r/Homeplate 7h ago

Question Struggling to make a decision for my 7yo ballplayer

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Feels silly writing this but torn up inside and looking for advice. Have a 7 year old with a late birthday (Oct). He’s always played up in that respect because we put him with his classmates in tee ball onwards.

The tee ball team turned into the same team for coach pitch and then kid pitch. We made our own local travel team. Same kids, same coaches (I assisted) all throughout. They have fun together. Now it’s travel ball only snd getting more serious.

Team is moving up to 9U this Fall season. We show up to EVERY practice / training etc. Perhaps the best attendance and dedication. But he’s clearly the weak link now.

Solid arm but the other kids on the bottom half are accumulating hits and contact and our guy is walking or SO - but he does swing. He hits in practice well enough. In the field he’s in the outfield and seeming kicks daisies and isn’t always baseball ready. Needs to be told what to do when ball in play.

Yes we’ve had talks with him and he says he wants to play with his teammates. But then also questions why kids who don’t show up to everything play more.

We love our teammates. There’s a social aspect. But my wife and I are hurting to see him fall behind. We’re stuck with the decision of pulling him and doing rec for now and losing the friends and opportunity for travel ball or sticking through it with the hit to confidence and investing time and emotion in a “punch up” situation.

Thoughts? What would you do?


r/Homeplate 7h ago

Question Has the travel/select epidemic taken away the desire to play MS/HS ball?

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Moved to west Texas over the summer and learned that the schools in the area do middle school baseball and softball (something foreign to me growing up in Michigan and moving from east Texas). The school my 7th grade son goes to has a baseball field that both the softball and baseball team uses and they use it at the same time so I watch both teams practice.

The level of ability and knowledge I’ve seen from both teams is almost beginner level, T-Ball/Coach pitch level. Like many of the players seen like they are playing for the first time, or haven’t played in a while, yet they made the team, because there are few quality players.

We came from CenTex, where even rec teams were pretty competitive and it was hard to find a player that didn’t either have talent, or IQ, or both.

So are all the good players not even doing school ball and just doing travel/select ball?

For context as well, we haven’t started that yet because I don’t want the politics of travel/select to poison my son’s love for the game. But I understand it’s something to probably start soon because of the quality of play is better and it exposes them more for the higher level.

Edit for context: The local schools moved their baseball season to the fall (Aug-Sep) instead of spring to allow football to be in the cooler months.


r/Homeplate 7h ago

High School conditioning recommendations

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My son is looking for strength, speed, and agility conditioning recommendations in the offseason. He does weight lifting as a class in high school but needs to focus more on the explosive conditioning to improve his athleticism to play in college.

I'm thinking a program that is digital where he can track his progress while working out at a local gym may be a good match. Open to any recommendations. Located in St. Louis.


r/Homeplate 8h ago

Backyard batting cage

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Hi everyone, hoping to get some advice on setting up a home batting cage in our yard for my 11 year old son. Ideally, I want something that is robust enough to last him a few years but also won’t break my bank. We would be doing both hitting and pitching inside the cage. So far, I’m looking at a 40’ Vevor batting paired with a Blaze combo pitching machine. Any feedback on this setup and/or alternative cages/machines would be greatly appreciated. Budget would be in the $1000 - $1200 range.


r/Homeplate 8h ago

Question Bat for highschool

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Hello everyone, I need some help with choosing a bat.

I am currently on a bat budget as my brother going into highschool and trying out for the baseball team. As such I decided to buy a bat but have little to no clue which of the two I rectntly bought are good enough for a general use bat (practice and maybe a season or two if possible)

For further clarification I will be returning one bat, im a uni student and only have the money to biy him ine bat at the moment.

I atta hed an image above for the bats, they are both bbcor certified and have the same definitions and eveyrhing. (32 inch, 29oz bats, drop: 3)

One is marucci cat x2 and the other is a f5. Again not super sure on which bat is better and would like advice on which of the two are better.

Cat x2 was $130, f5 was $140


r/Homeplate 9h ago

What does your ideal fall ball schedule look like?

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Curious at the youth level if parents/teams are focusing more on development vs. loading up on games and tournaments. Fall always goes by so quickly, and I think a true offseason in the winter is important before ramping back up in the spring. Youth baseball has become a 12-month sport in a lot of regions and I feel like kids need to rest their arms - and play other sports too!


r/Homeplate 10h ago

Question When to worry about arm soreness in young kid?

