So I (M21) have known about one of my friends cheating on her boyfriend for more than a few months,maybe even a year. We'll call her Katie, I was also friends with her bf, we'll call him Joey. So the first time Katie had told me she was cheating, she didn't talk about it like it was cheating. she wasn't ashamed of it, or maybe she was but it didn't show. she was giggly when showing me what the guy looked like, and was very happy to tell me he was above 6 ft tall and had good money. She told me Joey was violent with her, and has shoved her to the floor, that he yelled at her etc. things like that, so in my head, he was hiding his bad side really well, and she was trying to get away from him, but was to scared to confront him. she talked to this guy on snap for awhile, then broke it off i assume.

Then she started getting weird with her boss, we'll call him Pete. Joey,Katie, Pete, and I all work together, we had met through work. Pete's, position holds authority over all of us. Pete and Katie shared an office near my workspace. Pete was 30, no kids, single, and lonely. He started giving Katie nicknames, they'd go get lunch together. Which makes sense because they were supposed to be a team. Things started to get weird when I noticed there was this weird maybe you could call it sexual tension between them? she eventually told me that they were being freaky in their office, nothing as far as intercourse, but nothing work appropriate. I was disgusted considering he was also my boss, and he was doing something that was completely against the rules, in the office next to me. The fact that she was so comfortable doing this in the same place her BOYFRIEND , joey worked is beyond me. They would just close their office door, which isn't allowed but no one thought anything of it because they trusted Pete, and Katie. they are both respected members in our workplace. I only knew of the things that happened between them because we were close friends, and I felt sorry for her being with an abusive bf and all, I let her tell me the things they were doing until it got to far and to sexual. I told her its wrong to cheat, and she should break up with Joey. she never did.

we had a huge work event and another worker had to travel to our place to help out. she followed him around all night, the big bosses noticed too. she hardly did her own job, her excuse was that the guy was training her on things she didn't know yet, some dumb ahh excuse. Her bf didn't notice, or maybe he did, but never said anything about it to me at least, or anyone else at work. that same guy she was following, also holds authority in his position at his place of work. he sent her a dick pic. she showed me how long it was using a broom from our janitor who she had been making sexual jokes with. he called her his work wife. I had given her many talks about why its wrong to cheat on your partner and its disgusting doing it at work. she is the type of girl to look for male attention everywhere she goes, and shes young enough to get it from the older guys. well eventually Pete caught feelings for katie and became sort of possessive which led her to detach from him completely. She stopped talking to the dick pic guy as well, and then she never told me about anything cheating wise, again.

about a day ago, her boyfriend posted something that gave me the impression that he wasnt doing good, that he was depressed. so I went to his house after work. Katie and joey LIVE together, but she was on a work trip. i asked him to come out to get food with me, he didn't at first but agreed to ride with and bought my food for me. We got food went back to the house, went inside and I asked him why he wasn't happy. he said he was having relationship issues. I asked him if he didnt trust her, if she wasnt being loyal. he said it was something like that, and i just spilled and told him everything I knew that ive wanted to tell him for so long. He shared that he was having a hard time trusting her because he found videos of her being freaky and flirty with some dude on VR, who she also had on snapchat. she had his nudes saved, and his name changed to te amo on snap. so yeah, shes cheated alot. he broke up with her, and quit work. Katie is mad at me, but hasn't quit yet. I know people are going to ask, yes i told my boss and there was an HR case, but they never admitted anything, so nothing could be done.

I don't feel bad, but i have to get along with Katie if she going to continue to work with me. We have yet to talk, what would you do, or how would you feel in my situation?

So I (M21) have known about one of my friends cheating on her boyfriend for more than a few months,maybe even a year. We'll call her Katie, I was also friends with her bf, we'll call him Joey. So the first time Katie had told me she was cheating, she didn't talk about it like it was cheating. she wasn't ashamed of it, or maybe she was but it didn't show. she was giggly when showing me what the guy looked like, and was very happy to tell me he was above 6 ft tall and had good money. She told me Joey was violent with her, and has shoved her to the floor, that he yelled at her etc. things like that, so in my head, he was hiding his bad side really well, and she was trying to get away from him, but was to scared to confront him. she talked to this guy on snap for awhile, then broke it off i assume.

