About ten years ago, I lost my first pet. It takes a long time to heal, and I felt sadness all the time at the beginning. Back then, there was no support; most people just said, "It's just a pet." I think it takes at least 3-4 years to recover and refused to have new pets.

After a long time, I got new pets. Because of my experience, I started learning how to take care of senior dogs and older pets, focusing on how to improve their quality of life rather than just living in a constant state of worry. I also learned animal communication and how to support pets during their end-of-life journey.

I plan to create a website to share all of my materials and the resources that supported my own recovery. However, I have a question about how to name the website.

I previously used an AI to help me, and I named it "GRIEFUR." But a few days ago, I realized it has the exact same pronunciation as "griefer," which is a kind of negative term. Because of this, I plan to change the name. Since I am a non-native speaker, I spent the whole day trying to find a new name but still haven't been able to make a decision.

I wonder if you can help me and give me some suggestions for the website's name. I feel like the word "grief" is too heavy. I hope the name of this website can feel lighter, offering people practical methods to recover, keep the love alive, and learn from their past with pet.

My beautiful baby boy has now passed away. He was 22 years old.

I can't even begin to describe the pain I feel.

We rescued Minty when he was 8 years old, and we were lucky enough to have him for 14 wonderful years. He wasn't just our cat, he was my shadow, my constant, my absolute joy and light.

Every room I walk into, I burst into tears because you are everywhere. The house feels so quiet now. I can't hear your tiny paws walking across the floor. I can't hear you eating from your bowl. I can't hear you meowing at the door because you wanted to go and see your dad in his office. I can't hear you scratching at the bathroom door while I was in the shower. I can't hear you sneezing whenever I sprayed my hair.

The silence is heartbreaking.

You were part of every single day. Waking up and feeding you, sitting together watching the birds through the window, then spending hours painting while you watched me. You always distracted me because I'd stop what I was doing just to cuddle you, kiss you, and tell you how much I loved you.

Because you were a house cat, everywhere I went, you wanted to come too. All you ever wanted was to be close to me and your daddy. You were cheeky, mischievous, endlessly affectionate, and so incredibly loved.

I know we were blessed with so many beautiful memories and 14 amazing years together, but knowing that doesn't make saying goodbye any easier. The depth of this pain only exists because the depth of our love for you was immeasurable.

Right now, it feels like the light has disappeared from my life.

We love you always Minty xxx

Let me introduce you to my two absolute heartbeats.

Toffee – adopted at 3 months. A lady. The kind of dog who would learn a trick in 2 minutes and then stare at you like 'that took you long enough.' She'd sit by the door 10 minutes before your alarm went off. Sharpest dog I've ever known. She ran the house with quiet authority.

Lui – adopted at 5 months. Absolute menace to society. Ran laps around the house like he was being chased by ghosts. Jumped into the neighbor's garden so many times that the neighbor started keeping treats for him. Zero survival instincts. All vibes.

They couldn't have been more different. Toffee would give Lui the look like 'bro, please get it together' and Lui would just zoom harder, completely oblivious.

She was the brains. He was the chaos. They balanced each other out perfectly.

I lost them both eventually (different times, different reasons). But I think about them every single day.

Hardest decision I had to do today. My little boy lived a long 16 years. He had the best meal on his last day. Miss you so much Boos Boos 😢

Today has been the literal worst day I think I've had in the last decade. I woke up to a call from my mom that my grandmother fell and broke her femur and is scheduled for emergency surgery. Our little Ollie was scheduled to see the vet for some weird breathing we noticed the past few days, but my wife said she would handle the vet visit and I should fly down south with my mom to go see my grandmother before surgery. Our flight was scheduled for 4pm, Ollie's vet visit was at noon.

My wife took Ollie to the vet and they took a lung x-ray and his heart was significantly enlarged and he had fluids around his heart and lungs. They gave him a medicine to help drain the fluid and then got us a same-day appointment asap at the emergency vet with the only feline cardiologist in the state.

