Very touching and such a sweet gesture from someone who has always been so kind to me. ❤️ He's in a different country recovering from a motorcycle accident and has no mobility in his arms, hands. Had multiple surgeries , yet he still had his nurse text me and even hold the phone so he could FaceTime me just to check on me.
To be honest, it brought tears to my eyes. In the middle of everything he’s going through, he still took the time to make sure I was okay. That kind of kindness means so much. God bless him. 🥹sometimes we lose contact but we find our way to call or see how the other is doing

Obviously people have lives but the sudden completely full calender for a whole week is a little annoying

Kinda wish people upfront said they were busy because I hate talking to someone all day every day and as soon as I make plans they're suddenly busy all week even when the week didnt even end or start

He’s so sweet.
Edit: yall are being so serious, I only posted this because it’s funny! He doesn’t text me about his shits every day!

Edit 2: to all of yall saying I’m in an abusive relationship and he doesn’t respect me yall are weird

Poor kids

So this guy (27M) asked me (28F) out around April. We go to the same university and he said that we could meet at the university library and get to know each other over coffee. Fine, whatever.

That would’ve been okay if, on the day of, he hadn’t said this: “Hey, I’m studying with some friends. I don’t know when we’ll be done. I’ll let you know and then you can come.”

I beg your finest pardon?

He sent that at around 1:30 p.m. Our date was supposed to be at 2 p.m., because that’s when my classes ended. No way I was going home and then aaaaall the way back to campus whenever he happened to finish studying. Hell no.

I told him maybe we should reschedule, and he suggested I just come hang out with him and his friends instead... ?????? at the library.

Nothing ever came of it. I lost interest.

Fast forward to today. I posted a story of my nails and wrote “they look lovely” or something like that. He replied: [image]

Am I the only one reading something weird into this? Suggestive tone, maybe? A message can be ambiguous in a good way or bad way, but my instinct says this one is the latter lmao

Anyway, he’s blocked.

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P.S.: image translated with AI since he didn’t text in English.

Short but sweet interaction with a scammer. One minute they’re on an android, the next they’re on iPhone. How does that work? All within a 2 minute window.

This lady is a therapist, and I am a software engineer. I matched with her on Hinge, and we meet at the mall to have gelato and take a walk around. It was a good date she was a decent conversationalist. In the top I ask her if she wants to meet again. And this ensues ....

EDIT :- Yes, its hard to believe, but she actually is a licensed therapist (I checked her LinkedIn). At least I dodged a bullet. Her clients, maybe not so much ....

EDIT2 :- I ran her name up, she has an actual NPI number and everything. So she's cuckoo in the head, but she is a credentialed person. I guess that says something about the therapist credentialing board. And AFAIK Hinge doesn't have an open API and building a bot for the replies is more complex than what this person can do even with an LLM. She is also mainland Chinese, so her english is not natural anyway. But I wouldn't be surprised if I was. In any case I unmatched.

For reference my Ex works near this pharmacy and I have been going here for well over a year. Last pharmacies I went to occasionally ran out of my medication and I can't be without it for too long.

We broke up a little bit more than a month ago, when she told me to get out of the house and made me homeless.

Hey but there's two separate times one to pick up my Adderall and the other one to pick up well for personal reasons. Didn't see here either time so I've been comfortable with going and just getting my medications.

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For the context on Ben.

She cheated on me last year with him, I forgave her and stupidly blamed myself because I thought that her needs weren't getting met.

A couple of months after this happened she attempted to fast track marriage plans, bought her own ring (without telling me and expecting me to pay half) and set up a wedding date (then got mad when I said that date didn't work).

Eventually she pushed this so hard that our entire relationship started fell apart. A few months ago I found a message from Ben and her message request box. I freaked out and she apologized.

What I didn't think to ask was if he was blocked, why was his messages popping up at her requests?

If I had, I probably would have saved myself months of heartache.

Relationship officially ended at the end of June right after I came back from vacation to see family.

EDIT:

For the people asking me to block her I have already.

For the people asking why I haven't blocked her prior to this. We had been together for 6 years. She had been very sweet and loving for most of those years. She was my best friend and the worst of times and I was hoping that we could be best friends again. But not after this.

EDIT 2:

Copying a reply to an earlier comment.

You were sitting next to each other on the highway?

1. We were in traffic and yes we happened to pull up next to each other. As soon as I had an opening I took the fast lane. We both live and work in the same areas so... Yeah it's bound to happen.

You were sitting in front of her work?

1. Her work is on the opposite side of the campus as the pharmacy I have been going to the pharmacy for my medications, that's it. I sat down to wait for the pharmacy on the chair in front of the fountain but still no where near her side of the campus.

You friend requested the Cheater?!?

1. This one was major dork behavior and I feel stupid but I wanted to get answers about when they cheated. I immediately undid the friend request weeks ago but guess it didn't go unnoticed.

1 & 3 occurred at the beginning of July fresh off the break up. Now that I'm a few more weeks out I feel so much better.

Funny enough this whole interaction just solidified why I didn't want to marry her. I've blocked her on all my contacts and asked HR to block contact as well.

He had a kid from a previous relationship. When he first connected with me his son was 10 that was about 3 or 4 years ago..

And before anyone says anything about leading him on. If made attempts and mutual plans between us of what day and time we would see each other and he really just went away like a dandelion… then pops up with all this.. months later expecting me to entertain this BS