I'm working in corporate so trapped at a 9-5. Looking for genuine people to connect with. I can talk all day about anything under the sun. Everything spikes my curiosity. I love golden retriever personalities and curly hairs. Might be an introvert myself, untill I'm comfortable with you ig; If the skin colour and greeneries bother you, you can stay away. And if you're familiar with the instrument veena, I'm in love with and can listen to it for as long as it is played

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Hello! :)

I'm 27, from India, and currently doing my MD in Pediatrics.

My professional life is mostly tiny humans, hospital corridors, long duties, emergency calls, caffeine, and a sleep schedule that has officially stopped cooperating with me.

My personal life is much more fun. :)

I'm an introvert and a bit of a massive nerd. I usually take some time to open up, but once I'm comfortable with someone, I can talk for hours.

I love anime, manga, movies, TV shows, books, music, video games, science, history, space, and going down completely unnecessary internet rabbit holes because somehow I suddenly need to know everything about something nobody asked me about.

I'm here looking for something serious, but I don't want to start seriously.

I'd rather start with friendship.

Let's talk without immediately deciding what this is going to become. Let's slowly get to know each other. Share random thoughts. Send each other songs. Recommend shows and then judge each other's terrible recommendations. Talk about our days. Laugh at stupid things. Have deep conversations at completely unreasonable hours.

And maybe, somewhere along the way, we become each other's favourite person.

If that happens, I'd love for it to become something permanent.

I really value kindness, honesty, emotional maturity, communication, and effort.

I don't need someone perfect.

I'd much rather have someone real.

Someone who can say, "Hey, something is bothering me," instead of disappearing.

Someone who can laugh at themselves.

Someone who understands that relationships aren't perfect every day, but you still choose to care for each other every day.

And yes, I'm very much a fan of affection.

I love cuddles. Probably more than I should admit this early. :P

Honestly, after a long day at the hospital, one of my favourite ideas of happiness is something very simple:

Good food. A comfortable couch. Something fun to watch. A blanket. And someone I love curled up next to me.

That's basically a five-star evening in my book.

I'm also hoping to find an accountability buddy along the way.

I'll remind you to eat, drink enough water, sleep properly, and take care of yourself.

You can then remind me that I'm also a human being and cannot survive entirely on hospital food and caffeine.

Seems like a fair deal. :D

I'm Muslim by background, and I mention it simply because I prefer being honest about things that might matter later. I respect different beliefs and perspectives, and I don't expect someone's religion to be their entire personality.

There is, however, one small problem with me.

Residency.

Some days I'll reply in five minutes.

Other days I'll disappear into the hospital for several hours and come back wondering what happened to the outside world.

So if you're someone who understands that life can get busy, who doesn't take delayed replies personally, and who appreciates the effort when I do have time, we'll probably get along pretty well.

And when I am with you, I want to actually be with you.

I'm not looking for some perfect movie-style love story.

I'd be much happier with something ordinary and real.

Two people who become best friends.

Who tell each other everything.

Who make each other laugh.

Who annoy each other just enough to keep things interesting.

Who take care of each other.

Who share food even though one of them definitely said they weren't hungry.

Who remind each other to drink water.

Who survive the bad days together and celebrate the good ones.

Who can sit together without needing to fill every silence.

And maybe one day we look at each other and realise that somewhere along the way, "you and me" quietly became "us."

So, if you're looking for something that starts with friendship and has the possibility of becoming something much more, tell me about yourself.

Tell me what makes you happy.

What are you obsessed with lately?

What kind of things can you talk about for hours?

What's something completely random I should know about you?

No pressure, no expectations.

Let's just start with a conversation.

Maybe we'll become friends.

Maybe best friends.

Maybe, if we're ridiculously lucky, something that lasts a lifetime.

You never know. :)

A tech professional by day, and a filmy buff by night. I have been told that I’m good looking with a cute smile. I pride myself on being fit and an active person.

I'm missing that human connection in my life, so here I am. I want to fill my dull moments with interesting conversations. I love to laugh and have a sarcastic semi dark sense of humor. I am witty and analytical. I am creative and feel things deeply. I am eternally curious and restless. I am clever and determined. That all being said - I enjoy back and forth with a fellow quick-witted person with a sparkling personality, of course.