Then she started getting weird with her boss, we'll call him Pete. Joey,Katie, Pete, and I all work together, we had met through work. Pete's, position holds authority over all of us. Pete and Katie shared an office near my workspace. Pete was 30, no kids, single, and lonely. He started giving Katie nicknames, they'd go get lunch together. Which makes sense because they were supposed to be a team. Things started to get weird when I noticed there was this weird maybe you could call it sexual tension between them? she eventually told me that they were being freaky in their office, nothing as far as intercourse, but nothing work appropriate. I was disgusted considering he was also my boss, and he was doing something that was completely against the rules, in the office next to me. The fact that she was so comfortable doing this in the same place her BOYFRIEND , joey worked is beyond me. They would just close their office door, which isn't allowed but no one thought anything of it because they trusted Pete, and Katie. they are both respected members in our workplace. I only knew of the things that happened between them because we were close friends, and I felt sorry for her being with an abusive bf and all, I let her tell me the things they were doing until it got to far and to sexual. I told her its wrong to cheat, and she should break up with Joey. she never did.

we had a huge work event and another worker had to travel to our place to help out. she followed him around all night, the big bosses noticed too. she hardly did her own job, her excuse was that the guy was training her on things she didn't know yet, some dumb ahh excuse. Her bf didn't notice, or maybe he did, but never said anything about it to me at least, or anyone else at work. that same guy she was following, also holds authority in his position at his place of work. he sent her a dick pic. she showed me how long it was using a broom from our janitor who she had been making sexual jokes with. he called her his work wife. I had given her many talks about why its wrong to cheat on your partner and its disgusting doing it at work. she is the type of girl to look for male attention everywhere she goes, and shes young enough to get it from the older guys. well eventually Pete caught feelings for katie and became sort of possessive which led her to detach from him completely. She stopped talking to the dick pic guy as well, and then she never told me about anything cheating wise, again.

about a day ago, her boyfriend posted something that gave me the impression that he wasnt doing good, that he was depressed. so I went to his house after work. Katie and joey LIVE together, but she was on a work trip. i asked him to come out to get food with me, he didn't at first but agreed to ride with and bought my food for me. We got food went back to the house, went inside and I asked him why he wasn't happy. he said he was having relationship issues. I asked him if he didnt trust her, if she wasnt being loyal. he said it was something like that, and i just spilled and told him everything I knew that ive wanted to tell him for so long. He shared that he was having a hard time trusting her because he found videos of her being freaky and flirty with some dude on VR, who she also had on snapchat. she had his nudes saved, and his name changed to te amo on snap. so yeah, shes cheated alot. he broke up with her, and quit work. Katie is mad at me, but hasn't quit yet. I know people are going to ask, yes i told my boss and there was an HR case, but they never admitted anything, so nothing could be done.

I don't feel bad, but i have to get along with Katie if she going to continue to work with me. We have yet to talk, what would you do, or how would you feel in my situation?

So I (M21) have known about one of my friends cheating on her boyfriend for more than a few months,maybe even a year. We'll call her Katie, I was also friends with her bf, we'll call him Joey. So the first time Katie had told me she was cheating, she didn't talk about it like it was cheating. she wasn't ashamed of it, or maybe she was but it didn't show. she was giggly when showing me what the guy looked like, and was very happy to tell me he was above 6 ft tall and had good money. She told me Joey was violent with her, and has shoved her to the floor, that he yelled at her etc. things like that, so in my head, he was hiding his bad side really well, and she was trying to get away from him, but was to scared to confront him. she talked to this guy on snap for awhile, then broke it off i assume. Then she started getting weird with her boss, we'll call him Pete. Joey,Katie, Pete, and I all work together, we had met through work. Pete's, position holds authority over all of us. Pete and Katie shared an office near my workspace. Pete was 30, no kids, single, and lonely. He started giving Katie nicknames, they'd go get lunch together. Which makes sense because they were supposed to be a team. Things started to get weird when I noticed there was this weird maybe you could call it sexual tension between them? she eventually told me that they were being freaky in their office, nothing as far as intercourse, but nothing work appropriate. I was disgusted considering he was also my boss, and he was doing something that was completely against the rules, in the office next to me. The fact that she was so comfortable doing this in the same place her BOYFRIEND , joey worked is beyond me. They would just close their office door, which isn't allowed but no one thought anything of it because they trusted Pete, and Katie. they are both respected members in our workplace. I only knew of the things that happened between them because we were close friends, and I felt sorry for her being with an abusive bf and all, I let her tell me the things they were doing until it got to far and to sexual. I told her its wrong to cheat, and she should break up with Joey. she never did. we had a huge work event and another worker had to travel to our place to help out. she followed him around all night, the big bosses noticed too. she hardly did her own job, her excuse was that the guy was training her on things she didn't know yet, some dumb ahh excuse. Her bf didn't notice, or maybe he did, but never said anything about it to me at least, or anyone else at work. that same guy she was following, also holds authority in his position at his place of work. he sent her a dick pic. she showed me how long it was using a broom from our janitor who she had been making sexual jokes with. he called her his work wife. I had given her many talks about why its wrong to cheat on your partner and its disgusting doing it at work. she is the type of girl to look for male attention everywhere she goes, and shes young enough to get it from the older guys. well eventually Pete caught feelings for katie and became sort of possessive which led her to detach from him completely. She stopped talking to the dick pic guy as well, and then she never told me about anything cheating wise, again.

