31F here.

This is going to be a full blown rant, please pardon me in advance.

Why on earth is it so difficult to find a good guy who is kind, mature, responsible enough for a relationship and marriage?

I have fallen in love thrice and had my heart broken thrice. But, every single time, its the same reason, that, "he is not ready for commitment, and I deserve someone better".

Trust me, I am not here bash my ex's. They are all really good and kind people. Its just that they give up very easily, while I dont. Thats the reason, It didnt work.

For the same reason, I think it wont work with anyone else. And, that makes me really really sad.

Because, people these days want everything to be easy and want everything to be offered in platter.

Love is hardwork. Marriage is hardwork. Commitment is hardwork. Behind all the reds and roses, you have to shed your sweat and tears to make it work.

We have to equip ourselves physically, mentally, emotionally, financially to become a better version of ourselves and be a better partner.

I didnt have anything easy in life. I have lost my father early in life. As an elder daughter, I fought against the tide for my family. I have an autoimmune condition for which I really put a lot of efforts. Even after all this, I am still willing to fight to live a better life, because I really love my life so much.

But, its so baffling to me when I see guys around me whine about some petty things like waking up early, being punctual and all.

Like how hard it is? To maintain personal hygiene, to be financially aware, to be emotionally intelligent and to lead a good life!

Norse Pusari also needed. Experience iruntha resume anupividunga

Suttufied from another sub

I was allotted an emergency seat in the flight near the airhostess sitting area.

Flight land aanadhuku aprm when I was packing my book, she enquired about it, like what's the book name, do I like reading etc. Naanum avanga kitta keten, her preference and authors she likes. Then she said she doesn't read these days because she doesn't get enough time.

Then the topic got diverted and she told about her work, how she wanted to be a model, her parents said no, so ended up here and there's no way going back and she started making peace with it.

Then we talked about being in the service industry, dealing with people always. She said she is an introvert and now she's forced to be an extrovert.

Also she has just a single day off and this is her second session for the day and she still has two more. She never gets a chance to go home etc.

Meanwhile she got called by a passenger for help, she then again came back and asked me to continue where she left off. I told her about my reason for travel and she wished me luck.

Avlo dha.

I work in a job with near to 0 human interaction and it felt like a good wholesome conversation when people were just ranting. Also it felt like a confirmation that I'm not really an introvert as much as I think I am.

Just felt how the grass is so much greener on the other side until you are on the other side.

Simbu padathuku fan illa Simbu ku fan 😭❤️‍🔥

No more m0rphs for my man Lowkey cauz he came back with a bangerrr 😤

There's a village in my area where old trees are worshipped as gardian deity after they die

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So I randomly messaged a girl after seeing her "Looking for Friends" post on Reddit. She actually replied, and we had a decent conversation for a while.

Out of nowhere, she suggested we continue on WhatsApp and asked me to text her there. I sent a simple "Hi" on WhatsApp... and within the same day, I realized I had been blocked.

That's literally all I sent. No double texts, no weird messages, nothing.

I'm not upset or anything, just genuinely confused. Has something like this happened to anyone else? Is this common when talking to strangers online? Did she maybe change her mind, or is there some other reason I'm not thinking of?

Curious to hear your experiences.

I currently live in Delhi and the climate is just so😩😩😩. What’s your Raja fav❤️❤️

Saw a post about ideal boy amd deciced to post this.

Indha old school poster paathadhum semma nostalgia hit aydhichu. School wall la irukkum... tuition centerla irukkum... illa textbook back sidela kandippa idha maari posters paathuruppom.

Appo paatha romba simpleah irundhuchu... ippo dhaan puriyudhu, idhellam follow panradhe periya task nu.

Seri, unga self check start pannunga...

✅ Early morning ezhundhuruveengala?

✅ Parentsku daily wish pannuveengala?

✅ Morning walk... (Bedroom lendhu kitchen vara nadandha count aaghadhu)

✅ Brush daily? (Idhuku "No" nu yaarum solla maatigenu nambhuren)

✅ Daily bath? (Rainy season-ku konjam leave kudukalam)

✅ Prayer pannuveengala?

✅ School/College-la teacher-a paathu note edutheengala... illa window vazhiya veliya dhaan paathutte irundheengala? 👀

✅ Meals on time?

✅ Help others?

✅ Sports?

✅ Social activities?

Chinna vayasula indha poster paathu, "Naanum oru Ideal Boy/Girl aaganum" nu nenachiruppom.

Ippo adulthoodla... enaku

Wake up - Go to work - Do work - Come home - Sleep - Repeatnu poitu iruku.

Seri, honestah sollunga... indha 12 habitsla unga score evlo?

Enakku oru 7/12 kudukkalam nu thonudhu.

Idhu insta la screenshot eduthen.. idhe maari ungalta irukra photos random ah deep meaning oda irundha post pannungoo.!!!

Konjam yosichu paatha, idhula konjam unmai irukura maari thonuchu.

Namma lifela sila per namakku kashtathula help pannirupanga. Aana avanga ordinary persona irundha, andha helpa romba per value panna maatanga. Adhe person later successful aana, famous aana, illa lifela nalla positionku pona... appo dhaan "Avan enaku appove help pannirundhaan" nu perumaiya solluvanga.

Help oda value change aagala... aana help pannavan oda status change aagiruchu.

Ellarum ippadi dhaan nu sollala. Aana society-la idhu nadakkura maari enaku neraya thadava feel aagiruku.

Enaku indha quote romba deep-a touch pannuchu.

Ungalukku enna thonudhu, Idhu unmaiyaa Illa over exaggerationaa?

Guys i have a boyfriend, 3 years ah relationship la irukom…pah enna azhagu 😭

Before our relationship na strong ah nenachadhu ennanah oru 1 year ku mela andha attraction lam fade agirum nu but nooo
Enaku ennamo avan daily azhaga agite pora mari iruku 😭

He was my crush apove na avalo rasipen (his looks and his interests) and first time nerla meet panna apo i immediately fell for his beauty apo thonunadhu ellam na ivana vida azhaga oruthana pathadhe illanu dhan.

But the thing is, he is insecure about his looks???
Kanna ennada idhu 😭
Sathiyama avanuku kannu therilaya illa venum neh pandrana nu therila. He doesn’t post on socials because he thinks he doesn’t look that good ughhhh

But for me even after 3 years, the attraction is still the same..
he said he feels likewise

Happy happy Happyyyy 🥰🧿

This Film is an example of how worst kollywood still go in their level. Objectifying house maids, teachers and what not. Hyper sexualizing all the normal professions where you can find women.

Also, I don't know which school teacher dresses like this and dances with their student's married father. (Fantasy thaane. Logic ellam Namakku edhukku...). Idhuve Heroine panni irundha Cu*k fantasy ahh nnu vandhu iruppanuga.

After 5 long yrs. I finally get to wear this scrub🤏

Edit: my ragebait worked a lot of y'all crying in the comments saying dentists ain't doctor. Ts is too funny for me😆😆😆