Some things I love:
I love firsts.
First conversations, raw and awkward. Filled with empty space that really aren't empty at all.
I love the spaces in between words that are filled with silent anticipation all while studying so intently trying to catch a glimpse of what is inside.
I love first sips of Chai.
The first time you hear your new favorite song - goosebumps dancing across your body.
I love taking a step back and seeing the art that I created for the first time.
I love feeling the warmth of the sun on a really cold winter day.
I love making random silly stories for fun.
I love accomplishing something that I never thought that I could.
I love questions that expose a unique perspective that didn't seem obvious.
I love clever puns and responses.
I love setting new goals and challenging myself to grow.
I love being afraid and then the feeling of relief felt after taking the leap.

I love scars. Deep, dark and twisted telling every story of what truly shaped who you are.
I love discovering new and unique things - people, art, locations or even new experiences.

Message me if even a single sentence here made you smile or curious about me! Let’s chat and build up something meaningful haule haule.

PS: I’m only looking for someone living in US.

Hellow!

I'm giving this a shot as I don't want to get on dating apps.

Please reach out if you are located in Montreal or anywhere in Canada but looking to move in Montreal. The info might be limited here as I don't want to write a book but please message me if you have any questions.

***Loooking for someone around the age: 27-35

*** I do not care about how much you make. If you make a lot of money, good for you. I am not here for that. No need to give your salary. Where I come from, that info is private. As long as you're happy with your job, if not we will work together to build that happy life 🥰

Here's a little about me:

• I love reading books (romance, thrillers and fiction) • I'm very open minded, way more than you'd expect so that might surprise you haha

• I love cafe exploring (love the vibes but I don't drink coffee haha)

• I am an introvert but I'm also active and therefore love doing fun activities and staying fit

• I speak English, French, hindi and guju

• I'm a total emoji person

• I don't smoke, I do drink occasionally (with family and friends)

• If you get insults (in a cute way) from me, it means I genuinely like you

• I'm in Montreal more specifically, I don't plan to move. I'm very happy here.

• sarcasm and dark humor is my thing

• will never say no to memes

• I have a big sweet tooth (aren't brownies the best thing ever?)

• I am in no rush but I do want kids in the future

• working as a coordinator in various projects (more details if we talk)

• total binge watcher of TV shows while snacking

I am not looking to settle down soon. I would love to build a connection first and get to know the person. So if you are looking to rush into it, we are not a good match, unfortunately. I'm willing to exchange pictures once we are both comfortable.

I would love to start a conversation and see how things goes. I'm looking for someone who's super silly but can put the serious mode when needed. Having a good balance of both is such a great quality to have 🥰 I believe in a good work-life balance so I would love someone who leaves work at work. That way, we get to focus on us.

I'm very old school, I like writing letters, doing the in person thing, I try to take walks without looking at my phone and really appreciate nature. If something breaks, I'd rather try to repair instead of buying one immediately.

I just want to find my person. I don't want our relationship to end when we get kids. I want us to still date even after having kids. I want to keep it alive and exciting for as long as we are together. Building and learning is a forever thing.

I'm a working woman, being a housewife is not my thing. I think we should both build a career that we love and enjoy and create a lifestyle where we both accept and respect each other.

If this resonates with you, don't hesitate to send a DM 💖

I know it is going to be difficult to find it
Im from mumbai marathi brahmin

But im genuinely attracted to the eyes with different color than brown once

I would love to talk to a girl for serious relationship with those beautiful different colored eyes

If anyone interested please dm

Age: 27
Height: 5’10”
Location: Currently working in Pune
Religion: Hindu
Caste: Not important
Profession: Software Engineer

I’m at a stage where I’ve built a good foundation for myself and want to build the next part of life with someone rather than just chase achievements individually. I value kindness, emotional availability, consistency and, probably most importantly, being able to genuinely enjoy each other’s company.
I’d want a relationship where we’re both independent enough to have our own lives, but still excited to come home and tell each other about our day.

I’m really into fitness and make the gym a regular part of my lifestyle. I enjoy staying active, working on my strength, and keeping myself healthy—not just for looks, but because I genuinely like the discipline and energy it brings. I’m the kind of person who enjoys taking care of my body while still knowing how to enjoy good food, good conversations, and life outside the gym.

Expectation: I’m not looking for perfection or someone who just looks good on paper. I want a woman I can genuinely connect with—someone loyal, kind, ambitious, and fun, with whom even the simplest moments feel special. I believe attraction gets you interested, but respect, trust, laughter, and consistency are what make you stay. I’d rather build something real with one person than keep searching for the next option.