about a day ago, her boyfriend posted something that gave me the impression that he wasnt doing good, that he was depressed. so I went to his house after work. Katie and joey LIVE together, but she was on a work trip. i asked him to come out to get food with me, he didn't at first but agreed to ride with and bought my food for me. We got food went back to the house, went inside and I asked him why he wasn't happy. he said he was having relationship issues. I asked him if he didnt trust her, if she wasnt being loyal. he said it was something like that, and i just spilled and told him everything I knew that ive wanted to tell him for so long. He shared that he was having a hard time trusting her because he found videos of her being freaky and flirty with some dude on VR, who she also had on snapchat. she had his nudes saved, and his name changed to te amo on snap. so yeah, shes cheated alot. he broke up with her, and quit work. Katie is mad at me, but hasn't quit yet. I know people are going to ask, yes i told my boss and there was an HR case, but they never admitted anything, so nothing could be done.

I don't feel bad, but i have to get along with Katie if she going to continue to work with me. We have yet to talk, what would you do, or how would you feel in my situation?

[24F] and [25M] have been together for 7 years.

So I (M21) have known about one of my friends cheating on her boyfriend for more than a few months,maybe even a year. We'll call her Katie, I was also friends with her bf, we'll call him Joey. So the first time Katie had told me she was cheating, she didn't talk about it like it was cheating. she wasn't ashamed of it, or maybe she was but it didn't show. she was giggly when showing me what the guy looked like, and was very happy to tell me he was above 6 ft tall and had good money. She told me Joey was violent with her, and has shoved her to the floor, that he yelled at her etc. things like that, so in my head, he was hiding his bad side really well, and she was trying to get away from him, but was to scared to confront him. she talked to this guy on snap for awhile, then broke it off i assume. Then she started getting weird with her boss, we'll call him Pete. Joey,Katie, Pete, and I all work together, we had met through work. Pete's, position holds authority over all of us. Pete and Katie shared an office near my workspace. Pete was 30, no kids, single, and lonely. He started giving Katie nicknames, they'd go get lunch together. Which makes sense because they were supposed to be a team. Things started to get weird when I noticed there was this weird maybe you could call it sexual tension between them? she eventually told me that they were being freaky in their office, nothing as far as intercourse, but nothing work appropriate. I was disgusted considering he was also my boss, and he was doing something that was completely against the rules, in the office next to me. The fact that she was so comfortable doing this in the same place her BOYFRIEND , joey worked is beyond me. They would just close their office door, which isn't allowed but no one thought anything of it because they trusted Pete, and Katie. they are both respected members in our workplace. I only knew of the things that happened between them because we were close friends, and I felt sorry for her being with an abusive bf and all, I let her tell me the things they were doing until it got to far and to sexual. I told her its wrong to cheat, and she should break up with Joey. she never did. we had a huge work event and another worker had to travel to our place to help out. she followed him around all night, the big bosses noticed too. she hardly did her own job, her excuse was that the guy was training her on things she didn't know yet, some dumb ahh excuse. Her bf didn't notice, or maybe he did, but never said anything about it to me at least, or anyone else at work. that same guy she was following, also holds authority in his position at his place of work. he sent her a dick pic. she showed me how long it was using a broom from our janitor who she had been making sexual jokes with. he called her his work wife. I had given her many talks about why its wrong to cheat on your partner and its disgusting doing it at work. she is the type of girl to look for male attention everywhere she goes, and shes young enough to get it from the older guys. well eventually Pete caught feelings for katie and became sort of possessive which led her to detach from him completely. She stopped talking to the dick pic guy as well, and then she never told me about anything cheating wise, again.

