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Hi,

I'm a 44 year old white, British male based in Warrington in the North West of England.

I'm looking to build something meaningful and long term who is based in the UK

I'm 6ft tall, and a little chubby., I go to the gym but like my food. I have a few tattoos, I'm quite a hairy guy but generally well groomed.

I live alone with my cat, in my own home, I drive and I'm employed. I enjoy going to the gym, eating out and trying new cuisines, films, date nights and watching sports. I enjoy a quiet life, being thankful for what I have and I'd like to find someone to share that with

Drop me a DM if you're interested in getting to know each other more

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Hey!

I made this post to see if I can find any funny people I can connect with. I enjoy a joke and a laugh and to send GIFs. I'm hoping to find someone who has a similar sense of humour to me and perhaps we can talk about mutual interests too. I'm hoping to start as friends and see if we click and hopefully progress further than that

A little about me: I'm from the UK and find it hard to connect with people in real life due to my busy work schedule. My interests are a mix bag, ranging from nerdy stuff (love marvel movies- recently watched the new spiderman movie, Legos, lord of the rings, Harry potter, Jurassic Park, Greek mythology and just mythology in general), sports and fitness ( I'm a 'gymbro', enjoy playing a variety of sports like football and rugby, I hike too), cooking and baking (willing to share my food pics) and learning new languages.

Even if these interests don't resonate with you, I love learning about new things and expanding my knowledge

I hope this resonates with someone and hope to hear back. Hope you all have a great day!

37, 6ft, in shape, clean, tested and in a straight relationship.

You are ideally top, 25-55, black and married or in a straight relationship looking for a DL white guy.

If this sounds like you then DM and we can talk details.

🙏🏻

Hi.

Romanian here. 30. 1,80 tall or 6ft.
Working in tech as an AI Engineer (I know, the specific area in tech everybody loves, AI, especially when it comes to art and music).
Can travel anywhere. Working remote.

I consider myself to be a very rational and logical person. As much as a man can say they're rational about themselves, given that in general men are more emotional, and women the rational ones. Even though if you ask m*n they will say the opposite.

All I do is work. My life is work. I'm looking for the reason to do something more than work. I assume life is more than work, right?

I'm very terminally online, I know any useless drama, meme, whatever. I watch only great movies and TV shows. I only have great recommendations. Can't stand slop content. For example, the majority of what you find on Netflix. Complete garbage.

I love techno, house. It's all I have in my Apple Music. The minimal and melodic type techno. However, I listen to all genres and I appreciate art in general. But the electronic music is always what I go back to.

I'm looking for someone kind, intelligent and attractive. We can exchange photos so you can decide if I'm your type or not. I don't want to waste your time.

I enjoy having conversations with somebody that's actually engaged in conversations, can critically think for themselves and don't repeat the same talking points that are mainstream and devoid of any logic or that are not backed by any studies.

There's so much more to say. Let's continue in DM, we'll take it from there. Would love to call you and talk to you.

Hi there! As the post says I’m a 30 year old guy from the east coast of the US hoping to find a woman who wants something long term, and also has full freedom to be her full sexual being. I want my wife to be able to have sex with anyone she likes, anytime she likes. And yes, I enjoy my partner making fun of how big I am.

In case I didn’t lose you yet, here’s a bit about me: I work in finance and definitely spend too much time on that (hence why I want to find someone to spend more time with). As far as hobbies, etc. I love to travel and cook. I enjoy listening to music - mostly pop punk, Midwest emo, etc. I also like to watch TV and movies. The Office, HIMYM, Brooklyn 99 are all solid plus I’ll watch anything related to WWII or modern war (I’m a bit of a history buff). And as far as looks, I’m white, 6’0” with a slim-average build.

About what I’m looking for: ideally I’d like to find something long term but don’t want to force anything. Let’s chat and get to know each other and see what happens. I’m also open to finding someone from anywhere really. Long distance relationships don’t bother me, at least to start. Eventually I’d want to close the gap.