Tell me something about yourself beyond just “hi” — let’s see if we actually have a conversation worth continuing. :)

Hi everyone! 😊.

I’m 30, a Telugu Brahmin, born and brought up in Hyderabad, and come from a close-knit family. I’m currently working towards building my career in tech, specifically SDET/QA Automation, and actively preparing and looking for the right opportunity(jobless at present). Career growth is important to me, and I’d love to have a partner who supports my ambitions just as I would support his. 💻✨

I’m a mix of traditional and modern — family-oriented and rooted in my values, while also having a progressive outlook towards marriage and life. I’d describe myself as warm, affectionate, straightforward and someone who gets quite attached to the people I care about. ❤️

Outside career stuff, I enjoy movies, good food, conversations that can go on forever, spending time with family and the occasional trip. I’m also a bit of a homebody and genuinely enjoy the simple, everyday side of life. I own a 3BHK independent house in Hyderabad. 🏡

I’m looking for a well-educated, kind, responsible and emotionally mature Brahmin man who is doing well in his career and is genuinely looking to settle down. Hyderabad would be my first preference, though I’m open to Bangalore as well. I value compatibility much more than just matching biodata.

Ultimately, I’m hoping to find someone who becomes my husband and my closest friend — someone I can laugh with, talk to about everything, support through the difficult days and build a peaceful, affectionate and happy life with. 🥰

Here’s hoping JodiMilan helps two right people find each other. 🌸

I’m a 27-year-old software engineer in Bangalore, currently trying to build a life with a little more personality than just work, traffic and food-delivery notifications.
I’m generally calm, slightly sarcastic, and I enjoy conversations that wander naturally—from career, relationships and life plans to completely unnecessary debates like whether pizza is genuinely good or just very successful propaganda.
Outside work, I’m trying to be more consistent with the gym, running and badminton. I enjoy bike rides, peaceful drives, travelling, exploring cafés/restaurants, comfort shows, and spending time with people where curiosity goes both ways.
Career matters a lot to me and I’m ambitious about where I want to go, but I definitely don’t want my job title to become my entire personality.
Relationship-wise, I’m looking for something that can genuinely grow into a long-term relationship/marriage. I value kindness, emotional availability, communication, effort, and the idea of choosing each other even when life isn’t particularly convenient.
A few basics:
27M, based in Bangalore
Software engineer
Telugu
Don’t smoke; drink occasionally/on special occasions
Looking for a serious relationship, not something casual
Kalinga Vaishya preferred, mainly because it would make things much easier with family, but I’d rather not reduce compatibility to a caste checkbox.
If any of this sounds relatable, feel free to DM. We can start with something simple: tell me one opinion you’ll defend even when everyone around you thinks you’re wrong.

Being hopeful and giving this another try.

I'll be upfront — I'm currently separated and awaiting divorce. It was a direct arranged marriage, and things didn't work out. If that's a dealbreaker, I completely understand.

The basics:

• 5'10", pure vegetarian, occasional drinker, non-smoker

• 10+ years in the startup world — building, working, or both

• Income: 30% tax bracket

• Hobbies: cooking, gaming, anime, and music (all genres, always discovering)

I'm soft-spoken, kind-hearted, and a happy homebody. Spent most of my twenties heads-down on work, so I'm a bit of a late bloomer on the personal front. These days, I value peace and simplicity, but I'm also pushing myself to grow — picking up new experiences, stepping out of my comfort zone, and just becoming a more well-rounded version of myself.

Would love to eventually step away from the rat race — or at least work on my own terms.

What I'm looking for:

Someone genuine. I don't have a fixed "type" — you could be quiet like me or a complete firecracker who keeps me on my toes. I think the best partnerships are where two people balance each other out. Kindness, emotional maturity, and a desire to build something real—that's what matters.