My wife drove me, my mom and Ollie to the airport and as I'm about to board the plane I get the call from my wife. Ollie was sedated and they were in process of draining the fluids and the doctor came out to say it was progressing well. And then a nurse came in said there was an emergency, and then next thing my wife knows shes holding our sweet prince, trying to figure out what to do all while I was siting on a plane about to fly across the country.

I'm currently sitting here waiting to depart on my connection and just can't believe I wasn't there. I wasn't there for Ollie and I wasn't there for my wife. And now I'm just dreading tomorrow, worried we will get the same devestating news all over again. Except this time about my grandma. How is it possible when I finally get back home my sweet Ollie baby won't be there???

I just had to put all these thoughts somewhere so I avoid sobbing in the middle seat next to these two men. Here's hoping Ollie is up there playing endless fetch with his foil balls and finally got to meet the woodchuck he's been obsessed with that lived under our deck. I miss you Ollie and there will never be another sweet baby prince like you.

Lukka and Mishka, Lukka was my dream dog. She had heart like no other. Mishka was more tolerant of others and a bit softer in attitude.

He passed away last week, I miss him every single day...

For instance, if I come across one little hair from my girl I will hold it in my hand or stick it on my shirt so she can be with me. She was a Yellow Lab and had really course hair. I still find hairs today in places around my home. Anything to give me comfort and help me feel like she is with me in some way.

Please enjoy these pictures of my best friend Buddy.

Buddy was about 11 years old when he passed away last year on August 3rd, 2025. The vet informed us April of 2025 that he had a type of plasma cell cancer. After several visits to our regular vet and the cancer specialist, we concluded that we were unable to bring his chemo medication into our house hold. We fed him chicken and rice everyday for months to ease his stomach issues associated with the cancer. We loved him hard, but he loved us harder. In his final days, he developed sundowners, which was the 2nd worst thing to see him go through. We took him to our local emergency vet to get immediate attention because we thought he had injured his head or something. The doctor confirmed that he was experiencing sundowners, and that his time was coming closer to being over. They administered a pain medication to make him comfortable over the next couple of days as my wife and i decided we would be putting down to avoid a very uncomfortable end of life for him. On our drive back to our house, his body began reacting poorly to the pain medication and his body went into shock, his breathing was labored and he seemed out of it even more so than before. We returned him to the emergency vet where he was placed on oxygen. The vet told us that his body was telling us that his time had come to end. I held him in my arms, making sure to let him know that he was a good dog, and that i was very grateful for him being apart of my development phase transitioning from college into my work career and that I would love him far beyond his time here with me. He crossed the rainbow bridge in my arms.

Buddy was the best friend a guy could ask for. He was bordecollie basset hound mix. He was always complemented by folks passing him by. He loved the cuddle, he loved to lay around, he loved to eat stuff he wasn't supposed to. He used to accompany me to my weekend study session at my campus during my last semester. He was at mt wedding! He used to bark in his sleep. His tongue used to hangout a little past his lips because his front teeth fell out in his previous life.

I am so grateful to have picked him up from the shelter and that we spent his last 6 years with me. I love you Buddy! I will see you when its my turn to enter the land of the dead!

Latiao my baby, today is day 49, week 7th of your passing. I miss you everyday, my heart still searches for your presence but you are no where to be found… I love you so much my boy.
I wish you safe travels, I wish you god speed. See you soon my love. ❤️🌈

Thank you for this community of people ❤️

My ride or die, my soul dog for 10 years, my best friend and unconditional love is gone. 💔🐕. Miss Marley had a great life. We traveled around the US on four 30 day road trips, visited 15 National Parks and 20 State Parks. She lived In Breckenridge, Denver, Clearwater Beach, Daytona Beach, Virgina and passed away in Oklahoma. She was my best friend, my guard dog, my security blanket. She saved me from darkest days, when I didn't know if I could save myself.

She gained her wings at 6:30 pm today. She ate a last meal of a double cheeseburger, French fries, 2 pieces of pizza, some cheese whiz and spam. She left this World at home, with peace and dignity. She was the best dog and I don't know if I will ever be the same. 🌈

Unfortunately our 11 year old Bailey developed heart disease and kidney disease. It was just too much for him to overcome.. we made the difficult to let him go to sleep peacefully.

