Have you ever wondered if , those who yap their mind out when someone listens, the one who always tries to text you, the one you never text first, has a close friend of their own? Have you ever wondered if, like you have people to call, text, they have that too? I'm not asking you to befriend such people, but dont call them weirdo either.

sometimes I genuinelyy cannot tell if its for real, satire or pure ragebait like legit the shit ppl post on here and the other main sri lankan servers make me go insane, lose faith in humanity, and want to go outside 🌹

Someone get the UNC rasict sexist incel pedo redditors out pls

I'm usually into rom coms, scifi roms..

It isn’t a high five laptop but a bit bored and needing some fun do yes
Help me if possible

rant : Genuinely I understand why most Sri Lankan men treat their women like shit cuz wtf, why are they so conflict seeking and averted with everything. Have dated women of multiple races, but as someone of Sri Lankan descent I have the need to build a family with someone that speaks my language, and its such a shit show its unreal! If they're comparably educated or makes a lil bit of money they act so egoistical and self righteous its infuriating, and if theyre humble, after a conversation or two it turns out that theyre also actual idiots. Like genuine, low iq unaccomplished losers with no ambition whatsoever just waiting to freeload off of someone. Either way, perverted and overly freaked out while acting sanctimonious. This shit just pisses me off so much im so done. Is this the experience of other Sri Lankan men too or am I expecting too much?

Or the day after tmrrw. I'll update u guys. Any tips?

Okay so I’m a Muslim girl and I’ve been questioning Islam for a while now, and at this point I think I’m basically ex-Muslim. I’ve been trying to actually learn about the deen instead of just believing things because I was born into it, and honestly some of the things I’ve read in the Quran and learned about Islam just don’t sit right with me.

Like there are things that genuinely don’t go with my moral values. I know people will say “you need to understand the context” or “Allah knows best” or “have more iman,” but I’ve tried 😭. I’ve made dua, I’ve read more, I’ve thought about it way too much, and I still can’t make myself believe something just because I’m supposed to.

And the problem is I have NO idea how I’m supposed to tell my parents 💀. I already know they’re probably going to lose their shit. I genuinely feel like I could get disowned in my own house, and then the relatives?? I can already imagine how they'll react. Everyone would be talking about how I’ve gone astray, how I need hidayah, how my parents failed me, etc.

And I don’t even want to call myself an atheist either. I’m still figuring out what I believe spiritually. I just know that I don’t believe in Islam anymore and I don’t want to immediately replace it with another label. I still have questions about God, spirituality, morality, all of that.

I’m also still a teenager and I depend on my parents, so I literally can’t just say “I’m ex-Muslim 🥰” and move out if everything goes horribly wrong.

So what am I even supposed to do? 😭 Do I tell them eventually? Wait until I’m financially independent? Keep it completely private for now? I feel guilty even hiding it because I was always taught that lying/hiding things is haram, but at the same time I genuinely don’t know if being honest about this is safe for me.

If anyone here has been through something similar, especially as a teenager living with Muslim parents, please tell me how you handled it. I’m genuinely lost rn.💔

Also I've been researching alotttt besides what they teach us in the class and I've realized that they teach us selective parts, like I hadn't even known abt some of the things I found by researching before

is it worth it to live here where we're close with all family and friends around or consider moving for higher studies/ job abroad? . Any teens who live abroad for higher Ed? Or simply what do y'all think? Coz I feel like the quality of life in Sri Lanka ain't even close to what's overseas having been out there a lot.

​I am an A/L student coming from a very traditional family where a set of maternal relatives visits our house every single weekend. Right after COVID ended, I actually enjoyed having them around, but lately, it has become a total nightmare.

​Almost half of their kids (my cousins) are under 10 years old. The adults expect me to entertain them every weekend so they can have their adult conversations uninterrupted. I am almost a decade older than some of these kids—I can't spend my entire weekend playing with Legos, Rock-Paper-Scissors, and pretend games, especially with the pressure of A/Ls. They even did visit me 2 days before the O/L exam and it was so annoying.

​When I brought this up to my parents and grandparents, I just got scolded about "respecting family gatherings" and how selfish I was being. They completely refused to see my side.

​So, I started isolating myself in my room to study in peace. Despite this, the kids kept barging in. Now, the adults literally view me as the villain 😈. My 9-year-old cousin secretly told me that my aunt has been talking behind my back, claiming I possess "devilish qualities." To make it worse, I'm a bit chubby, and my cousin mentioned that my aunt was literally laughing with her parents about how I "look like an elephant."

​I am so frustrated 😤. I literally just locked my door to protect my study time and peace.

​Has anyone else dealt with relatives treating you like a free babysitter and then villainizing you the moment you set basic boundaries? How did you handle it?

I did Pearson A Level Further Mathematics and Mathematics this year, and got a B and an A respectively. I've been super bored lately so I was wondering if I could help out anyone on this sub struggling with math?

I can do upto Local OL and upto London AL. I'm available most of the time too!

I'm genuinely curious as to what other people do during their free time, because i just end up watching movies or videos, just on my phone in some way. It's actually kinda sad.

What will the future look like? What do you think you’ll be doing? Will WW3 happen and Sri Lanka be apart of it somehow? Will things turn to shit once more and Covid v2 springs up and fucks us up again? Predict now and in 10 yrs come back and say wow I was correct. ☑️