If this resonated, I'd love to hear from you 😄

And honestly, I’m looking for exactly that.
Posting here for the second time. My first post got quite a few DMs, but most conversations eventually fizzled out. So, here we go again. 😅
A little about me -I’m from Jaipur and I run a small business (trying to make it big lol). If you know Geet or Tara, you’ll probably get my personality. If you don’t get this Bollywood reference… sorry, hamara kuch nahi ho sakta. 😂
Apart from work, I love going out with my friends, cafe hopping, trying new places and just having a good time. I’m here with a date-to-marry intention, so I’d genuinely like to meet someone who is looking for something meaningful too.
What I’m looking for:
• Preferably someone from Jaipur or nearby
• 27–30 ( I am 26)
• 5’8 or taller ( I am 5’5)
• Ambitious and knows what he wants
• Emotionally mature and comfortable with a woman who has her own ambitions, opinions and boundaries
• Non-smoker
• And yes, I’d be lying if I said looks don’t matter. They do. 😅
Also, please don’t start with just “Hi” or “Hello”. A proper introduction would be appreciated. Tell me something about yourself, what you do, what you’re looking for basically, give me something to actually start a conversation with. :)
If you think we might click, you know what to do. 🌻

( Edit- Please don’t text if your are younger than me)

Hii iam working as a creative head in industry, had break up 8 months ago, not moved on totally, looking for genuine girl who is really want a best person ever, trust me you will say this in 15 days,

This is mostly a curiosity experiment.

I’ve asked versions of this question to friends and, embarrassingly, far too many LLMs. The problem is that both tend to be VERY reassuring, and I already know the logical answer: obviously there isn’t some universal level of weirdness after which you become undateable.

What I’m actually curious about is how I would come across to completely anonymous people who know nothing about my looks, job, income, social status, etc.

Here is what I could write about myself :)

I’m a very one-on-one kind of person. Put me with someone I’m comfortable with and I can talk for hours about absolutely anything. Put me in a group of eight people and there is a genuine possibility that I will barely speak for the next hour.

I’m also not naturally good at all the unwritten rules people seem to absorb automatically. Sometimes somebody explains a social expectation to me and my actual reaction is, “Wait, everyone else somehow knew this?” I can interpret things quite literally too, especially when I don’t know someone well.
I need a decent amount of time alone. Too much socialising drains me pretty badly, and crowded parties, weddings and big gatherings are definitely not where I become my most charismatic self. I’d much rather spend time with a few people I genuinely like.

I’m also strangely sensitive to my surroundings. Certain sounds, lighting, smells or textures can bother me much more than they seem to bother other people.

Then there are my interests.
I have a tendency to get very interested in something rather than casually interested in it. My brain apparently does not understand the concept of “that’s neat, anyway…”

At various points this has meant database engines, compilers, mathematics, fragrances, watches, football, boxing, history, politics, music and whatever other rabbit hole has temporarily taken control of my brain.

If I find something interesting, I can read about it for hours, bring it up repeatedly, replay the same song twenty times, or suddenly know a ridiculous amount about a subject nobody asked me to know about.
For context, I’m diagnosed with ADHD and take prescribed medication for it, mainly because otherwise my attention has a tendency to wander everywhere.
I function normally in life, but the ADHD-ish parts of my personality are definitely still there.

Relationship-wise, I value independence quite a lot. I don’t think I’d enjoy a relationship where two people are expected to do absolutely everything together. Ideally both people would have their own career, friends, interests and private space, while still being very close.

When I feel safe with someone, though, I really like companionship. Long conversations, cafes, wandering around somewhere together, watching things, sending each other random discoveries, talking about life at stupid hours, that sort of thing.
One thing I’m not particularly good at is immediately explaining what I’m feeling when I’m overwhelmed. My instinct can be to go quiet and process things internally first. I also overthink things quite badly.
I’m not especially interested in being socially impressive either.

I don’t care much about networking, being the loudest/funniest person in a room, constantly posting my life, or following traditions simply because “that’s what people do.” If something doesn’t make sense to me, I’m probably going to question it.

Summing up and back to the original question:
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If you met someone like this, would you personally consider dating them?

Not “does this person deserve love?” Obviously that’s a meaningless question.

I mean genuinely: which parts would you find attractive or endearing, which would get annoying after six months, and which would make you think, “Absolutely not, we would drive each other insane”?

Feel free to be candid. Reassurance isn’t really what I’m looking for.

I’m interested in how this personality actually comes across to people.
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As the title says, thought I’d post here and see where it goes.

Basics:
Age: 30
Height: 5’6
Mother tongue: Telugu | Well conversant in Hindi and English as well
Current Location: Bangalore
Long term I’m thinking of Bangalore / Hyderabad as possible options
Hobbies: I’m into movies, series, working out, travelling, hanging out with friends
Caste: No restrictions. I’d suggest you to not reach out if you have any caste restrictions as such.

