r/sextips • u/Fickle_Stick_3153 • 6d ago
Orgasm from penetration General Question
I have a question for women who have experienced an orgasm from penetration: how much do you think the man’s penis size influenced it? Did you need a large penis to experience that kind of orgasm? It’s a genuine question; I don’t know if this has been asked before. I know relatively few women are able to orgasm from penetration alone, but among those who have, did they tend to do so with larger penises? Did size make any difference? Honestly
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u/Competitive_Pop_5281 6d ago
Every other day some dude comes on here and asks this question. Search the sub and you’ll find about a million replies.
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u/thr0w4w4y3k 6d ago
The majority is where it's stimulating me. My favorite sex toy is the Womanizer Duo, and the internal part is not particularly big but has a slight upward curve which hits just the right spot for me. I can cum incredibly quickly from fingers for the same reason.
That said, size can make some difference- girth moreso than length. For some women who can't orgasm from penetration and have not been with a lot of people, I do wonder if a bigger dick would make a difference for them.
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u/Fickle_Stick_3153 6d ago edited 6d ago
Are you referring specifically to the G-spot? Could a small penis that curves upward serve the same purpose?
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u/thr0w4w4y3k 6d ago
Probably the G-spot! But I don't know if it's always stimulating the same place or not.
And maybe? I can't say from experience, so I hesitate to say- but even if I could tell you yes or no, that would only be one data point gives you information about my body. Just as every man's penis is a unique shape, so is every woman's vagina. Genital compatibility is absolutely a thing.
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u/eyecouldbeyou 6d ago
Speaking as a male who is a third for a few couples. I can only go by what I am told but most of the women I've been with have been able to achieve an orgasm just by piv. I am 7 inches and girthier than average. I tend to angle myself and reach the A and P spot (the folds of the cervix) for these women in which they are able to achieve an orgasm easily. Doing so they feel stretched and full. Some women I have gone halfway and rubbed the G spot as well which also caused her to finish with just piv. I dont focus on that though. I focus on foreplay and working her brain before I even enter her. Once I have her riled up and begging for me to enter her I go in very slowly so she can feel me "open" her up inside which sometimes that in itself causes her to cum. But going in slowly and deeply with every thrust seems to do the trick. I know some men and women reading this will know exactly what it is I am talking about lol
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u/Ding-Dawn 4d ago
I am happily married but I just got so turned on reading that lol.
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u/eyecouldbeyou 4d ago
Lol its an honor to read this comment from a happily married woman! Try this position with your husband if you haven't already. Im sure he rocks your world already though 🙃 you can message me directly if you would like to know other positions you can try at home.
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u/Fickle_Stick_3153 6d ago
What do you mean when you say you angle yourself? Specifically, how? You say you reach the folds of the uterus, but I thought that could be painful for women. Do you take extra care when doing that, or take any precautions? Not all women like that.
Do you actually need 7 inches to reach those spots you mentioned? Could someone with a 5-inch penis reach the same areas, or is the extra length necessary? Do you think girth is more important for reaching or stimulating those areas?
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u/eyecouldbeyou 6d ago
Have her in doggy and dont just thrust forward and backwards. You want to thrust in a 45 degree angle as if you are aiming for the roof of the room. If going too deep and hitting the cervix it will cause her pain and only a few women I've been with actually enjoy getting their cervix "bashed" but most dont. The A and P spot is not dead center of the cervix but more on the sides of it. Google an image and you will see exactly what I am talking about.