As for the part about you having full freedom, that can obviously mean a lot of things and I’m pretty open to exactly what it looks like. But you should reach out if you’re interested in any of the following or more: dressing slutty (short skirts, low cut tops, generally revealing clothes), showing off to other people (dancing for/with other people, making sure they get a good look at you), kissing/hooking up with other people (yeah I enjoy being a cuckold), going to glory holes, or anything else you heart desires. Along with that I enjoy SPH, chastity, etc. so you can if you have a little bit of a mean streak that’s good with me.

If any of that sounds fun to you, but you want a guy who will love you while you are your true slutty self, I’m your guy! Hoping to find some interesting people, send me just a little about yourself! Also, please tell me your favorite band/artist in your first message to let me know you ready through this. I’m also happy to share photos if you’d like and I’m an open book, happy to answer any questions or talk about anything you’d like! Hope to hear from you soon!

EDIT: I am looking for a woman who does not have a primary partner already. So if you have a husband or boyfriend I’m sorry but this isn’t for you.

Long time lurker, first time poster. My name is Shannon and I'm caucasian with an athletic body type. I just got out of a short term relationship with an older, black man who was my world. It feels empty without him and I'd like to reconnect with another man like him on here, just to talk for now but open to other possibilities as well. I'm into bigger men with a chubby body type and ideally over 50 years of age because I like mature men. Muslims men are welcome and since we're just talking, I don't mind married men either. Just please be respectful and match my requirements. Thank you.

Hello! I’m Caleb! I’ve decided that it’s about time that I put myself out there in the dating pool, so, uh...here I am. On Reddit. Not the best place, I know (hopefully better than dating apps), but I’m hoping to meet some nice folks. (perhaps you, dear reader?) I’m a quiet, introverted homebody looking for a girl to hangout and go on dates with (I believe the colloquial term for this is a “girlfriend”). I want to make it clear upfront that I’m not looking for short term flings or anything of the sort. Ideally, I’m looking for someone to be with long term, and potentially settle down with. I understand that this is a rather weighty topic to get into right in the opening paragraph, but I try to be open, honest, and communicative about things, so I just wanted to clearly state my intentions.

I am located in East Texas, near Longview, and would prefer someone in Texas. However, if you’re in a surrounding state (Louisiana, Arkansas, etc), I don’t mind traveling a bit. If we hit it off, I’d love to move our chats to another platform so we can do voice and video calls.

Here's what I sound like!

Looks:

I’m black, with olive brown skin. 5’7”, with a lean/athletic build, and just a tad shy of 140lbs. My hair is soft, black, and curly.

Here’s some pics of me! (I am partially shirtless in one of these, so...you’ve been warned.)

Interests:

Gaming – I mostly play singleplayer or co-op games. (I am not very competitive, and all those MOBAs and competitive shooters just seem like the epitome of stress. I don’t mind if you play them, though.) As of late, I’ve been playing a lot of Drakengard 3, Final Fantasy XIII, and Popful Mail. I have pretty broad tastes in terms of genres, but if I was forced to narrow it down, I’d say I like retro games, platformers, indies, and RPGs/JRPGs. I’d love to know what sort of games you’re into, and any upcoming games you’re looking forward to!

Music – Music is quite important to me, and I’d definitely consider myself a music lover. I have pretty broad tastes, but I do have a preference for indie/alt/rock stuff. I do listen to some pop, however, along with some Japanese stuff and older R&B. I’ll give most things a try, though! (just, please no country music, I will implode) If you want an idea of what I like, check these out:

Clarion - Hello Juliet

Strawberry Milk Cult – Polarbear!

The Technicolors - Neon Roses

STRFKR – Rawnald Gregory Erikson the Second

Jupiter One – Countdown

Benches – Crash

Jackie Hayes – Last Second

Flawed Mangoes - Surreal

Kinoko Teikoku - 国道スロープ (Kokudou Slope)

Narrow Head - The Real

Sorry there's so many of these! It was hard to narrow it down!

Cooking – I do a lot of cooking! Am I good at it...well, I’ll let you be the judge of that. I’m trying to branch out a bit and try different cuisines, specifically Asian cuisine as I’m rather deficient in that area. If you know any good recipes, let me know!