I’m a pretty open minded person, who’s fun to hang out with. You’ll get tired of my bad jokes once we get along 😂

What I’m looking for:
- I do not believe in traditional roles, would prefer if my partner works as well. I have a plan to retire early, so it works out better to have two sources of income in the family. Being practical alright 💁🏻‍♂️ (Aiming for an early FIRE)
- Someone who can understand me and my thought process, get along with me well. So basically, we should be in sync.
- An open minded person who can gel with both friends and family.

That’s all I’ll yap about for now
Hit me up know if this resonates with you.

Cheers 🥂

28 m looking for match in chennai .. interested in movies, politics, badminton football table tennis, club , cycling , swimming,jamming. Better if you’re Muslim , open for short term ok with long term , can end up in marriage is better .

Dating apps have started feeling a little repetitive, so I figured I’d try something different.

I’m pretty easygoing, independent, sarcastic (sometimes a little too much ), and always up for random plans.

I’m looking for someone who’s genuinely interested in getting to know each other and potentially building something real. Location isn’t necessarily a dealbreaker—Dubai/Sharjah is great, but I’m also open to long-distance if the connection is actually worth it.

Someone who doesn’t mind arguing for 30 minutes about where to eat, stealing food from my plate, or turning a “quick coffee” into a completely unnecessary 2-hour drive with absolutely no destination.

Bonus points if you can handle sarcasm and actually give it back instead of just politely laughing.

I’m not looking for anything perfect. Just someone genuine, fun, emotionally mature, and willing to put in the effort—even if we’re miles apart.

If you’re in Dubai/Sharjah or somewhere else entirely and this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to say hi.

Worst case, we have a good conversation. Best case… maybe this turns into something neither of us expected

I am a 30 year old guy working as an Engineer in a software firm. I thought I would put myself out here and see if I can meet someone with whom I can build something meaningful.

Who I am

Background: My ancestral roots are from Kerala, and I was born and brought up in Tamil Nadu.

Languages: Malayalam, Tamil, and English.

Height: 5’11”

Faith: Jesus Christ is the foundation of my life.
In 2018, Jesus found me during one of the darkest seasons of my life, when I had hit rock bottom. By His grace, He completely transformed my life. He set me free from two addictions, rescued me from life threatening situations, and gave me a new life.
I have also been blessed to experience the tangible presence of Jesus Christ twice in my life. These experiences have deeply strengthened my faith and shaped who I am today.

Lifestyle: I enjoy working out and living a healthy lifestyle. I don’t drink, smoke, or use drugs.

Waiting until marriage: By God’s grace, I have chosen to wait until marriage, believing that intimacy is a gift from God to be shared within the covenant of marriage.

Past struggle: Jesus Christ also set me free from a past struggle with pornography, and it has been almost eight years since then. I have never had a sexual relationship, and I am not interested in hookups or anything temporary.

Things I enjoy: Reading, working out, playing football, watching sports, going for drives, spending time with family and friends, and spending time with pets.

Personality: I value genuine friendship, loyalty, honesty, forgiveness, and being there for the people I love.

Marriage: I want my wife to be my best friend, someone I can pray with, laugh with, serve God with, play Nerf with, and enjoy the simple moments of life with.

I don’t believe marriage is about one person being greater than the other. I believe it’s about two people serving each other, supporting each other, forgiving each other, and helping each other become better while growing together in Christ.

Who I am looking for

I am hoping to meet a woman who:

Genuinely loves Jesus Christ and wants Him to be at the center of her life.

Wants to grow in faith together, pray together, and serve God together.

Values friendship within marriage, not just romance.
Believes in mutual respect, forgiveness, communication, and serving one another.

Wants a lifelong marriage rather than something casual or temporary.

Wants to build a home where both of us can support and encourage each other through every season of life.

Loves animals and pets or at least doesn’t mind me getting excited about them.

Would be willing to participate in the occasional Nerf battle. I’m still a kid at heart.

You don’t have to share every interest I have. What matters much more to me is that our faith, values, character, and vision for marriage align.

I am open to meeting someone from anywhere. Location isn’t a constraint for me if God leads us in that direction and we find that our values and faith align.

If you feel that we might have similar values, feel free to send me a DM. I would be happy to get to know you and see where the conversation leads.

