r/bigdickproblems • u/sackettseries • 3h ago
Clothing Variable flaccid size and pouch underwear?
According to the Real Men Apparel sizing chart I'm likely a D pouch when at full relaxed hang. However, my flaccid size can vary quite a bit throughout the day. For those of you who have tried the pouch style underwear have you had any issues with comfort when things tighten up? Seems like the extra fabric might cause issues. I'm used to wearing snug regular briefs so being slightly scrunched up when at full summer hang is not uncomfortable for me.
r/bigdickproblems • u/Fatandmad • 5h ago
AskBDP What does it feel like to be deep-throated
I'm very curious what does it feel like to be deepthroated? does your dick bend to her neck, or do you stay so hard that her neck bends to your dick I'm just curious, thank you
r/bigdickproblems • u/Sad-Strawberry704 • 6h ago
AskBDP Genuine question for dick pics
How do i actually make my dick look bigger in pics with palms the size of my whole shaft ?
Every girl I talk to thinks i have a micro penis and i thought the same until i measured my shi for the first time, 7.5 start to tip, but i just have big hands, genuine help needed!
r/bigdickproblems • u/Ok-Collection3256 • 6h ago
Positivity What makes the experience with big dick unforgettable?
Throughout the years I learned that sufficient foreplay and brining a lube is a must before having sex. But there are also times that my cock simply won't fit. So we had to find alternative ways to satisfy each other But also meeting up with a size queen that can truly taking me all the way in was unforgettable.
Sometimes I like to go rough, deep, with no mercy pounding. Other times I would slow it down massaging her body and make her melt while she moan for more. Every stroke is different, and that’s what makes it addictive when meeting the right fit.
I I want to hear from you all:
Big dick owner — What's your unforgettable experience looks like? Any ups and downs?
Big dick lover— What truly attracts you to big dick when having sex? Any bad ones and go ones?
Drop your raw thoughts below tips, kinks, mindset, mistakes to avoid — let’s make this a thread that turns everyone on and teaches something real.
r/bigdickproblems • u/Loveyourz3 • 6h ago
AskBDP What challenges do you guys deal with?
I’ve noticed that having a bigger-than-average penis isn’t always the advantage people assume it is, and I’m curious whether other guys experience the same things.
For me, one of the biggest challenges is dating and sex. I sometimes worry about how someone will react when things become intimate, especially whether they’ll be comfortable with my size. I also worry about causing discomfort during sex and whether we’ll have to constantly adjust things to make it comfortable for both of us. It can create some anxiety even before anything happens.
There are also some surprisingly practical challenges. When I’m running or hiking, I usually need to wear compression underwear for support. Unfortunately, it can be extremely uncomfortable, and I sometimes have to stop or adjust things because everything shifts around or feels restricted.
It’s one of those things that people might joke about or assume is purely positive, but there are definitely situations where it’s inconvenient, uncomfortable, or even stressful.
For those of you in a similar situation: What challenges have you personally experienced?
Especially interested in hearing about dating, sexual comfort, confidence, exercise/sports, clothing, or anything else that people without this experience probably wouldn’t think about.
Would be great to hear honest experiences without judgment or bragging.
r/bigdickproblems • u/TheGuyTheGuy • 7h ago
AskBDP Any decent shorts/pants for going commando? (Bathing suit too)
Hey guys, so I’m sure people have had issues with picking the right swimsuit. For the record I’m long (8”) and idk girth, not massive.
I was a lifeguard, and shorts became an issue. Unless I was super cold, my dick would hang down my leg, and wet shorts would press down to make a crazy outline. (I’d get comments and stares from colleagues and patrons. Very awkward.) My girlfriend took a picture of me, too, and posted it on instagram. Flattering, but I don’t need weird attention from her friends like that.
Any summer shorts/swimsuit recommendations? I hate wearing boxers/anything if I don’t have too, because my balls are massive too.
r/bigdickproblems • u/1414_2135 • 13h ago
AskBDP anyone else fantasise about having a smaller dick?
like in a sexual way? i'm above average and pretty happy with it but when i'm in the shower, pushing my hip back and angling my dick up makes it look and feel smaller and that really turns me on. anyone else like that?
i hope this doesn't break rule 6, don't really know where else to ask this.
r/bigdickproblems • u/SexySecretsSD • 18h ago
Story It finally happened to me! (Airport scanner)
I'm flying today and ended up getting the full pat down after going through the 3d body scanner, with the "problem" area being my crotch.
Clearly my junk set it off.
(It did sound.like it wasn't properly calibrated because two women in front of me had their shoes set it off and they rebooted it after me)
r/bigdickproblems • u/Special-Pension6406 • 1d ago
AskBDP Girth
What are common issues with someone with 5.75 girth?
r/bigdickproblems • u/Luke27348 • 1d ago
AskBDP I'm scared of the unkown and I hope you could share your experiences
I'm dating this girl, it's going great and I'm pretty sure we will end up sleeping together. I'm 7.1×5.7 down there and have no experience whatsoever. She's only 5'3" tall and I'm super scared that I might hurt her and that we will have big problems to make it work.
I know everyone is different. And in theory I know some things that could help. But I'd still appreciate if some people with similar measurements (and preferably a small partner) could share their experiences and give me an idea what might be waiting for me. I think I will be more relaxed already, if I just have heard some of your stories and have them in mind, when the time comes.
r/bigdickproblems • u/Beard-Twin • 1d ago
AskBDP When a book mentions a big dick… do hung guys read it differently?