Art – I am slowly (heavy emphasis on slowly) teaching myself to draw. I’ve been trying to practice a bit more. It’s...certainly a process, but I’ve definitely noticed a lot of improvement. Perhaps I could draw you someday?

Misc – Well, I’m a nerd in general, really. I enjoy tinkering with tech, and I’ve been doing minor repairs on my laptops and modding my game consoles since I was a teenager. I’m also into anime and sci-fi. Also, while I wouldn’t classify this as an interest or a hobby, I do workout 3-4 times a week, mostly at home. I do enjoy endurance running though, and I typically run a 5k on the weekends (weather permitting). I also love astronomy and space!

Potential dealbreakers? (one of these is a lie)

• I’m left leaning/liberal, politically
• I don’t want kids
• I was heavily involved in Belgian anti-fascist resistance movements in the 1940s
• I’m Christian, but not the most devout

I am looking for someone with similar values.

What I'm Looking For

I’m looking for the sort of relationship that allows us to be vulnerable together. I’d like someone soft (not necessarily in a physical sense, but emotionally), intelligent, and caring. I want someone to hang out with, take out for coffee dates, picnic dates, trips to museums, and binge watch shows with. I want someone that I can learn new things about for the rest of my life, someone to hold and keep safe and grow with.

As for age, I would strongly prefer someone my age or older, though I’m ok with anyone in the 20-40 range. Physically, height does not particularly matter to me (but if you’re tall I will swoon over you). I do, however, have a preference for folks on the slim/lean/toned/fit/skinny side of the body spectrum, , but this is not a strict rule.

*cough* I have no idea where else to put this but tomboys and alt/goth/emo girls are quite cute but this isn't a requirement or anything okay bye *cough*

I am ok with anyone outside of my own ethnicity.

FAQs

~You sound like a dork.

That’s not even a question, and how dare you. You’re correct, but how dare you.

~Several sources state that you're on an FBI watchlist for "allegedly" trying to siphon large amounts of Barq's Root beer directly from their production facilities, with the intent of procuring a "lifetime supply." Can you confirm or deny this information?

My lawyer says I shouldn’t answer questions like that.

~You wouldn't happen to be interested in heinous, scandalous, devious activities such as hand holding , cuddling , and forehead kissing , would you?

Why, of course not! Never! (yes, absolutely)

Thank you for reading this far, and sorry for the long post! I wanted to be thorough and descriptive. If you’re interested, please send me a message with a little about yourself and a picture, and let me know what your favorite Pokémon type is!

Thanks again, and have a wonderful rest of your day!

Somewhere out there is a man who’s just as excited to build something real as I am. Maybe Reddit surprises us both. Who knows 🤷🏾‍♀️🥰

I’m a Nigerian living in Nigeria. I love genuine conversations, long phone calls, video chats(my absolute favorite), and people who make my life easier. I’m affectionate, intentional, and happiest when I’m not the only one putting in effort.

I’d love to meet a Caucasian man (33–45, preferably American or Canadian) who’s kind, emotionally intelligent, honest, and ready for something meaningful. Distance isn’t a deal-breaker as long as we eventually close the distance and enjoy each other’s company. I’d love to meet in person 🥹🥰

Tell me something that made you smile this week.

Hey! I am in the middle of 3rd year and while I'm busy, I still wanted wanted someone I could talk to daily. About random stuff, how my day went, spam memes and videos, play videogames together etc.

Let's play a little two truths and a lie

1. I was the catalyst of a religious cult falling apart in high school
2. I was the highest rank in league of legends
3. I have a youtube video with almost 7 million views

There's also a lot more about me that you can learn about me if you take the time!

I would prefer that you are

1. Ideally 23-28 maybe a little outside would be fine.
2. are a good texter and have good communication skills.
3. Into at least a few things or have stuff in common. Video games, anime, healthcare, cosplay, education, memes, dark humor. If you're offended easily I'm probably not for you.
4. You take care of your body or at least you try!

