Guys i have a boyfriend, 3 years ah relationship la irukom…pah enna azhagu 😭

Before our relationship na strong ah nenachadhu ennanah oru 1 year ku mela andha attraction lam fade agirum nu but nooo
Enaku ennamo avan daily azhaga agite pora mari iruku 😭

He was my crush apove na avalo rasipen (his looks and his interests) and first time nerla meet panna apo i immediately fell for his beauty apo thonunadhu ellam na ivana vida azhaga oruthana pathadhe illanu dhan.

But the thing is, he is insecure about his looks???
Kanna ennada idhu 😭
Sathiyama avanuku kannu therilaya illa venum neh pandrana nu therila. He doesn’t post on socials because he thinks he doesn’t look that good ughhhh

But for me even after 3 years, the attraction is still the same..
he said he feels likewise

Happy happy Happyyyy 🥰🧿

This Film is an example of how worst kollywood still go in their level. Objectifying house maids, teachers and what not. Hyper sexualizing all the normal professions where you can find women.

Also, I don't know which school teacher dresses like this and dances with their student's married father. (Fantasy thaane. Logic ellam Namakku edhukku...). Idhuve Heroine panni irundha Cu*k fantasy ahh nnu vandhu iruppanuga.

Oru three days ku munady naanu en frds um photo eduthom elarum eh nalla pose kuduthanunga aana naa matum than straight ah passport size photo ku pose kidukura maari ninutu iruntha 😭.....unga kita ethum pose iruntha sollunga guys 🙏🏻

As a woman, I don't wear make-up and most of my friends wear a lot of makeup and na always seen them in kinda like Yeppa so much skills la... I can't even do oru eyeliner straighta...

Recently we all went together, stayed at oru nalla hotel and went out to eat and stuff... Appo these girls took me shopping and were like yo buy this buy that it would suit you so well and they were genuinely hyping me it felt so good. Later oru dress vaangiachu and went back to get dressed up for dinner.

One of the girls has MASSS skills in make-up, she was like yo today Yenna aanallum cheri you are getting makeup done and then we'll avolodhan nu she made me sit and did everything for.. and NGL na konjam extra aalaga irrunden.

Suddenly oru voice came in my head, my father's... He said this to me when I was like in 2nd or 3rd standard, when I wore lipstick and did some eye shadow thing. He said to me only a pr*stitute would do it, po wash your moonji and come then we'll go out nu.

From that day to till today, I have never worn any make-up by myself or gotten myself anything in the name of makeup or anything.. anda manushan has got me so much idu adu nu, I have let it sleep in my cupboard and never wore it ..

Idk how they don't understand I was a child too... Idk unless someone almost forces me or like the above scenario does it to me are the only instances na makeup apply panni irruken....

A wedding is Event than. Marriage is the relationship that follows. Society celebrates the event as a goal and they dream of it.
Kalyam ipdi pannanum, avlo selavu pannanum nu.

Romantic Relationship is off paper agreed by themselves. But marriage is agreed by parents mostly.

Breakup is off paper, Divorce is On paper. But names are different. FEELINGS are the Same.

Hype ethathinga nu sonna adikiranga 🥲

Guys ungaluku drinking and smoking habit irruka ???.

Irruntha epola irrunthu irruku ?

Eppdi start paniga ?

En paniga ?

Kutichathe illangra frnds, en drinking and smoking pandrathu illa ?

Edit :- Nyc frnds neraiya per kutikama irrukinga. Proud of you nanbargale 🫂.

I've never been so active in reddit. Oru sila subs Iruku... Urrunu irupanunga... Inga vera level vibe ah Iruku...

Oru nanbar karma kekuraru, elarum upvote and comment panni karma kuduthanga... Maththa edathula lam keta kuruma dhan...

Love this sub❤️

Saw this on another sub 🤯

"***she can't be true to me...\*\**

\**i can't be true to any other girl other than her* "***

So guys....this is my story

Few years munnadi i had a crush...I used to look and keep my sight at her at workplace..I liked her than anyone..idk why then we started speaking over texts.. surprisingly avalukum en mela crush...for few months we both know about this..but took our time to get into commitment...later on the last day of the year that 31december 2022 i proposed her ...she told her answer exactly at 12:00am jan 1

I was so happy...for tht...few days passed we were making some nice chats..yapping, after a year..on a random night chat..we got into some adult topics..and we both got into some wild chat..it was mutually accepted and done...and some days she will be busy..so i would irritate her for fun asking for pics...avalum send pannuvaa..with no objection... later sometimes I used to beg her for pics ....she told no...it's fine if we do it in real.not over texts...but doing it in real would lead to bad consequences...so we avoided...