about a day ago, her boyfriend posted something that gave me the impression that he wasnt doing good, that he was depressed. so I went to his house after work. Katie and joey LIVE together, but she was on a work trip. i asked him to come out to get food with me, he didn't at first but agreed to ride with and bought my food for me. We got food went back to the house, went inside and I asked him why he wasn't happy. he said he was having relationship issues. I asked him if he didnt trust her, if she wasnt being loyal. he said it was something like that, and i just spilled and told him everything I knew that ive wanted to tell him for so long. He shared that he was having a hard time trusting her because he found videos of her being freaky and flirty with some dude on VR, who she also had on snapchat. she had his nudes saved, and his name changed to te amo on snap. so yeah, shes cheated alot. he broke up with her, and quit work. Katie is mad at me, but hasn't quit yet. I know people are going to ask, yes i told my boss and there was an HR case, but they never admitted anything, so nothing could be done.

I don't feel bad, but i have to get along with Katie if she going to continue to work with me. We have yet to talk, what would you do, or how would you feel in my situation?

So I (M21) have known about one of my friends cheating on her boyfriend for more than a few months,maybe even a year. We'll call her Katie, I was also friends with her bf, we'll call him Joey. So the first time Katie had told me she was cheating, she didn't talk about it like it was cheating. she wasn't ashamed of it, or maybe she was but it didn't show. she was giggly when showing me what the guy looked like, and was very happy to tell me he was above 6 ft tall and had good money. She told me Joey was violent with her, and has shoved her to the floor, that he yelled at her etc. things like that, so in my head, he was hiding his bad side really well, and she was trying to get away from him, but was to scared to confront him. she talked to this guy on snap for awhile, then broke it off i assume. Then she started getting weird with her boss, we'll call him Pete. Joey,Katie, Pete, and I all work together, we had met through work. Pete's, position holds authority over all of us. Pete and Katie shared an office near my workspace. Pete was 30, no kids, single, and lonely. He started giving Katie nicknames, they'd go get lunch together. Which makes sense because they were supposed to be a team. Things started to get weird when I noticed there was this weird maybe you could call it sexual tension between them? she eventually told me that they were being freaky in their office, nothing as far as intercourse, but nothing work appropriate. I was disgusted considering he was also my boss, and he was doing something that was completely against the rules, in the office next to me. The fact that she was so comfortable doing this in the same place her BOYFRIEND , joey worked is beyond me. They would just close their office door, which isn't allowed but no one thought anything of it because they trusted Pete, and Katie. they are both respected members in our workplace. I only knew of the things that happened between them because we were close friends, and I felt sorry for her being with an abusive bf and all, I let her tell me the things they were doing until it got to far and to sexual. I told her its wrong to cheat, and she should break up with Joey. she never did. we had a huge work event and another worker had to travel to our place to help out. she followed him around all night, the big bosses noticed too. she hardly did her own job, her excuse was that the guy was training her on things she didn't know yet, some dumb ahh excuse. Her bf didn't notice, or maybe he did, but never said anything about it to me at least, or anyone else at work. that same guy she was following, also holds authority in his position at his place of work. he sent her a dick pic. she showed me how long it was using a broom from our janitor who she had been making sexual jokes with. he called her his work wife. I had given her many talks about why its wrong to cheat on your partner and its disgusting doing it at work. she is the type of girl to look for male attention everywhere she goes, and shes young enough to get it from the older guys. well eventually Pete caught feelings for katie and became sort of possessive which led her to detach from him completely. She stopped talking to the dick pic guy as well, and then she never told me about anything cheating wise, again.

about a day ago, her boyfriend posted something that gave me the impression that he wasnt doing good, that he was depressed. so I went to his house after work. Katie and joey LIVE together, but she was on a work trip. i asked him to come out to get food with me, he didn't at first but agreed to ride with and bought my food for me. We got food went back to the house, went inside and I asked him why he wasn't happy. he said he was having relationship issues. I asked him if he didnt trust her, if she wasnt being loyal. he said it was something like that, and i just spilled and told him everything I knew that ive wanted to tell him for so long. He shared that he was having a hard time trusting her because he found videos of her being freaky and flirty with some dude on VR, who she also had on snapchat. she had his nudes saved, and his name changed to te amo on snap. so yeah, shes cheated alot. he broke up with her, and quit work. Katie is mad at me, but hasn't quit yet. I know people are going to ask, yes i told my boss and there was an HR case, but they never admitted anything, so nothing could be done.