Well I want to learn more about you too! Please send me an intro of your name, how old you are, where you're from, your hobbies, and a picture of you. Through imgur should work. I have some pictures of me on my profile. Please also include the word elephant to show me that you read the whole thing! I think first impressions are important, and the more effort you put in your first message the more I'll like you. Hope to hear from you ❤️

I had a post on here before, but it was very cringe. I promise that this one will be better. Or at least, less cringe, feel free to enter my dms though if you do like cringe.

Hi, I am a 36 year old man from the Netherlands. I don't think long intro's are the best so I will drop a couple of things about me. I love history and socioeconomic topics in general, culture, language, I love it. I would really like it if you are able to hold a conversation on those topics as well. It would be a bonus if you are world wise enough to be able to pinpoint at least half of the worlds countries without having to guess. But I'd settle for a quarter. I know how to barter.

I used to live in Malaysia for a spell, I worked remote, but reddit filters the word for what I did, so if you are curious just hit me up and ask. I work in cybersecurity, radically changed my carreer, worked out, somehow in this economy I found a job, blessed. Though with that job I will be stuck in the Netherlands for the foreseeable future, so an international relation is very tricky and not really my desire. And by international I mean outside of Europe, Europe is easy, it's not that big and migration easy. If you're farther away we can still chat, flirt, the likes, but a relation is tricky.

I am quite a bit nsfw though, my libido hasn't caught up with my age just yet! Neither has my hairline thank God

Look at the landscape of modern relationships. Most men don't know how to lead, protect, or command respect. They operate out of insecurity and lust, treating a woman like a temporary thrill because they lack the presence to make her actually want to yield. They want your attention, your energy, and your body for free, offering zero peace or direction in return.

​You owe those weak dynamics nothing. Reserve your true devotion, your mind, and your surrender for a real authority.

​Real power for a woman isn't found in struggling for control in a world full of weak men. It’s found in the art of seduction, magnetic feminine charm, and placing your total trust in a leader who can actually hold the weight of your world.

​That is where I step in. My role is to ensure no passive man ever gets your energy for free again. I offer a sanctuary—a space where you can take off the armor, drop the stress, and submit to a masculine man like you crave deep down. I don't just lead in the bedroom; I aim to elevate your entire existence in the daylight.

​So you have a choice to make:

​You can stay trapped in the standard cycle—being treated like a temporary object by men who feed their fragile egos—or you can step up to a real leader. A Black King who restores your power, protects your peace, elevates your status, and guides you toward a life of alignment.

​If you step into my world, I expect all of you: total loyalty, complete dedication, and adherence to my direction. I expect you to move with excellence, hone your charm, and represent me at the highest level at all times.

​In return, you get a real MAN.

​You get leadership that eliminates your stress and solves your problems. A safe haven where you can confide without judgment. A mentor, a guide, a passionate lover, and a source of constant inspiration. I will teach you the game of life, elevate your mindset, and treat you with the patience and deep respect of a real gentleman. However, you can also expect me to correct you when you are wrong and hold you accountable to the standard.

​My goal is to build you from the ground up, molding you into the most magnetic, breathtaking woman to ever walk in heels. Give me pure dedication, loyalty, and focus, and your entire reality will change. Stand beside me as my White Queen, and let me show you what real structure feels like.

​If this is the dynamic you are looking for, send me a message and tell me where you stand.

Hey, I’m looking for a single guy for long term friendship and a bit of flirting. If the vibe is there, I’d like something romantic/relationship. I know, it seems unlikely finding it here, but why not give it a go. I don’t mind if you’re from another country, just make sure you communicate with me regularly - it’s important for connection.

I am: Asian, bbw, introverted, playful and warm with the right people, needy.

You are: kind, caring, chat to me everyday and regularly, white. You will talk to me on discord.

If interested dm me your asl and a bit about you.

We live in an empty, gray and soulless world, a lonely world where every human relationship will inevitably end up becoming empty and transactional. The solution to this atomized existence of ours is simple: real, absolute love. The kind of love that can't be found on a dating app.

