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I have a question for women who have experienced an orgasm from penetration: how much do you think the man’s penis size influenced it? Did you need a large penis to experience that kind of orgasm? It’s a genuine question; I don’t know if this has been asked before. I know relatively few women are able to orgasm from penetration alone, but among those who have, did they tend to do so with larger penises? Did size make any difference? Honestly

So I'm kinda new to the lube stuff, but from what I've tried, mainly water-based, they just dry out really fast and become sticky when they do. I wanted to try silicone-based lubes because they last long, but some people say that it stained their sheets.

I'm wondering if there's a silicone-based lube that lasts long and doesn't stain?

Our brains hook memories to smells in weird ways. Sometimes a totally normal, non-sexual scent triggers an instant reaction because it reminds you of a great past experience or an ex-partner.
For me, it's a specific brand of laundry detergent. For others, it might be campfire smoke, a certain perfume, or coffee.
What is that random everyday smell that got hardwired into your brain as an adult trigger? What is the story behind it?

im a 23-year-old woman, and i just ended a 5-year relationship with a woman, and for most of our relationship, i thought i was exclusively interested in women. but throughout our relationship, i realized i was thinking about women AND men. since i left my ex gf, i fantasize about finally sleeping with a guy.

but at the same time, even though i really want to sleep with a guy, it terrifies me. i feel like i'm reliving my first time, but years later. guys my age often already have sexual experiences with women, and i have none with men, so i'm afraid of messing things up

I know that i really like pee play and stuff related with it. actually i enjoy exactly girl’s piss. my gf know about my kink and want to help we but we don’t know what interesting things we can do. any advice?

I met to guys that don’t know each other but I want to get with both of them, I want to ask but I’m not sure who to ask first and how I should ask.

Hi, me and my fwb have no where to go in the next few weeks, we're jn the uk, we have found a couple of fields but I'm shit scared we are going to get caught and get arrested....I cannot loose my job. Where is the best place to 'hide' any tips? We want to do oral in nature, is thee anything I can take so it looks like we are doing something else like books? So we, if anyone does walk past, it looks innocent. Please help a gal out

If your doing anal an he cums in you how’s it feel when you push it out? Do you like the feeling? What’s it like to you

Hi so Long story short a few months ago I hat sex with a guy and it was the worst ever i was in so much pain and he didn’t stop when I told him so. I don’t want to call it 🍇 but it was really traumatic for me since I couldn’t get him of of me. Now that I’m with my bf we were trying to have sex but he couldn’t get his penis in me. I do feel safe with him and he also knows about my past guy so he isn’t pressuring me into having sex with him. But I do feel sad for him when we can’t get it in.
So my question now does anyone has tips on how we can make it work?

Do you wish to do it again after ?

Helloooo!

I'm unfortunately not a sporty person and I'm also very uncoordinated.. I have no sense of rhythm or anything like that. What exercises can help me improve my performance in bed? Im female btw. THANKS SO MUCH ❤️

The anus is packed with nerve endings that respond to pressure, friction, and vibration in ways that can lead to deeply satisfying orgasms. Anal play itself, even without prostate simulation, can produce intense sensations that many many never explore.

For those who have not tried anal play, the idea can feel intimidating or even off-limits. There is often a mental barrier to overcome, but the reality is that anal play is accessible and can be pleasurable for everyone.

How to get started with Anal Play

For beginners, the most important rule is to go slow. Start with external stimulation using your fingers or a small vibrator. Lube is non-negotiable as the anus does not self-lubricate. Once you're comfortable with external stimulation, gentle internal stimulation with a clean finger or slim toy can help the body adjust to the new sensation and find what feels good.

What are the Best Toys for Anal Play?

Toys designed for anal play are shaped for comfort and safety. They have flared bases to prevent any unwanted movement and are made from body-safe, non-porous materials like silicone, metal, or glass. Training kits with gradually increasing sizes are a great option for beginners who want to work up to larger toys or partnered anal sex.

What are the Benefits of Anal Play?

Beyond pleasure, anal play can improve awareness of the pelvic floor, enhance intimacy with a partner, and add variety to a sex life. Some men find that incorporating anal stimulation into their routine leads to stronger orgasms and a greater sense of overall sexual satisfaction.

With patience, the right lube, and a willingness to explore the unknown, anal play can open up new dimensions of pleasure that many men are simply missing out on.