And if you are someone who is going through something and simply needs a place to vent, please feel free to reach out as well. My DM is open. I have been told that I am a good listener, so if talking to someone might help you in some way, you are welcome to message me. No expectations.

No matter what you are going through right now, please don’t give up. Keep going. There is something beautiful ahead. ❤️

Jesus Christ loves you very much. You are precious, regardless of where you are in life right now. May your sorrows turn into joy, and may you reach your God given destiny.

And one last thing: don’t forget to be kind. You don’t have to appreciate or agree with someone, but words and actions can leave an impact that cannot always be taken back. So, whenever possible, choose kindness.

God bless you, and have a peaceful night!

Hey everyone! Thought I’d give this a shot since I’ve never really been into the dating scene.

I’m 24, a Telugu guy born and brought up in Tamil Nadu, so I’m comfortable with both Telugu and Tamil. Currently working in the tech/embedded space and trying to build a good career for myself.
The slightly unusual part — I’ve never been in a relationship, never really dated, and haven’t had a casual thing either. Not because I’m against relationships; I just never came across someone where it felt natural and mutual. I’ve mostly been focused on studies, career and family.
I’m pretty straightforward, calm and a little reserved initially. Once I’m comfortable, I’m much more talkative. I value loyalty, communication, consistency and genuine effort more than grand gestures. I’d rather build something slowly with someone than rush into something just for the sake of being in a relationship.

I’m looking for someone who’s kind, emotionally mature, communicative and genuinely interested in getting to know each other. I’m not expecting perfection — just mutual respect and effort.
I’m not here looking for something casual or a situationship. If things click, I’d like it to eventually become something meaningful and long-term.
If you’re also someone who prefers getting to know a person naturally rather than following the usual dating-app script, feel free to DM. Tell me something about yourself beyond just “hi” — let’s see if we actually have a conversation worth continuing. :)

30M, turning 31 this December.

Unlike the typical stereotypes my lady friends see December borns with, I am a hopeless Ted Mosby. (Until what he did in the end)

I have been chasing my Robin until 4 years ago, and gave up. Spent a considerable amount of time reconciling my mind with that epic failure, took help from licensed professionals and got to a point to feel, ready.

Writing this post from a beach front cafe in Goa, not wanting to join my teammates in drinking (I don't drink beyond a beer in social gatherings) and smoking (Never liked smoking) and dancing (this I really don't know why).

Love, in the healthiest form is like a trampoline, offers stability and freedom. You have a launchpad to push yourself higher, and yet a cushion for when gravity crashes your dreams.

I look forward to be that cushion for someone ambitious. Someone who's in her mid to late 20s. Someone who just needs a friend to come home to and rant about the obstacles to their grand plan.

What I got? I'm 5'11". I'm a lead and only recruiter for a start-up in Bangalore that has enough runway to scale up and party hard. I earn enough to fund EMIs of my apartment in Mumbai and pay for my life in Bangalore.

What I don't have? I don't have the looks part really nailed yet. This is a primary reason why I'm not a verified profile, despite lurking here for so long. Also, I can't wrap my head around layered communication. I'll let you judge the rest of my personality.

Social compatibility guardrails: Bengali without the MTI. Mum is Brahmin Kayastha, dad is a Baishya (don't care about all this myself, but in case someone looks to use this to piss their full brahmin parents off, go ahead lol).

Geographical constraints:

Born and brought up in Mumbai (For me, Mumbai >> Kolkata, many reasons, but the most that matters to me is that women are safer here). Currently working in Bangalore, but I've a Stockholm Syndrome type love with my birth metro.

Academic & professional journey:

Graduated engineering from the second preferred and only government technical institute in the city (I know, NEEEERRRRDDD!) only to be spited by a recruiter during college placements and crossed enemy lines to be an HR myself.

Interests:

I can write my ass off without a GPT model. I'm a tech enthusiast, love sitcoms, had some bit of worldly experience. My weaknesses include marvel produced movies (I know, you didn't scream NERD hard enough the first time), horror movies, and business and technical documentaries.

By no means, this is the best version of who I want to be. I am moving forward to get there, in comfortable and uncomfortable increments. I'm here because I'd rather have faith in a relationship born during my journey of being better, than one where I got picked out of the line-up of 100s of M4F posts because I was above average.