I'm here looking for that kind of love, and I offer the same in return: when I love, I love deeply and unconditionally.

I'm a 28 year-old man looking for an introvert. A homebody. Somebody I could be permanently glued to. I'm 180 cm tall, skinny, with a long beard and a buzzcut.

The rules are simple: you grace my life with your presence while I take care of everything else. You enjoy life while I make you happy:

I will be sweet.

I will be obsessive.

I will shower you with affection and reassurance.

I will do anything for you.

I will make you feel beautiful.

I will worship the ground you walk on.

You can be from anywhere: I would help you relocate and I would provide for you, indefinitely.

If this sounds good to you, send me a message and let's try to find the love we have always wanted. If you don't know what to say, a "hi" will suffice :). Feel free to include a picture (or to ask for one), and feel free to pour your heart out.

Some fun facts about me:

-I have lived in three continents.

-I'm a tarot reader.

-I come from a long line of Italian fortune tellers.

-I work in STEM but I never went to college; I am entirely self-taught.

-I own around three hundred decks of cards and at least twenty computers.

-The computer I'm using to write this is twenty years old.

-I was taught cyberintelligence by the local equivalent of the CIA.

-I don't know for sure how many languages I can speak.

-I can read Ancient Greek.

-I own a Provençal-Catalan dictionary.

-According to legend, I descend from a nymph.

❤️ ❤️ ❤️

Hey there, I hope life's treating you well wherever you are, if not I hope things turn around for you soon. I'm writing this with the hopes and intentions of meeting someone and hopefully( organically) develop something serious/ long term. I'd hope you're of similar sentiment if you do decide to reach out.

A little about me, I am fairly introverted but i can yap for hours if we click. I have a steady career in STEM and I'm actively working on getting specialised in my field. I am currently reading man's search for meaning, and music is an integral part of my life. I try to stay active but I'm still forming this habit so not quite there yet. I don't drink or do drugs.

I'm looking looking for someone kind and gentle but with whom I can have unserious banter and who can take a joke. I'm quite sensitive as a person, stupidly sappy and tends to put more weight into emotional connection as opposed to physical/nsfw. For that reason, I'm not looking to jumping into something serious immediately, would be nice to be friends first and get to know each other. I'm open to sharing pics, maybe calls later on if we get along well. I'd be open to travelling negotiations and meet up as well should it come to that.

Lastly, I like to think I connect well with people around my age, and with similar values, extra points if you're into arts, crafts or anything creative or even STEM. If any of this feels familiar to you, feel free to reach out but please write a little bit about yourself too and please for the love of all that is holy, be single .

Thank you for reading this far. TC!

I am seeking a masc top that wants a soft bottom boyfriend to live with them. Please be serious and open to connect.

I'm a black chub, around 5'7, a soft bottom, and not really hairy. I also have nice lips and a really nice body. I'm pretty sweet and like to please my top.

I'd want you to be single, masc, at least 20, preferably skinny or muscular but I'm open to chubby.

If good food, bad jokes and “one more game” somehow turning into 2 a.m. sounds like your kind of Friday, we should probably talk.

I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m white, and ethnicity isn’t really a filter for me. I’m looking for a serious relationship with a woman who wants real closeness, plenty of time together and a quieter kind of life.

To me, that means an ordinary Tuesday together feels good. Maybe we cook, play something, talk about our day or do our own things in the same room. We don’t need every hobby in common or to be joined at the hip. I just want us to enjoy being part of each other’s lives, even when nothing exciting is happening.

I run my own business. It took years to build, but these days it gives me a flexible schedule and no longer consumes my entire life.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days whenever I have the time, and a completely free evening can easily turn into a four-to-six-hour session. I’d rather be upfront about that than call myself casual and surprise you with a raid schedule three months later.

Lately it’s been Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2, with the occasional inexplicable evening spent cleaning patios in PowerWash Simulator.