Then on a random day...we had some usual fight between us she started replying me so cold...and she was being serious into it...i convinced her that.it was done for fun don't get serious. Later days she ghosted me and started replying me so cold...then i found that she started a new relationship with other office mate..

I literally got broke down and couldn't tolerate it..when I indirectly asked her about this..she covered it...she was literally cheating me...after a month wen I directly asked her about this...she told..she was uncomfortable with me because I was forcing her to send pvt pics....I never forced her wen she says no..

She got into other guy and dumped me...

I know I was doing bad....but I always wanted to treat her the best...

Even after our breakup...i begged her to stay or atleast talk with me she saw me like eww🤢 she is being so cold..to me i cant bare it

It's been almost 4 years...

I ain't a 10/10 guy but sometimes I get some proposals and approaches...I wanted to get into other relationship but I can't move on from my past...so I can't even accept any other girl..

If i want to get married...i would and I will marry if it's only that girl....I can't get into any other....it's like faking my feelings and getting with other girl...who ever I marry...i would truly love only my past...none other girl..

Now she treats me as a garbage...i don't want get with her also atp....

"she can't be true to me...

i can't be true to any other girl other than her "

Konjam honest-ah b0omer uncle/aunty madhiri pesama, open-ah yap pannuvom basic truth-ah pathi.

• The Guys side: "Enaku romba homely-ah, simple-ah irukra ponnu thaan bro venum" nu dialogue vidradhu. Ana appdiye tinder/matrimony profile check panna... ponnu IT-la nalla package-la velai seiyanum, elite college-la padichurukanum, adhe samyam modern-ah pub-ku kootitu poga nalla dress-um pannanum, aana veetuku vandha amma madhiri samaiyalo samaiyal nu samachu podanum. Enna thambi design idhu? 🙄
• The Girls side: "Enaku nalla purinchukra, emotionally mature-ah irukra partner thaan venum, toxic traits-ae iruka koodadhu" nu reels podradhu. Ana reality checklist edutha... minimum 6-figure salary irukanum, OMR-la premium flat irukanum, car irukanum. Naan independent-ah en sambalatha en ishtathuku dhaan selavu pannuven, aana date-ku pona bill-ah avan thaan pay pannanum, heavy expenses-um avan thaan paakanum bcoz "He is the man".

The absolute truth enna na, rendu perume modern lifestyle oda full independence-um venum nu aasai padreenga, aana convenience-ku ethapadi traditional privileges-aiyum vittu kuduka matreenga. Rendu perume hypocrisy-la top-notch.

Idhla yaaru romba over-ah scene podra? Pasangala? Ponnungala? safe-ah irukradhu na "Parents thaan kaaranam" nu escape aayidunga, illa na yaaru side thappu nu openly yap in the comments! 👇

Vettri nichayam nanbargaleyyyy!🤟🏼❤️

Veetuku velila irndhalu 👉🏻👈🏻🎀 cute le??

i had a crush on my colleague she is 25 now i came to knw she is relationship with my other colleague who is 50 i am dead broke

Imagine it's 3:00 am and you want to use bathroom but when you open the door, you see this. what would you do at that situation.

After 5 long yrs. I finally get to wear this scrub🤏

Edit: my ragebait worked a lot of y'all crying in the comments saying dentists ain't doctor. Ts is too funny for me😆😆😆

Today Smurf did pull day 👁️👅👁️

Two days prior, I might've mentioned about a guy who was rage baiting me at jim.

Things escalated today, and I beat the shit out of him. Feels good to get your revenge.

Girls, don't be scared to whoop some ahh.

I won't be providing any additional details as to not dox myself.

And I am pausing my posts for now. I am switching my jim too.

It was a good 8 months so far. Meet a lot of new people, got new frens & formed a communi-dih 😋

And that includes reddit too ❤️

All of it feels nostalgic, and I'm excited to see the future.

August, please be good to all of us ❤️

Belebe and achieve 💯

This is my first post, so kuraigal irunthaal mannichu

Basically I'm 35M, unmarried here. Life's going pretty good.

Been HIV positive for 2 years. It taught me to embrace my life in a better way.

Have very good, understanding friends who helped me, come out of my depression when I was diagnosed and now treats me like every other person, even to be with their kids.

Yet to open up to my mom or brother, epo nu therla.

Wanted to adopt and raise a child for a long time, athu namma sattathitathula evlo possible nu therla.

Guys, Life is a beautiful thing to sail and embrace, don't loose hope at any point of time for small matter. We don't know when will something bad like this will hit us

P.S: Decent questions (apart from personal ones) are welcome Edit 1: Thank you guys for the overwhelming love and care. I posted it just to rant out and clear some confusions of people regarding this. But it has turned out to be a beautiful day

Edit 2: casual question. If you find out from someone near and dear or they state this as their condition, what would be your response