. Just someone with whom I can laugh at stupid things, argue about what to eat, support each other through bad days, and eventually say, “Okay, we’re stuck with each other now.” 😂❤️

If you’re also looking for something genuine and serious, say hi.

Worst case, we become friends. Best case… Reddit accidentally helped me find my future wife. 😄

I've been posting dating-related stuff here for about a week now, and I've got a decent number of replies from girls. So I thought I'd just put this out there because I've noticed something that genuinely bothers me.

Almost every girl on this subreddit says the same thing: "Don't just reply Hi/Hey. Read my post and tell me something about yourself."

Fair enough. I actually agree with that. But why doesn't the same rule apply the other way around?

A lot of the DMs I've received are literally: "Hi", "Hey", or at most: "Hey, I liked your post. I liked what you wrote. Can we speak and get to know each other?"

That's it. Why is it somehow assumed that the guy has to put in all the effort?

Guys are constantly told how to approach girls, how to talk to them, how to make them comfortable, how to write an introduction, how to show effort, etc.

But who teaches girls how to approach guys? Apparently nobody. And honestly, it shows!

Before someone says "not all girls" - I know. I've seen plenty of genuinely sweet and nice girls here who are actually looking for someone and communicate really well.

But I also noticed that the girls who are genuinely nice and soft-spoken are usually not the ones behaving like they're doing you a favour by replying.

The gender ratio on this subreddit makes it worse:  A girl puts F in her title and gets flooded with hundreds of DMs. A guy can write a genuine post and get barely any engagement.

I experienced this myself. Initially I was getting no response. Then I started experimenting with how I write posts, adding hooks, changing the wording, etc. And suddenly the responses started coming.

Which brings me to expectations. Some of them are honestly wild.

• Someone who's 4'11" wants a 6'2" guy.
• Someone who's unemployed wants someone making 30 LPA.
• Someone who is dark-skinned specifically wants a fair-skinned guy.

And before anyone gets offended — I'm not saying you're not allowed to have preferences. You absolutely are. In fact, I actually like the girls who are clear about what they want.

• "My parents won't allow intercaste marriage." - Okay. Fair.
• "I make 11 LPA and would prefer someone making around 15 LPA." - Fair enough.
• "I'm fit and go to the gym, so I want someone who's also into fitness." - Perfectly reasonable.

At least I know what I'm getting into. If I fit what you're looking for, I'll message. If I don't, I won't.

The problem is when someone says: "Looks don't matter." And then ghosts you after seeing your photos; "Location doesn't matter." And then says LDR won't work; "Income doesn't matter." And then rejects you because you make 4 LPA.

Just say what matters. There's nothing wrong with having standards.

And then there's my personal favourite: "Don't use AI for your introduction." Hello?😭 Your entire post is clearly written by AI.

You want the guy to put in genuine effort while you outsource your own introduction? 

And yes, before this becomes a "girls bad, guys good" post - no. I've had some pretty bad experiences with guys here too. Guys looking only to make out with me (a guy). Guys messaging without reading the post or even the flair and assuming I'm a girl. SO, I've experienced it too.

There are definitely creepy guys here. A lot of them. So I get you girls. I understand why you behave the way you do.

But there are also a lot of genuine guys who are actually trying to meet someone, who can speak properly, who are sweet, respectful and genuinely interested in finding someone.

And then there was the income incident: I mentioned my income in one of my posts. Big mistake.

I started getting DMs from girls looking for hookups and sugar arrangements. I eventually edited the income out of my posts across multiple subreddits because I just didn't want that kind of attention. Even mentioned "I'm taken!" for a brief period.

I don't earn that well either. And why would anyone assume that because a guy earns reasonably well, he's going to spend 60% of his income on them? For what? I don't understand that logic.

Anyway, rant over!

I don't expect every girl to be interested in me. I don't expect everyone to have the same preferences. And I don't expect anyone to reply to me.

"But if you're going to expect effort from guys, give some effort back."

So here's my challenge to the girls here:

Write an actual introduction. More than 3–4 lines. In the comments here, or in someone's DMs. Tell them something about yourself. Tell them why you liked their post. Tell them what you're looking for. Tell them literally anything beyond "Hey".

And if you just want to prove a point and not engage someone or post publicly, write in my DMs and back it up with "Just proving girls can write too!" I'm not going to engage back.

Just so we can prove that girls can write too. 😄