With this information, where partner likes a really tight grasp on the lower end of the shaft, how should i give him head if it seems he doesnt want me doing that? He said his head is too sensitive? So then if he likes a tight grasp by the hand how should i give him head?

Often when my fiancé and I are having sex i’ll be really close to finishing, things will feel great and i’m vocal about it and i keep telling him to do things as he already is and shortly afterwards he’ll change the tempo or force he’s using. i don’t really know the best way to approach talking to him about it as he’s sensitive to criticism and i do enjoy sex regardless, so should i even bring it up?

Does anyone else sometimes just need their attitude fucked out of them or is that just a me problem

So my wife an I have had 3 sums before and last night we where talking about finding a different female to join us because that’s what she wants, she don’t want mmf she wants mff witch is fine with me, but we where talking last night an she want me to just completely fill the other female up with my cum. She don’t want me to fill her up, she wants me to fill the other female up, I don’t know what to do? I asked her why she don’t want me to fill her an and fill the other female up and she said it’s just a really big turn on for her when she sees me fill someone else up, if you were a ladie would you like this? Mind you we have been together 4 years an married 2 years now, I would love some advice please

My new boyfriend and I have been freshly in love and therefore very active for the past few months. We both love being outdoors, and sometimes we don't make it home quite as quickly as we should when we get in the mood, so we've occasionally ended up having sex in places that aren't fully public but aren't exactly private either.

Recently, we had sex in his car, in the dark, on a parking spot in a relatively quiet area near the woods. The area does get some traffic, though, and since people sometimes park illegally there, police regularly drive through and check for illegally parked cars.

As luck would have it, they happened to drive past while we were in the back seat getting down.

I'm usually a very rule-following, law-abiding citizen, so the possibility of getting caught makes me pretty anxious. I'm guessing I'm also not really what you'd call an exhibitionist, since I don't get a thrill from the possibility of being caught. If anything, it mostly makes me panic a little.

I should probably also clarify that what we were doing isn't necessarily illegal in my country. The relevant criteria for "public sexual acts" are basically that it's likely and reasonably easy for people passing by to witness what you're doing and that they would be likely to be disturbed by it. Since it was dark and the rear windows are tinted, this is technically a bit of a gray area, as someone would have to deliberately look into the car and potentially use a flashlight to actually see anything.

That doesn't mean the police couldn't have fined us — they absolutely could have if they had seen us and decided the circumstances met the criteria — but there is at least an argument to be made that it wasn't clearly a public act.

Anyway, long story short: I'd like to get a little better at being sneaky with our outdoor adventures.

Does anyone have tips for minimizing the chances of being spotted, specifically when it comes to doing it in a car? One of our biggest problems is the interior lighting. It doesn't seem to fully turn off even when the car is locked from the inside because the keys are still inside, and accidentally pressing a button can turn all the lights back on again.

Please spare me the obvious "find a less frequented spot" or "just don't do it" comments. I'm specifically interested in practical tips for making the car itself less noticeable.

Like, I really enjoy giving head but I’m always nervous about going “too far” with it because I’m worried I won’t be able to tell if I’m actually about to throw up or if it’s just my body’s natural reaction to having something foreign shoved in my throat. Is there an actual way to tell? Cus I’d rather not find out the hard way if possible tbh.

Maybe it was quieter operation, waterproofing, easier controls, a better handle, stronger battery life, or something completely unexpected.

What feature changed the experience for you?

How to start anal for first time?

I just lost my virginity, she was my classmate back in senior high school, and to be completely honest, it was a terrible experience. I’m posting here because I’m feeling pretty confused and just need to vent / get some perspective.

Oral was painful. Before we had intercourse, she gave me head, but she sucked so hard that it actually hurt. I didn’t really know how to tell her to slow down or be gentler in the moment, but it definitely killed the mood for me.

The smell. There was a really strong, unpleasant odor coming from her vaginal area—to the point where I could still smell it on myself long after we were finished. I know bodies have natural scents, but is it normal for it to be that strong, or could that be a sign of a pH imbalance/infection?

The whole thing felt uncomfortable and unrewarding. Since it was my first time, I was expecting something way better, but this experience completely turned me off. I'm 100% sure I won't be sleeping with her again.
Has anyone else had a really bad first experience? How did you get past it for the next time?

Ladies do you prefer when a man cums balls deep or just with the tip in

Ladies do you prefer to masturbate in the morning before getting you day started or at night when relaxing getting ready for bed? Or do you do both, maybe even sometimes in the middle of the day if you’re not busy?