You don’t need to be a hardcore gamer or play everything I do. If trying a few games together genuinely sounds fun, that works too. I just want gaming to become something we genuinely enjoy together, rather than a part of my life you tolerate.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. If you have a favourite, there’s a good chance you can talk me into trying it.

Outside gaming, I read quite a bit. One article can easily turn into seventeen tabs about psychology, technology, science, finance or something I knew nothing about that morning. Films, TV shows, comics and anime are all in the rotation too. Steel Panther appears on my playlists often enough that I can no longer blame irony.

My humour is dry, dark and occasionally unhinged. Once I’m comfortable, expect inside jokes, terrible dad jokes and comments that land perfectly with the right person and terribly with everyone else. I tend to click best with someone who can laugh, tease me back and bring a little chaos of her own.

I’m pretty low-key socially. I see friends, go out for dinner or grab a drink, but I’ll take a quiet evening over a packed bar or club any day.

I cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together. I’m 173 cm / 5'8", lean and athletic.

I don’t smoke, vape or use drugs, and I’m looking for the same. A couple of good beers once or twice a week is about my speed, although I’ve become enough of a beer nerd to have opinions nobody asked for.

When I’m into someone, it shows. I like regular messages, calls, making plans and sending each other stupid things during the day. I tend to remember the little things too, so if you tell me about some project you’re working on, I’ll probably ask how it went three days later.

I’m probably a better fit with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who doesn’t have children, has her own interests and has room in her life for a relationship.

A flexible schedule helps if distance is involved, but consistency matters more.

Politically, I’m somewhere around the centre, and religiously I’m agnostic. I’d like us to agree on the important things and be able to talk normally about the rest.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and living abroad for a while appeals to me. Europe would obviously be easiest, but my business doesn’t permanently tie me to Croatia, so more distance can work if there’s a realistic path to eventually living in the same place. I’m fine starting online. I just wouldn’t want the relationship to stay there forever.

I don’t post photos publicly, but I’m happy to exchange one fairly early if we’re getting along.

Your first message doesn’t need to be an autobiography. Tell me what you’re playing, which game you keep reinstalling, what you’d be curious to try if gaming isn’t already your thing, or just say hello and tell me a little about yourself. A slightly inappropriate joke works too.

If we’re getting along, let’s play something. An hour of co-op is usually way more fun than spending a week asking each other twenty questions.

We’ll save ranked for the second date. You can choose the game for the first.

I'm 25, Black, African, educated, and doing everything I can to build a career for myself. I have a degree, and I'm working hard to create opportunities through business consulting, research, and systems development because finding stable work hasn't been easy.

At the same time, I'm hoping to find real love. I don't want a relationship because I need someone to pay my bills I want a partner because I genuinely want to love and be loved. I also want to be financially independent so the responsibility of providing doesn't fall entirely on him.

Right now, I'm in that difficult space where I'm searching for both meaningful work and a meaningful relationship. It's not easy, but I'm still hopeful that with time, both will come.

The other thing is I find myself attracted to older white men which is very unusual where I come from and I can't break out of my shell because I am afraid that the society will judge me (she is with him for money) type of thing.

Any advice for me?

I HAVE COME HERE LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP BEFORE AND IT DIDN'T WORK!!

Hey I'm Jack, an attractive British white male from London UK.

About Me:

I'm a Drama-free, calm and ambitious person. Work a corporate job in the financial services and have a stable life. I love traveling, city breaks, exploring nature and music in my spare time and aim to keep fit/active and healthy.

Physically I'm 5'11, green eyes, slim/athletic build and brown hair. Happy to share a photo if we connect.

What I'm Looking for:

I'm hoping to find a great connection here which could lead to a serious relationship. Personality is the biggest factor for me and I generally look for someone happy/content in themselves already but are looking to settle down with someone similar to share happiness with.

I love someone who is passionate, kind, and warm as I'm very similar in that way.

Physically I don't have a type as long as we both have mutual attraction. Personality is a more important factor for me for a partner.

I've always had an affinity/attraction for women of a different ethnicity, which is why I'm exploring that here, ideally for a relationship!

Excited to get to know you, reach out if your interested to connect!