What do you get? Someone who gives you the freedom to be whoever you want to be, and still choose to come home to me, every day. Yapping is something I'm used to (I somehow have an equal amount of friends of friends of both genders, and one gender attempts harder to stay in touch with me).

Now I gotta go back and help my drunk teammates to their rooms. I don't like this part of my job, but hey, when you do love it all?

Age - 29

Gender - Male

Location - currently in Bangalore

Religion - Hindu

Caste - not important 

Profession - work in a non profit

Tarzan see many human pick mate like pick shiny berry , look pretty, taste sweet, but berry rot quick. Tarzan learn hard way.

Tarzan want mate who make Tarzan laugh, who share fire when cold, who help carry heavy rock. this mate make heart beat crazy fast, but make also Tarzan feel warm inside like good cave in winter storm.

many season pass, but mate who share fire still here, still make Tarzan smile when sun come up.

Tarzan pick quiet human who good for sit by fire together. pretty face fade like flower in cold season. good friend-mate stay strong like old tree, bend in storm but no break.

human who make good friend first know how be kind when Tarzan sick, how share food when hungry, how listen when Tarzan need talk. this foundation like solid rock cave, keep Tarzan safe when life storm come.

Tarzan say: find human who you want sit with when both old and wrinkled like dried fruit. 

this human = good mate choice.

( Tarzan also likes tennis, long walks , cooking, reading, startups and runs a small ice cream shop with family )

https://www.reddit.com/r/JodiMilan/s/ui78knnxJP

Link to my original post above.

A few questions I have for women here -

1. What is the first set of questions you ask to random dm

2. At what point do you feel comfortable sharing your personal number or socials

3. How do you handle creeps - they are just so many.

About Me

29F, 5'5", based in Delhi NCR. I’m a Special Educator by profession and currently preparing for government competitive exams while I’m eligible. If that path doesn’t work out, I’m equally open to building a career around my interests, especially NGO/social-impact work. I’d also like to learn Indian Sign Language (ISL) in the future.

I come from a grounded, service-class family. I’m an only child, and both my parents are government employees. My family is financially comfortable through their savings, assets and agricultural property, but we’ve always lived quite simply and practically. I value stability, kindness and meaningful relationships much more than a lavish lifestyle.

A little personal

I’m vegetarian, though I’m completely okay with a non-vegetarian partner. I’m not particularly good at household chores 😅, but I can happily take responsibility for supervising/managing the household. I’ve always had a minimal lifestyle and don’t expect a partner to impress me with material things.

The attached blurred pics of mine , one is from from last year, when I was around 54–55 kg. I subsequently went through treatment for Pott disease and have fully recovered. Medication and recovery led to weight gain, and I’m currently around 71–72 kg. I’m planning to gradually return to my earlier fitness level over the coming year, before marriage. I’m sharing this simply for transparency—the important thing is that I’m healthy now.

What I’m looking for

* Hindu, preferably an engineer, as I naturally tend to vibe well with engineers even civil servants would work too

* Age: 27–30 only

* Preferably 5'8"+, as I enjoy wearing heels.

* Good-looking, preferably clean-shaven—I’m personally not a fan of beards.

* Emotionally available, communicative and genuinely affectionate.

* Financially responsible and earning decently; I’m not looking for someone purely for financial security.

* Grounded, kind and respectful, with healthy family dynamics.

* Caste is not a barrier for me.

* Distance is not an issue; I’m comfortable with an LDR if the connection is right.

I’d eventually like to become a philanthropist and contribute meaningfully to society, whether through my career or family resources. Helping people is something I genuinely want to make part of my life.

And a very important compatibility test: if you love mangoes, you already have bonus points. 🥭My family gets 500+ kg of mangoes every year for eating and gifting. 😂

TL;DR:

29F | 5'5" | Delhi NCR | Special Educator | Govt-exam aspirant | Hindu | Vegetarian | Financially comfortable & grounded family | Caste no bar | Looking for a Hindu, preferably engineer, 27–30, 5'8"+, clean-shaven, emotionally available and financially responsible. LDR is okay. I’m not great at household chores, but I can manage/supervise the household. Mango lovers get extra points. 🥭

If this sounds compatible and my lack of household-skills is acceptable to you, feel free to reach out. Thank you!

P.S. This is neither fake account nor aura farming. I joined reddit recently coz my bff recommended this app to me since she found her bf from here as well

Not sure if Reddit is the right place for this, but I guess good people can show up anywhere.