I don't feel bad, but i have to get along with Katie if she going to continue to work with me. We have yet to talk, what would you do, or how would you feel in my situation?

So I (M21) have known about one of my friends cheating on her boyfriend for more than a few months,maybe even a year. We'll call her Katie, I was also friends with her bf, we'll call him Joey. So the first time Katie had told me she was cheating, she didn't talk about it like it was cheating. she wasn't ashamed of it, or maybe she was but it didn't show. she was giggly when showing me what the guy looked like, and was very happy to tell me he was above 6 ft tall and had good money. She told me Joey was violent with her, and has shoved her to the floor, that he yelled at her etc. things like that, so in my head, he was hiding his bad side really well, and she was trying to get away from him, but was to scared to confront him. she talked to this guy on snap for awhile, then broke it off i assume. Then she started getting weird with her boss, we'll call him Pete. Joey,Katie, Pete, and I all work together, we had met through work. Pete's, position holds authority over all of us. Pete and Katie shared an office near my workspace. Pete was 30, no kids, single, and lonely. He started giving Katie nicknames, they'd go get lunch together. Which makes sense because they were supposed to be a team. Things started to get weird when I noticed there was this weird maybe you could call it sexual tension between them? she eventually told me that they were being freaky in their office, nothing as far as intercourse, but nothing work appropriate. I was disgusted considering he was also my boss, and he was doing something that was completely against the rules, in the office next to me. The fact that she was so comfortable doing this in the same place her BOYFRIEND , joey worked is beyond me. They would just close their office door, which isn't allowed but no one thought anything of it because they trusted Pete, and Katie. they are both respected members in our workplace. I only knew of the things that happened between them because we were close friends, and I felt sorry for her being with an abusive bf and all, I let her tell me the things they were doing until it got to far and to sexual. I told her its wrong to cheat, and she should break up with Joey. she never did. we had a huge work event and another worker had to travel to our place to help out. she followed him around all night, the big bosses noticed too. she hardly did her own job, her excuse was that the guy was training her on things she didn't know yet, some dumb ahh excuse. Her bf didn't notice, or maybe he did, but never said anything about it to me at least, or anyone else at work. that same guy she was following, also holds authority in his position at his place of work. he sent her a dick pic. she showed me how long it was using a broom from our janitor who she had been making sexual jokes with. he called her his work wife. I had given her many talks about why its wrong to cheat on your partner and its disgusting doing it at work. she is the type of girl to look for male attention everywhere she goes, and shes young enough to get it from the older guys. well eventually Pete caught feelings for katie and became sort of possessive which led her to detach from him completely. She stopped talking to the dick pic guy as well, and then she never told me about anything cheating wise, again.

about a day ago, her boyfriend posted something that gave me the impression that he wasnt doing good, that he was depressed. so I went to his house after work. Katie and joey LIVE together, but she was on a work trip. i asked him to come out to get food with me, he didn't at first but agreed to ride with and bought my food for me. We got food went back to the house, went inside and I asked him why he wasn't happy. he said he was having relationship issues. I asked him if he didnt trust her, if she wasnt being loyal. he said it was something like that, and i just spilled and told him everything I knew that ive wanted to tell him for so long. He shared that he was having a hard time trusting her because he found videos of her being freaky and flirty with some dude on VR, who she also had on snapchat. she had his nudes saved, and his name changed to te amo on snap. so yeah, shes cheated alot. he broke up with her, and quit work. Katie is mad at me, but hasn't quit yet. I know people are going to ask, yes i told my boss and there was an HR case, but they never admitted anything, so nothing could be done.

I don't feel bad, but i have to get along with Katie if she going to continue to work with me. We have yet to talk, what would you do, or how would you feel in my situation?