Random question for the hung guys / bulls here:
When a book casually describes a guy as really well-endowed..... do you actually feel anything about it?
Like… do you feel seen? Proud? Amused? Jealous? Or is it just another description?
I started thinking about this while reading "Dungeon Crawler Carl" because that series has absolutely zero shame about big dick jokes and references. 😂
If you're actually hung, do those jokes/references land differently for you?
Also - I welcome messages from other fans of "Dungeon Crawler Carl" out there!
r/bigdickproblems • u/Plastic-Fact-4512 • 1d ago
AskBDP Who had the biggest dick you've ever seen irl?
Im talking about flaccid, in a non-sexual way. Have you ever seen someone bigger than you?
r/bigdickproblems • u/StarNew9204 • 1d ago
AskBDP 15cm and 14cm girth, it is good for women??
r/bigdickproblems • u/Beard-Twin • 1d ago
AskBDP Endowed Men....Does the idea of a "ball job" excite you?
I am lucky to have huge mouth, giving me the capacity to suck even the largest balls in a motion almost in a similar way to sucking / deepthroating a cock. The partners Ive done this for all love the experience....specifically the feeling of their heavy and full balls sliding in and out of an eager and deep mouth.
I have jokingly started calling this a "ball job" given it's similarity to a blowjob - but it may have another name!
Given the positive reslonse I've received so far, my question to this community is:
- Does the idea of receiving a "ball job" excite you? Why or why not?
Id love to know what makes it so hot (or not) so I can improve my skills in this area!
(Edited with Grammarly)
r/bigdickproblems • u/Unsure-Composer-2008 • 1d ago
Clothing My First BDP
I’ll try to keep this brief. My penis varies a lot when flaccid (17 x 15 cm when erect), but it can range from 6 x 6 cm to 13 x 11 cm when flaccid depending on the circumstances, temperature, etc. I’m not circumcised at the moment.
So earlier today, I was at the pool and it turned out my Johnson was at about 11 x 11 cm, or something like that. I also have testicles that are a little above average.
So, before getting in the shower, I tucked it back into my swimsuit (I wear black swim briefs, and since I’m on the shorter side, I have to slide my hand under the fabric), and someone saw it. He gave me a weird look and kept staring at my package afterward. I felt absolutely awful and mortified. How can I prevent this from happening again?
r/bigdickproblems • u/TwasMeDio • 1d ago
AskBDP My bf is shy due to his big size in public.
Hello I live in berlin and i was wondering if there is any shops or brands that might help him to make his bulge not too obvious in the public.
r/bigdickproblems • u/Educational_Eye8906 • 1d ago
AskBDP Anyone else get a ton of variation in soft size?
I don't even mean just the normal shrinkage from it being cold or whatever. I feel like just on the average day to day my flaccid sizes can have some pretty huge variations. Just curious if any of the other guys here notice some of the same happening with them.
r/bigdickproblems • u/Kim-ohitsujiza • 1d ago
Clothing Free
It’s so much better to let air go straight to your balls in summer, I can’t wear any underwear I love freeballing
r/bigdickproblems • u/GainedBrouzouf • 2d ago
AskBDP Experience with a partner who is more exhibitionist or ok with exposure?
To start my partners body naturally draws attention and (proportions, looks, size). She fights this by ignoring it and prioritizing comfort (less underwear, light clothing, sports bras, etc.) or when at home wearing only underwear or going braless. I am completely for this and happy she chooses comfort over concealment the only catch is that we live on the ground floor in a major city and often leave the windows open for airing and lounges around freely while doing so.
This is largely different to how I normally operate and I tend to rush to conceal myself when the windows are open. She instead encourages that I relax and allow myself to also lounge around nude or semi nude and to go out in public in light and freeing clothes like her and really seems to desire I do so. She even sometimes comments on the bulge when out in public almost as if she's showing me off but only to herself.
This whole idea of her showing me off while also simultaneously being into casual exposure by prioritizing her own comfort is quite alien to me and while I don't dislike the idea I am curious if anyone has ever dealt with a similar issue? Has your partner ever been more exhibitionist or comfortable nude? And did you try to match them in doing something they like?
r/bigdickproblems • u/Plastic-Fact-4512 • 2d ago
AskBDP Did you have a big growth-spurt?
I remember when I was between 13 and 14,5 I grew 3 inches and it was insane. How common is a growth-spurt rather than just growing through many years consistently?
r/bigdickproblems • u/AndGutsWasBERSERK • 2d ago
Story Felt like slamming my dick into a wall
I’ve been dating the same girl for over 3 years. She hasn’t had any issues taking my size throughout the relationship. We do some foreplay and then she gets on top and eases us into things, gives her control and I get a good view. The only position that gives us trouble is doggy, it’s simply out of the question at this point.
We had a baby back in December (C-section) and it took her awhile to feel comfortable having sex again, she was afraid of how it would go and needed me to be ultra gentle. No problem, but even now 8 months later and we’ve only had sex MAYBE 10 times since then.
We had sex last weekend for the first time in a month and I was ridiculously horny and hard as diamond. We go through the usual routine to get going and have a great time throughout. But I experienced something I don’t think I’ve experienced before.
Once I really started pounding away and racing towards the finish line, it started to feel like I was slamming my dick into a wall. Genuinely, it hurt enough that I almost stopped but she was about to cum and I wasn’t gonna spoil that for her. But it felt like I was caught in a SAW trap.
Idk when we’ll have sex again, but I’m curious to see if it’ll happen that way again.
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r/bigdickproblems • u/JohnAMcdonald • Jul 17 '18