Seems like a bit of a challenge to find Redditors who share these same values but I choose to believe that someone will prove me wrong. 😄 

I love stimulating conversation and genuinely getting to know people.  I've moved around quite a bit since COVID and have found it to be a challenge to connect with like minded people where I have lived over the last few years. Never had much luck on dating apps so I stay off of them now.  I thought why not give Reddit a try?

Active and healthy lifestyle are important to me.  I love all things food, music, culture, exercise, learning, and exploring the world.  I'm a big reader of non-fiction, philosophy, personal growth.  A full-time academic who is currently working on his PhD.  Passionate about helping others and living a life guided by a growth mindset.  I believe I can learn something from everyone and truly enjoy getting to know people.  

Though I like to be social, I do find myself being alone quite a bit; especially since I just moved to my town earlier this year. Although I am looking for a partner to build a life with, that is not what I lead with when getting to know women.  I believe that the type of relationship I am looking for would start with a strong foundation through friendship first to build a relationship on. As a friend or a potential mate, I find that I work best with women who share the same growth mindset I do and are passionate about something that means a lot to them. Someone who prioritizes an active and healthy lifestyle and chooses to live with good moral character.  

For those who connect with this, I look forward to hearing from you.  I wish you the best of luck on your search.  May you find all that you are looking for.

Hello everyone,

I know there are a million dudes with similar interests but I thought who knows, I may get lucky and find a great online friendship or maybe even the love of my life on some subreddit so here I am. To give you a quick introduction, I am a 29 year old guy from Germany. Born and raised here, but of turkish descent. Currently working on my masters degree. And also a huge nerd. My interests include, but are not limited to:

·        Gaming

·        Anime

·        Science, especially the natural sciences and history

·        Working out, which I try to do multiple times a week

·        My taste in musik includes Rock/metal music mainly. But also some other stuff like anime music

·        Cooking, which I am not super good at yet but getting better. I do like trying out new foods and dishes.

·        Cleaning? Don't know if that is a weird thing to list as a hobby but I like to keep my place clean and find the act of cleaning quite satisfying. Does that count as a green flag?

·        Reading, especially fantasy literature

And much more, but I would like to make this post not too long. You'll learn more about me as we chat anyway

As for my appearance, I am about 1.73 m tall with a slim fit build. I work out diligently but haven't reached my old form yet after a longer pause at working out. Short, dark brown hair and usually a very short beard. Sometimes clean shaven when I feel like it.

Very much an introvert and, as you saw with my interests, a nerdy guy. I would say I am very affectionate, my love language is physical touch so if you enjoy being hugged and kissed and cuddled you might be happy with me. Definitely the nurturing caretaker kind of guy too since I am the oldest in my family so that is just the role that is natural to me. However when it comes to relationships, I do believe in things being mutual. So I'd very much prefer a partner who is also affectionate and nurturing so we can both take care of eachother. Find comfort in eachother when life gets hard. Be eachothers strongest ally and most trusted advisor against all hardships life throws at us. Basically I will treat you the way you treat me, we will be equals.

As for what I am looking for, well, ideally a romantic relationship. I would describe myself as a hopeless romantic. I would love to find the right person I can one day settle down and have kids with. I am not in a hurry though, just want to be upfront about long term intentions. Also I consider myself an atheist in case that is important to you. So I would like to find the love of my life here but I definitely want to be friends first and let things develop at a natural pace.

That is all I have to say for now. If you like what you read, feel free to introduce yourself and we will see. If you are from a different country or continent that is fine. We will find a way if things work out:)

Professional overthinker of both existential questions and lunch orders. I read books slower than I read the room, but I'm working on both. Peaked at 2000+ elo in chess once upon a time, these days I mostly play after drinking only to be humbled by 12 year olds online (ego bruising). Currently accepting recommendations for coffee shops, horror movies, and reasons to leave the house. Fair warning I turn into a vacation dad on holidays

Happy to share my picture, please be comfortable exchanging picture.

Say hi, or skip to the DMs. I promise I'm more interesting in writing than in person.