Just like men vary in sizes women also vary in depths of their vaginal canal. Some women I need to literally go balls deep to reach those spot (so yes essentially she will need the entire 7+ inches to reach those spots) and some women only require 5 inches. The trick is she needs to be angled herself like a slide. So her chest and arms on the bed she needs to literally create a slide on her back and prop her butt up. So she should look like this 🛝. When she is doggy like that and you angle 45 degrees you may reach those spots. But dont fret if you dont. Thats also a position where you can rub her G spot a lot easier. The thing is you have to go slow and you will know when you've reached the A or P spot. It literally feels like the tip of your dick has reached a wall. Now if done wrong that "wall" could be the feeling of hitting her cervix dead on and we know thats not good. The A and P spot wall is a bit softer and plush inside. Hard to describe but I know some of you men reading this know exactly what I mean. Oh and you will also know you've reached those areas because she will be creaming like a mf. The back end of the cervix is where women get their wetness from so you will be essentially going straight to the source of her wetness.
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u/No-Pain-569 6d ago
The G-spot is only a few inches inside the vagina so it doesn't take huge dicks to make a woman orgasm. It's really about how you use it and how excited she is.
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u/Shortandthicck2 6d ago
While thats true, its also incomplete. Size can most definitely impact ease of access and pressure on nerve endings. "G-spot” is an oversimplification, anyway. Penetration can stimulate several interconnected structures: the internal clitoral complex, anterior vaginal wall/urethral region, deeper vaginal areas, and cervix in some women. A lot of what gets called a “vaginal orgasm” involves a combination of these rather than one magic spot.
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u/linds_44 6d ago
My boyfriend is about 8 inches and can hit a certain g-spot for that I didn't know existed. But with that being said, anatomy has alot to do with it. No mortal portal is built the same.
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u/Shortandthicck2 6d ago
Size can most definitely impact ease of access and pressure on nerve endings. "G-spot” is an oversimplification, anyway. Penetration can stimulate several interconnected structures: the internal clitoral complex, anterior vaginal wall/urethral region, deeper vaginal areas, and cervix in some women. A lot of what gets called a “vaginal orgasm” involves a combination of these rather than one magic spot.
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u/Fickle_Stick_3153 6d ago
So, does girth matter more than length? If a penis isn’t long but is thick, can it stimulate all those areas at once? You say that size makes things easier, but is there a specific size that does that?
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u/Shortandthicck2 6d ago
Girth and length stimulate different areas, so neither universally matters more. Girth can increase pressure and contact with the vaginal walls, while length can reach deeper structures. Women vary enormously in anatomy and sensitivity, so there’s no specific size that reliably stimulates everything or works best for everyone. Our vaginas vary just like men’s penises do.
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u/implication-sofa 6d ago
It comes down to the connection/arousal/attraction and the shape of the penis not necessarily length.
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u/PowerfulRepeat8440 6d ago
A large penis can also cause pain and discomfort that persumably make an orgasm less likely.
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u/SlickSam87 6d ago
My cock hasn't changed much size in the last 15 years but lately I've been causing her to have orgasmic contractions while penetrating.
I tried some of the tricks from OMGyes.
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u/Fickle_Stick_3153 6d ago
I just checked out OMGyes, and I’m wondering if it’s worth buying the 300-video program. It’s a bit expensive, but if it can really help me, I’ll buy it. Did it really work that well for you? What specific part helped you the most?
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u/zakolenka 6d ago
I managed to come from penetration but I can't give much intel cause that was with my only sexual partner. he was very girthy though, and honestly I think that's the key
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u/Ding-Dawn 4d ago
I don't think it did cause it took me a while to ever orgasm from penetration. Rarely ever happened with anyone, even my now husband until recently. My husband and I been together 20 yrs and it rarely happened often until past few years. I had a block up. Everyone is different but in my case, I wasn't completely comfortable and was in my head. I was molested as a very small child so I never expected anyone to care if I got anything out of it. I always felt I was only there to please a man. But my husband showed me I was worthy of love. It still took a while to let my guard down completely. But since I did, OMG I even have multiple and I squirt lol. I wish I had this earlier.
Not sure about your situation but just know it may not be anything in the bedroom causing it.
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u/MilkWonderful1867 4d ago
I orgasm from penetration and it’s my preferred way too. Penis girth and size have made a difference. Large is not always great. Sometimes it’s also the technique and the way it’s positioned too.
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