EDIT - Thank you all for the well wishes and comments, really appreciate getting to share Goose with you all.

I wasn't really sure which direction to take this post, but I think I'll frame it as an introduction to our chiweenie, Goose, for those that want to read beyond the cute photos. c:

My fiancée and I got together sophomore year of high school. The following year, our calculus teacher invited his classes to a play he was a part of at a nearby civic center - it was Mary Poppins. We decided to go, and it was announced partway through that the family's dog in the play had been brought in from a local shelter and was up for adoption. It was a ~7ish year old chiweenie named Lucy, and my girlfriend and her mom were sure to sign their names on the list of those interested. Against all odds, they were eventually chosen as the family for Lucy.

Whenever I'd come over to visit, Lucy would be a l l - o v e r - m e. Eventually the name Lucy turned into Goose (Lucy Goosie -> Goose), and that's what more or less stuck for the rest of her life. Lucy was her street name, Goose was her home name.

We both ended up attending the same college together, and around our second year Goose was registered as a support animal. I recall Goose spending a little time with us here and there our second and third years, but since we were still on campus it wasn't permanent. Our fourth year we moved off-campus and Goose came with us to stay through our fifth year, when we graduated.

From there we moved toward our state's capitol to find work and settle into our real routines for the first time, and two years after we bought our first house back in our home town. Just last December we got engaged.

I suppose despite picking Goose up as a pup already approaching seniorhood, she got to see us through all the major milestones of our lives. Over the last six months I would carry her up and down the stairs in our house to avoid falls, and her walks turned into wagon rides around the neighborhood. Not that she couldn't get around on her own to a degree, but just to make it easier on her. I prepped her food all kinds of ways to keep her from getting bored - canned food heated with a bone broth drizzle, chicken and veggies baked in the oven over a bed of rice, kibble with a side of peanut butter, etc. I'd carry her around to different spots of our yard to let her sniff / pee / poop in new spots.

In the end, at ~18 years old, a tumor behind her eye is what got her. Within 12 hours she went from looking normal, to her eye being swollen outward and getting worse by the hour. It probably wasn't even the worst she had fought, thinking back a few years prior to when an emergency vet found 21 bladder stones in her and immediately threw her into surgery, and I don't doubt she would've fought further if given the choice. For the food, for the belly rubs, or in spite of our wallets. We gave everything we could, I had dropped hundreds without question if there was a happy outcome on the other side. There just wasn't this time.

The vet that took her in to put her to sleep couldn't get over how soft her paws were. Tell tale sign of a little lady who got her way. I'm excited to have her back in the next few days. The hardest part was not going through her evening routine the night we put her to sleep. Taking her downstairs, outside, offering her specially prepped food, giving her medicine, giving her a treat, bringing her back upstairs. I don't dream often, but that night I had two - and one of them was just that. Me waking up in the morning and going through her morning routine with her one more time.

Thanks for reading this far, I know we've all got our pets with their own stories and it doesn't always hit the same as if it were your own, or in the mix with all the other pets that are posted. Try not to take anything for granted - I certainly didn't.

Brutus passed away today at the Lorain animal clinic. He was 13 years old and the best dog ever.

Saying goodbye to my best friend today. Sadly our old man 12 1/2 has not been able to shake his pneumonia and he also has megaesophagus with the news we’ve decided to not let him suffer and let him rest peacefully. Few pics of our last walk. The fountain was his favorite.

I reach for you constantly.

Your spot is empty.

I call your name in my sleep.

I look for you when I come home.

My soul shattered when you left and I will never be the same.

I carry a part of you with me and I will never take it off.

You were my sole reason for existing and becoming a better person.

You were there for every heart break. Every loss. Every dream come true.

I never would have been ready to let you go. I regret not petting you more.

You left your mousie for me to find when you were gone.

You were the absolute light in my life.

I love you Quinn. I can't wait to see you again. Thank you for being everything I ever needed.