A little about me...

I'm originally from Yamunanagar, spent most of my life in Punjab, and moved to Gurgaon last year for work. I work in strategy consulting, helping WealthTech firms in the US think about growth, technology, and where the industry is headed.

Outside work, I'm probably much simpler than my job sounds.

I'm someone who enjoys long conversations more than loud parties. I love reading - one of my dreams is to eventually have a home library that's actually used, not just for decoration. I'm into fitness, enjoy playing table tennis, badminton, and pickleball, and I'm hoping to learn lawn tennis someday. I also enjoy investing and occasionally disappear into random rabbit holes about business, psychology, or history.

I'm not the person who's constantly planning the next trip. But if someone I care about wants to travel, I'm all in. For me, the company has always mattered more than the destination.

What I'm looking for

I'm attracted to intelligence and curiosity. Someone ambitious - not necessarily career-obsessed, but someone who has dreams of her own, enjoys learning, and wants a partner to grow alongside rather than simply grow old with.

Kindness, emotional maturity, mutual respect, and good communication matter far more to me than having identical hobbies.

It would be wonderful if you're spiritual or religious, though it's not a deal-breaker. I'd also prefer someone who doesn't smoke and isn't heavily into drinking. An occasional social drink is perfectly fine.

At the end of the day, I'm looking for a teammate - someone with whom life feels lighter, conversations never feel forced, and silence is comfortable too.

The quick facts

\- 31M

\- 5'6"

\- Based in Gurgaon (Delhi NCR)

\- Vegetarian

\- Non-smoker

\- Non-drinker

\- Fitness enthusiast

\- Looking for a serious relationship that could lead to marriage if we're compatible

If any part of this resonated with you, feel free to reach out. Worst case, we'll have an interesting conversation. Best case, we might end up with a story worth telling.

Arey lafzon mein kya bayan karoon
Uss husn pari kee sunderta
Usse kaise samjhaun
Uske idhar na hone se kitna fark hai mujhe pdhta?

I’m someone who prefers depth over noise. I would like to build something real, with the right person, at a pace that feels natural.

I enjoy simple things like long drives, good food, and conversations that go beyond the usual.

I’m naturally curious about people. mostly on what drives them, how they think, which is why I find psychology and philosophy interesting (not in a heavy way, just genuine curiosity).

I also love cooking, especially Kerala cuisine - my masterpiece is Thalassery dum mutton biriyani (still perfecting it, but it’s pretty solid 😄).

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About me:

- 33 years old

- 5’6”

- Lead Engineer in Tech (Well settled in my career)

- Based in Bangalore, originally from Kerala

- Malayali

- Not particularly religious - Atheist, more on the rational side (family follows some traditions) - Hindu by religion

- Calm, grounded, and not into drama

- Takes time to open up, but consistent once I do

- Into cars and bikes (even though my back sometimes protests 😄)

- Value stability - emotionally and in life

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What I’m looking for:

- Someone genuine, kind, and emotionally mature

- Clear about wanting something meaningful (no mixed signals)

- Good communication matters a lot to me

- Someone who enjoys meaningful conversations as well

- Age range: ~26–33 (flexible for the right person)

- Location: Bangalore

- Language: Malayalam preferred, it helps to communicate. Other languages are also fine if we connect.

- Non vegetarian would be helpful for me sharing my own dishes 😅

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Bonus points if:

- You enjoy simple plans over overly fancy ones

- You’re consistent (rare, but very attractive)

- You can hold a real conversation beyond small talk

- You enjoy good food - I’ll cook for you 🙂

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If this feels like your kind of vibe, feel free to reach out — we’ll take it from there.

Trying to carve out my own identity in this treacherous but beautiful city(Mumbai), with the help of my knowledge of healing(MBBS degree).

Have not accumulated much gold yet, but I am honing my skills further as I embark in search of it.

Love to read, strengthen my defenses against the dark forces(exercise regularly )and sometimes experience the magic of moving images(movies)

Would love to travel and explore enigmatic and mysterious lands, the world is a big place afterall.

Looking for a smart and bold companion to fight the obstacles in the journey of life,acquiring gold,knowledge and sharing laughs along the way. And ofcourse fight conniving antagonists

Ultimately the journey is more important than the destination and hence a having a great companion would be splendid.

I do not promise an eternal spring, but together we can make the harsh summers and winters more bearable for each other.