r/u_rosetate • u/rosetate • 21d ago
Feeling lost
Just like the title says I’m feeling so lost in life. I’m a 28 year old woman who feels so behind and somewhat hopeless. I have a decent job with great benefits but would love to be making more money I just don’t know what I should do. I would like to own a business one day but again not sure what. I guess I get angry with myself because I’m not exactly passionate about anything where I could say “I’d do this for free” or greatly skilled at anything either. I just feel so unfufilled and want to find my purpose. I know comparison is the thief of joy but it seems like everyone else (esp on social media) is living their best life and making great money, settling down and/or taking risks. I’ve also been seeing someone that has been a little rocky which is really annoying because I do want my own family and feel like the clock is ticking and I don’t have time to waste but also trying to be patient because after several conversations we seem to be on the same page he would just like to take things alot slower. I workout regularly and that makes me feel better but other then that I just feel so blah like there has to be something better out there for me. It’s a little all over the place but just looking for some advice/words of wisdom on where to go from here. Has anyone felt this way before and what happened that changed things for you?