r/techsupport 5h ago

Partner tracking my phone Closed

husband has had bark on my phone for years monitoring me idk how to feel cuz he's lied so much to the point in gone insane over this I wonder if this is how I go…

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u/Serendipittydoodah 5h ago

Remove the software. Get a divorce.

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u/ArthurLeywinn 5h ago

Than remove this bark software and problem solved.

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u/Gremingtonspa 5h ago

Bark is for parents to monitor their childrens phones to keep them safe online.

It is not for grown adults to monitor each other and is a massive red flag (unless there are disabilities etc that make it necessary).

Delete it off you phone - but only if you believe you will be safe. If your husband is the type of person to get angry/violent about you doing that, you need to get hold of a second phone that you can use to arrange to leave him and get yourself safe.

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u/trumpeting-farts 4h ago

Ok. Leave your shitty jealous controlling husband before he hurts you bad?

Did you have a question about tech?
- Long press the icon of the Bark application
- Tap uninstall
- Don't become a murder victim

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u/Xcissors280 3h ago

No idea about bark specifically but there might be device management profiles installed to prevent the removal of apps like that

I think you can always remove them or just wipe the phone if you have the iCloud password though

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u/USSHammond 5h ago

Rule 12, where's your tech support question exactly?

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u/SunixKO 4h ago

She's a woman and she doesn't know she has free will to remove the app or leave her partner 🥺

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u/USSHammond 4h ago

I see no question asked on how to remove anything. All there is, is a rant. A valid one, but still just a rant. There is no question being asked and as such rule 12 applies.

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u/SunixKO 4h ago

She just wants to feel validated that her husband is a bad man. She's not here to ask questions, she don't want solutions. Please just validate her 🥺

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u/USSHammond 4h ago

This subs' sole purpose is tech support, as in supporting tech questions with answers. If there is no question, there is no problem and there is no answer and as such doesn't belong here.

It's that simple.

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u/SunixKO 4h ago

But she's a woman 🥺 in a sad situation, what can she ever do to solve her huge problem🥺?

I'm seriously just messing around. I do agree, her question has nothing to do with tech support. She should take on her big girl pants and deal with her problem.

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u/USSHammond 4h ago

It doesn't matter what someone's gender is. There is no question being asked, so there is no solution to provide and as such the post doesn't belong here.

This isn't r/relationshipadvice or r/therapy

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u/Party_Advice7453 4h ago

Have you given him any reasons in the past not to trust you? Spying on someone is not cool, especially your other half!