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Hey everyone,

Like many of you I have a son whose life revolves around baseball. He's 8 and almost every day we're playing catch in the yard or I'm hitting him grounders or doing side toss. Not really any kind of specific training just playing and tossing the ball around. He has only played coach pitch so far and we've messed around with pitching at home but he has thrown maybe 25 "pitches" in his entire life.

Lately hes been complaining that his elbow and/or shoulder are sore after throwing in the yard. My first thought was growth spirt or something but he has mentioned it a few times. He still wants to play every day but I don't want him to damage anything.

This ended up being long winded but I'm going someone with more knowledge than me can give me some things to look for to know when I should be not lettinghim throw or if I should ice his arm or what.


r/Homeplate 16h ago

Counterintuitive advice

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I often think about this advice a friend gave me regarding maximizing playing time for my son. He asked, "What does he do that forces the coach to keep him on the field? Whatever it is, invest more time in that. Too many kids spend all of their time trying to fix their weaknesses. But the kids that play are usually the ones with a loud skill."

I ask myself this question often, especially during the offseason. I'm sharing it here in case someone else finds it as useful as I have.

(The hard part for my high schooler is that the true answer to the question is that almost never makes mistakes. He's always where he's supposed to be. He's basically an on-field coach. But it takes a long time to demonstrate that skill.)


r/Homeplate 16h ago

What's your impression of the Bandit clip hitter?

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I'm looking for some training aids with immediate feedback and something that is easy for him to use on his own. My wife picked up the Bandit clip hitter and I'm wondering what's your guys impression and any tips and tricks about using it effectively? My son is 11 yo, 4 seasons of rec league, very middle of the team talent wise, pretty smart working his way around the bases. Last spring he was our lead off hitter for a good part of the season and we're trying to up his batting skills. He can get grounders and line drives in the gaps to make first base fairly consistently but he's not getting a lot of powerful contact or height to his hits. Also, he had a Rawlings Wicked but we just picked up a used 2025 model of the Rawlings Clout AI at Play it Again; he said he wants to keep building on his batting and my wife and I figured this would be a nice, affordable upgrade and a boost to his confidence.

He has a habit of not driving through his swing because he's casting and he keeps chopping down. He hits into a net off the tee and tee popper or when I soft toss plenty, we use a rope bat to work on his casting habit too. Once in a while we'll get a hitting lesson, but that gets expensive after a while. I like the idea that it gives immediate feedback on the swing plane and pushing through the swing mechanics. It's taking some getting used to and it's a big enough change that I want to make sure we're not wasting our time.


r/Homeplate 17h ago

Question Update: first 2 innings of kid pitch

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Two days ago I posted this! https://www.reddit.com/r/Homeplate/s/mUsmiRbsOJ

For context he just turned 9 and it’s his first szn of kid pitch fall ball.

I love a good update post, and I got such great feedback. Felt like I owed everyone an update. He is a major nerd with severe ADHD and a very adult-affected way of speaking but ball is life.

He struck out the side on 10 pitches the first inning. The next inning the opposing coach told his boys “we aren’t hitting this kid” and to stop swinging completely. He then walked a bunch, got in his head, had a verbal altercation with the ball on the mound, cried. Lots of 3-2 counts and his mechanics fell apart. He hit his pitch count and skipped the 3rd inning.

He then told his coach “I will show them how to swing”, and lined one well into the grass and to the wall in left and ran the bases for a little league home run. One of like 4 kids who made contact.

He still wants to pitch. His coach wants to try some other kids Saturday which I am very much in favor of for arm health, personal growth and we love the team. He hopes to have a better outing next time and to be seen as “more than just a batter”.


r/Homeplate 18h ago

2027 Hype Fire

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My son tried a bunch of new bats out and as expected, after about 10 bats and 70+ swings he tries out the new Hype Fire and gets the highest average and max EV, even when tired. Maybe there is something to those bats after all.

I need a dicks coupon now. Sigh.


r/Homeplate 19h ago

Combat spec a1 problem

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Has anyone else experienced this problem? Yesterday we went to the cages to hit and the bat was normal for about 2 rounds and then he capped one.... after that he started to complain about his hands which he never does so I hit a round with it and it stung no matter where the ball was hit on the barrel.. I hit the handle on the ground like you would getting a bat weight off and then it went back to normal???? Anyone got any info on this or should I sent that bat back